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Re: My Fiancee Got A Job With The Help Of Her Ex Without My Consent, Please Advise by Acidosis(m): 11:19pm On Aug 03, 2018 |
Lmao and you're still calling her fiancée? She left your house to pass the night in her ex's house without your knowledge and you still boldly typed the word fiancée? Are you drunk? Wait what do you think they were doing all through the night? Praying? 11 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Fiancee Got A Job With The Help Of Her Ex Without My Consent, Please Advise by Saintsquare(m): 11:19pm On Aug 03, 2018 |
sacramento1212:loooool you people wicked fa |
Re: My Fiancee Got A Job With The Help Of Her Ex Without My Consent, Please Advise by SexytorresE(f): 11:19pm On Aug 03, 2018 |
I don't wanna read the post, but the headline tells. Bros ain't u someone's ex? It doesn't mean they won't be talking anymore. It all depends how they part ways, now she is benefiting for old time sake, if they parted wit conflict he wouldn't have helped her get a job. Pls b mature before some of these nairalanders give u bad advice that will ruined ur relationship. 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancee Got A Job With The Help Of Her Ex Without My Consent, Please Advise by sacramento1212: 11:22pm On Aug 03, 2018 |
Seanjay: . There are decent naija ladies out there. The ones that would be very respectful, loyal and transparent. It's just to pray to jam one and not killers like the OP's girlfriend. Unfortunately, OP na pussy wey dem dey mix Malta guiness with Holandia yoghurt for and once babe show, na to Jones am unto levels of love and matter go end. |
Re: My Fiancee Got A Job With The Help Of Her Ex Without My Consent, Please Advise by stacyadams: 11:22pm On Aug 03, 2018 |
Read okAfor s law ...believe naija girls then u can believe Jesus is coming today |
Re: My Fiancee Got A Job With The Help Of Her Ex Without My Consent, Please Advise by FRCS(m): 11:22pm On Aug 03, 2018 |
Something is definitely wrong somewhere ! --> It could be out of fear/uncertainty or a calculated achievement to keep it off your knowledge |
Re: My Fiancee Got A Job With The Help Of Her Ex Without My Consent, Please Advise by Toks2008(m): 11:23pm On Aug 03, 2018 |
oluwakekz: I don't know about the cheating part but she does not need your permission before accepting any job offer either from her ex or enemy. |
Re: My Fiancee Got A Job With The Help Of Her Ex Without My Consent, Please Advise by sacramento1212: 11:23pm On Aug 03, 2018 |
SexytorresE: Passing the night at the EX place is the major problem because of job. 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancee Got A Job With The Help Of Her Ex Without My Consent, Please Advise by Respect55(m): 11:23pm On Aug 03, 2018 |
Auladimeji:U just want to garner likes and sound sympathetic to the girls' side, congrats. Let me ask u also, ur fiancee will leave ur house to her ex's without telling u and u will feel cool about it? SMH. Op, something is going on that u don't know. I know what I'm saying 14 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Fiancee Got A Job With The Help Of Her Ex Without My Consent, Please Advise by vicben27(m): 11:25pm On Aug 03, 2018 |
VampireeM:l don't know how some of you ladies brain function honestly. some one who as fuccked you for years you expect your soo called current man to be Ok with it.useless girls every where. 9 Likes |
Re: My Fiancee Got A Job With The Help Of Her Ex Without My Consent, Please Advise by Respect55(m): 11:27pm On Aug 03, 2018 |
VampireeM:So the guy should get her a job as HR ni? I think k u need to grow up and not the Op. We are talking of her going to spend the night at her ex's house without his knowledge, dnt u understand that? 6 Likes |
Re: My Fiancee Got A Job With The Help Of Her Ex Without My Consent, Please Advise by Phlegman: 11:28pm On Aug 03, 2018 |
You are blaming her for not telling you? Will you allow her to go for the interview if she informed you that her ex is helping her on it? If you're in her shoes, will you tell her about it? Your girlfriend loves you that's why she told you the truth. The next few weeks will determine the future of your relationship. If she discovers that you're insecure or you don't trust her, she may leave you and consider her ex but right now she loves you. |
