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Re: My Fiancee Got A Job With The Help Of Her Ex Without My Consent, Please Advise by vicben27(m): 11:41pm On Aug 03, 2018 |
osazsky:calm down Bro. l did not say she cheated, that vampire of a girl got me upset. ladies generally feel it's Ok to be friends with there ex. but l personally feel is wrong. l have dated a considerable no. of girls l know how vulnerable they are around me , both the enaged / married ones. soo l try to keep my distance. when my fiancee tried to tell me shiit like this, l had to correct her notions. some men will always try to take advantage of women they've been sexually intimate with before believe it or not. for women it's something emotional, for men it's just for fun. NOTE: this write up it not for OP 5 Likes |
Re: My Fiancee Got A Job With The Help Of Her Ex Without My Consent, Please Advise by SexytorresE(f): 11:43pm On Aug 03, 2018 |
sacramento1212:individual difference dear, just cos u don't trust doesn't mean others won't. Learn to trust |
Re: My Fiancee Got A Job With The Help Of Her Ex Without My Consent, Please Advise by Seanjay(m): 11:44pm On Aug 03, 2018 |
SexytorresE: ha no wonder you are a girl... yes if it is my girlfriend sleeping in her ex house(wey dem don nack/blow before) for two week then let me have trust issues thank you madam 2 Likes |
Re: My Fiancee Got A Job With The Help Of Her Ex Without My Consent, Please Advise by kizyalex10(m): 11:46pm On Aug 03, 2018 |
For me there is nothing i cant do for my ex.she is absolutely wonderful nd outstanding.i bleeped up dats why she got married to her man.cos i was waiting to make d whole money on earth.now am more comfortable nd she is gone.but then i dont feel bitter.if i see any good oportunity.i will do it for her.cos she is a virtious woman.her husband must be lucky to have her.nd i believe its all abt trust.she might not tell u initially cos she doesnt want to hurt ur feelings or ego or u tell her nto forget abt going for the job.but for her to eventually tell u.she have concience nd nothing might have gone btw them.thou i read few of ur write up.but am writing this based on d caption.my ex still chat me or call me once a while.even when d hubby is around.she picks cos am super sure he trusts her nd even if he doesnt.i will trust her on his behalf cos she is a definition of decency.am speaking abt myself dont knw abt ur woman.but one thing am sure is.if u dont have a particular level of trust in ur partner.dont go futher for marriage.period 4 Likes |
Re: My Fiancee Got A Job With The Help Of Her Ex Without My Consent, Please Advise by teejona(m): 11:47pm On Aug 03, 2018 |
SenorFax: not when she passed a night with him 3 Likes |
Re: My Fiancee Got A Job With The Help Of Her Ex Without My Consent, Please Advise by Seanjay(m): 11:48pm On Aug 03, 2018 |
sacramento1212: Thank you bro you just said my mind abeg i no even get power or strength for any drama that why am always Thanking God for the kind if lady he gave me... |
Re: My Fiancee Got A Job With The Help Of Her Ex Without My Consent, Please Advise by Ikpongiton: 11:49pm On Aug 03, 2018 |
VampireeM:haba !he needed an advice but you're worsening the situation .no be so,abeg . |
Re: My Fiancee Got A Job With The Help Of Her Ex Without My Consent, Please Advise by Temptee101(m): 11:52pm On Aug 03, 2018 |
Bluezy13:Don't mind them, reading is one thing and understanding is another thing. Also all the commentators above defending the cheat turned a blind eye to the fact that the guy stated that his supposedly fiancee spent the night with the said ex 2 Likes |
Re: My Fiancee Got A Job With The Help Of Her Ex Without My Consent, Please Advise by Originalsly: 11:54pm On Aug 03, 2018 |
Hmmm.....when she is staying with you...I wonder what she is telling the ex?...most likely she's staying at a friend/relative. Her mouth says the guy is the ex...does her action show what her mouth says? Bro..stop that I love her soo much nonsense ...open your eyes and read the writing on the wall. My fiancée slept over with her ex but nothing happens....is he now gay? Bro wake up. 4 Likes |
Re: My Fiancee Got A Job With The Help Of Her Ex Without My Consent, Please Advise by showafrica(m): 11:54pm On Aug 03, 2018 |
What would a jobless guy be doing with a girl friend or relationship. Oo please, focus and forget about women, when u make money u will get them plenty |
Re: My Fiancee Got A Job With The Help Of Her Ex Without My Consent, Please Advise by otunbadan(m): 11:55pm On Aug 03, 2018 |
Bidobado: Osheeee.... Ifa chief priest... You have seeked the gods and dey dere with mb and found out she is hiding something I hail o, weldon sir!!! 1 Like
