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Nigerian Bride-To-Be Visits Married Boyfriend For 1 Last Sex Before Her Wedding / I'm Suspecting My Girlfriend Is HIV Positive / I Am In Love With Her But She Is HIV Positive. (2) (3) (4)
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Re: Nigerian Bride Finds Out She Is HIV Positive, One Week To Wedding by lenghtinny(m): 6:05pm On Mar 26, 2019 |
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Re: Nigerian Bride Finds Out She Is HIV Positive, One Week To Wedding by Mike008(m): 6:08pm On Mar 26, 2019 |
Justbeingreal: Both of them were tested. The man turned out negative probably. Am beginning to think the chances of a woman contracting HIV through sex is higher than males. I heard similar stories of a men testing negative whereas their partners tested positive. 1 Like |
Re: Nigerian Bride Finds Out She Is HIV Positive, One Week To Wedding by MrBrownJay1(m): 6:08pm On Mar 26, 2019 |
madridsta007: there is nothing logical about marriage, yet many do it anyway. life is ALL about emotions, if YOU dont "feel" right about doing something, then whether good/bad/or even logical, you shouldnt do it. without emotions, we are all but brainless machines. but hey, if i really was gonna follow logic out of everything in life, i would have never left my parents house were i had ate for free, slept for free, and was cherished like i was a king. 5 Likes |
Re: Nigerian Bride Finds Out She Is HIV Positive, One Week To Wedding by arrestdarrester: 6:10pm On Mar 26, 2019 |
Please send her for a confirmatory test first 1 Like |
Re: Nigerian Bride Finds Out She Is HIV Positive, One Week To Wedding by Nobody: 6:11pm On Mar 26, 2019 |
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Re: Nigerian Bride Finds Out She Is HIV Positive, One Week To Wedding by Awoo88: 6:12pm On Mar 26, 2019 |
Headlesschicken:Tested raw will not make him catch it. Though the chance of getting ut is high but raw sex can happen without contacting hiv 2 Likes |
Re: Nigerian Bride Finds Out She Is HIV Positive, One Week To Wedding by handsomeyinka(m): 6:13pm On Mar 26, 2019 |
Justbeingreal:This your grammar sef fit give person HIV. |
Re: Nigerian Bride Finds Out She Is HIV Positive, One Week To Wedding by MrBrownJay1(m): 6:14pm On Mar 26, 2019 |
theoldpretender: true indeed, but for an extra safety measure, they can have "safe" sex... as we know many could be paranoid about having unprotected sex with such woman. 2 Likes |
Re: Nigerian Bride Finds Out She Is HIV Positive, One Week To Wedding by Emotionss: 6:19pm On Mar 26, 2019 |
[color=#006600][/color] MrBrownJay1: In the name of all that is Holy and true can you honestly marry someone with Hiv ? 1 Like |
Re: Nigerian Bride Finds Out She Is HIV Positive, One Week To Wedding by RaphtechSolar(m): 6:19pm On Mar 26, 2019 |
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Re: Nigerian Bride Finds Out She Is HIV Positive, One Week To Wedding by madridsta007(m): 6:19pm On Mar 26, 2019 |
MrBrownJay1: Logic in this case is simple: Available medical research shows, quite simply, that the fellow is likely to become a carrier of the disease and, in climes such as Nigeria where medical care is pathetic, would give birth to kids who will suffer from the same disease. Possible consequence will be grief, sickness, cost of medical care and possible, death. So, you avoid it. Have you ever seen children who are sicklers? Or grew up close to them? You will understand better when I argue that these things should be treated with common-sense and avoided. I understand that Nigeria is a society where the belief in miracles and magic trumps medical research and reasoning, hence even this simple explanation of mine will be questioned. Which is fine. 3 Likes |
Re: Nigerian Bride Finds Out She Is HIV Positive, One Week To Wedding by Jossy4luv1(m): 6:24pm On Mar 26, 2019 |
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Re: Nigerian Bride Finds Out She Is HIV Positive, One Week To Wedding by ZolotuaLorenzo(m): 6:24pm On Mar 26, 2019 |
lanzzy1231xx: You b idiot oh, scammer 1 Like |
Re: Nigerian Bride Finds Out She Is HIV Positive, One Week To Wedding by Nobody: 6:26pm On Mar 26, 2019 |
If he still loves her he should marry her Simple |
Re: Nigerian Bride Finds Out She Is HIV Positive, One Week To Wedding by noisy45(m): 6:30pm On Mar 26, 2019 |
For me the marriage has ended 1 Like |
Re: Nigerian Bride Finds Out She Is HIV Positive, One Week To Wedding by Kaptainemeka(m): 6:30pm On Mar 26, 2019 |
sherylbakky: 1 Like
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Re: Nigerian Bride Finds Out She Is HIV Positive, One Week To Wedding by Captain0147: 6:31pm On Mar 26, 2019 |
Humm |
Re: Nigerian Bride Finds Out She Is HIV Positive, One Week To Wedding by MrBrownJay1(m): 6:32pm On Mar 26, 2019 |