Re: My Fiancee Got A Job With The Help Of Her Ex Without My Consent, Please Advise by Respect55(m): 11:29pm On Aug 03, 2018 |
NnamdiN:On which ground were u able to establish ur claim that she answered 'truthfully'? |
Re: My Fiancee Got A Job With The Help Of Her Ex Without My Consent, Please Advise by osazsky(m): 11:29pm On Aug 03, 2018 |
vicben27:u are d one who is not thinking right, its based on personal decision,Wats ur prove DAT he bleeped her,don't go and destroy someone relationship, for me ,am a guy once its over its over,even if my ex stays in my house before she comes she go meet my babe for House, what's there ,I nor understand some guys,so cuz u are not dating again u go break ur sim begin dey see ur ex as winche,man grow up,that how d big boys role,not every guy expect something bk in kind after such act,I did this same thing for one of my ex,though d salary was abt 29k back then,op move on |
Re: My Fiancee Got A Job With The Help Of Her Ex Without My Consent, Please Advise by mimopel(f): 11:30pm On Aug 03, 2018 |
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Re: My Fiancee Got A Job With The Help Of Her Ex Without My Consent, Please Advise by Seanjay(m): 11:30pm On Aug 03, 2018 |
sacramento1212: i know but you see those living within naija here some of them are very reckless and they break heart like say dem wan fry eggs Thank God say i find my own before too long cause this girls fit kill person, especially those ones wey de always say i still see or talk to me ex and there is nothing between us lolz i pity any mumu guy wey fall for that antics thy lord is their strength... |
Re: My Fiancee Got A Job With The Help Of Her Ex Without My Consent, Please Advise by pocohantas(f): 11:31pm On Aug 03, 2018 |
Acidosis: So, any of your ex wey cross your path, you dey knack am? |
Re: My Fiancee Got A Job With The Help Of Her Ex Without My Consent, Please Advise by Emperorneyo(m): 11:31pm On Aug 03, 2018 |
I understand your pain my brother. She knew the magnitude of what she did that was why she could not tell you but maybe she was in doubt what your opinion could be initially before she venture into it. But brother I will advice you keep watch on her unknowly to her 4 now don't call it quit but keep watching and don't engage her in a rush cos a broken relationship is better than a broken marriage if they are still into relationship you will soon discover. Be mature in your dealings with her this days and don't be carried away by love. |
Re: My Fiancee Got A Job With The Help Of Her Ex Without My Consent, Please Advise by EkoErrands: 11:32pm On Aug 03, 2018 |
oluwakekz: Not worth a breakup bro! Never trust a woman in your life not even a dead woman. At least this one told you her secret; I think you should build on that. Don't get angry, after all we shouldn't trust women. Build on what you have to a point where her secret is your secret...you will see she will get comfortable with you and open up even more. If she has decided to cheat on you at anytime trust me you will never know. So don't kill yourself over this one...just build on it. She go dey open to you. 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancee Got A Job With The Help Of Her Ex Without My Consent, Please Advise by Legacypower(m): 11:32pm On Aug 03, 2018 |
One thing I got from your story is that she was the one that first spoke about passing a night close to the company for the interview.... If she would first come up with such brilliant idea, I think she might have seriously thought of it, and might have known the full implications of her decisions. There's a high possibility that she might have had sex with her ex... she might also be saying the truth. what I would advice you is to look so closely to her personality hence forth and watch how far things would go. Don't be the first to pick up fight, time would expose the whole incident that happened and more to happen.... Be mature in handling her hence forth and watch how she would respond.. 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancee Got A Job With The Help Of Her Ex Without My Consent, Please Advise by Nobody: 11:34pm On Aug 03, 2018 |
