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Re: My Wife Lied About Her Genotype by doncollino: 9:10am On Aug 12, 2018 |
Go to a doc, get advice on d best way going forward. Pls don't bring another SS into this world kids are not suppose to suffer, they are a joy to behold. For ur wife, if she can lie about AS thing out of desperation I guess, she can lie about lot of things. Be careful life is too shot to carry d SS pain |
Re: My Wife Lied About Her Genotype by kunyeo(m): 9:12am On Aug 12, 2018 |
I doubt if you will be able to leave the marriage because frankly you are a weakling.That is why you perceived manipulation as begging.You are already married,please bear your cross. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Lied About Her Genotype by BabaRamota1980: 9:18am On Aug 12, 2018 |
OP You said you are Yoruba. Ok, is your wife Ibo? I cant understand why this child is named okechuckwu. I have comments but I await your response first. |
Re: My Wife Lied About Her Genotype by LyfeJennings(m): 9:23am On Aug 12, 2018 |
You are mad Your wife is maddening Your bastard wife lied to U just to get married to U and U jejely brought an innocent child to come to this world to suffer and U asking what's the next step. I swear to God, Ogun will kill U if U don't take that step now. Small coins wey dey ur hand ,na sickle cell U go take am nurse. O ga o |
Re: My Wife Lied About Her Genotype by godfrey01(m): 9:30am On Aug 12, 2018 |
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Re: My Wife Lied About Her Genotype by jedisco(m): 9:30am On Aug 12, 2018 |
otherway: Not true. It's 1 in 4 chances per child if both parents are AS. That means each child has a 25% (1 in 4) chance of being SS. So a couple can have four and sll four would be AA or have four and all would be SS. It's all probability. 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Lied About Her Genotype by BIXYBABE: 9:30am On Aug 12, 2018 |
Another touching story.......Meanwhile the elders have spoken
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Re: My Wife Lied About Her Genotype by maasoap(m): 9:31am On Aug 12, 2018 |
litaninja: May be, he forgot to mention how his pastor prayed for her. 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Lied About Her Genotype by sisisioge: 9:34am On Aug 12, 2018 |
franchasng: Haba...e no reach that. Ten years imprisonment will do just fine. |
Re: My Wife Lied About Her Genotype by Lexusgs430: 9:34am On Aug 12, 2018 |
Those that are about to marry, should learn a true/bitter lesson..... |
Re: My Wife Lied About Her Genotype by maasoap(m): 9:34am On Aug 12, 2018 |
otherway: Lol at one in four children. You're wrong. It is one over four chance that every child they are going to have will be SS. All their children could be SS, and none of them could be SS. Don't be misinformed and don't misinform people. 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Lied About Her Genotype by Lexusgs430: 9:36am On Aug 12, 2018 |
Aremolekunowo: Simple, go to court and file for a divorce....... You cannot put your life on hold, due to this very expensive act of deception.... I hope you have very deep financial pockets, because the bills are only going one way....... Higher and more expensive...... 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Lied About Her Genotype by maasoap(m): 9:41am On Aug 12, 2018 |
sisisioge: Deception after seeing prof twice franchasng: She didn't commit any offence. The husband-to-be saw the results of the tests twice. So, where is deception? The man himself believed in miracle and he's just ashamed now to admit it. Simple. sisisioge: No judge will sentence her based on this narration. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Lied About Her Genotype by aviationguy: 9:43am On Aug 12, 2018 |
The person who has not experienced such scenario can't give a valid explanatory answer. I had an experienced 2012 2 weeks to my wedding I got the latest result she is same genotype with mine AS,its a great pain and discomfort I will not marry the woman we both shared true love and we both understand ourselves. Don't let's me deceived you is better to let go of selfish interest than putting an innocent children in ever lasting agony and pains. initially I cried bitterly for days but after a while we both accepted the faith that we are not met for each other,after about a year plus March 30th 2015 I got married and I have a girl and a boy wonderful children no pains or problems as I speak. I appreciate God she finally got married last month July 2018 I guessed the delay could be due to the genotype issues. My brother am sorry to say you missed the red light warning signs but you allowed people to manipulate you to fall into pains and agony you could have been avoided initially. You don't have anything to do now than to manage the situation and let's peace reign. my friend AS genotype who was carried away with love married AS thinking all is well with selfish love will understand when things begin to turn out the way he could never imagine. 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Lied About Her Genotype by Nobody: 10:02am On Aug 12, 2018 |
AgentGoat: lol |
Re: My Wife Lied About Her Genotype by otherway: 10:02am On Aug 12, 2018 |
jedisco: Nah wah o. We are saying exactly the same thing. In same vane 1 in 4 chances could be AS or even AA. When AS marries AS the following are the possible genotype of their children AA AS AS SS The probability of having AA and SS is 0.25 but AS is 0.5. There are no guarantee that any of your child will be AA or AS, they could all be AA,AS or SS which makes it a dangerous gamble. maasoap: |
Re: My Wife Lied About Her Genotype by Nobody: 10:04am On Aug 12, 2018 |
victorian:Dear, please i would need your advice based on your experience. If possible sef, get your contact and speak with you on phone please. The girl i'm currently dating is SS and i'm AA. Her's is a bit tough cos she lost her hearing due to it. Another issue is that, she got pregnant for another man while we were dating and currently have a child for the man. The guy denied it and walked away. We are back in the relationship cos i love her so much. But how do i present this to my family for marriage consideration cos i really don't know what to do. I have the issue of SS status,her hearing and now a baby for another man to deal with. Also, i would need to hear your advice on the foreseeable challenges ahead having experienced some of this yourself please. Thanks and God bless you. |
