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Re: Re-marriage When Ones Spouse Is Still Alive.. by OneJ: 11:28pm On Oct 07, 2018 |
Righteousness89: Jesus himself approved divorce & the scriptures endorsed remarriage when your former spouse is alive. "If the unbeliever leaves, let him do so. A believing man or woman IS NOT BOUND IN SUCH CIRCUMSTANCES..." 1 Cor 7:15. Do U grasp what Paul said? If your spouse decides to quit your marriage (in spite of your sincere efforts to make your Union succeed),let her go. "Can two walk together except they agree? " Amos 3:3. Paul said " You are NOT BOUND IN SUCH CIRCUMSTANCES" to your run away spouse who elopes with some one else.. U are free to remarry. Go obtain a legal divorce & set yourself free. U are actually the one who modify the holy scriptures to mislead others. 1 Like |
Re: Re-marriage When Ones Spouse Is Still Alive.. by budaatum: 12:17am On Oct 08, 2018 |
OneJ:Imagine! One part of the marriage runs of with a younger model and the other part must stay unmarried until the run off part dies! Talk about not using one's brain. I guess one part can just kill the run off part and remarry after run off is dead! |
Re: Re-marriage When Ones Spouse Is Still Alive.. by sacramento1212: 12:32am On Oct 08, 2018 |
budaatum: You know some people twist the wordings in the bible as it suits them while others don't understand it at all. 1 Like |
Re: Re-marriage When Ones Spouse Is Still Alive.. by uzuede4(f): 1:28am On Oct 08, 2018 |
"Whoever divorces his wife and marries another except on the ground of sexual immorality, commits adultry"(Matthew 19:9). If a spouse in a marriage is guilty of sexual immorality, the other spouse is free to divorce him or her and remarry becos, the marriage bed has been defiled(Hebrews 13:3). But if there is a case of violence, or threat to life, both parties can seperate and remain unmarried or else be reconciled ( I Cor 7:11,12). In this case divorce is not allowed because there is no sexual immorality imvolved. Remarrying in this circumstances is adultry. On the other hand, if ones unbelieving mate chooses to depart from him or her then, the believing mate is not bound under such circumstances but has been called to peace (I Cor7:15). Marriage is not slavery but a happy union. Couples in a marriage are to work together to make a success of their marriage. God does not condone infidelity, and he does not expect anyone to condone it simply becos that person is married. If a spouse commits sexual immorality, the other spouse is free to divorce him or her and remarry. He or she can also choose to forgive and continue with the marriage. The choice is up to him or her. The fact remains that sexual immorality is the only ground on which God permits the other spouse to divorce and remarry (Matt 19:9). Nobody should be forced to remain in a marrige of infidelity when that one is free to obtain a dvorce and remarry. But divorce and remarrying not based on sexual immorality is adultry. Divorcing your spouse for selfish reasons and marrying someone else, is not tolerated by God.(Malachi 2:13-16). It is nothing but treacherousness. So, then, let us all bear in mind that there is a Biblical ground for divorce and remarrying in marriage. Marriage is not imprisonment, but a union to be enjoyed. |
Re: Re-marriage When Ones Spouse Is Still Alive.. by kastroud(m): 5:33am On Oct 08, 2018 |
its at times like this that I begin to understand why Jesus said that wide is the way that leads to destruction and narrow is the way that leads to heaven. the Bible has said something and we come to interpret it in our words that to me is funny. much more important I believe is that we should as for grace so as to receive help in our times of need. there is enough sufficient grace to allow a man go through any problem without compromise. it seems though that we Christians(myself included) would rather compromise than tap into this heavenly resource ahh I wonder why. as to the issue of marriage. if the need for a thing is not known the abuse is inevitable. the Bible related human marriage as an example of the narrative between Christ and the church wherein it claims that Christ is the bridegroom and we the bride. I now ask how many times have we been unfaithful how many times have we gone longing after other Gods I know how many times I have, I know how many times I have divorced Christ and said this Christian life we are done no more!!! but does Christ ever divorce me has he ever given up on me no!! has he ever said that because I did a seen so terrible Taht he is leaving me and going to find a new and better person no he stays there always interceding always begging us to come back home. if we who are to be emulator of Christ cannot follow in this example then I believe that we have a long way to go. if Christ had compromised and said ahh this one is to sinful let me just divorce him I wonder where some of us would have been. I can't answer for others but I know that for myself I would have been lost. marriage just like our walk with Christ is till death. that is why we say those famous lines before God and men "till death do us part". back to the sovereignty of God, I find it funny how we believed who believe that God can miraculously pit money into our pocket cannot restore our marriages. I know for one that the God that raised up Lazarus from the dead is more than able to raise up my marriage from the dead. I know that the God that healed that lady with the issue of blood is more than able to heal my marital problems no matter how long they have been. that is the God I serve and I know that he is more than able to keep me in marriage till I die. finally to my future wife... our first son name would be called junior |
