Re: How Do I Tell My Parents I Have A Daughter? by showafrica(m): 5:16pm On Mar 10, 2020 |
NextD18: The normal me would have condemned your waywardness and unequivocally call out your evil plans and intention of destroying his marriage.
But I'll ignore!
My advice is; Kindly open up to your parents, you did not kill or steal from them, what happened to you is a mistake and something that can happen to anyone in different forms. They are your parents and won't kill or denounce you as their daughter for making a mistake. Open up to them and let them know how sorry you are to disappoint them.
The earlier the better!! Probably a karma to the parents.. May be stolen community money was used to send her to school. Corrective measure must start from somewhere... May be by confessing to the parents first, then let everyone cry and beg God for forgiveness. Life will start afresh in a good way. |
Re: How Do I Tell My Parents I Have A Daughter? by Bimpe29: 5:16pm On Mar 10, 2020 |
What a daughter! |
Re: How Do I Tell My Parents I Have A Daughter? by Nobody: 5:17pm On Mar 10, 2020 |
tstx:
You are obviously a kid You registered in 2017 but you have more than 9000 posts already,seems you live on nairaland. Jobless dunce |
Re: How Do I Tell My Parents I Have A Daughter? by VicThory(m): 5:17pm On Mar 10, 2020 |
stupidity: It's seems Seun is paying someone to post fake stories on this section. Something is not right.
Seun this is my area of specialty o!!! Employ me abeg, instead of wasting away here!! So your specialties are being stupid? |
Re: How Do I Tell My Parents I Have A Daughter? by EgunMogaji2: 5:17pm On Mar 10, 2020 |
‘nuther super story.
Motor don jam am. 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Tell My Parents I Have A Daughter? by Pataricatering(f): 5:17pm On Mar 10, 2020 |
Are u sure ur not d one with chicken brain like this ? This story is so obviously fake - ud have to be dumb as a rock to believe it ! GOFRONT: He told you he was married but now divorced and then still living in the same apartment with her.......How else can a lie be more glaring and Obvious??.......Our girls and their vegetable seed brain sha!!!
Thank God it's a Man's World... 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Tell My Parents I Have A Daughter? by Olakunleyakub(m): 5:18pm On Mar 10, 2020 |
Just summoned the courage to tell them the truth.what will be will be but you too know try @ all. |
Re: How Do I Tell My Parents I Have A Daughter? by Ay04z(m): 5:19pm On Mar 10, 2020 |
.. 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Tell My Parents I Have A Daughter? by chatinent: 5:20pm On Mar 10, 2020 |
Fake. 2 Likes |
Re: How Do I Tell My Parents I Have A Daughter? by Nobody: 5:21pm On Mar 10, 2020 |
Nonsense fake story.
So people could not see the lies in the poorly written Nollywood script.
His wife was 8 months pregnant and you fought with him so he Left angrily. After three months you both met and he told you this same 8 months pregnant wife is already pregnant again.
Please Ladies in the house, is it possible to get pregnant again in less than two months after giving birth? 2 Likes |
Re: How Do I Tell My Parents I Have A Daughter? by Nat404: 5:21pm On Mar 10, 2020 |
Yes, absolutely fake. 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Tell My Parents I Have A Daughter? by Nobody: 5:21pm On Mar 10, 2020 |
Shouldn't have named that baby 'Joy', at least her first name should be "Degree''. |
Re: How Do I Tell My Parents I Have A Daughter? by 2Odds101(f): 5:22pm On Mar 10, 2020 |
Telling them you've given birth wouldn't be a problem atleast you be woman..But the aspect of you quitting school is what I don't understand ..
But Come ooo..so you mean you've been collecting school fees,up keep money,house rent and gbogbo ti gbo from your parent,for the past three years when you know you basically quitted the essence of you being abroad.. How else can one define a wicked child ?... |
Re: How Do I Tell My Parents I Have A Daughter? by bigtt76(f): 5:23pm On Mar 10, 2020 |
1. Pick up your phone 2. Dial their numbers or buzz them on WhatsApp 3. Dad - Congratulations ....you're now a grandfather or Mum - Congratulations you're now a grandmother 4. Ask your mum if she's interested in Omugor ...if yes prepare her flight 5. Ask your dad for 'The List' ...he will understand 6. Case Close Just follow the sequence listed above ...no addition or subtraction ....no ra ra - it works right out of the box thank me later Dynamic33: I met my baby daddy three years ago. We met on my 21st birthday. I went out to the nightclub to celebrate my birthday and I met this handsome 32 years old. He couldn’t stop staring at me until he approached me and introduced himself and we exchanged numbers.
