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Re: Why Should A Woman Be The One To Cook And Do Chores If She Earns As Well? by Martinez39(m): 8:17pm On May 11, 2019 |
Sandrazima:Lol. The problem with many women is that they always try to eat their cake and have it. As a mother, taking care the children and chores with a little side hustle while the financial responsibility mainly rests on the man works better. If you don't have a nanny and you want to be the career woman by all means, you marriage will crack. Marriage involves sacrifice. The sacrifice for a woman is mainly her time for her career. D'ija is a good example. Mrs. Antonella Messi is another. You cannot have it both ways. Even if you get a good nanny without giving much time to your spouse because of your career, your husband will likely take your nanny as his unofficial wife. This is where feminism destroys marriages. Feminism degrades the traditional roles of being a mother and uplifts the independent career woman that needs no man. The independent career woman that needs no man, that flaunts her superiority and independence cannot be a wife. There is nothing bad in playing the neo-traditional roles of a wife, it's not a sin anywhere. If you carry feminism for head and your marriage crashes, you won't see your fellow feminists around to fix the damages but if you do the right thing and your marriage lasts, it's you that will enjoy it. In essence, marriage involves sacrifice in terms of time for the woman and in terms of money for man. Enjoy your marriage. 1 Like |
Re: Why Should A Woman Be The One To Cook And Do Chores If She Earns As Well? by LilMissFavvy(f): 8:45pm On May 11, 2019 |
You did not disagree with my opinion, yet you were spelling out who and who should advice married people, mothers, etc, on a forum, you are kidding yourself, not me. Check around you will see proffessional counsellors who are single. Let me also advice you, just as you were trying to advice me. When you want to marry, make sure you search for a girl who is okay with your archaic views and ideologies. A woman who you can enslave as you wish, otherwise you may have your egostic ass kicked out. If you read some views up there, I ain't gonna mention any moniker, you will see real men who love and assist their wives with chores, so free me with my opinion. Foodforthought: 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Why Should A Woman Be The One To Cook And Do Chores If She Earns As Well? by faithfull18(f): 9:08pm On May 11, 2019 |
fykes:So, a woman's purpose in life is to keep a man happy, what about the woman?? Africa always choosing the wrong side of everything hence the reason for her backwardness 1 Like |
Re: Why Should A Woman Be The One To Cook And Do Chores If She Earns As Well? by Foodforthought: 9:52pm On May 11, 2019 |
LilMissFavvy:Instead of you to be humble and learn you are trying to fight gender war. I'm archaic because I refuse to trade my culture for western influence? Who even told you husbands don't do chores? How many marriages did you use in your so- called real men research. A man should share cooking duties with you and you are comfortable with it? Is it a woman that clears lawn, fills gas, drives the kids to school, pays their fees, pays bills, etc? Or is that the accepted norm where you come from? Do you think it's all men that want wives to do their laundry? There are no JOBS in marriage. There are only unconditional sacrifices without regarding what the other person does to equal your own. Those are the tenets of teenage romance and relationships, not marriage. Modern indeed, you need a marriage counsellor to advise you, what happened to your elders and your parents? Where I come from, a woman wouldn't even let a man near her kitchen. So a man providing more( naturally) for his home, should also take turns with his wife equally to cook and wash plates and change diapers, and back baby? He can do so once in a while but SHARING it. Stop throwing insults....the problem is you don't know anything about marriage. It's either that or you are simply untrained. 1 Like |
Re: Why Should A Woman Be The One To Cook And Do Chores If She Earns As Well? by LilMissFavvy(f): 10:41pm On May 11, 2019 |
