Westsida:
[s][/s]


Your probms arent relationship problems, you have an individual problms!

Sterope:
Yes

BiafranBushBoy:


Do you cook at home or you order food from a store.

AntiBrutus:
Anything that can be outsourced, I will gladly do that, so far there is money and I get good results.

I wonder how family women in Lagos cope. I thought I love cooking, Not in Lagos.

These women wake up early in the morning, prepare kids for school, package their lunchbox, rush off to work, do their best to be productive at work, starts rushing back home, struggles for bus, buys petty things for the home in traffic, gets home exhausted, probably fixes dinner again, serves Oga, serves children, enters room, Oga still expects her to position yansh like a single lady with no responsibility...next morning she is up again.
Yet you wonder why the wife looks older?

The ones at the office were always sleeping. You will hear, "my baby refused to sleep all through the night, I think he is teething". I asked them, why don't you take this stress off you? I can't be working, earning in 6digits and still suffer myself like this naw. Do, I want to die and have a man remarry before my casket sinks into the ground?

Surprisingly, they said NO!

It made me realize another thing, Naija women love accolades more than anything. They rather do these things, be stressed out, so that their husbands can call them superwoman. They also need it for emotional blackmail. They wouldn't want anyone (this includes their husband and kids) to think they have motherhood easy.

That is why paintings of a black woman most times looks like suffer. Kid at the back, another in the hand; basin on the head and they are trekking to God knows where . This is a Naija man's definition of wife material. This is what Naija women have perfected the act of pretending to be.

Anyway, not me. I outsourced almost every fcking thing. Sometimes I meet my buddy at Eko hotel roundabout. From there we go for dinner. He drops me home, I bathe and sleep!

I make money to make my life easier. I would only do these things if they are very convenient for me. No one should expect me to perform magic in same 24hrs he has, when we both do a 9-5.

If you go and kill yourself, he would remarry and she wouldn't even have to boil water. Look at Regina, getting customized cars weekly. After Ned's first wife spent all her productive years going to market and pounding akpu .

Sterope:
Both

MhizzAJ:


LOL
LOL
LOL


You deserve a bottle of Cold Stout...LOL
Don't mind Nigerian men, they know some women now know their secrets...they never wanna hear the truth

Your comment has been liked 1000times.

FortifiedCity:
What wrong have I done to you?

BiafranBushBoy:


Are you married?

It would help my next post

Sterope:
I am not married

Westsida:
[s][/s]


Your probms arent relationship problems, you have an individual problms!

bukatyne:


A woman of substance with moderate effort to look good would be valued anywhere.

Men don't even take women who all they have to offer is their looks seriously; looks fade.

Should a woman look good? Yes.

Should that be all she offers? That would be a tragedy.

And a woman should only be overly concerned about her man's perceptions of her looks.

alBHAGDADI:


Honoring a woman is allowing her play her role as a woman, not making her abandon her duties.

MhizzAJ:


hey



� LOL

FortifiedCity:
Keep laughing at me. Didn't know you could treat me this bad

eyinjuege:


Go and find work, lazy youth. Here's a woman who's money is working for her, and here you are looking for birds about.



Lazy thing.. Go and work, and make the life of the unfortunate being that will call you partner/husband better.

luminouz:
Leave her alone,she is mine

luminouz:

Can u blame me?? I love good food! I love me a babe who can cook good food

Lisaflex:



Goan learn how to cook jor...How you dey?

iRepNaija1:


That's not honoring a woman. That's just you wanting women to behave in a way that's pleasing to what you consider to be a woman's role.

luminouz:

Babe,I tried...I swear I really did...but I suck at it big time...its my weakness. She must edakun EPP me o...

Oh,I'm fine jare...how ur side??

Lisaflex:


Lol! At least the food is edible na..Dey manage am like that,abi you wan chop "kop nno mi ".

