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Re: Inexperienced Newly Married Man Needs Your Advice by buoye1(m): 6:51pm On Feb 03, 2020 |
Believe this thrash at your peril!! nice script and screenplay actually enjoyed myself while reading |
Re: Inexperienced Newly Married Man Needs Your Advice by dalongjnr: 6:59pm On Feb 03, 2020 |
TheArchangel:I have gone through other posts and others have gave him his size,so no need repeating because, obviously the gravity of the problems emanated from him. For me,the best form of defense in most relationship is more defense for the woman and less attack to avoid own goal. We have to help her to cope. Mr Dantee, also understand that distance is the major problem wrecking their situation. The guy goof big time, he's abusive and aggressive, so what I highlighted about can be applicable to him as well. |
Re: Inexperienced Newly Married Man Needs Your Advice by Nobody: 7:01pm On Feb 03, 2020 |
This man is verbally abusive, immature and a covert narcissist. I think she should leave. nkwuocha1: |
Re: Inexperienced Newly Married Man Needs Your Advice by Nobody: 7:04pm On Feb 03, 2020 |
UjuJoan2:'equal capacity'? 'blaming the woman for falling short'? You sound naive. Even men who earn more will understand the point I'm trying to make. Even if they are not stingy, they also have a limit and will likely complain if that limit is tested. |
Re: Inexperienced Newly Married Man Needs Your Advice by Nobody: 7:10pm On Feb 03, 2020 |
maynation:Aren't timelines different inn2 different countries? 5 Likes |
Re: Inexperienced Newly Married Man Needs Your Advice by nkwuocha1: 7:12pm On Feb 03, 2020 |
funmisticqueen2: Leave to where?Your house? |
Re: Inexperienced Newly Married Man Needs Your Advice by Nobody: 7:17pm On Feb 03, 2020 |
merahki:dermatologists are very scarce. Their appointments are not cheap 3 Likes |
Re: Inexperienced Newly Married Man Needs Your Advice by Nobody: 7:22pm On Feb 03, 2020 |
It seems like you are blaming the wife for everything. Both of them should adjust accordingly,not ijeoma alone. Both of them should respect each other, not ijeoma alone. Marriage takes 2 to work, not ijeoma alone. Good day dalongjnr: 10 Likes |
Re: Inexperienced Newly Married Man Needs Your Advice by Nobody: 7:23pm On Feb 03, 2020 |
nkwuocha1:Yes na. Let us treat this as yellow card. If the man as much as insults her again. She should pack and go 2 Likes |
Re: Inexperienced Newly Married Man Needs Your Advice by Ishilove: 7:29pm On Feb 03, 2020 |
Old, fake ass format. I wonder if you people never get tired of this bullshit. 1 Like |
Re: Inexperienced Newly Married Man Needs Your Advice by maynation(f): 7:38pm On Feb 03, 2020 |
Mariangeles: Like I wrote, I know not what's fishy and please believe me I ain't tryna falsify any claim here. But please let's be serious here, if I saw a negative post about my sister online, I will definitely be keen to read every report from it. And I definitely will see the counter comments made by my sister, and since i have already seen her post I will laugh it off with her or do whatever comes to mind but not still sharing links to notify her of a thread I already knew she had seen. Whatever anyways. 3 Likes |
Re: Inexperienced Newly Married Man Needs Your Advice by maynation(f): 7:41pm On Feb 03, 2020 |
funmisticqueen2:Funny. The screenshot was from a person based in Nigeria, it has nothing to do with different time zones. All the messages are timed in the receiver's time zones. |
Re: Inexperienced Newly Married Man Needs Your Advice by maynation(f): 7:42pm On Feb 03, 2020 |
Ishilove: You don't believe these tales too right?? |
Re: Inexperienced Newly Married Man Needs Your Advice by dalongjnr: 7:42pm On Feb 03, 2020 |
funmisticqueen2:Thanks. Let me assure you that most marriages are surviving today because of the sacrifices of the women. The guy is not in anyway right and can't be exonerated. He's abusive, aggressive and disrespectful towards his wife which, is toxic, callous and mean, which is condemnable. He has anger and trust issues which is glaring. He's someone whose proud and arrogant but I can't judge him. It's time to gather and mend their broken relationship not blame sharing. We have to help this young marriage survive. Marriage works because of compromise from both sides. NB; I HATE ABUSIVE AND TOXIC RELATIONSHIP. 3 Likes |
Re: Inexperienced Newly Married Man Needs Your Advice by nkwuocha1: 8:00pm On Feb 03, 2020 |
funmisticqueen2: Hehehe.... Marriage isn't like that Funmi.Sonetimes it's wise to first stoop,then conquer.Agaracha wey pack go fit still run come back and to whose shame is that? One of my childhood friend had similar ish,he got married,wife behaving badly cos he list his job.Wife gave birth and the ish became unbearable for them.She came from a well to do family,so she had the upper hand.Her sister was a lawyer convinced her to get a divorce.She left his house and applied for divorce.The divorce processes was still on when he got his Visa to Canada.He is presently in Canada and now truly wants the divorce.The wife is delaying but he finally insisted he doesn't want the marriage anymore. Will she wait for him to come back from Canada?Her shakara don come down,and the child is a girl child so he send money for upkeep for baby.At first she was receiving the money directly,but then closed the account in protest (an aim to keep his child far from him so she can claim irresponsibility on the part of the man).My guy say him go remarry start to born pikin for Canada.No time. |
Re: Inexperienced Newly Married Man Needs Your Advice by Nobody: 8:31pm On Feb 03, 2020 |
