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Nigerian Bride-To-Be Visits Married Boyfriend For 1 Last Sex Before Her Wedding / I'm Suspecting My Girlfriend Is HIV Positive / I Am In Love With Her But She Is HIV Positive. (2) (3) (4)
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Re: Nigerian Bride Finds Out She Is HIV Positive, One Week To Wedding by MrBrownJay1(m): 6:41pm On Mar 26, 2019 |
madridsta007: hence, i referred to having "safe" sex... again, no matter how bad the situation is, these people can still have a wonderful happy life together, whether sickle cell or HIV+ status. 1 Like |
Re: Nigerian Bride Finds Out She Is HIV Positive, One Week To Wedding by theoldpretender(m): 6:41pm On Mar 26, 2019 |
madridsta007: Ah, I see you were talking about SCD Regarding SCD 1.Nowadays, AS copules are counselled. If they go ahead... 2.An AS and an AS copule can have all 'normal' children either by IVF...or even naturally. 3.SS can be cured by stem cell transplants...although that is in the early stage. 4.SS kids with high level of Factor F (kids who have a genetic mutation that makes them produce fetal hemoglobin)...can live a normal life. 2 Likes |
Re: Nigerian Bride Finds Out She Is HIV Positive, One Week To Wedding by madridsta007(m): 6:42pm On Mar 26, 2019 |
Ugosample: My brother, I tire. |
Re: Nigerian Bride Finds Out She Is HIV Positive, One Week To Wedding by madridsta007(m): 6:43pm On Mar 26, 2019 |
theoldpretender: LOL. See the complex solutions. When it could have been entirely avoided. Why complicate ones life when there are billions of females and billions of other males in the world? This is the crux of my argument. Why? 3 Likes |
Re: Nigerian Bride Finds Out She Is HIV Positive, One Week To Wedding by alezzy13: 6:44pm On Mar 26, 2019 |
Re: Nigerian Bride Finds Out She Is HIV Positive, One Week To Wedding by dancewith: 6:45pm On Mar 26, 2019 |
This is why sex after marriage is advocated. In situations like these they can still marry as long as the love is there. With treatment U= U. Undetectable equals untransmitable . Once her virus becomes undetectable she wont be able to infect the husband All in all, a tricky situation |
Re: Nigerian Bride Finds Out She Is HIV Positive, One Week To Wedding by Geepapa: 6:45pm On Mar 26, 2019 |
When one of them is positive, it is called discordant couple and when both are reactive, it is called concordant couple. They can get wedded, if the Lady is faithful with her drug regimen after six months, her viral load will become undetectable. At that point, they can have naked sex, but before then the only time they make love without condom is when the woman is ovulating. Research has proven that a positive ovulating woman cannot infect her spouse. That doctor need to go for training and not be an alarmist 3 Likes |
Re: Nigerian Bride Finds Out She Is HIV Positive, One Week To Wedding by theoldpretender(m): 6:46pm On Mar 26, 2019 |
madridsta007: Well, to sum up...nowadays, an AS and AS can have all AA via IVF techniques. My palaver is that if we do that for every AS couple...we may eliminate the HBS gene...which may have some unknown implications for humanity's genetic future...and no I'm not joking. |
Re: Nigerian Bride Finds Out She Is HIV Positive, One Week To Wedding by MrBrownJay1(m): 6:47pm On Mar 26, 2019 |
Emotionss: i guess you and I are different then.... if i met someone and "love" that person, then she discovering that she is HIV+ wouldnt be a sudden reason for my love for her to change. i am mature enough to know that it wont be easy, but certainly NOT impossible to still be happy with that person. as for family pressure, come on! i live in the real world where family give you advice and NEVER pressure you into doing anything as it is MY life. do you think i am 17yrs old for falling to ANY pressure anyway?! if i decide that this person is part of my life then whoever does NOT like it can fukc off from my life. end of discussion! 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Nigerian Bride Finds Out She Is HIV Positive, One Week To Wedding by theoldpretender(m): 6:49pm On Mar 26, 2019 |
dancewith: I am an advocate of sex after marriage myself...I've seen too many STI's in my practice. BUT...HIV isn't just spread by sex. I once treated a lab staff who was positive...a medical lab staff...who might have gotten infected from handling infected material. (I say might). 1 Like |
Re: Nigerian Bride Finds Out She Is HIV Positive, One Week To Wedding by madridsta007(m): 6:53pm On Mar 26, 2019 |
