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Re: Ladies, Can You Marry A Guy That Earns N30k? by Sammy07: 1:15pm On Oct 07, 2019 |
Lol My parent combined salary no reach 20k And we're living happily. I'm in the University and my older ones will be through with their education soon 3 Likes |
Re: Ladies, Can You Marry A Guy That Earns N30k? by Hedonisco: 1:15pm On Oct 07, 2019 |
Lol. Can a guy earning N30k even marry himself successfully? |
Re: Ladies, Can You Marry A Guy That Earns N30k? by LordKO(m): 1:18pm On Oct 07, 2019 |
A humane and/or sane woman will definitely marry her ethically ideal man who earns 30k, provided that he's a roof over his head - irrespective of her own financial standing (of course, better if she's of good financial standing) - just as sane men have always done (towards women) right from time immemorial. A woman of this caliber knows that two people in marriage/going into marriage are different from two people in a business partnership or competition, or two enemies living together/intending to live together forever. There're things a sane person shouldn't expect a typical small-minded (insane and/or inhumane and expedient) person to understand, irrespective of how brilliant he/she is. As recent as two years ago, a man who temporarily handled a particular project for me, prior to meeting me, didn't have a steady job that could bring in an equivalent of the present day 30k for him monthly and he didn't have any savings or tangible assets anywhere - he was an American deportee - yet, a humane woman (she's a Nairalander), a silent multimillionaire and successful woman by all standard agreed and married him. Today, he's a "flag holder" and vied for house of representatives seat in the last election, albeit unsuccessfully, and over the last two years in review, he has legally acquired properties all the pseudo/wannabee successful (and too clever by half) noise-making women and men on this particular thread and their generations have not acquired or can only dream of. Of course, he adores the wife like every sane man would do towards a gold of a woman. Money is good, but never allow it to define you and don't allow anyone to define you based on it. As hard as it is/seems to acquire, it remains one of the easiest material things to acquire - all things being equal. There's no shame in being humane - only humane/sane people will understand that goodness (love and submissiveness) isn't a sign of weakness, but a sign of strength, and that toxicity in any guise isn't an option. The most irritating thing being that these small-minded elements who wouldn't either respect or consider those below them in economic status/social status, would want those above them in same status to respect and consider them - talk about chauvinism, hypocrisy, disingenuousness and greed - social climbers. Materialism is as bad as parasitism. A virtuous/strong-minded/independent (financial emancipation doesn't automatically make anyone independent) woman is a gold (not gold digger). I doff my hat for anyone of this caliber. 16 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Ladies, Can You Marry A Guy That Earns N30k? by Mariangeles(f): 1:18pm On Oct 07, 2019 |
yettymuse:Gbas Gbos! |
Re: Ladies, Can You Marry A Guy That Earns N30k? by Ferrous(m): 1:18pm On Oct 07, 2019 |
tech18:While, the reality is, not everyone will own a car or house or both of them 1 Like |
Re: Ladies, Can You Marry A Guy That Earns N30k? by icankel: 1:20pm On Oct 07, 2019 |
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Re: Ladies, Can You Marry A Guy That Earns N30k? by TOPCRUISE(m): 1:21pm On Oct 07, 2019 |
kestolove95:Alakoba. That is what they say. When the man now enter people people like you will begin to show the man pepper |
Re: Ladies, Can You Marry A Guy That Earns N30k? by ayanbaba2(m): 1:23pm On Oct 07, 2019 |
ruffbamreal: you're darm right!!!!
