SIR0:
Regardless of how she paints it, all I know is that my girlfriend is obsessed with sex. I'm holding a position now in my fellowship which does not allow me to satisfy her sexual desires (though we've had sex before I assumed the office).

She's an undergraduate and she has many admirers, both on campus and at her fellowship. Considering the way we relate and chat these days, I am afraid she would likely cheat on me sooner or later. And I strongly wish to avoid sex until we get married.

Whenever I say this to her, the language seems distasteful. The sex means so much to her. I love her so much and I wouldn't want her to offend me by looking for other means to satisfy her sexual needs (cheating on me) while we are still in relationship.

Please how do I break up with her without hurting her feelings? Or, what other advice do you have for me?


Thanks in anticipation

Very simple, preach to her at every contact she makes, avoid her so as not to be led into temptation. Commit her to dedicated evangelisms by real sister children of God. She will pick race like satan her father, or give her life to God.

SIR0:
Regardless of how she paints it, all I know is that my girlfriend is obsessed with sex. I'm holding a position now in my fellowship which does not allow me to satisfy her sexual desires (though we've had sex before I assumed the office).

She's an undergraduate and she has many admirers, both on campus and at her fellowship. Considering the way we relate and chat these days, I am afraid she would likely cheat on me sooner or later. And I strongly wish to avoid sex until we get married.

Whenever I say this to her, the language seems distasteful. The sex means so much to her. I love her so much and I wouldn't want her to offend me by looking for other means to satisfy her sexual needs (cheating on me) while we are still in relationship.

Please how do I break up with her without hurting her feelings? Or, what other advice do you have for me?


Thanks in anticipation

please learn to ask God for guidance next time before choosing a girlfriend

If we Christians take the holy spirit seriously in our lives we will only court one person - the person we will marry

all these headache you are having won't be there again

Well done brethren. You don chop your own belleful abi?

tohyorsih busted!

Bring her to me na she go run

See me when dey find nympho when go fit stand my own appetite..kai some people dey get kick for this life sha

deepwater:
OP

TOTO no get speedometer
Leave mata for Mathias
as e no easy for Ezekiel
no be say na only Emeka go dey make am.
go and hustle, make money and rule your own world
if she is gonna collect the Diik from outside she will surely do it irrespective of her liking sex or not.


After all the cry wey Alex cry for LEO, Tobi still wire the girl barely 24 hours after been off camera.
Lolu form good boy tire, ANTO still carry yansh give TOBI for the same house make him paint with poster color
Bambam get BF outside, but Tedi A flog am scatter for toilet.

There are some things u cant just stop from happening.

Most of our Nigerian girls are free to air, once u get the password you go browse tire

Is this your comment a reply, a contribution to the topic or a newly released rap song?

You're better off in the studio

IamD18:


You have been fornicating with her for long, all of a sudden, you started laying blames on your "Fellowship" for your inability to satisfy her sexually.

I don't understand! Is it that your fellowship use to steal your sexual libido or that your fellowship use to sing "No do No do! No do, the do ooo!" Whenever you want to sleep with her.

I don't get the reason you are blaming your innocent fellowship for something wey e didn't did.

So wat are u saying that if the guy wan stop to dey fornicate..there will be problem abi ....if Op is born again...being one Is no bad deal....any one can be anytime....
Op to you, if the girl go stop u from enjoying ur life with Christ abeg put her aside....there more meaningful things to do in life than sex..... infact sex is overrated

bring her to me let me adjust and shift her womb with my long and big dickk

give me her num n worry no more�

My guy what do you expect? U have shown her the sweetness and now you want her to stop??

Which kind stupid boys full this forum naw!

SIR0:
Regardless of how she paints it, all I know is that my girlfriend is obsessed with sex. I'm holding a position now in my fellowship which does not allow me to satisfy her sexual desires (though we've had sex before I assumed the office).

She's an undergraduate and she has many admirers, both on campus and at her fellowship. Considering the way we relate and chat these days, I am afraid she would likely cheat on me sooner or later. And I strongly wish to avoid sex until we get married.