Keep your stupid cultures and traditions to yourself and stick to it. If not for western culture that came to erode so many babaric African cultures, I wonder if you would be alive, or have a phone to hold and type trash, what's your intelligent Quotient to dare talk about western culture? What have you contributed to Africa or the world? I don't give a phuck about your culture, I don't know the hole you live in, where you don't see that women pay children's fees, drive kids to and fro school, pay for rent, build houses, etc, what should I learn from your kind? Slavery, foolish ego and pride? Shut the phuck up, keep your dumbo views to yourself. What is filling gas? I almost laughed out.Not all elders have successful marriages, neither do all of them judge with fairness, so if you run from one elder to another, seeking for counsel, then you are simply doomed. Foodforthought: 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Why Should A Woman Be The One To Cook And Do Chores If She Earns As Well? by Foodforthought: 10:48pm On May 11, 2019 |
LilMissFavvy:All this you typed and you still did not make sense. This is why you women are difficult to argue with. Tantrums, emotions, you can't lock it up and argue straight. The way you're blabbing and foaming...you might even start crying if we continue this argument. So let me leave you to your demons...they're clearly bigger than I imagined. You are simply untrained, and not capable of intelligent reasoning. I shouldn't have bothered. Honestly,ma, your problem big pass me. Marriage is not for you abeg. Don't even bother. |
Re: Why Should A Woman Be The One To Cook And Do Chores If She Earns As Well? by chris31(m): 10:58pm On May 11, 2019 |
Advice i got from someone never u help ur wife in the kitchen job unless she is pregnant or sick she will sees it as ur job if u do & that's were problem starts when u stop Allow her to get used to it & the job from the beginning Men & women understand things in different ways |
Re: Why Should A Woman Be The One To Cook And Do Chores If She Earns As Well? by LilMissFavvy(f): 11:10pm On May 11, 2019 |
are you done? ''women'' smh. You think every woman is the wimp you are enslaving in the name of dating? You think you know women! Oga-sir, Listen, and listen good, never try to rigmarole everyone into buying your ideas, cultures and beliefs. You made absolutely no sense, I read other contributions, and saw some good ideas. You quoted me first and began the insults. The best answer for a dumbo, is silence, so it's best I ignore your kind. Foodforthought: 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Why Should A Woman Be The One To Cook And Do Chores If She Earns As Well? by Nobody: 11:26pm On May 11, 2019 |
UyaiIncomparabl: All your points are correct, atleast you're not talking like Saffi, which is great. I know she is reading this with a Guest account Lmao! But Men are polygamous in nature sha oh! Runs away from thread. |
Re: Why Should A Woman Be The One To Cook And Do Chores If She Earns As Well? by Nobody: 11:39pm On May 11, 2019 |
emmaodet:the bible duh! |
Re: Why Should A Woman Be The One To Cook And Do Chores If She Earns As Well? by Nobody: 11:44pm On May 11, 2019 |
Op's dumb question is why I advise all ladies to be gold-diggers. They already know the answer to this question, just be a kept independent woman simple. Nigerians and their backwardness will never stop irritating me, if any troll wants to mention me, he should kindly take a number and wait till I arrive at the airport. 2 Likes |
Re: Why Should A Woman Be The One To Cook And Do Chores If She Earns As Well? by emmaodet: 12:16am On May 12, 2019 |
funmisticqueen2: And is it not the same bible that stipulates woman's role? |
Re: Why Should A Woman Be The One To Cook And Do Chores If She Earns As Well? by Nobody: 12:23am On May 12, 2019 |
emmaodet:yes |
Re: Why Should A Woman Be The One To Cook And Do Chores If She Earns As Well? by ZIMDRILL(m): 1:36am On May 12, 2019 |
LilMissFavvy: its not outdated belief my dear your circumstances determine the roles whether you call it culture or tradition remember half of the world expect the man to look after his wife in general it means providing, while she manages the provisions, in that sense the men go out work while she manages the house and kids, he bring out food etc directly eg he went to fish or works 9-8 now things have changed as in law (women rights &equal pay etc ) , working environments support women but it still hasnt taken away the women roles of cooking for her family and neither has it stopped men to work becoz the wife is working too then poverty or the economy has forced many women to go out and work becoz what the man brings is nolonger enough there are not sticking to the old type tradition just being a housewife and let husband bring in food at the table bad economy and poverty nothing about roles in the house |