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Re: My Fiancee Got A Job With The Help Of Her Ex Without My Consent, Please Advise by notoriousbabe: 11:56pm On Aug 03, 2018 |
Op dey there dey do oko iyawo and gragra. Instead of you to appreciate the innocent guy, you Sidon there dey make noise claiming title,make I spoil your mind small, you don forget sey the guy don chop your babe well well before you met her, so nothing new inside her body again, na remnant you dey chop, that is second hand car, you better carry face comot and appreciate your already used car 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancee Got A Job With The Help Of Her Ex Without My Consent, Please Advise by jimcaddy(m): 11:57pm On Aug 03, 2018 |
Some ladies are so foolish... Why do u still entertain your EX boyfriends when u have a new relationship and still swear that you are not cheating on ur bf. Its so hard to believe. Now your ex got u a job. It means you'll feel obliged to return the favour and have a thank you shag with him. That's how one babe was telling me that she went to ask her ex bf for money and the ex gave her a condition of them coming back together before he can give her money. Some women are so confused and don't know what they want in life. Yet they'll accuse men of being scums... Women are scums too. 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancee Got A Job With The Help Of Her Ex Without My Consent, Please Advise by Temptee101(m): 11:58pm On Aug 03, 2018 |
SexytorresE:Hear yourself out, you did not read the write up yet you want to comment and form relationship expert? Typical lazy Nigerian, what baffles me the most is the fact that you are not even ashamed of yourself 6 Likes |
Re: My Fiancee Got A Job With The Help Of Her Ex Without My Consent, Please Advise by notoriousbabe: 11:59pm On Aug 03, 2018 |
Temptee101:the thing dey read meter?him put him prick inside her pusssssssy e no size am again? Abeg make I hear word. Shortyy come make I slap you |
Re: My Fiancee Got A Job With The Help Of Her Ex Without My Consent, Please Advise by Herbephe1(m): 12:00am On Aug 04, 2018 |
Girl: please I need this job,I will do anything you wish if I can get this job, O deh jorr nah ex: well...OK,let do it this way,can you spend some days with me?It is done if you can Girl: oh! I will,hop I will get the job sha? ex: yeah,you will get it with active service, OP pls use your by Brain |
Re: My Fiancee Got A Job With The Help Of Her Ex Without My Consent, Please Advise by Temptee101(m): 12:02am On Aug 04, 2018 |
notoriousbabe:I don't have the time and strength for your dirty talks. Just tell them am out of town |
Re: My Fiancee Got A Job With The Help Of Her Ex Without My Consent, Please Advise by AmiableG: 12:03am On Aug 04, 2018 |
But at least she told you the truth, she could have hidden it from you if she really wanted to. She didn't tell you earlier maybe she was afraid you will misunderstood, or you may discouraged her from getting the job. Don't judge her too quickly, she may be innocent. But if you feel otherwise, just keep calm and monitor her behaviour. Not with anger bcs You can only see with a clear mind and eyes, her behavior will show you the truth you are seeking for. 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancee Got A Job With The Help Of Her Ex Without My Consent, Please Advise by Nobody: 12:04am On Aug 04, 2018 |
otunbadan: It's not rocket science, baba. |
Re: My Fiancee Got A Job With The Help Of Her Ex Without My Consent, Please Advise by OmoDavido(m): 12:04am On Aug 04, 2018 |
You can never satisfy a a Nigeria girl. one prick no dey reach them |
Re: My Fiancee Got A Job With The Help Of Her Ex Without My Consent, Please Advise by notoriousbabe: 12:05am On Aug 04, 2018 |
Temptee101:the thing dey read meter?him put him prick inside her pusssssssy e no size am again? Abeg make I hear word. Shortyy come make I slap you |
Re: My Fiancee Got A Job With The Help Of Her Ex Without My Consent, Please Advise by AreaFada2: 12:12am On Aug 04, 2018 |
Bluezy13:Getting a job through your ex might be ok but sleeping overnight at his place is a no-no. Which kain rough play be dat? Certainly not alone. If with the girl's own sister staying overnight in the guy's house I might perhaps understand. It's not about insecurity but the right thing to do. I'd rather she stayed overnight in a hotel near the interview location. Some women sleep with men to get jobs and promotion, so they won't find anything wrong with this. Op's post might even sound like Chinese to them. 8 Likes |