Whenever I say this to her, the language seems distasteful. The sex means so much to her. I love her so much and I wouldn't want her to offend me by looking for other means to satisfy her sexual needs (cheating on me) while we are still in relationship.

Please how do I break up with her without hurting her feelings? Or, what other advice do you have for me?


Thanks in anticipation

Let us exchange. Mine doesn't like sex

SIR0:
Regardless of how she paints it, all I know is that my girlfriend is obsessed with sex. I'm holding a position now in my fellowship which does not allow me to satisfy her sexual desires (though we've had sex before I assumed the office).

She's an undergraduate and she has many admirers, both on campus and at her fellowship. Considering the way we relate and chat these days, I am afraid she would likely cheat on me sooner or later. And I strongly wish to avoid sex until we get married.

Whenever I say this to her, the language seems distasteful. The sex means so much to her. I love her so much and I wouldn't want her to offend me by looking for other means to satisfy her sexual needs (cheating on me) while we are still in relationship.

Please how do I break up with her without hurting her feelings? Or, what other advice do you have for me?


Thanks in anticipation

Don't be ashame talk to your pastor and tell him to talk to both of you about sinfulness of pre-marital sex.

It's wrong to assume she will seek sex outside the relationship just because you buckled up. Not a general statement. Some girls actually open their desire to a particular guy and when the guy refuses to give in to it, they just bottled their feelings.

Wait! Is it like you don't want to have sex before marriage? Or the girl demands more after every intercourse? You said she like sex too much How often does she ask for sex? How many times daily? You dont have to exagerrate your bae sex life all because you dont want to have sex before marriage , i suspect OP has a weak erection, you bae doesnt like sex too much as you said, i disagree. Na you no wan do. Dont complicate matter here.

SIR0:
Regardless of how she paints it, all I know is that my girlfriend is obsessed with sex. I'm holding a position now in my fellowship which does not allow me to satisfy her sexual desires (though we've had sex before I assumed the office).

She's an undergraduate and she has many admirers, both on campus and at her fellowship. Considering the way we relate and chat these days, I am afraid she would likely cheat on me sooner or later. And I strongly wish to avoid sex until we get married.

Whenever I say this to her, the language seems distasteful. The sex means so much to her. I love her so much and I wouldn't want her to offend me by looking for other means to satisfy her sexual needs (cheating on me) while we are still in relationship.

Please how do I break up with her without hurting her feelings? Or, what other advice do you have for me?


Thanks in anticipation

Fellowships are fast becoming hubs for illicit hookups and sex.


Religion sef! Mtchewww.

SIR0:
Regardless of how she paints it, all I know is that my girlfriend is obsessed with sex. I'm holding a position now in my fellowship which does not allow me to satisfy her sexual desires (though we've had sex before I assumed the office).

She's an undergraduate and she has many admirers, both on campus and at her fellowship. Considering the way we relate and chat these days, I am afraid she would likely cheat on me sooner or later. And I strongly wish to avoid sex until we get married.

Whenever I say this to her, the language seems distasteful. The sex means so much to her. I love her so much and I wouldn't want her to offend me by looking for other means to satisfy her sexual needs (cheating on me) while we are still in relationship.

Please how do I break up with her without hurting her feelings? Or, what other advice do you have for me?


Thanks in anticipation

Same way you got involved with her slowly, step by step... reverse step by step, slowly in a polite manner.

SIR0:
Regardless of how she paints it, all I know is that my girlfriend is obsessed with sex. I'm holding a position now in my fellowship which does not allow me to satisfy her sexual desires (though we've had sex before I assumed the office).

She's an undergraduate and she has many admirers, both on campus and at her fellowship. Considering the way we relate and chat these days, I am afraid she would likely cheat on me sooner or later. And I strongly wish to avoid sex until we get married.

Whenever I say this to her, the language seems distasteful. The sex means so much to her. I love her so much and I wouldn't want her to offend me by looking for other means to satisfy her sexual needs (cheating on me) while we are still in relationship.

Please how do I break up with her without hurting her feelings? Or, what other advice do you have for me?