Re: Why Should A Woman Be The One To Cook And Do Chores If She Earns As Well? by deltateam: 1:55am On May 12, 2019 |
Sandrazima: Is it what your mama taught you? Oyo. |
Re: Why Should A Woman Be The One To Cook And Do Chores If She Earns As Well? by deltateam: 2:01am On May 12, 2019 |
Sandrazima: Share these thoughts with any serious suitor and watch menopause catch you. |
Re: Why Should A Woman Be The One To Cook And Do Chores If She Earns As Well? by deltateam: 2:09am On May 12, 2019 |
Sandrazima: Please which country are you from again? |
Re: Why Should A Woman Be The One To Cook And Do Chores If She Earns As Well? by deltateam: 2:11am On May 12, 2019 |
Adonko: Dude did you just call op a hermaphrodite? |
Re: Why Should A Woman Be The One To Cook And Do Chores If She Earns As Well? by deltateam: 2:21am On May 12, 2019 |
Ryan03: Then marry op. Case settled! |
Re: Why Should A Woman Be The One To Cook And Do Chores If She Earns As Well? by boiz2men(m): 2:21am On May 12, 2019 |
LilMissFavvy:you will find love my dear |
Re: Why Should A Woman Be The One To Cook And Do Chores If She Earns As Well? by Foodforthought: 7:08am On May 12, 2019 |
LilMissFavvy:Good ideas, bad ideas. If you like ignore, if you like reply. It's your business. I'm a happy person, I don't come to explain my frustrations on Nairaland. But let me join your already exasperated guardians and elders to advise you: Madam, go and marry. |
Re: Why Should A Woman Be The One To Cook And Do Chores If She Earns As Well? by Kevsmart88(m): 7:33am On May 12, 2019 |
It's no big deal helping wifey out with the chores..... But I shouldn't be compelled to doing it cos you earn some stipends and occasionally help out with bills... What matters most in a marriage is understanding.... A man can cook, clean and do other chores with absolutely no stress....I just think marriage is for mature adults who read less about other people's experience and focus on making their union work..... Love conquers all 1 Like |
Re: Why Should A Woman Be The One To Cook And Do Chores If She Earns As Well? by LilMissFavvy(f): 8:17am On May 12, 2019 |
Dead Dog, are you married? Foodforthought: |
Re: Why Should A Woman Be The One To Cook And Do Chores If She Earns As Well? by LilMissFavvy(f): 8:19am On May 12, 2019 |
Oops.....I tot most guys here are always harsh and raw, dats why am always ever ready to attack. It's like few good ones dey o ......tanx. I wish you same. boiz2men: |
Re: Why Should A Woman Be The One To Cook And Do Chores If She Earns As Well? by LilMissFavvy(f): 8:20am On May 12, 2019 |
I totally agree with your views. They are correct. ZIMDRILL: |
Re: Why Should A Woman Be The One To Cook And Do Chores If She Earns As Well? by kense88: 8:36am On May 12, 2019 |
Tallesty1:Well said. How many of them still cook for there husband |
Re: Why Should A Woman Be The One To Cook And Do Chores If She Earns As Well? by Mikolion87(m): 12:38pm On May 12, 2019 |
Sandrazima: Make sure you tell any man coming for your hand in marriage this.. before marriage not after o. Some women are becoming wiser than God.. smh. Anyways, for me.. If my wife also supports me financially, there won't be need for her to do all those, cos of time and stress. We simply get a house help. But believe it or not, some well groomed and homely women enjoy doing some of these duties for their husbands no matter how much they bring home. They are the type described in Proverbs 31 (please read).. Why won't a man love such a woman deeply.. don't be deceived o cutie, God's original plan of life is still and always the best. |
Re: Why Should A Woman Be The One To Cook And Do Chores If She Earns As Well? by boiz2men(m): 1:57pm On May 12, 2019 |
LilMissFavvy: There was so much hate in your posts. I have found love for God is LOVE |
Re: Why Should A Woman Be The One To Cook And Do Chores If She Earns As Well? by andysmith123(m): 2:43pm On May 12, 2019 |
UyaiIncomparabl:but on a more serios note,he is right,if your husband no turn to slave,e go remain small,i just dey imagine u for palour,cross ur leg,dey flip through newspaper con dey sip tea,while ur husband dey kitchen,hmmmm,make i dey go b4 she come beat me |
Re: Why Should A Woman Be The One To Cook And Do Chores If She Earns As Well? by LilMissFavvy(f): 3:01pm On May 12, 2019 |
boiz2men: |
Re: Why Should A Woman Be The One To Cook And Do Chores If She Earns As Well? by Deicide: 6:16pm On May 12, 2019 |
You see why we say women see Marriage as Business? |
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