All these people that are used to writing stories and questions to ask about relationships you see what you've caused abi? Nairaland want break person relationship oooo. Bros, on a serious note, you don't have anything to worry about. You asked and she answered, simple! Next time, always Let the sleeping dog lie .. Nothing a 9ja girl will do or say that will surprise me anymore. I swear they are all the same. Like I always tell my friends, in my head, I know she's fucking someone behind my back, so I'll just shake (laugh) it off if I confirm it But wait oooo, where's NwaAmaikpe? 4 Likes |
Re: My Fiancee Got A Job With The Help Of Her Ex Without My Consent, Please Advise by SexytorresE(f): 11:34pm On Aug 03, 2018 |
sacramento1212:I finally read it... But still it's nothing, after all she is now his . No Ned taking it too far ok |
Re: My Fiancee Got A Job With The Help Of Her Ex Without My Consent, Please Advise by Seanjay(m): 11:34pm On Aug 03, 2018 |
SexytorresE: see this one so your own girlfriend fit de sleep for her ex house for two weeks ? na so |
Re: My Fiancee Got A Job With The Help Of Her Ex Without My Consent, Please Advise by Temptee101(m): 11:35pm On Aug 03, 2018 |
SenorFax:Not that i don't believe you o, but is spending the night with your exes part of the help? |
Re: My Fiancee Got A Job With The Help Of Her Ex Without My Consent, Please Advise by kingBenedict: 11:35pm On Aug 03, 2018 |
I still don't know how mature guys carry their personal problems to NL...una dey try ooh...you will see different opinions and end up being more confused if you are not critical... Make I talk my own sha...I talk to my ex, I can even get her a job if she is jobless but there are limits to some things....my only problem for your matter now na why your babe go visit her ex come crash there, what was she thinking...maybe she didn't cheat on you, maybe she did...you wouldn't know, anything is possible... E fit be BJ she give am abi the guy even finger am...you know women na...put pressure for their body, them go react...no just jump into conclusion sha...use your head...na joblessness cause some problems for this country... if she get job for Lagos she no go reason any ex...na bad economy put you for this hitch... |
Re: My Fiancee Got A Job With The Help Of Her Ex Without My Consent, Please Advise by sacramento1212: 11:37pm On Aug 03, 2018 |
Seanjay: A guy needs to be principled and shouldn't condone any rubbish. I am not for anything EX because if they were that important, they shouldn't be in the Past but present with you. I am for respect to any lady one is involved with but that shouldn't mean ur senses should be blocked. If i were to be this OP, no long story but to carry my load and waka. Too many Red flags already. |
Re: My Fiancee Got A Job With The Help Of Her Ex Without My Consent, Please Advise by obataokenwa(m): 11:37pm On Aug 03, 2018 |
oluwakekz Whatever you see in courtship will double after marriage. Even a Pastor may not likely spare an ex that slept over. Wake up and see the warning signs now before it ruins you. 4 Likes |
Re: My Fiancee Got A Job With The Help Of Her Ex Without My Consent, Please Advise by Nobody: 11:38pm On Aug 03, 2018 |
oluwakekz:Stop wasting your time with that girl. She's gone for real . |
Re: My Fiancee Got A Job With The Help Of Her Ex Without My Consent, Please Advise by Nobody: 11:39pm On Aug 03, 2018 |
SenorFax:Keep fooling yourself. How many of your exec pass the night at your place ? |
Re: My Fiancee Got A Job With The Help Of Her Ex Without My Consent, Please Advise by SexytorresE(f): 11:39pm On Aug 03, 2018 |
Seanjay:u have trust issues... Pls am not a guy |
Re: My Fiancee Got A Job With The Help Of Her Ex Without My Consent, Please Advise by sacramento1212: 11:40pm On Aug 03, 2018 |
SexytorresE: How is it nothing? So going to an EX house to spend the night or nights means nothing? |
Re: My Fiancee Got A Job With The Help Of Her Ex Without My Consent, Please Advise by Maximus85(m): 11:40pm On Aug 03, 2018 |
oluwakekz: She passed the night at her exes? Oga, I can't tell you what to do. But you know what to do? She kept all these from you. There's more she's keeping ooo |
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