He called me the next day, we chatted for about an hour and he told me he was married. He has two kids but they now are separated. In the process of divorce but they are still living together, separate bedrooms while he is waiting for the house he is building to finish so he can move out.
I was jealous and angry at him. I told him he is lying to me, they are still together and still fucking he just want to use me then dump me but he promised me that there was nothing between him and the wife, and that they had stop having sex when she was pregnant with the second baby and the baby was now 8 months and he has proof that there was nothing between them.
We were meeting at my place and staying together until 2-3am. Sometimes he doesn’t go back until the next day and on those days that we don’t meet, we chatted on the phone until late 1-2am while he was still in the house so I was happy that there’s nothing between them.
He brought the children to me, I fell so much in love with them and will be spending the day with them and it felt great to bond with them.
Then later I got pregnant, he told me to abort it because they are in the process of divorce. If the court finds out he impregnated someone somewhere else everything will go against him. I told him not to worry I will keep it as a secret until he sorts out the divorce but he insisted that I should abort. I didn’t like it. We had a misunderstanding. In anger I hit him with my heels shoes and injured him on the forehead. He was bleeding but he didn’t fight me back. He just left and I was very sorry. I kept begging him, asking for forgiveness, he kept ignoring me and for three months we didn’t contact each other because he was still mad at me.
Then few months later, he called and asked to meet me and I begged him for forgiveness for everything I did to him and I accepted to abort the pregnancy. I was already 5 months gone and two days before the abortion he came to my house and told me that while we’re on the break, he was stressed and started drinking and mistakenly had sex with his wife and she is also pregnant. He said that she lured him to have sex to stop the divorce process but he do not care about it. He will go ahead with the divorce because he still loves me and wants to be with me and he pleaded with me to do the abortion for him so he could win the divorce and custody of his children. I was very angry that I threw a plastic chair on him and asked him to leave my house and to never come back that it was over between us. I deleted and blocked his numbers and removed all his pictures on my phone. He was begging my friends to tell me to forgive him but I rejected him and I now have my beautiful daughter, my joy, my everything.
But the only problem I have, my parents sent me abroad to study, I dropped out three years ago and they don’t know I'm not longer in school and that I now have a child because they keep sending me money every month thinking I’m still in school. When I’m not so on December I did traveled back home to my parents and I left my daughter with a friend for 2 whole weeks. I couldn’t sleep or eat and my parents said Now that I’m in my final year after finishing it, they want me to come back home for good by July and where will I leave my child ? I don’t know how to tell my parents about my child? And also that I left school three years ago my dad is very strict and am scared.
Please I’m very sorry for the long post and advice me on how to tell them please? |
Re: How Do I Tell My Parents I Have A Daughter? by BanevsJoker(m): 5:24pm On Mar 10, 2020 |
stupidity: It's seems Seun is paying someone to post fake stories on this section. Something is not right.
Seun this is my area of specialty o!!! Employ me abeg, instead of wasting away here!! Nairaland Joro. 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Tell My Parents I Have A Daughter? by condralbedez: 5:24pm On Mar 10, 2020 |
why is it that MOD refused posting my posts?But some irrelevant post make front page.... |
Re: How Do I Tell My Parents I Have A Daughter? by Nat404: 5:24pm On Mar 10, 2020 |
LoyalHustler: Nonsense fake story.
So people could not see the lies in the poorly written Nollywood script.
His wife was 8 months pregnant and you fought with him so he Left angrily. After three months you both met and he told you this same 8 months pregnant wife is already pregnant again.
Please Ladies in the house, is it possible to get pregnant again in less than two months after giving birth? The fake part of the story was dropping out of school for three years. The young lady is silly to have posted a fabricated story here. 2 Likes |
Re: How Do I Tell My Parents I Have A Daughter? by lenbrintryl(m): 5:25pm On Mar 10, 2020 |
you skooling and u not working. how on this earth will your parent send u money and you felt so comfortable. i dunno what to call you. you better ignore your parent decision and hustle over there, get enough money to renew your stay. huslte hard and enroll yasef back to skool. your parent dont have to know why...once u started working and send your mum enough dollars, i bet your mum will be d intermediary btw you and ur dad 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Tell My Parents I Have A Daughter? by Akhagbenidestin(m): 5:25pm On Mar 10, 2020 |
Pregnating a woman outside Nigeria is a part of education too |
Re: How Do I Tell My Parents I Have A Daughter? by Karleb(m): 5:25pm On Mar 10, 2020 |
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Re: How Do I Tell My Parents I Have A Daughter? by Dgr8hassiE(m): 5:25pm On Mar 10, 2020 |
Richy4:
Usually, I don't like stories without paragraph.. However, I managed to read this one... and will take paracetamol for my effort...