Not bad o...I pin like pinafore.

luminouz:
Lol,the food ain't always edible,especially soups...*rolling eyes*
'Kop nno mi' means what Decimal 10:10?? Or juju?
Pinafore eh? Yinmu...u wey gallant like gallantry!!

Lisaflex:



Lol! Nuh be onle gallant

"Kop nno mi "= love potion

SageMK:


This is a very dumb statement.

Having no one to cater for shouldn't be a stumbling block to prevent anyone from cooking. [It doesn't make sense ]

Besides if she doesn't deem herself worthy enough to cook for her own personal consumption, she will hardly do it for anyone. I doubt the fact if she can even cook.

No wonder she's all alone without anyone to cater for.

AntiBrutus:


Fresh Pcguru, I will gladly cook for you.

What is that your favourite food again?

Oluromantic:
At first, I agree with d "no one to cater for" ...since she's d only one, ordering food doesn't mean she can't cook when d necessity arises.

But then, "finding market run stressful" and staying off such an important aspect of womanhood for 8-10months, it obvious she won't find it easy when she marries. For some women, cooking is fun but this one is finding it stressful to cook for her own self, when there'll be about 4 mouths to feed in marriage

I always wonder how the most cherished things that makes a woman highly valued are their greatest challenges

- natural beauty is a problem for most of them
- good manners and attitude is also a problem
- faithfulness in relnshp/marriage is a major problem
- now cooking. Women used to be masters of d kitchen but not anymore.

No woman is perfect, but honestly if u remove these four things from a woman's life, its empty barrel that's left.

Sarang:


Go and travel overseas. Backward mentality!

MhizzAJ:


LOL
LOL
LOL


You deserve a bottle of Cold Stout...LOL
Don't mind Nigerian men, they know some women now know their secrets...they never wanna hear the truth

Your comment has been liked 1000times.

AntiBrutus:
Anything that can be outsourced, I will gladly do that, so far there is money and I get good results.

I wonder how family women in Lagos cope. I thought I love cooking, Not in Lagos.

These women wake up early in the morning, prepare kids for school, package their lunchbox, rush off to work, do their best to be productive at work, starts rushing back home, struggles for bus, buys petty things for the home in traffic, gets home exhausted, probably fixes dinner again, serves Oga, serves children, enters room, Oga still expects her to position yansh like a single lady with no responsibility...next morning she is up again.
Yet you wonder why the wife looks older?

The ones at the office were always sleeping. You will hear, "my baby refused to sleep all through the night, I think he is teething". I asked them, why don't you take this stress off you? I can't be working, earning in 6digits and still suffer myself like this naw. Do, I want to die and have a man remarry before my casket sinks into the ground?

Surprisingly, they said NO!

It made me realize another thing, Naija women love accolades more than anything. They rather do these things, be stressed out, so that their husbands can call them superwoman. They also need it for emotional blackmail. They wouldn't want anyone (this includes their husband and kids) to think they have motherhood easy.

That is why paintings of a black woman most times looks like suffer. Kid at the back, another in the hand; basin on the head and they are trekking to God knows where . This is a Naija man's definition of wife material. This is what Naija women have perfected the act of pretending to be.

Anyway, not me. I outsourced almost every fcking thing. Sometimes I meet my buddy at Eko hotel roundabout. From there we go for dinner. He drops me home, I bathe and sleep!

I make money to make my life easier. I would only do these things if they are very convenient for me. No one should expect me to perform magic in same 24hrs he has, when we both do a 9-5.

If you go and kill yourself, he would remarry and she wouldn't even have to boil water. Look at Regina, getting customized cars weekly. After Ned's first wife spent all her productive years going to market and pounding akpu .

Mustsucceed:


Just imagine ! Men will just be talking trash and stating of how they want women that can cook what sort of low mentality is this ? In this era?look at high rate of divorce and wonder what is going on .any one that wants a cook should please send for the women in their homes .rubbish