Re: My Fiancee Got A Job With The Help Of Her Ex Without My Consent, Please Advise by Nobody: 12:13am On Aug 04, 2018 |
Some gyals still fvck their ex even though they aren't in a relationship |
Re: My Fiancee Got A Job With The Help Of Her Ex Without My Consent, Please Advise by jesmond3945: 12:15am On Aug 04, 2018 |
I have read the response to Ops issue and I can see the insensitivity to Ops problem. This is his fiancee somebody he is engaged to be married to not a girlfriend not a hooker. In fact he has every right to be worried that his future wife to be still has some vestige of her ex still hanging on her neck. That is a bitter pill to swallow for every man. Op I understand how you feel and you have every right to be concerned. I wouldn't say he has cheated or not but what I would say is this try as much as possible to get her a job close to your place of abode and also inform her you are doing so. It would make her know how much you love her and desire her not be with someone else. If there is any hidden plan she would definitely confess it to you. But if you allow the present arrangement, I am telling you it is a matter of time before she does the unthinkable. Igbo people will say an adage I cannot stay inside the water and soap will enter my eyes. 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancee Got A Job With The Help Of Her Ex Without My Consent, Please Advise by saasala(m): 12:15am On Aug 04, 2018 |
oluwakekz: She is hiding something. Use whatsapp web to hack her Whatsapp |
Re: My Fiancee Got A Job With The Help Of Her Ex Without My Consent, Please Advise by tshaba28(m): 12:17am On Aug 04, 2018 |
my ex came and pass a night in my place..she can't escaped it###you should have ask her who's the person she's going to spend a night with..and if you are comfortable with it you let her go but if you not then you wake her up early sebi is just for her to meet up the interview....after you allow her to go ..look at what you are saying now...###Eye Wey know you before,No fit talk say he no sabi you again..##nah yoruba talk ham ooo.. |
Re: My Fiancee Got A Job With The Help Of Her Ex Without My Consent, Please Advise by AreaFada2: 12:17am On Aug 04, 2018 |
notoriousbabe: The man's JT don grow branches like a tree. 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancee Got A Job With The Help Of Her Ex Without My Consent, Please Advise by EmmyDJourno: 12:18am On Aug 04, 2018 |
Run my brother Flee......... She is a survivor......the only thing that would keep her faithful for years would be the early part of marriage and kids After that the Survivor would kick in again Leave her, hustle, succeed, the type of chic you would get.... You go dey look yourself for mirror So, once again I say to you.... "Flee and go face your hustle" |
Re: My Fiancee Got A Job With The Help Of Her Ex Without My Consent, Please Advise by rayobaba(m): 12:23am On Aug 04, 2018 |
VampireeM:You need to think straight. The guy is not against the ex getting her job. He's against hiding what she has d obligation to tell the guy aand even to the extent of passing the night there without informing him. I can't take that shit. 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancee Got A Job With The Help Of Her Ex Without My Consent, Please Advise by gen2lpat(m): 12:34am On Aug 04, 2018 |
Truth, you don't have control over her actions and asking her that question could be you trying to avoid a future mess. She hid it from you and that means a lot. She could have lodged but she choose to sleep over at her Ex place, probably sexually get the past questions to pass the test. Run 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancee Got A Job With The Help Of Her Ex Without My Consent, Please Advise by rayobaba(m): 12:35am On Aug 04, 2018 |
Bro. If u can do DS, u wl be fine. Don't try to get to the root of the matter now. Don't rush to take decisions now, after all l guess u are not settling down soon. Relax Ur mind. Wat if uv never dated or met her. So relax. Don't give urself hypertension or be distributed by such girl. She doesn't worth it. See, she's wrong to not tell u abt who is helping her to get d job. Secondly, she's totally wrong passing d nite in her ex house especially without telling u. I said relax because time will heal Ur wound and time will expose her if she's into her ex and patience will make u not make mistake. Engage in other good aspect of life that gives u joy. Don't rush. 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancee Got A Job With The Help Of Her Ex Without My Consent, Please Advise by engrjacuzzi: 12:35am On Aug 04, 2018 |
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