Re: Re-marriage When Ones Spouse Is Still Alive.. by Unclesamo(m): 5:37am On Oct 08, 2018 |
Divorce does not encourage remarrying.. until one of the Partners is dead b4 d other can remarry ... |
Re: Re-marriage When Ones Spouse Is Still Alive.. by bedspread: 11:04am On Oct 08, 2018 |
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Re: Re-marriage When Ones Spouse Is Still Alive.. by Ghostmode2two(m): 11:10am On Oct 08, 2018 |
bedspread: my friend you can re-marry if divorced certificate is issued and the reason for for dissolving is adultery. |
Re: Re-marriage When Ones Spouse Is Still Alive.. by bedspread: 11:47am On Oct 08, 2018 |
Ghostmode2two:You can disobey GOD if u choose!! But it is Ungodly!! |
Re: Re-marriage When Ones Spouse Is Still Alive.. by Righteousness89(m): 12:28pm On Oct 08, 2018 |
OneJ:see the twisted GOD's word to fool yourself.. Unbeliever of what ? Read the whole Chapter and stop misleading yourself |
Re: Re-marriage When Ones Spouse Is Still Alive.. by budaatum: 12:39pm On Oct 08, 2018 |
Ghostmode2two:Do you think you need to reveal this to him? I hope he never divorces, but if perchance he happens to have the misfortune to, let him not remarry, because the Bible told him not to. The same Bible 'tells' them so many other things they shouldn't or should do which they do or don't do all the time, but they wanna come on here and claim they righteously follow what the Bible 'says' they should or shouldn't do! 'Righteous hypocrite', is the best description of some. |
Re: Re-marriage When Ones Spouse Is Still Alive.. by naijapage(f): 12:46pm On Oct 08, 2018 |
Same update a pastor at Alleluia Ministries International told me yesterday |
Re: Re-marriage When Ones Spouse Is Still Alive.. by malel1: 7:23am On Oct 09, 2018 |
Re: Re-marriage When Ones Spouse Is Still Alive.. by paxonel(m): 11:32am On Oct 09, 2018 |
Righteousness89:did the bible says they should proclaim it like that? Why should they proclaim what they are not sure they can keep, is that not self boundage? Nevertheless, it is never too late for anyone finding himself or herself in such boundage to divorce and break free. very true! But when one party is not committed enough and the other part sees it fit to go, no one should bring the issue of for better for worst, it is very wrong. Christ will never support any form of boundage |
Re: Re-marriage When Ones Spouse Is Still Alive.. by OneJ: 12:01pm On Oct 09, 2018 |
Righteousness89: "Let not the wife depart from her husband. But and if she depart (on flimsy excuses , quarrel etc),let her remain unmarried, or be reconciled to her husband: and let not the husband put away his wife" ( that is , divorce on flimsy excuses,, due to "hardness of your hearts" is disapproved.Matt 19:8. ) (Divorce based on marital unfaithfulness is approved Matt 19:9.) v12,13 a couple should agree to live together even if they have different beliefs. v15 " If the unbelieving depart, let him depart.A brother or sister is NOT UNDER BONDAGE IN SUCH CASES: but God hath called us to peace" 1 Cor 7:10-15. You are NOT UNDER BONDAGE to your wayward spouse who elopes with his/her part time lover. Paul means that U can divorce & remarry. LIAR, stop twisting the word of God. |
Re: Re-marriage When Ones Spouse Is Still Alive.. by OneJ: 12:06pm On Oct 09, 2018 |
Righteousness89: "Let not the wife depart from her husband. But and if she depart (on flimsy excuses , quarrel etc),let her remain unmarried, or be reconciled to her husband: and let not the husband put away his wife" ( that is , divorce on flimsy excuses,, due to "hardness of your hearts" is disapproved.Matt 19:8. ) (Divorce based on marital unfaithfulness is approved Matt 19:9.) v12,13 a couple should agree to live together even if they have different beliefs. v15 " If the unbelieving depart, let him depart.A brother or sister is NOT UNDER BONDAGE IN SUCH CASES: but God hath called us to peace" 1 Cor 7:10-15. You are NOT UNDER BONDAGE to your wayward spouse who elopes with his/her part time lover. Paul says that God hath called you to peace & find love with some one else. Paul means that U can divorce & remarry. U no dey understand English ? LIAR, stop twisting the word of God. |
Re: Re-marriage When Ones Spouse Is Still Alive.. by OneJ: 12:07pm On Oct 09, 2018 |
