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Re: What Advice Would You Give A Brother Who Just Turned 20? by ofiko123(m): 3:01pm On Feb 24, 2020 |
Learn a skill, be serious with your studies if you are in the university or polytechnic, above all draw close to God.. 2 Likes |
Re: What Advice Would You Give A Brother Who Just Turned 20? by Nobody: 3:02pm On Feb 24, 2020 |
Do Yahoo Do Yahoo Do Yahoo |
Re: What Advice Would You Give A Brother Who Just Turned 20? by Schedulee: 3:03pm On Feb 24, 2020 |
LordFriar:My advice is that, get to know God more, he will direct your path. Good luck! 1 Like |
Re: What Advice Would You Give A Brother Who Just Turned 20? by property123: 3:05pm On Feb 24, 2020 |
Go learn a skill. 1 Like |
Re: What Advice Would You Give A Brother Who Just Turned 20? by okayode1(m): 3:05pm On Feb 24, 2020 |
My Advice for him is to invest in his future... With Snowfox, his entire world is renewed. All he needs is a Good WAEC result
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Re: What Advice Would You Give A Brother Who Just Turned 20? by Galaxydon1(m): 3:05pm On Feb 24, 2020 |
Life is hard |
Re: What Advice Would You Give A Brother Who Just Turned 20? by champeeon(m): 3:06pm On Feb 24, 2020 |
1. Fear God Ecc 12:1 2. Be happy Ecc 11:9 3. You are not young to be great. 1 Timothy 4:12 4. Flee lust at all cost. 2 Timothy 2:22 5. You are wise 2 Timothy 3:15 6. Don't waste time. Eph 5:16-17 7. Make good friends. They will get you what money can and can't buy. Prov 13:20 8. You are not too young to follow your dream. Gen 37:2,5 9. You are not too young to find love. Prov 5:18 10. Don't be scared of making mistakes. Prov 24:16 5 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: What Advice Would You Give A Brother Who Just Turned 20? by AreaFada2: 3:07pm On Feb 24, 2020 |
MadelnNigeria:I was discussing same with a friend lately. Having kids early is the best. Many of regret not doing so now. |
Re: What Advice Would You Give A Brother Who Just Turned 20? by auduvictor7: 3:08pm On Feb 24, 2020 |
Hurry and leave your parents house to avoid "see finish: lolllllllllll 2 Likes |
Re: What Advice Would You Give A Brother Who Just Turned 20? by Weaveworx: 3:09pm On Feb 24, 2020 |
LordFriar: You are a wise person, I never asked this question but here are some tips I can give. 1) If you are done with school, get your Masters's degree immediately, don't wait. 2) Be careful about women, focus on developing yourself. Try as much as possible to steer clear of breaking hearts, I mean it. 3) Save money!!! 4) Write your goals down, business goals, personal goals, spiritual goals, family goals, etc. Every successful person I have met has clearly written goals. google "vision board". 5) Determine what you want to do in life early. if its Human resources - do it, if its Business development - Focus on it. Get certifications in your chosen field. 6) Take life seriously, achieve things early. 7) Life has a spiritual aspect to it, there are generational flows so hold on to God. Take Jesus seriously. 5 Likes |
Re: What Advice Would You Give A Brother Who Just Turned 20? by AreaFada2: 3:09pm On Feb 24, 2020 |
MadelnNigeria:I was discussing same with a friend lately. Having kids early is the best. Many of regret not doing so now. What we consider wisdom and seriousness can become foolishness if care is not taken. |
Re: What Advice Would You Give A Brother Who Just Turned 20? by MarxisGlaaiback: 3:09pm On Feb 24, 2020 |
okay * stop watching Nig. movies *Learn a skill, with passion *Run from girls, now till u are 25 *Have focus in anything u do *Think of how money go enter ur pocket like u want to run mad, if it means to sell crayfish, do it * Put God first in anything *Beware of family ties and village people *Live a normal life, * Dont do crime *Dont do yahoo yahoo * Dont do money ritual and call it yahoo Think of how to be like Dangote I can go on n on. . . Finally always ask for Gods grace thank me when u are 30 3 Likes |
Re: What Advice Would You Give A Brother Who Just Turned 20? by cooljoe(m): 3:10pm On Feb 24, 2020 |
I wish somebody would have told me, babe Someday, these will be the good old days All the love you won't forget And all these reckless nights you won't regret Someday soon, your whole life's gonna change You'll miss the magic of these good old days |
Re: What Advice Would You Give A Brother Who Just Turned 20? by CJ310(m): 3:10pm On Feb 24, 2020 |
The next 10 years of your life are very very important. Don’t waste them on vices (women and alcohol/drugs) and if you had done all of that in your teens, well done, time to grow up. Start your career or business and build on it. Focus all your energy on making it work. In between you may be lucky to find love, IDK. 2 Likes |
Re: What Advice Would You Give A Brother Who Just Turned 20? by SweetCunt97(f): 3:10pm On Feb 24, 2020 |
Hustle hard. University relationships are bullcrap |
Re: What Advice Would You Give A Brother Who Just Turned 20? by dalass(f): 3:10pm On Feb 24, 2020 |
Hbd!!! Shun cultism Don't do drugs Study/ Work to get comfortable Enjoy your life with sense All da best |
Re: What Advice Would You Give A Brother Who Just Turned 20? by frugal(m): 3:11pm On Feb 24, 2020 |
