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Re: I'm About To Lose My Fiancee, Please Help by skyhighweb(m): 3:08pm On Jun 15, 2019 |
Kapello8:pm her number let me talk to her |
Re: I'm About To Lose My Fiancee, Please Help by OSUigboKiller: 3:08pm On Jun 15, 2019 |
Kapello8:Bro free that girl Jor Just because you got caught doesn't mean you're the only criminal. There somethings she's hiding from you too. If she really loved you, she'll forgive you. I have been caught in that manner before too and I was forgiven. If she insist on leaving , let her go. You'll surely find someone better. IT CAN ONLY TAKE TIME... 9 Likes |
Re: I'm About To Lose My Fiancee, Please Help by TylerDurden: 3:08pm On Jun 15, 2019 |
OP, pm me her number let me talk to her |
Re: I'm About To Lose My Fiancee, Please Help by IAMBlesssed(f): 3:09pm On Jun 15, 2019 |
Ntoooor... Good for you. You are part of the bad boys destroying innocent ladies with lies. What about the girls you ve deceived and might be catching feelings for you already? What about the ones that ve already believed you and wouldn't give any other man a chance because of your lies. You see how u re hurting, that's what your lies have/would ve caused some other people so enjoy it.. 11 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I'm About To Lose My Fiancee, Please Help by ibkayee(f): 3:09pm On Jun 15, 2019 |
Theboss100:After he got caught and because the consequences are pretty serious lol He should've thought about that beforehand womp womp 3 Likes |
Re: I'm About To Lose My Fiancee, Please Help by zicoraads: 3:09pm On Jun 15, 2019 |
Chairman, move on. I'm sure you wouldn't have looked at her twice, if it were to be you. The trust has already been eroded, nothing will solve it again. If I were to be you, I would even break up with her before she asked. 5 Likes |
Re: I'm About To Lose My Fiancee, Please Help by desthan(m): 3:09pm On Jun 15, 2019 |
Son, take it easy... You have not even gone into marraige proper, and you are already getting your whole family into your business. This indicates that you are still a child, enjoying senior jokes. If you cannot get her to see reasons why she should forgive you, then no one can. Never forget that. Back to the issue, you need to take a chill pill, she may be childish to get upset in my opinion, when nothing concrete has been established. She only saw few chats, in marraige she may see more, so would she walk away? She will be back, and when she does, let her know the truth and also apologize for sending all your family member at her. You can never tell, she may have been angry at you but you may have escalated things when you invited the whole world to clean up your mess. |
Re: I'm About To Lose My Fiancee, Please Help by EazyMoh(m): 3:09pm On Jun 15, 2019 |
Let me take this as a life lesson and delete all my inappropriate chats. |
Re: I'm About To Lose My Fiancee, Please Help by Femeto: 3:10pm On Jun 15, 2019 |
bettercreature:Which rule is that one? Your rule is nonsense. The guy shot himself in the foot. He needs to move on and pray for a miracle. 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I'm About To Lose My Fiancee, Please Help by Kaceman(m): 3:10pm On Jun 15, 2019 |
funshint: Boss How many times u don do am |
Re: I'm About To Lose My Fiancee, Please Help by PrinceCEE(m): 3:10pm On Jun 15, 2019 |
Mustsucceed: It baffles me when my fellow guys think like this. The truth is that, just as girls think they're entitled to guy's spending on them, guys feel entitled to monopoly of cheating. So, what the guy did isn't enough reason for the girl to break the relationship? 7 Likes |
Re: I'm About To Lose My Fiancee, Please Help by Nobody: 3:12pm On Jun 15, 2019 |
zicoraads: Lol. I am just here to watch hypocricy in 4D. So far, they are not disappointing. I am however not in that mood to fire. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I'm About To Lose My Fiancee, Please Help by Nobody: 3:12pm On Jun 15, 2019 |
ibkayee:It's good she found out now oh. If she marries him she knows what she's getting herself into. A man like him will cheat plenty and sleep around if he can get away with it. On the other hand he could change. 3 Likes |
Re: I'm About To Lose My Fiancee, Please Help by agarawu23(m): 3:12pm On Jun 15, 2019 |
Move on bro, women full everywhere these days 1 Like |
Re: I'm About To Lose My Fiancee, Please Help by omoadeleye(m): 3:13pm On Jun 15, 2019 |
Kapello8: bro forget it, when a woman has no feelings for a man again no amouth of gift and apologies can bring that back, just cry very well till the bucket full and till your eye ball wanna fall you will surely get out of it one day and move on, actually she has been looking for a way to ditch you andf that is the perfect moment for her, you are not in her heart again, she has zero feelings for you now nd ntn cn increase the feelings again, even if you guys come back again things can never be the same and it will surely still fall apart. 3 Likes |
Re: I'm About To Lose My Fiancee, Please Help by Drey1: 3:13pm On Jun 15, 2019 |
Nat404: Learnt these from my GF , Any time she's angry and in doesn't feel like talking to me and I tried all my best to persuade her but everything turns to deaf ear. Laslas , After 1 to 2 days, Na she go call me dey beg me again ...... As a nigga wey I be ,I just go lockup tell her say , I understand and that I love her. Lobatan. PS - Before I studied these behavior and acts, We often quarrel alot whenever her mood changes due to what i cant even decipher but since I started using that approach whenever she has a mood swing , Na she go come dey beg me again the 2nd day cos I won't even bother her at all. Ladies are indeed complicated homo sapiens 4 Likes |