theoldpretender: Still doesn't answer my question. Why complicate ones life on purpose? I know a couple who chose to get married despite a partner being AS and the other AS. Well, somehow, they have an SS kid and, believe me, they are going through the most harrowing and regretful of times based on the kid's health. And theirs. This simply could have been avoided if they had listened to wise counsel and married a different person— AAs. All these could be avoided if we go back to my "logic" argument. Unless people have a morbid, deranged affection for self-complication of ones life. 3 Likes |
Re: Nigerian Bride Finds Out She Is HIV Positive, One Week To Wedding by Ukfootballplus(m): 6:55pm On Mar 26, 2019 |
Bro if you've nacked that kpekus raw.... continue crying..... but if not wipe your tears This matter na strong thing 1 Like |
Re: Nigerian Bride Finds Out She Is HIV Positive, One Week To Wedding by Nobody: 7:12pm On Mar 26, 2019 |
This is why its advisable to be faithful,stick to one partner and always use condom . If u have multiple sideboyfriends that u nack by the side with ur main guy or fiancee and u now contact hiv na wetin u gain. |
Re: Nigerian Bride Finds Out She Is HIV Positive, One Week To Wedding by Nobody: 7:26pm On Mar 26, 2019 |
The guy isn't a doctor. OP stop lying 2 Likes |
Re: Nigerian Bride Finds Out She Is HIV Positive, One Week To Wedding by Nobody: 7:30pm On Mar 26, 2019 |
Mike008:Not true. Some people are naturally immune to HIV infection but that's one out of 100 people. Abstinence remains key. A wife had accompanied her husband to a clinic for treatment after he tested positive and wife negative 1 Like |
Re: Nigerian Bride Finds Out She Is HIV Positive, One Week To Wedding by mmadu5(m): 7:44pm On Mar 26, 2019 |
It's Better YOU HAVE HIV Than Cancer 1 Like |
Re: Nigerian Bride Finds Out She Is HIV Positive, One Week To Wedding by andyanders: 7:47pm On Mar 26, 2019 |
They should go to another hospital to reconfirm the text. No doctor can post this that he cried over a result of HIV text like this. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Nigerian Bride Finds Out She Is HIV Positive, One Week To Wedding by Nobody: 7:47pm On Mar 26, 2019 |
Kaptainemeka:Lmao...This is funny. I don calm down already. |
Re: Nigerian Bride Finds Out She Is HIV Positive, One Week To Wedding by nicepoker101(m): 7:51pm On Mar 26, 2019 |
Michelle55:because it's the bride Abi. Come and edit this you comment. |
Re: Nigerian Bride Finds Out She Is HIV Positive, One Week To Wedding by Justbeingreal(m): 7:55pm On Mar 26, 2019 |
handsomeyinka:iF u don't understand what I'm tryna say.. Then move along.. |
Re: Nigerian Bride Finds Out She Is HIV Positive, One Week To Wedding by Justbeingreal(m): 7:58pm On Mar 26, 2019 |
Mike008:Women are prone to infection their private is very expose unlike men.. |
Re: Nigerian Bride Finds Out She Is HIV Positive, One Week To Wedding by Donjazzy12(m): 8:01pm On Mar 26, 2019 |
oluchisimfred:She has been cheating and knacking behind the man, the guy should dump the evil female bitch before she infects him! 1 Like |
Re: Nigerian Bride Finds Out She Is HIV Positive, One Week To Wedding by Michelle55: 8:01pm On Mar 26, 2019 |
nicepoker101:Maka why?
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Re: Nigerian Bride Finds Out She Is HIV Positive, One Week To Wedding by nicepoker101(m): 8:04pm On Mar 26, 2019 |
Michelle55:order from above. |
Re: Nigerian Bride Finds Out She Is HIV Positive, One Week To Wedding by bullabong(m): 8:20pm On Mar 26, 2019 |
Easier said. If its you that found out a man is Hiv+,will you continue ? |
Re: Nigerian Bride Finds Out She Is HIV Positive, One Week To Wedding by Michelle55: 8:21pm On Mar 26, 2019 |
nicepoker101:Indeed.. |
Re: Nigerian Bride Finds Out She Is HIV Positive, One Week To Wedding by mechanics(m): 8:22pm On Mar 26, 2019 |
wow, so touching. |
Re: Nigerian Bride Finds Out She Is HIV Positive, One Week To Wedding by Gsteve01(m): 8:23pm On Mar 26, 2019 |
Nawa o. This one just weak me. |
Re: Nigerian Bride Finds Out She Is HIV Positive, One Week To Wedding by engrelvis(m): 8:29pm On Mar 26, 2019 |
Michelle55:a lot of our married men v HIV because of constant "away matches". Is their wives I pity . 1 Like |
Re: Nigerian Bride Finds Out She Is HIV Positive, One Week To Wedding by gadzama01: 8:32pm On Mar 26, 2019 |
they should continue with their marriage God will help them |
Re: Nigerian Bride Finds Out She Is HIV Positive, One Week To Wedding by GMbuharii: 8:32pm On Mar 26, 2019 |
MrBrownJay1: You can try,go and marry her..Yen Yen Yen 1 Like |
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