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Is marriage without trust possible by Sechee(f): 8:43pm On Dec 19, 2019 |
Re: Is marriage without trust possible by CaptainKool15(m): 8:56pm On Dec 19, 2019 |
Like seriously, do relationships like this still exist? Pls don't be offended o, are you normal? Cuz I don't see why a sane person will stay in an abusive relationship!! Madam forget the threat, that your "secret " is no longer secret, so just try as much as possible to tell someone, someone you can confide in, probably your parents.. The next time he threatens you just throw it at his face that you've told so so and so, that he isn't the only one that is in the know. The koko of my story is, carry your Kaya and run.. Ps: I don't know why most you of folks are scared of breaking up or leaving an abusive relationship. Someone said it is the fear of being alone.. Just met a wonderful lady that just left an abusive relationship, she still doesn't trust my intentions towards her. According to her "the care and attention I show is not normal " To anyone in an abusive relationship, pls don't be afraid to leave.. There is someone out there ready to give you all the love and attention you deserve, just take the big bold step.. Las Las, we will all live happily ever after 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Is marriage without trust possible by Nobody: 9:09pm On Dec 19, 2019 |
Sechee: If you want to live a life of eternal regret go ahead and marry him. |
Re: Is marriage without trust possible by Sechee(f): 9:37pm On Dec 19, 2019 |
Thanks |
Re: Is marriage without trust possible by Sechee(f): 9:38pm On Dec 19, 2019 |
Thanks Iloveu2: |
Re: Is marriage without trust possible by Sechee(f): 9:39pm On Dec 19, 2019 |
CaptainKool15: Okay |
Re: Is marriage without trust possible by ojun50(m): 9:45pm On Dec 19, 2019 |
I'm afraid to leave because he has threatened to let out some of my secrets if I do...... My sister you are seating on a sharp nail... 2 Likes |
Re: Is marriage without trust possible by zed7: 9:54pm On Dec 19, 2019 |
The signs are always there. I keep telling people and they keep denying. 'Oh, he was perfect '. A philandering boyfriend becomes a philandering husband. A disrespectful girlfriend becomes a disrespectful wife. What you see is what you will get. You either chose to live with what you see or you get out. There is no middle ground. People marry lazy women and unfaithful men intentionally and are fine with it during marriage. It's all about choices. |
Re: Is marriage without trust possible by Gandollaar(f): 11:00pm On Dec 19, 2019 |
OP pls tell us the secret he's blackmailing you for if you don't mind. But seriously, asking this question is not necessary, he will never change. You either take it or leave it. |
Re: Is marriage without trust possible by JONNYSPUTE(m): 11:05pm On Dec 19, 2019 |
@op,I didn't read all your epistle but that word trust is a big issue. No trust,no marriage Truth is no polite. |
Re: Is marriage without trust possible by Tajbol4splend(m): 11:21pm On Dec 19, 2019 |
What's the secret he's threatening to let out if you leave the relationship, it's dicey to marry someone you can't trust, it's either you have stroke, or you are alone in the marriage or you divorce |
Re: Is marriage without trust possible by Nobody: 11:49pm On Dec 19, 2019 |
Sechee:tell us your little dirty secret , then we tell you what to do with that fuckboy |
Re: Is marriage without trust possible by Godsonjolly: 12:08am On Dec 20, 2019 |
So like play like play, this story is real. Very funny. I can't imagine how someone in the modern world will be in such relationship and u asking if trust is possible. Do u even trust yourself talk more of someone who is cheating like cheetah and u seeing it all. Madam u need no prophet or elijah to tell u to leave that relationship. It's dead, just walk out and save ur sef the stress. It's not love but foolishness upon stupidity 1 Like |
Re: Is marriage without trust possible by Sechee(f): 5:23am On Dec 20, 2019 |
Telling you my secret won't make it a secret anymore 2 Likes |
Re: Is marriage without trust possible by LilMissFavvy(f): 5:48am On Dec 20, 2019 |
I bet your guy has far worse secrets more than you, yet he is manipulating you. If you had quit such a toxic relationship, you may have had a better man in your life by now. You are wasting your time, take note that if you marry him, such a marriage will be hell, because he is a cheat. You changed location, yet he's still cheating, he is a manipulator, he does not love you, otherwise he would not use the secrets you told him to oppress you. He does not respect you, be ready for war in your marriage, since you have seen all the redflags yet still stay with him. Why are you talking about trust? You need to check the meaning of trust, because the last thing you need to give that man is your trust, you trusted him with your secrets, now look where it has landed you. Sechee: |
Re: Is marriage without trust possible by Bola146(f): 6:02am On Dec 20, 2019 |
Capital NO! You better back off from that your mumu relationship |
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