Emotionss: bro, this is not a simple black/white issue, as you want to put it... - if i met someone today and she tells me she is HIV+ then it would just be easier to just walk away - but i can assure you about something: if i met someone, fell in love with that person and ultimately decide to want to spend the rest of my natural life with that person.... and few days before mariage she finds out she is HIV+, then that would NEVER be the reason for me to want to leave that person i supposedly love from the bottom of my soul. it would make no fukcing sense. madridsta007: forget miracles and juju BS, you do know that having safe sex would solve the above issue, right? you do know that with ARVsthis lady can have healthy children, right? bro educate yourself on the issue. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Nigerian Bride Finds Out She Is HIV Positive, One Week To Wedding by GOFRONT(m): 6:34pm On Mar 26, 2019 |
So many people hide dem own for body.... 1 Like |
Re: Nigerian Bride Finds Out She Is HIV Positive, One Week To Wedding by alezzy13: 6:35pm On Mar 26, 2019 |
madridsta007: Stop spreading falsehood. As long as she adhere to her medication, the chances of infectioning her husband or even her child is near zero. Confirm by research 4 Likes |
Re: Nigerian Bride Finds Out She Is HIV Positive, One Week To Wedding by MrBrownJay1(m): 6:36pm On Mar 26, 2019 |
madridsta007: bro, again, educate yourself on the issue so i dont have to do it for you.... there is a cure for sickle cell anemia, which is Bone marrow transplant, also known as stem cell transplant.... and as much as it aint cheap nor easy, it is a cure indeed!!!! you have such a simple way to look at things.... 3 Likes |
Re: Nigerian Bride Finds Out She Is HIV Positive, One Week To Wedding by theoldpretender(m): 6:37pm On Mar 26, 2019 |
madridsta007: Regarding HIV, 1. Once you test positive, you start medications. Now, we have new ARV that help keep the viral load very low..it does not clear it, but it keeps it low 2.If your load is low, chances of spreading the HIV fall 3.Husband can use condom. If he and Madam want the kids...he can remove the condom...and they can get it on, and he can always take PEP 4.Madam can have HIV free kids so long as she is on her ARV, and so long as the child gets some ARV (once ) after birth. Having a CS also improves protection for baby. Again, breastfeeding is now allowed. HIV care has improved over the last 20 years. 3 Likes |
Re: Nigerian Bride Finds Out She Is HIV Positive, One Week To Wedding by Icon79(m): 6:37pm On Mar 26, 2019 |
Woe-men! That's all I gotta say O pari |
Re: Nigerian Bride Finds Out She Is HIV Positive, One Week To Wedding by alezzy13: 6:37pm On Mar 26, 2019 |
Mike008: Females have a higher chance of becoming infected |
Re: Nigerian Bride Finds Out She Is HIV Positive, One Week To Wedding by madridsta007(m): 6:37pm On Mar 26, 2019 |
MrBrownJay1: Hence, I referred to the context of "Nigeria". Or does Nigeria have the same healthcare system and standard as say, Australia? |
Re: Nigerian Bride Finds Out She Is HIV Positive, One Week To Wedding by inspector1(m): 6:38pm On Mar 26, 2019 |
[quote author=MrBrownJay1 post=77009771] bro, as much as i understand that it wouldnt be easy, they can still be happy together, for the rest of their natural lives... if that is indeed the reason why they wanted to get married at the 1st place. in today HIV+ world, she can take ARV's and live a "seemingly" normal life.... and the day they want to have children, she can get inseminated with his sperm (or do it homemade with a syringe) and possibly have healthy kids. et voila! but i also fully understand that, if the man wants to leave and forget about this lady, he has all the rights to do so. Right to leave where? U want tell me say Bros never 2go the babe during courtship. Na for better for worse Matter o. |
Re: Nigerian Bride Finds Out She Is HIV Positive, One Week To Wedding by madridsta007(m): 6:39pm On Mar 26, 2019 |
theoldpretender: OK. |
Re: Nigerian Bride Finds Out She Is HIV Positive, One Week To Wedding by Emotionss: 6:39pm On Mar 26, 2019 |
[color=#006600][/color] MrBrownJay1: Guy leave talk. Believe you me. The moment you hear she is Hiv+ while you are hiv- the level of love will automatically reduce. By the time your family and friends mount pressure on you that love will vanish. 1 Like |
Re: Nigerian Bride Finds Out She Is HIV Positive, One Week To Wedding by madridsta007(m): 6:39pm On Mar 26, 2019 |
alezzy13: lol @ infectioning. OK. |
Re: Nigerian Bride Finds Out She Is HIV Positive, One Week To Wedding by Ugosample(m): 6:39pm On Mar 26, 2019 |
kiddoiLL: there are many hiv discordant couples out there Just saying |
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