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Re: Ladies, Can You Marry A Guy That Earns N30k? by tsnazeez: 1:23pm On Oct 07, 2019 |
Y not, it's even huge with the situation of Nigeria. Because many private companies in Nigeria starts with 30k for graduate. Though that is poor but we were powerless to fight against that. It shall well with us. Life is a gradual process. Manage any amount you earn and God will BLESS it for you. 1 Like |
Re: Ladies, Can You Marry A Guy That Earns N30k? by Powersurge: 1:24pm On Oct 07, 2019 |
rtdCivilservant: is he from North? Just wanna check something. lolzz. On a serious note, I used to hear the jargon about after marriage fortune will follow up. |
Re: Ladies, Can You Marry A Guy That Earns N30k? by rtdCivilservant: 1:25pm On Oct 07, 2019 |
Powersurge:No, he is a southerner. |
Re: Ladies, Can You Marry A Guy That Earns N30k? by TOPCRUISE(m): 1:25pm On Oct 07, 2019 |
tech18:So If you did not marry, God will not bless you with 50k job |
Re: Ladies, Can You Marry A Guy That Earns N30k? by Delite01(f): 1:29pm On Oct 07, 2019 |
Well, for me I can if I'm earning more to support him after the marriage. Honestly 30k can't really sustain two people with our present economic situation. I think we all desire at least an average or a comfort life. But I must be sure he's someone that's hard working and ambitious, I believe in short time he will get a better job or business that will earn him better money to take care of his family and take his due responsibility as a man. 5 Likes |
Re: Ladies, Can You Marry A Guy That Earns N30k? by Nobody: 1:29pm On Oct 07, 2019 |
With her own job/money, the wife should also contribute to the household, rather than expecting the husband to be the sole provider. That said, it's better for a man to be financially-ready before getting married in order to avoid ego and insecurity issues. 3 Likes |
Re: Ladies, Can You Marry A Guy That Earns N30k? by Nobody: 1:31pm On Oct 07, 2019 |
PETUK: Oga you didn't mention tips, which at times is twice Ur salary. A friend works in a hotel with a house and a car 2 Likes |
Re: Ladies, Can You Marry A Guy That Earns N30k? by Yoighaman(m): 1:33pm On Oct 07, 2019 |
solmusdesigns: Lol .....but that's not true, 30k might be the beginning of the story, it might not necessarily be the end. Better days lie ahead, if only you believe. 2 Likes |
Re: Ladies, Can You Marry A Guy That Earns N30k? by Slimsly100(f): 1:35pm On Oct 07, 2019 |
rtdCivilservant: No be must to buy Pampers o. Dem fit use cloth napkin, only say we woman of these days nor wan gree 2 Likes |
Re: Ladies, Can You Marry A Guy That Earns N30k? by Pavarottii(m): 1:36pm On Oct 07, 2019 |
rtdCivilservant:U don't know him totally |
Re: Ladies, Can You Marry A Guy That Earns N30k? by kaima1984(f): 1:39pm On Oct 07, 2019 |
What about jobless husband's?aren't they surviving? 1 Like |
Re: Ladies, Can You Marry A Guy That Earns N30k? by Mariangeles(f): 1:44pm On Oct 07, 2019 |
nnaeyes6:They can save up to start a business, instead of depending on that income . It's almost impossible to eat good food with that amount, to be realistic. |
Re: Ladies, Can You Marry A Guy That Earns N30k? by GreenArrow1(m): 1:44pm On Oct 07, 2019 |
rtdCivilservant: 30k per month for Pampers? Na toilet d woman born? 3 Likes |
Re: Ladies, Can You Marry A Guy That Earns N30k? by Mariangeles(f): 1:45pm On Oct 07, 2019 |
kaima1984:That's different. They weren't jobless from the start . 1 Like |
Re: Ladies, Can You Marry A Guy That Earns N30k? by mechanics(m): 1:49pm On Oct 07, 2019 |
ejitest1:That's your own thinking, with God all things are possible, what if the guy you marry has millions and after marriage, no money and he finds it difficult to bounce back what will happen? The way you reason things is just funny and who told you ladies have not married men with that salary, you better change your mentality. 4 Likes |
Re: Ladies, Can You Marry A Guy That Earns N30k? by Mariangeles(f): 1:50pm On Oct 07, 2019 |
Jordan777:...because you're looking for the high maintenance-brazillian hair wearing types. The modest ones are right in front of you but you're not looking because they're not attractive and flashy enough for you . 3 Likes |
Re: Ladies, Can You Marry A Guy That Earns N30k? by luminouz(m): 1:53pm On Oct 07, 2019 |
UyaiIncomparabl:Don't be like that babe.... There is the future,you know.... With your support, things will get better eh? 2 Likes |
Re: Ladies, Can You Marry A Guy That Earns N30k? by Badb0y4lyf(m): 1:54pm On Oct 07, 2019 |
Love and prospect is all that matter I know a man earn about 700 top shot later lost his job and found one for nearly 70 to 100 will the wife leave him. 2 Likes |
Re: Ladies, Can You Marry A Guy That Earns N30k? by luminouz(m): 1:54pm On Oct 07, 2019 |
Delite01:Oya coman marry me... I earn 30k 1 Like |
Re: Ladies, Can You Marry A Guy That Earns N30k? by Mariangeles(f): 1:57pm On Oct 07, 2019 |
ufotty2001:Think of a business and start up ASAP! Don't be a slave to your job . 3 Likes |
Re: Ladies, Can You Marry A Guy That Earns N30k? by Mariangeles(f): 2:01pm On Oct 07, 2019 |
anonymous1759:He should make the ladies feel bad instead abi ? 1 Like |
Re: Ladies, Can You Marry A Guy That Earns N30k? by ufotty2001: 2:03pm On Oct 07, 2019 |
Mariangeles: thanks i really appreciate your advice 1 Like |
Re: Ladies, Can You Marry A Guy That Earns N30k? by Harbeeorlar(m): 2:06pm On Oct 07, 2019 |
I wish i am in such position, i would have helped. Also am not in the education sector so i dont know how they do their thing. Meanwhile we are both Yoruba. Blackmiserable: 2 Likes |
Re: Ladies, Can You Marry A Guy That Earns N30k? by bonnyhope: 2:09pm On Oct 07, 2019 |
NoHoper: you are right, so much burden on those working because the jobs are not out there |
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