I have one question. Why was your VISA not canceled when you dropped out of college? Just asking because every good institution will alert the Immigration authority.. when the funding was not coming The wise man has spoken. May God bless your mama for giving birth to u. This is just a script, lie from the pit of hell.
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Re: How Do I Tell My Parents I Have A Daughter? by NairaMaster1(m): 5:26pm On Mar 10, 2020 |
Dynamic33: I met my baby daddy three years ago. We met on my 21st birthday. I went out to the nightclub to celebrate my birthday and I met this handsome 32 years old. He couldn’t stop staring at me until he approached me and introduced himself and we exchanged numbers.
He called me the next day, we chatted for about an hour and he told me he was married. He has two kids but they now are separated. In the process of divorce but they are still living together, separate bedrooms while he is waiting for the house he is building to finish so he can move out.
I was jealous and angry at him. I told him he is lying to me, they are still together and still fucking he just want to use me then dump me but he promised me that there was nothing between him and the wife, and that they had stop having sex when she was pregnant with the second baby and the baby was now 8 months and he has proof that there was nothing between them.
We were meeting at my place and staying together until 2-3am. Sometimes he doesn’t go back until the next day and on those days that we don’t meet, we chatted on the phone until late 1-2am while he was still in the house so I was happy that there’s nothing between them.
He brought the children to me, I fell so much in love with them and will be spending the day with them and it felt great to bond with them.
Then later I got pregnant, he told me to abort it because they are in the process of divorce. If the court finds out he impregnated someone somewhere else everything will go against him. I told him not to worry I will keep it as a secret until he sorts out the divorce but he insisted that I should abort. I didn’t like it. We had a misunderstanding. In anger I hit him with my heels shoes and injured him on the forehead. He was bleeding but he didn’t fight me back. He just left and I was very sorry. I kept begging him, asking for forgiveness, he kept ignoring me and for three months we didn’t contact each other because he was still mad at me.
Then few months later, he called and asked to meet me and I begged him for forgiveness for everything I did to him and I accepted to abort the pregnancy. I was already 5 months gone and two days before the abortion he came to my house and told me that while we’re on the break, he was stressed and started drinking and mistakenly had sex with his wife and she is also pregnant. He said that she lured him to have sex to stop the divorce process but he do not care about it. He will go ahead with the divorce because he still loves me and wants to be with me and he pleaded with me to do the abortion for him so he could win the divorce and custody of his children. I was very angry that I threw a plastic chair on him and asked him to leave my house and to never come back that it was over between us. I deleted and blocked his numbers and removed all his pictures on my phone. He was begging my friends to tell me to forgive him but I rejected him and I now have my beautiful daughter, my joy, my everything.
But the only problem I have, my parents sent me abroad to study, I dropped out three years ago and they don’t know I'm not longer in school and that I now have a child because they keep sending me money every month thinking I’m still in school. When I’m not so on December I did traveled back home to my parents and I left my daughter with a friend for 2 whole weeks. I couldn’t sleep or eat and my parents said Now that I’m in my final year after finishing it, they want me to come back home for good by July and where will I leave my child ? I don’t know how to tell my parents about my child? And also that I left school three years ago my dad is very strict and am scared.
Please I’m very sorry for the long post and advice me on how to tell them please? Chai |
Re: How Do I Tell My Parents I Have A Daughter? by ussv: 5:26pm On Mar 10, 2020 |
Having a baby is not a bad thing, look for a subtle way to break the news to them and assure them that you will surely return back to school when the condition permits. |
Re: How Do I Tell My Parents I Have A Daughter? by JayPeeOham: 5:26pm On Mar 10, 2020 |
When you get to your parents' house, repeat the sentence below:
"Daddy! Mummy!! You sent me abroad to get a certificate, but I came back with a baby....Here is your grand child!!!"
Case closed!!! |
Re: How Do I Tell My Parents I Have A Daughter? by Akhagbenidestin(m): 5:27pm On Mar 10, 2020 |
CsRockefeller: Save yourself all the stress and tell them what happened. Let it all, no holds barred.