Righteousness89: "Let not the wife depart from her husband. But and if she depart (on flimsy excuses , quarrel etc),let her remain unmarried, or be reconciled to her husband: and let not the husband put away his wife" ( that is , divorce on flimsy excuses,, due to "hardness of your hearts" is disapproved.Matt 19:8. ) (Divorce based on marital unfaithfulness is approved Matt 19:9.) v12,13 a couple should agree to live together even if they have different beliefs. v15 " If the unbelieving depart, let him depart.A brother or sister is NOT UNDER BONDAGE IN SUCH CASES: but God hath called us to peace" 1 Cor 7:10-15.KJV You are NOT UNDER BONDAGE to your wayward spouse who elopes with his/her part time lover. Paul says that God hath called you to peace & find love with some one else. Paul means that U can divorce & remarry. U no dey understand English ? LIAR, stop twisting the word of God. |
Re: Re-marriage When Ones Spouse Is Still Alive.. by Righteousness89(m): 11:44pm On Oct 09, 2018 |
[s] OneJ:[/s]My Joy is that you can't claim you hv not heard the Truth... your blood is off me |
Re: Re-marriage When Ones Spouse Is Still Alive.. by Righteousness89(m): 12:05am On Oct 10, 2018 |
paxonel:Listen and listen for your Good.. Except you are not Introduced in the doing your marriage GOD'S WAY. Once you are Married, You are Married.. The only thing that separates u from your spouse Biblically is Death.. If for any Reason of infidelity of your spouse, you get separated or divorced, you are not permitted Biblically to Marry another woman... Except your Orginal wife passes on.... As long as the woman you married is your 1st wife and u her first Husband.... she is your wife... Any other thing is a Scam.. |
Re: Re-marriage When Ones Spouse Is Still Alive.. by paxonel(m): 4:33pm On Oct 13, 2018 |
Righteousness89:that is biblically according to todays traditional definition but out of reality. Go back to scriptures and define what laws should be applicable to the jews and not the gentiles. Do you think that every laws you read in the bible that was meant for the jews in those days should be then enforced to the gentiles of these days simply because they are christians? That is the biggest scam ever existed in the history of mankind. Christ even said it, the least person in his kingdom is greater than all the prophets of the old and their laws so what are we saying? A reasonable educated christian will not listen to you with those primitive laws. Biblical my foot 1 Like |
Re: Re-marriage When Ones Spouse Is Still Alive.. by OneJ: 5:46pm On Oct 13, 2018 |
Righteousness89: Abeg carry your god of men doctrine komot from here jare |
Re: Re-marriage When Ones Spouse Is Still Alive.. by budaatum: 5:51pm On Oct 13, 2018 |
Righteousness89:Please, what denomination teaches this? |
Re: Re-marriage When Ones Spouse Is Still Alive.. by OneJ: 8:29pm On Oct 13, 2018 |
budaatum:Pastorpreneurs , miracleneurs & other "gods" of men) obviously. 1 Like |
Re: Re-marriage When Ones Spouse Is Still Alive.. by OneJ: 8:29pm On Oct 13, 2018 |
budaatum:Pastorpreneurs , miracleneurs & other "gods" of men) obviously. 1 Like |
Re: Re-marriage When Ones Spouse Is Still Alive.. by Righteousness89(m): 8:38pm On Oct 13, 2018 |
budaatum:THE BIBLE |
Re: Re-marriage When Ones Spouse Is Still Alive.. by Righteousness89(m): 8:42pm On Oct 13, 2018 |
paxonel:Humans go out of Reality not BIBLE!! The Word of GOD(The Bible) is unchanging!! We all will be Judge from That Same Word ( The Bible). You can choose to do what you wanna do now! But u can't choose were u wanna be at Eternity! |
Re: Re-marriage When Ones Spouse Is Still Alive.. by budaatum: 11:08pm On Oct 13, 2018 |
Righteousness89:One could say that the Bible also teaches 'marry more than one woman', so you might have a point. One doesn't have to divorce the first one before marrying another, and another, and another and..... I'm beginning to like this Bible, though I doubt those 'and anothers' would share my likings. |
Re: Re-marriage When Ones Spouse Is Still Alive.. by Righteousness89(m): 8:30am On Oct 14, 2018 |
budaatum:GOD never says marry more than one wife! Infact he warned against it |
Re: Re-marriage When Ones Spouse Is Still Alive.. by budaatum: 2:23pm On Oct 14, 2018 |
Righteousness89:Where? When? |
Re: Re-marriage When Ones Spouse Is Still Alive.. by Righteousness89(m): 3:19pm On Oct 14, 2018 |
budaatum:Matthew 19:4-9 |
Re: Re-marriage When Ones Spouse Is Still Alive.. by Ubenedictus(m): 5:16pm On Oct 15, 2018 |
sacramento1212:then you should read up, the word Jesus used does not mean fornication or adultery, the word Jesus used is porneia and it has a wide range of application, if need to read other passages on the issue, if not you are simply making a mountain of an ant hill 1 Like |
Re: Re-marriage When Ones Spouse Is Still Alive.. by budaatum: 5:54pm On Oct 15, 2018 |
Righteousness89:Seems you can divorce if one party commits "sexual immorality" , and knowing human beings , "partner looked at another" would do. |
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