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Re: I Want To Marry From My Village Against Everyone's Will please help me by mainaugustine(m): 2:30am On Feb 22, 2020 |
Are you from onitsha? Cause I know onitsha people have this kind culture. See most times our parents are always 80% right when it comes to marriage things and besides marriage is not a "you" thing but a family thing. For me I think you should man up and discharge her, just tell her it won't work. Which one is blood oath qua?? Brother be careful. Love alone is not enough to decide on who to marry, tradition too follow forget oyibo marriage. This one you are saying you can't cheat on her, I hear, in this our new school marriage odi nma. My opinion sha 4 Likes |
Re: I Want To Marry From My Village Against Everyone's Will please help me by olurili(m): 2:34am On Feb 22, 2020 |
Justdogood:forget it we are all product of incest take it or leave it |
Re: I Want To Marry From My Village Against Everyone's Will please help me by sylife(m): 2:45am On Feb 22, 2020 |
Kindly run for your future, I have an uncle how is 83 years now, He stupidly did this and he is still in pain up to now, he impregnated the lady before the Nigeria / Biafra way and the child died at birth , He loss everything and unhappy forever. Think before your action thank me latter. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Want To Marry From My Village Against Everyone's Will please help me by annayawchee: 2:49am On Feb 22, 2020 |
Baba chill o.... If she is from your immediate village, that means you guys are related by blood directly or indirectly. Where I come from I can't marry from my village and few others villagers within my town cos those villages are extension of mine and we have the same progenitor.... Uche gi dikwaya maka nso ala 2 Likes |
Re: I Want To Marry From My Village Against Everyone's Will please help me by Bratking(m): 2:50am On Feb 22, 2020 |
Slawormir: in every village/town in igboland, there are tiny villages known as clans. families belonging to a common clan have a common ancestor and so are kith and kin. the girl is his kith and kin and so therefore is related to him by blood. marrying her will be an abominable. maybe where you come from it's acceptable to marry your relations but in igboland it's a taboo. 5 Likes |
Re: I Want To Marry From My Village Against Everyone's Will please help me by Smartdigitals: 3:01am On Feb 22, 2020 |
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Re: I Want To Marry From My Village Against Everyone's Will please help me by Aname: 3:09am On Feb 22, 2020 |
Your father might have a point because 1) He knows the history of your village better. If it is indeed true that she could be a relative, can you carry this burden for the rest of your life? You're just 25 now. 2) She is asking you to take a blood oath. My brother. The signs are already there. Maybe your father even knows her lineage but wants to keep the truth from you and is only letting you in on a small part of it, because maybe you are not ready to hear the full truth. Please don't base your marriage on this thing we call love. It is deceptive. I'm not saying that this will not work, but the key to this is true and earnest prayer. Good luck. 2 Likes |
Re: I Want To Marry From My Village Against Everyone's Will please help me by CanadaOrBust: 3:18am On Feb 22, 2020 |
I know this is another made-up Nairaland story but I’ll give my advice anyway. You need to separate from her unless u won’t have kids because the biological consequences of inbreeding are very real |
Re: I Want To Marry From My Village Against Everyone's Will please help me by Ndipe(m): 3:34am On Feb 22, 2020 |
Run away from her because she pestered you to do blood oath. |
Re: I Want To Marry From My Village Against Everyone's Will please help me by Gosamezu: 3:55am On Feb 22, 2020 |
Please see a very genuine man of God for further cancelling. You should not take any canal advise. You needs holy spirit to carefully help you out. I pray also that God will help you too. |
Re: I Want To Marry From My Village Against Everyone's Will please help me by ATTemi: 4:08am On Feb 22, 2020 |
U jx took the words off my mouth. 72Morale: 1 Like |
Re: I Want To Marry From My Village Against Everyone's Will please help me by toprealman: 4:15am On Feb 22, 2020 |
Mandem12:Listen to the voice of elders. 1 Like |
Re: I Want To Marry From My Village Against Everyone's Will please help me by xeros20(m): 5:02am On Feb 22, 2020 |
A word is enough for the wise. Hensforth don't even sleep with her again. Amadioha has opened a case file. Be warned. |
Re: I Want To Marry From My Village Against Everyone's Will please help me by Scottallen: 5:52am On Feb 22, 2020 |
Airtimex: Lies |
Re: I Want To Marry From My Village Against Everyone's Will please help me by potopotoking: 5:53am On Feb 22, 2020 |
[s] autofreak2020:[/s] You're very stupid. Do you know what "bimbo" means in America?