Re: I'm About To Lose My Fiancee, Please Help by Cmanforall: 3:13pm On Jun 15, 2019 |
RiyadhGoddess: Serve him one when you're done. |
Re: I'm About To Lose My Fiancee, Please Help by famora(m): 3:14pm On Jun 15, 2019 |
funshint: Candid one!! |
Re: I'm About To Lose My Fiancee, Please Help by PrimadonnaO(f): 3:15pm On Jun 15, 2019 |
Ohhhh. How I wish so much that she never returns to you! 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I'm About To Lose My Fiancee, Please Help by zicoraads: 3:15pm On Jun 15, 2019 |
AntiBrutus:Awwww... What happened to your mood? Wanna come sit on my legs? |
Re: I'm About To Lose My Fiancee, Please Help by Mcy56(f): 3:16pm On Jun 15, 2019 |
@Op, you're not telling the truth. Now let me ask: if she were to be the one what will you advice? I'm sure you'll be among the kids shouting don't take her back here. She meant little or nothing to you for you to have outrightly denied her as such. If she forgives, you will still do it again. Once a cheat, always a cheat. Allow her look for someone who values her now before you eventually shattered her heart. Take that as a big sacrifice you have to pay for deceit/cheating and move on. Na my advice be that. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I'm About To Lose My Fiancee, Please Help by ibkayee(f): 3:16pm On Jun 15, 2019 |
theButterfly:Exactly, although the fact that he's doing it already shows he has no respect for the marriage, not a great foundation to start on at all. Like you said, he could change I guess, maybe this will be his wake up call (if she takes him back) 4 Likes |
Re: I'm About To Lose My Fiancee, Please Help by Kenkuss(m): 3:16pm On Jun 15, 2019 |
Just pray about it, u can add fasting, seek God's face, if she is ur wife she will come back, relax dont be in a hurry just be calm, Every thing works for good. It shall come to pass 2 Likes |
Re: I'm About To Lose My Fiancee, Please Help by alizma: 3:17pm On Jun 15, 2019 |
Kapello8:First and foremost, it is very bad of you to have done what you did. Secondly she is not leaving you because you were caught cheating but she is leaving because you over beg. A good number of people especially guys fall into your category, this doesn't mean they dont love their wife to be. Is like catching the last fun or watching the last part of a movie. the marriage becomes a real thing after the wedding and gradually a lot of nonsense things and thought will be dropped. When you are caught cheating like yours, you get to prepare your mind for the worst then apply wisdom as you beg for forgiveness. Is like wooing her over again, not begging is foolishness while begging too much is stupidity. Never be the first person to tell third party what happened. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: I'm About To Lose My Fiancee, Please Help by dazzlingd(m): 3:17pm On Jun 15, 2019 |
Kapello8: Boy, let me tell u a secret about women, if she did not come back, you were only an option, she is cheating on you with somebody elsewhere and she's not ready for you.. Reason she went through your phone to find something as an excuse to end it with you.. I guess she has been digging someone making her happier, and I suspect you are a sissy nigger, she might have found someone who is more daring and spending on her plus a better diick....sorry, the angel u think u know might just be a demon.... That's if she doesn't come back to you... But if she comes back, then truly, she may be the angel u think she is... This is an opportunity for you to know. 8 Likes |
Re: I'm About To Lose My Fiancee, Please Help by giftfromGod(f): 3:17pm On Jun 15, 2019 |
Oh boy this one hard oh. I just pray she change her mind or else na O Y O you dey oh. Most importantly, when she forgives you and you get back kindly come and update us. 1 Like |
Re: I'm About To Lose My Fiancee, Please Help by sleek82(m): 3:17pm On Jun 15, 2019 |
dancewith:matured! |
Re: I'm About To Lose My Fiancee, Please Help by zicoraads: 3:19pm On Jun 15, 2019 |
EazyMoh:See DEM. 1 Like |
Re: I'm About To Lose My Fiancee, Please Help by Ezeego1(m): 3:19pm On Jun 15, 2019 |
You have done your best. Stop calling her but rather go ahead and run your things with those ladies. You might not just know what you are missing. As for your girlfriend (fiancé) give her sometime she will be back telling you how she has been missing you. If she doesn't come back don't kill yourself, just move on. No dey worry yourself for woman ,na money suppose be your problem. 2 Likes |
Re: I'm About To Lose My Fiancee, Please Help by HEFAIROHLUWA(m): 3:19pm On Jun 15, 2019 |
.... 4 Likes |
Re: I'm About To Lose My Fiancee, Please Help by baby124: 3:20pm On Jun 15, 2019 |
OSUigboKiller:Find someone better indeed. You think it’s that easy huh? Tell that to my ex’s who are miserable in their marriage and always crying to me that if only I gave them another chance or forgave them, their lives may have been different.its too late for them, I am happy and they are miserable. When you have something good and you know, you better behave yourself and appreciate it. OP knows the gravity of what he has lost and till he dies he will never forgive himself. Very good for him. His type need to be taught a bitter lesson. 13 Likes |
Re: I'm About To Lose My Fiancee, Please Help by HEFAIROHLUWA(m): 3:20pm On Jun 15, 2019 |
.... 1 Like |
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