Please I need advice on how to handle this, I gave my wife the sum of 400k for her and my 2 years old daughter around November and this January she’s already calling to tell me that she’s out of cash and I got worried and started questioning her how she spent such amount on feeding within such a short period of time ,that made us got into serious arguments which lasted for 2 days then I have to ask few married friends if is ok to exhaust such amount of money on feeding within 3 months and they gave me their answers which I sent to my wife too ...Now my wife immediately forwarded same messages to his brother living abroad too and also along with some conversations we had long time ago where she got me angry and insulted her by calling her idiot and stupid ...... His brother got angry and ask her to divorce me and immediately she started packing her belongings,I saw so surprised when she called me that she’s leaving my house ....I also learnt that his brother called his friend living in Abuja too to go and drag her out of my house if she doesn’t want to go ...... So I was so surprised when she asked me where to drop my keys I have to start begging her to calm down but she insisted that his family wants her to go ,then I have to call her mother and explained my own part of the story but the mother said there is nothing she can do since her siblings wants her to go . Now the problem is that my wife doesn’t want to go anymore but she doesn’t have the courage to tell her family that we have settled our misunderstand and doesn’t want to go anymore . She wants me to start calling every member of her family including her father to apologize and reassure them my love towards her again but to me I don’t know how to start the conversation with the father more especially because i believe having issues in marriage is normal and everyone understands that fact and since I have made up with her is their any need calling her family again |
Re: Inexperienced Newly Married Man Needs Your Advice by Nobody: 8:34pm On Feb 03, 2020 |
She said if I don’t call his Father and apologize to him that she will still go to her house even though we have settled our misunderstanding that she still have to go until I apologize to the father and reassure him that I still love her daughter.Grow some fucking ball,stop been a Sissy |
Re: Inexperienced Newly Married Man Needs Your Advice by Ishilove: 9:11pm On Feb 03, 2020 |
maynation:Of course not. Over the years, every once in a while a bored jackass comes online to give sob stories about their significant others, and the vilified significant other also comes online to give us their own side of the dispute. That's how they will be going back and forth until someone finally notices it's one person running both accounts. After falling a couple of times for that nonsense, many of us have learned to identify these pranksters. |
Re: Inexperienced Newly Married Man Needs Your Advice by DaniDani(m): 9:24pm On Feb 03, 2020 |
Ijeoma1187: in as much as I blame your husband for involving many third parties in this issue, who are you to say that he can't find anyone like you? In what aspect? As in, you are the most virtuous woman on earth? You think you will find it rosy divorcing him? Go back to your parents house and see if you won't regret at some point. Swallow your pride and settle offline with your husband. Both of you can still make it work, you two are better together than separated! |
Re: Inexperienced Newly Married Man Needs Your Advice by Nobody: 9:35pm On Feb 03, 2020 |
funmisticqueen2: Lol That’s for private hospitals I work in a Teaching Hospital Modified- you are right I didn’t know there is a Gariki Specialist Hospital which is privately owned Thank you I was doubting the poster already 1 Like |
Re: Inexperienced Newly Married Man Needs Your Advice by Nobody: 9:38pm On Feb 03, 2020 |
TheArchangel: Chai! I read that as Gwagwalada Teaching Hospital Thank you |
Re: Inexperienced Newly Married Man Needs Your Advice by Nobody: 9:50pm On Feb 03, 2020 |
maynation:oh, okay |
Re: Inexperienced Newly Married Man Needs Your Advice by Nobody: 9:52pm On Feb 03, 2020 |
Jaubdu:did you read the full story? 1 Like |
Re: Inexperienced Newly Married Man Needs Your Advice by Mariangeles(f): 11:37pm On Feb 03, 2020 |
Ishilove: Of what gain is it for someone to go through so much trouble just to create some fake controversial topic? It's not like it attracted so much traffic anyways... 1 Like |
Re: Inexperienced Newly Married Man Needs Your Advice by Nobody: 12:21am On Feb 04, 2020 |
Op is playing the victim like a typical narcissist meanwhile the key to make it right is in his hands, call her father and whoever necessary cause the matter has gotten out of hand and they need a reassurance that you would treat their daughter/sister better ... Oga don't lose your home to pride 3 Likes |
Re: Inexperienced Newly Married Man Needs Your Advice by JubrinElSudan: 1:39am On Feb 04, 2020 |
The guy has not gone physical with his violence because of the distance, this guy can beat the wife o 4 Likes |
Re: Inexperienced Newly Married Man Needs Your Advice by Nobody: 3:36am On Feb 04, 2020 |
R funmisticqueen2:The Man is messing up on both ends. Coming online to tell half stories,his type are the one given us bad name |
Re: Inexperienced Newly Married Man Needs Your Advice by Nobody: 3:42am On Feb 04, 2020 |
Route99:Did you get the point that her child is sick? 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Inexperienced Newly Married Man Needs Your Advice by Ishilove: 7:27am On Feb 04, 2020 |
Mariangeles:Probably the attention. Some get off on attention and will do almost anything to get it |
Re: Inexperienced Newly Married Man Needs Your Advice by maynation(f): 8:22am On Feb 04, 2020 |
Ishilove:God bless you. |
Re: Inexperienced Newly Married Man Needs Your Advice by Nobody: 8:35am On Feb 04, 2020 |
Jaubdu:Yes, I know. Obviously, they've got communication problem and maybe trust issues that need to be resolved. You can even see some people here on NL saying they don't believe she spent such a huge amount for her child's treatment. |
Re: Inexperienced Newly Married Man Needs Your Advice by wirinet(m): 9:16am On Feb 04, 2020 |
Danteeee:My brother I support you 100%. I can't stand men that abuse their wives. If it's my daughter that is being so badly abused, I would go to the house to pack her loads. Anyway, I train my daughter not to tolerate any abuse from anybody. 3 Likes |
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