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Re: I Want To Marry From My Village Against Everyone's Will please help me by Inferno001(m): 6:31am On Feb 22, 2020 |
adioolayi:.... I understand what you're trying to say here and it makes a bit of sense but what I find repulsive is the saying that "what an elder sees sitting, a child on a tree can't see it".... Parents have used this parable to cheat young ones off their joy...I am married now and I had tough challenges with my parents when I was gonna marry because my wife is Igbo and a first daughter..what nonsense did I not hear then? But I insisted on marrying her and I have a blissful home today and her being igbo didn't ruin my life, instead she's been a blessing to me...all I'm saying is, let OP make adequate findings of his woman's home and links to his family and if satisfied, go ahead and marry her...marriage is endured and enjoyed by the two people involved directly as your father or mother won't live with you so make sure you make your marital decisions period.... |
Re: I Want To Marry From My Village Against Everyone's Will please help me by Bestview1: 6:32am On Feb 22, 2020 |
Guy better calm down and listen to ur dad. Abomination is abomination. If u have been sleeping with her better go on ur knees n pray very well because surely the consequences of such act will befall u.@25 ur mind don Don dey for marriage hmmm#youneverknowwomen#� check out ur Bible for lineages marriage |
Re: I Want To Marry From My Village Against Everyone's Will please help me by Analysiscorner: 6:51am On Feb 22, 2020 |
Since you are related by blood, please don't marry her. Listen to your father. You might as well make further enquiries from other elders in your village. |
Re: I Want To Marry From My Village Against Everyone's Will please help me by adioolayi(m): 6:52am On Feb 22, 2020 |
Inferno001:I really like your brilliant submission and I totally agree. The marriage in question here is not intertribal, interracial or interreligious one...but marrying a lady from the SAME VILLAGE...not city or town. The parents may know what curse, dos and don't of their ancestral history...we may not believe those things are real or not..but why taking such a huge risk For me, the op and his girlfriend should moveon. |
Re: I Want To Marry From My Village Against Everyone's Will please help me by Bestview1: 6:53am On Feb 22, 2020 |
mainaugustine:Please tell him ,na childishness dey worry am Em never see anything self let alone keeping a promise of not to cheat hahahaha��� |
Re: I Want To Marry From My Village Against Everyone's Will please help me by Dizzyrascal(m): 6:56am On Feb 22, 2020 |
Mandem12:you seem like a man in love. Look, my honest advice is for you to get her pregnant and damn the consequences.....love must always prevail....she is not your sister |
Re: I Want To Marry From My Village Against Everyone's Will please help me by 77up(m): 6:58am On Feb 22, 2020 |
Slawormir:Chai Igbo eh May be the girl na osu |
Re: I Want To Marry From My Village Against Everyone's Will please help me by michlins(m): 7:00am On Feb 22, 2020 |
spafu:in North cousins marry and in East village don't intermarry. Do in Rome what Romans do. It's possible there's a sibling of yours you and your dad might not know about even. |
Re: I Want To Marry From My Village Against Everyone's Will please help me by Inferno001(m): 7:00am On Feb 22, 2020 |
adioolayi:... I understand you sir.. Let the OP make sure he investigates the family link and be true to himself about his findings so as to make sure he isn't committing incest..if what his dad is saying is true, let him move on and love will find him but if not, he should show genuine proof and reasons to his family that they aren't in anyway linked...I had this notion igbos liked marrying from within o...I'm shocked at this... |
Re: I Want To Marry From My Village Against Everyone's Will please help me by NwaEzefuNaMba(m): 7:03am On Feb 22, 2020 |
MorataFC: Which God? |
Re: I Want To Marry From My Village Against Everyone's Will please help me by juman(m): 7:11am On Feb 22, 2020 |
OP need to ask questions more why they are stopping him. Everyday of life people marry from their villages. |
Re: I Want To Marry From My Village Against Everyone's Will please help me by Geesaintagape: 7:13am On Feb 22, 2020 |
Our.tradition in Igbo land.is so complicated that I don't observe personally. |
Re: I Want To Marry From My Village Against Everyone's Will please help me by juman(m): 7:15am On Feb 22, 2020 |
idonhammer: This post make me laugh. The man became mad not because of marriage but he got mental sickness or use of drugs. Even in islam cousins can marry one another. 1 Like |
Re: I Want To Marry From My Village Against Everyone's Will please help me by raybaba97(m): 7:15am On Feb 22, 2020 |
My guy, I'm not married so I can't tell you what to do, but I can tell you something. All these people telling you mutation and death know nothing about why incest is actually bad. You can marry her and nothing will happen. In fact, since it's against your tradition. that makes it even safer since new blood has been coming in for generations... There is no royal family left in Europe that isn't related to the UK queen in one way or another, and they are still bleeping each other. don't worry about any of those kind of consequence. It only happens when incest is consistent over generations |
Re: I Want To Marry From My Village Against Everyone's Will please help me by Dizzyrascal(m): 7:19am On Feb 22, 2020 |
4xplore:I dey tell you!!!....in the first place how can everybody from the same village be considered brothers and sisters |
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