Thanks in anticipation

Baba u no dey last fr bed, talk true

PhenomenalMorgan:

He isn't "blaming" his fellowship.
He just realised himself and now wants to make changes in his lifestyle...
Yes, he may have fornicated with her previously but that doesn't mean he can't turn a new leaf upon realising what his position in followship demands!!

I don't think you got him.

He isn't planning on quitting sex with her.

Read where he said 'I am afraid that she will start cheating on me sooner or later'. He only wants to reduce his frequency of sex with her to lessen the sin. His worry also is that there are other 'brethren' within the fellowship that are already 'eyeing' her, so he is not sure if reducing the frequency of sex with her is a good idea hence his seeking advice.

Nothing person no go hear.....


Religion sef!

SIR0:
Regardless of how she paints it, all I know is that my girlfriend is obsessed with sex. I'm holding a position now in my fellowship which does not allow me to satisfy her sexual desires (though we've had sex before I assumed the office).

She's an undergraduate and she has many admirers, both on campus and at her fellowship. Considering the way we relate and chat these days, I am afraid she would likely cheat on me sooner or later. And I strongly wish to avoid sex until we get married.

Whenever I say this to her, the language seems distasteful. The sex means so much to her. I love her so much and I wouldn't want her to offend me by looking for other means to satisfy her sexual needs (cheating on me) while we are still in relationship.

Please how do I break up with her without hurting her feelings? Or, what other advice do you have for me?


Thanks in anticipation

after you don suck orange finish, you want to ask us where to trow the chaff. Common get out of here.

Starz825:


So wat are u saying that if the guy wan stop to dey fornicate..there will be problem abi ....if Op is born again...being one Is no bad deal....any one can be anytime....
Op to you, if the girl go stop u from enjoying ur life with Christ abeg put her aside....there more meaningful things to do in life than sex..... infact sex is overrated

we know your type, when nNa Don see another fine babe for fellowship, that's when you go start forming holy holy, don't worry.

my guy why the sudden back-out? aftal, you've been enjoying unlimited sex before now...my guy the ball is in your court kick it the way you like...abeg when Buhari go appoint me as one of his minister!

Clown you be

You have been fornicating with her for long, all of a sudden, you started laying blames on your "Fellowship" for your inability to satisfy her sexually.

I don't understand! Is it that your fellowship use to steal your sexual libido or that your fellowship use to sing "No do No do! No do, the do ooo!" Whenever you want to sleep with her.

I don't get the reason you are blaming your innocent fellowship for something wey e didn't did.[/quote]

abeg pass me her number

donbrowser:

I'm sure you have never been with a lady with high sexual urge. It's really worse than you think. People will keep asking you if you are sick

MR MAN STOP TALKING TRASH; IF YOU CANT HANDLE THE LOOT JUST QUIETLY PASS IT

You have been sleeping with her and all of a sudden you stopped because say you follow de do something for church.....guy you better still hold on to your opportunity. na you know wetin you want....just kukuma tell us you don tire for wey she dere..you don see another aunty for church you wan come drop this one cause you don too enter....Abobi goan sleep and don't post shit here again.

PhenomenalMorgan:

First, you need to know that you screwed up by having sex with her at first, thanks to you she now probably thinks you also enjoy it and you are ok with it!!!
First impressions matter!! Anyways why are you associating your No Sex standard to your "Position" in fellowship
What happens why you now leave the position
I believe it should be centered on your morals and spirituality and not "position"
My opinion-
Tell how you've now realized some important things about the way you want your relationships to be like, explain why your No sex decision is important to you... Let her know your perspective on it has changed...
She would likely feel you're hypocritical. No problem,await her reply but let her know you love her but this standard can't be adjusted.
Anyways you need to tell her why your perspective on the no sex issue changed!!! That can also help her change and adjust her perspective also.

This is the most powerful counsel I have seen from a Nairalander in recent times...not sure why some people bring some things here when they should be seeing a pastor or a professional counselor...but dude you did a blessed good job!!

Ekaka1:

This is the most powerful counsel I have seen from a Nairalander in recent times...not sure why some people bring some things here when they should be seeing a pastor or a professional counselor...but dude you did a blessed good job!!

Thanks!!!

Chai na this type strong man like me dey fine now

Give me her digit let me help ur condition