LordFriar:You have only 10 years to make it; 20-30. Don't waste it. 1 Like |
Re: What Advice Would You Give A Brother Who Just Turned 20? by SweetCunt97(f): 3:12pm On Feb 24, 2020 |
frugal:So it's hopeless for those in their 30s and 40s ba 2 Likes |
Re: What Advice Would You Give A Brother Who Just Turned 20? by Miraj22(f): 3:13pm On Feb 24, 2020 |
The best thing you can do for yourself now is to learn a skill, start now. Try and graduate with a second class upper or First Class in case u might want to further your studies with a scholarship. 1 Like |
Re: What Advice Would You Give A Brother Who Just Turned 20? by mistercharles: 3:14pm On Feb 24, 2020 |
LordFriar:Baba learn as many skills as possible o, forget about buying expensive phones. Go invest in yourself |
Re: What Advice Would You Give A Brother Who Just Turned 20? by deltateam: 3:16pm On Feb 24, 2020 |
BuddhaPalm: Its not about dying but knowing your eternal destination. |
Re: What Advice Would You Give A Brother Who Just Turned 20? by PWAPUTI2010(m): 3:19pm On Feb 24, 2020 |
Let him thank Jesus Christ as Fury as Fury did. |
Re: What Advice Would You Give A Brother Who Just Turned 20? by ola6: 3:20pm On Feb 24, 2020 |
Op 1) forget women 2) have fun. Things would sort themselves out 3) learn a practical skill and be the best at it. Money follows value. 4) Stay close to God. It's a cold world out there. 5) Your helper is not your brother or sister but the least person you expect 6) start a business early 7) try to discipline your mind and tongue You'll get there because you've shown wisdom by asking this question. 1 Like |
Re: What Advice Would You Give A Brother Who Just Turned 20? by Champneys: 3:20pm On Feb 24, 2020 |
LordFriar: Eat lots of vegetables, fruits and drink water. |
Re: What Advice Would You Give A Brother Who Just Turned 20? by deleo16(m): 3:21pm On Feb 24, 2020 |
Learn a high paying skill e.g machine learning data scientist and be good at it learn how sales and marketing (wether offline or online) in your 20s work as if all depends on you don't wait till u get to your 30s in your 30s you should be relaxing more compare to 20s .when others are partying you get to work in your 20s build in your 20s when others are in their 30s working ,building you should be relaxing and flexing my 2cent � Health wise High BP is on the high now u need to keep fit for your 30s and above Excercise Reduce sugar Moringa and tumeric power plus fruit should be taken occasionally Healthy eating 4 Likes |
Re: What Advice Would You Give A Brother Who Just Turned 20? by lanreSamson: 3:21pm On Feb 24, 2020 |
Stay off drugs |
Re: What Advice Would You Give A Brother Who Just Turned 20? by iLegendd(m): 3:22pm On Feb 24, 2020 |
1. Learn how to handle women, not how to sleep around 2. Learn how to make money with a digital skill, so you can make money while you sleep and not slave on a 5-9 job 3. Learn how to manage/invest money so you won't slip back to square zero 4. Exercise and stay healthy as you run away from addictions you won't be able to quit easily like smoking, excess TV/movies, drugs, gambling, gaming, or excess masturbation/porn 5. Help those you can help around you, but don't be forced into helping against your wish 6. Finally, be a man — a real man who makes his decision and not easily influenced by the society or peer-pressure That's all for now and all the best. 9 Likes |
Re: What Advice Would You Give A Brother Who Just Turned 20? by stubbornman(m): 3:25pm On Feb 24, 2020 |
Stay away from masturbation 3 Likes |
Re: What Advice Would You Give A Brother Who Just Turned 20? by Nobody: 3:26pm On Feb 24, 2020 |
LordFriar: Search for Marxxx, focus mind, Jarus, and Xfire on Nairaland. Shun cultism ,shun romance for now and face your studies, get exposure through books, movies and eat well 1 Like |
Re: What Advice Would You Give A Brother Who Just Turned 20? by psalmuelwater(m): 3:28pm On Feb 24, 2020 |
Gofwane:Ha. Even me that spends 1 -2k on drinks in two weeks still dey think say dem curse me. So what you are trying to tell me is that am ok and fine, nothing is wrong with me. 3 Likes |
Re: What Advice Would You Give A Brother Who Just Turned 20? by Spectrum22: 3:29pm On Feb 24, 2020 |
In every thing you do, put God first. Rich people become richer by spending like the poor while the poor gets poorer by spending like the rich. Money is not the problem of man, the problem is how you can use it wisely. When you find the one you want to marry, remember, don't for the sake of love tell your partner everything about your family because when things go south you will be at her mercy. At that time there is absolutely nothing you can do to un-say the things you've said. In tough situations, man up, stand for your dignity, don't run from pain or else you will live a life of regret. You can't please everyone, so don't even try. Love your wife and children but don't spoil them. Correct when necessary, be harsh if the situation call for it. That's why you are the head. When you fall, take responsibility. When you succeed, share the love. Bros, I've been in the game for so long. I know what I'm talking about. 5 Likes 1 Share |
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