Is it appropriate ?

No

I ask, is it appropriate for a buyer to thoroughly check what he is about buying?
Will u ever buy a phone with no listed or hidden features?
Op, answer me.

It is not appropriate..He has no right to do that except he is prepared to surrender his to his Fiancee.

Yes, even your boyfriend has the right.

Your fiancee does not only need to demand your phone, he should have full access to your phone. If you do not want to get married, then keep your rights, cos the moment you decide to get married, not only will you change your name to his family name, he also takes you to his home as a new asset he just acquired, as long as he has paid the money required by your people.

As a fiance, it is a journey to marriage, like I said, stay single if you do not want to be with a man. I guess you are still playing outside, that is why you have something to hide.

Children of nowadays.

Ziggylady:



It is not appropriate..He has no right to do that except he is prepared to surrender his to his Fiancee.

You must be single.

Organism000:


You must be single.

You must be triple

Any marriage that involves hiding or passwording of phone is not Marriage.
If you love privacy and don't want to become one with another ... STAY SINGLE.

Organism000:
Yes, even your boyfriend has the right.

Your fiancee does not only need to demand your phone, he should have full access to your phone. If you do not want to get married, then keep your rights, cos the moment you decide to get married, not only will you change your name to his family name, he also takes you to his home as a new asset he just acquired, as long as he has paid the money required by your people.

As a fiance, it is a journey to marriage, like I said, stay single if you do not want to be with a man. I guess you are still playing outside, that is why you have something to hide.

Children of nowadays.

Thanks for this

Ziggylady:



You must be triple

Slay Queen, I see you.

No but both parties shouldnt have password on their phone, if they do have, means there is something to hide then you can check his/her phone

Truth is you should be able to free to check your partners phones or social media platforms.
BTW once a cheat knows you have access to them they will leave no trace on those accounts or on their phones.

This particular question has been over flogged...

its inappropriate and childish.me,I don't put any form of code on my phone and neither does she..it all comes down to understanding and maturity.even if her phone is encoded,I can't do it

Why is it that women such as Oyindidi are quick to say no?



The answer is simple. Their hands are not clean and they know. Later they will say men are scum of the earth.



What do you people gain from chatting up multiple men while playing along with their sexual advances and even going as far as sending nudes and cheating?



As for me, I would love to know what she's up to online. If you're in a committed relationship with someone, there should be nothing to hide. If you're 'respecting' their privacy, you might as well tell him/her to cheat as long as you don't find out. The only way I'll not be inquisitive is if we're in an open relationship.

Earthbound:
Why is it that women such as Oyindidi are quick to say no?



The answer is simple. Their hands are not clean and they know. Later they will say men are scum of the earth.



What do you people gain from chatting up multiple men while playing along with their sexual advances and even going as far as sending nudes and cheating?



As for me, I would love to know what she's up to online. If you're in a committed relationship with someone, there should be nothing to hide. If you're 'respecting' their privacy, you might as well tell him/her to cheat as long as you don't find out. The only way I'll not be inquisitive is if we're in an open relationship.

My man was the one that advised me to lock my phone. Sometimes I use his phone to play game and he browse with my phone or play the games in my phone. He knows the password and I know his. He reads my post on Nl too.

Insecure men everywhere.

Is the fiancee also allowed to check the phones of the fiancé?

JoannaSedley:
Insecure men everywhere.

Is the fiancee also allowed to check the phones of the fiancé?

of course it goes both ways...
I'm not the type to check phones but I don't see why I shouldn't know the password or have access to her phone and vice versa.
how can I not know what's happening in the handset of the person whom I'm going to spend the rest of my life with? what is so secret that must be hidden?
pls asides a side-chick or side-bf what else is secret enough to warrant secrecy?

Oyindidi:
My man was the one that advised me to lock my phone. Sometimes I use his phone to play game and he browse with my phone or play the games in my phone. He knows the password and I know his. He reads my post on Nl too.

if it's your man that advised u then fine but it's Childish of u to say no because it applies to the situation btw u n your man.

OneSentence:

of course it goes both ways...
I'm not the type to check phones but I don't see why I shouldn't know the password or have access to her phone and vice versa.
how can I not know what's happening in the handset of the person whom I'm going to spend the rest of my life with? what is so secret that must be hidden?
pls asides a side-chick or side-bf what else is secret enough to warrant secrecy?

Exchange yours with hers and have a field day

Organism000:
Yes, even your boyfriend has the right.

Your fiancee does not only need to demand your phone, he should have full access to your phone. If you do not want to get married, then keep your rights, cos the moment you decide to get married, not only will you change your name to his family name, he also takes you to his home as a new asset he just acquired, as long as he has paid the money required by your people.

As a fiance, it is a journey to marriage, like I said, stay single if you do not want to be with a man. I guess you are still playing outside, that is why you have something to hide.

Children of nowadays.

aptly said!! kudos bro

If you want to have a healthy relationship or marriage staying off each others phone or social media activities is the best. Just keep believing in your head that your partner is faithful once you start stalking then everything begins to fall apart

Since women are all prostitutes, I think is needless to check their activities on or offline..


The best is not to marry them..

mimimile93:
Since women are all prostitutes, I think is needless to check their activities on or offline..


The best is not to marry them..

You are still awake

Oyindidi:
You are still awake

It's 6:33am here

mimimile93:


It's 6:33am here

12:46 here, I slept around 8pm, I can't sleep now

Oyindidi:
12:46 here, I slept around 8pm, I can't sleep now

Pele...

mimimile93:
Since women are all prostitutes, I think is needless to check their activities on or offline..


The best is not to marry them..

Since women are all prostitutes, it will be safe to assume that your mother is/was also a prostitute.

I no cuss your mama. I'm just echoing what you are saying.

Ishilove:

Since women are all prostitutes, it will be safe to assume that your mother is/was also a prostitute.

I no cuss your mama. I'm just echoing what you are saying.

Why are y'all ho.es always quick to attack mothers?

Please whenever you see me talk or mention women on my post/comment in a negative way know that I am referring to women born from the 80s.

Thank you.

mimimile93:


Why are y'all ho.es always quick to attack mothers?

Please whenever you see me talk or mention women on my post/comment in a negative way know that I am referring to women born from the 80s.

Thank you.

You and the generation of women in your family are the hoes, not I.

You are not making any distinction o, lailai. Your mother is a woman, the other females in your lineage are women, and you said 'ALL women are prostitutes'.

You don't get to pick which women are prostitutes and which are not when making your hopeless and misogynistic statements. Mbanu.

Therefore, based on your own statement, women, including your mother and female relatives are hoes. Qed.

mimimile93:


Why are y'all ho.es always quick to attack mothers?

Please whenever you see me talk or mention women on my post/comment in a negative way know that I am referring to women born from the 80s.

Thank you.

You dey craze! Since you have made it your life's mission to disparage women here, I will be upon your ass like white on rye.

Based on your own generalising statement, your mama follow join in the prostitution.

Ishilove:

You and the generation of women in your family are the hoes, not I.

You are not making any distinction o, lailai. Your mother is a woman, the other females in your lineage are women, and you said 'ALL women are prostitutes'.

You don't get to pick which women are prostitutes and which are not when making your hopeless and misogynistic statements. Mbanu.

Therefore, based on your own statement, women, including your mother and female relatives are hoes. Qed.

Ok Ma'am.

When next I am making such comment I am going to be specific

Like this "Women born from the 80s are all prostitutes" and not all women..

Thanks.