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| Why Nigerian Men Are Not So Romantic by gbenyi: 5:14pm On Jul 04, 2018 |
We have been learning how to act romantic since the year 1900 but the truth is, we are never getting any better. Every now and then, we get mauled by our women for our poor sense of romance. But the fault is not entirely ours. So many factors add up to why African men are not so romantic 1. No one ever taught us how to be romantic Where I grew up, it is near impossible to stumble on a sight of two adults holding hands on a romantic walk. It's uncultural and in some cases a taboo to kiss or show a partner affection publicly. This has become out way of life. When you grow up in a society that abhors close relations between the genders, it inadvertently becomes a part of you. 2. Lets shove some blame to our women Chofam interviewed and asked 50 women in Nigeria if they would kiss a man in public. 68% said they would not for varied reasons. 12% said they would, 20% said they would but only if it was absolutely necessary. In any case, it takes two to tango. If really the most romantic men were on high demand, more men would learn to be more romantic. But then, African woman value more of strength and ruggedness as opposed to caring, calm or meekness. Guys who indulge in romantic overtures are seen by the women to be less manly or weak. https://chofam.com/2018/07/why-african-men-are-not-so-romantic/ 1 Like |
| Re: Why Nigerian Men Are Not So Romantic by MANNABBQGRILLS: 5:14pm On Jul 04, 2018 |
......but some of us are still romantic. |
| Re: Why Nigerian Men Are Not So Romantic by purpledove(m): 5:15pm On Jul 04, 2018 |
Romance is now food abi |
| Re: Why Nigerian Men Are Not So Romantic by Nwodosis(m): 5:19pm On Jul 04, 2018 |
An alert in any Nigerian man's account will tell you that they are too romantic! 1 Like |
| Re: Why Nigerian Men Are Not So Romantic by Nobody: 5:23pm On Jul 04, 2018 |
African man doesn't understand romance because he pays bride price  White man understands romance because her daddy paid groom price Scrap bride price and watch our men fall on one knee and walk around on one knee Take me serious at your own risk  2 Likes |
| Re: Why Nigerian Men Are Not So Romantic by MrBrownJay1(m): 5:29pm On Jul 04, 2018 |
sadly, everything is against Nigerian men and there is NOTHING romantic about their lives.... everything is social pressure, peer pressure, religion/family pressure, no wonder! btw, ask a Nigerian babe to accept flowers and walk in the park hand in hand,s instead of going to "feed her" in a fancy restaurant.... and see the "romantic answer" you will probably get from Nigerian women. the reality is that Nigerian men fit perfectly with their counterpart (Nigerian women) 2 Likes |
| Re: Why Nigerian Men Are Not So Romantic by aminu790(m): 5:32pm On Jul 04, 2018 |
Nwodosis: Hilariously serious 1 Like |
| Re: Why Nigerian Men Are Not So Romantic by KingTugreat: 5:44pm On Jul 04, 2018 |
Any naija man that is romantic to a naija girl,that man will be taken for granted and MAGALISED.Nigerian girls dont even deserve preintimacy self,there just good for Bleep and dump sperm,just like paying 500 naira with a prostitute for a round 1 Like |
| Re: Why Nigerian Men Are Not So Romantic by MrBrownJay1(m): 8:58pm On Jul 04, 2018 |
KingTugreat: is the above what you will teach your daughters (if you ever have any)?! |
| Re: Why Nigerian Men Are Not So Romantic by Moveonmax: 9:03pm On Jul 04, 2018 |
It's a question of definition. What's romantic to a Frech shouldn't necessarily be captivating and arresting to a Nigerian. There are so many factors to it, I hope you remember that. 1 Like |
| Re: Why Nigerian Men Are Not So Romantic by KingTugreat: 10:46pm On Jul 04, 2018 |
MrBrownJay1:I dont have any,neither am i planning to get married or have one in my lifetime |
| Re: Why Nigerian Men Are Not So Romantic by Blitjoor(m): 3:39pm On Jul 10, 2018 |
For me I am because I know what it takes |
| Re: Why Nigerian Men Are Not So Romantic by AJIKOLA: 4:13pm On Jul 10, 2018 |
What is this one saying . Nigerian men wey south african,tanzanian, and Ghana women dy die for . Its not your fault oya go oversees if you don't like ngeran guys . Guys I HAIL THEE |
| Re: Why Nigerian Men Are Not So Romantic by Cholls(m): 4:20pm On Jul 10, 2018 |
LivingFree:
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| Re: Why Nigerian Men Are Not So Romantic by Burgerlomo: 4:37pm On Jul 10, 2018 |
Dem take am resembles dia forefathers  |
| Re: Why Nigerian Men Are Not So Romantic by mimimile93: 2:10am On Jul 14, 2018 |
gbenyi: Speak for yourself |
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