Re: My Wife Lied About Her Genotype by AnunuebeAgbawo7: 10:05am On Aug 12, 2018 |
These girls can lie about anything these days |
Re: My Wife Lied About Her Genotype by otherway: 10:11am On Aug 12, 2018 |
victorian: It's all because of the bad Medicare in Nigeria cos in the western world,SS children live very long and normal life. They can even know the genotype of the foetus before it fully develops. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Lied About Her Genotype by CaptainFM1: 10:16am On Aug 12, 2018 |
iupac120: If you start a relationship by asking that question, you can bet 9 out of 10 will tell you their genotype is AA. The moment you ask that question, their brain will switch to... Haha... "it seems this guy wants to get serious" Your best solution is to take her to your own medical lab for testing. Believe me, any lady that's ready to follow you is very sure of her Genotype to be AA and also ready to be serious with you. Once you ask that question, without doubt in their mind they automatically know you are AS, and the only thing you are looking for is AA. So expect virtually all of them to tell you they are AA. Ladies are known to be deceptive since the days of Eve! |
Re: My Wife Lied About Her Genotype by dotedote: 10:23am On Aug 12, 2018 |
Sometimes the truth needs being told. It's very easy for 3rd parties to tell you not to leave your wife and son but the question is Who takes further responsibilities? Whose bank account gets drained on the regular ? My father married 2 wives and the 3 of them were ASs. 12 children. 6males & 6 females. 3:3, 3:3. So even. Fortunately for our parents, the wives had one SS each; a male and a female. The Problem: The 2 SS we had were very healthy until their issues started, anytime they had their crisis, the whole family went down and this continued for years. In 1997, at the age of 24, the female died days to her graduation at the School of Nursing Idi-Aba Abeokuta while the male died in my own hands at the ICU General Hospital Ikeja in 2002. Back to the rest of us (the remaining 10), we have 6 AAs and 4 ASs, and nobody dared try rubbish when it was time to pick a spouse. We're all married and the first child is even a grandma now BUT it was everybody's business whenever any of us wanted to get married. We all came in to scrutinize the genotype of the incoming spouse. The trauma is always too much to curtail. Let me state clearly here that my family was/is very lucky to have had just 2 out if 12 as SS. Others weren't/aren't that fortunate. MY ADVICE: The choice is yours. It's either you get yourself prepared to live the rest of your youthful life in fear of what would happen to your kids wherever they are as a result of their genotype status OR take the decision of letting this woman go on the grounds of genotypic incompatibility to save yourself of regrets and sorrow in future. I'D TAKE THE LATTER. Just an advice Bro. |
Re: My Wife Lied About Her Genotype by nijabazaar: 10:24am On Aug 12, 2018 |
extremelygolden: Which can never happen....you can't alter someones genetic makeup. At least not in the next three decades |
Re: My Wife Lied About Her Genotype by ogele: 10:27am On Aug 12, 2018 |
File for divorce immediately and dont waste time. but to be honest you are A BIG FOOL in the first place. Court will award her custody of the child, while you you will take care for welfare as regards the child. You don get yourself entangle in such at this early stage of your life. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Lied About Her Genotype by seasy: 10:27am On Aug 12, 2018 |
Oh,so sad. Why will someone lie about genotype? When you will still go through the pain of having a child with genotype ss. |
Re: My Wife Lied About Her Genotype by Zinny25(f): 10:38am On Aug 12, 2018 |
This marriage is built on deceit and lies. It will never be in peace. Thank God it's not hiv, that's how they would hv been begging. It will still end in divorce |
Re: My Wife Lied About Her Genotype by Remix10(m): 10:52am On Aug 12, 2018 |
It is better you end it and take care of ikechukwu, the Catholic Church will gladly annul this marriage with the chief reason that it was built on lies. It is not everybody that has a D that is a man, how can you bow to such life threatening pressure, see the result, I just pity for ikechukwu. Have you showed her the divorce papers, now your eyes is open, mofo |
Re: My Wife Lied About Her Genotype by Nobody: 10:56am On Aug 12, 2018 |
peacettw: like say we get such facilities in naija. even if we do where will a young couple see the finance. in a country where it will take 133 days to gather money buy 1 IPhone. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Lied About Her Genotype by zoogy2007: 10:58am On Aug 12, 2018 |
You had proof that she is AS and u still listened to parties who had a lot to gain by deceiving you. Did you not have buddies and family to advice you? Why was it only the girls ppl that were advising you? Better stay in that marriage. It's for better for worse. |
Re: My Wife Lied About Her Genotype by victorian(f): 11:11am On Aug 12, 2018 |
OrangeDream: First, how old is she? Secondly does she still have crisis during cold weather or rainy season? Let's take it from these two questions first. |
Re: My Wife Lied About Her Genotype by Nobody: 11:15am On Aug 12, 2018 |
BabaRamota1980:probably the baby has flat head. |
Re: My Wife Lied About Her Genotype by jimb(m): 11:30am On Aug 12, 2018 |
am AA but I dont av money, Any beautiful lady AS and has money and needs a serious marriage relationship should watsapp me on 7036430602. Am willing to be your AA genealogy. |
Re: My Wife Lied About Her Genotype by Floda: 11:39am On Aug 12, 2018 |
and dis is the same reason I decided not to marry any lady wit either AS or SS... although am AA... I can't come and put posterity/ future offspring under such predicament |
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