You might not go back to school but it Pregnating a woman outside Nigeria is a part of education too the pain you already are in. |
Re: How Do I Tell My Parents I Have A Daughter? by Seunpaul01(m): 5:28pm On Mar 10, 2020 |
The same way you enumerate here. |
Re: How Do I Tell My Parents I Have A Daughter? by cashcity: 5:29pm On Mar 10, 2020 |
Oooooh. The life of another feminist is being messed up... Sorry 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Tell My Parents I Have A Daughter? by Bamz(m): 5:30pm On Mar 10, 2020 |
stupidity: It's seems Seun is paying someone to post fake stories on this section. Something is not right.
Seun this is my area of specialty o!!! Employ me abeg, instead of wasting away here!! I sink so too. If I say anymore, I am in trouble. *in Mourinho's voice* 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Tell My Parents I Have A Daughter? by Mateen1000: 5:30pm On Mar 10, 2020 |
condralbedez: why is it that MOD refused posting my posts?But some irrelevant post make front page.... Because the MODs cooked up and wrote the fake story 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Do I Tell My Parents I Have A Daughter? by Chibokgame: 5:32pm On Mar 10, 2020 |
Just bring the result to your parents. No need to worry, I hope the baby resembles you?
Finally, Congratulations. |
Re: How Do I Tell My Parents I Have A Daughter? by Nobody: 5:32pm On Mar 10, 2020 |
Dynamic33: I met my baby daddy three years ago. We met on my 21st birthday. I went out to the nightclub to celebrate my birthday and I met this handsome 32 years old. He couldn’t stop staring at me until he approached me and introduced himself and we exchanged numbers.
He called me the next day, we chatted for about an hour and he told me he was married. He has two kids but they now are separated. In the process of divorce but they are still living together, separate bedrooms while he is waiting for the house he is building to finish so he can move out.
I was jealous and angry at him. I told him he is lying to me, they are still together and still fucking he just want to use me then dump me but he promised me that there was nothing between him and the wife, and that they had stop having sex when she was pregnant with the second baby and the baby was now 8 months and he has proof that there was nothing between them.
We were meeting at my place and staying together until 2-3am. Sometimes he doesn’t go back until the next day and on those days that we don’t meet, we chatted on the phone until late 1-2am while he was still in the house so I was happy that there’s nothing between them.
He brought the children to me, I fell so much in love with them and will be spending the day with them and it felt great to bond with them.
Then later I got pregnant, he told me to abort it because they are in the process of divorce. If the court finds out he impregnated someone somewhere else everything will go against him. I told him not to worry I will keep it as a secret until he sorts out the divorce but he insisted that I should abort. I didn’t like it. We had a misunderstanding. In anger I hit him with my heels shoes and injured him on the forehead. He was bleeding but he didn’t fight me back. He just left and I was very sorry. I kept begging him, asking for forgiveness, he kept ignoring me and for three months we didn’t contact each other because he was still mad at me.
Then few months later, he called and asked to meet me and I begged him for forgiveness for everything I did to him and I accepted to abort the pregnancy. I was already 5 months gone and two days before the abortion he came to my house and told me that while we’re on the break, he was stressed and started drinking and mistakenly had sex with his wife and she is also pregnant. He said that she lured him to have sex to stop the divorce process but he do not care about it. He will go ahead with the divorce because he still loves me and wants to be with me and he pleaded with me to do the abortion for him so he could win the divorce and custody of his children. I was very angry that I threw a plastic chair on him and asked him to leave my house and to never come back that it was over between us. I deleted and blocked his numbers and removed all his pictures on my phone. He was begging my friends to tell me to forgive him but I rejected him and I now have my beautiful daughter, my joy, my everything.
But the only problem I have, my parents sent me abroad to study, I dropped out three years ago and they don’t know I'm not longer in school and that I now have a child because they keep sending me money every month thinking I’m still in school. When I’m not so on December I did traveled back home to my parents and I left my daughter with a friend for 2 whole weeks. I couldn’t sleep or eat and my parents said Now that I’m in my final year after finishing it, they want me to come back home for good by July and where will I leave my child ? I don’t know how to tell my parents about my child? And also that I left school three years ago my dad is very strict and am scared.
Please I’m very sorry for the long post and advice me on how to tell them please? Send me an e-mail request, let's talk privately |
Re: How Do I Tell My Parents I Have A Daughter? by jaxxy(m): 5:33pm On Mar 10, 2020 |
Dynamic33: I met my baby daddy three years ago. We met on my 21st birthday. I went out to the nightclub to celebrate my birthday and I met this handsome 32 years old. He couldn’t stop staring at me until he approached me and introduced himself and we exchanged numbers.
He called me the next day, we chatted for about an hour and he told me he was married. He has two kids but they now are separated. In the process of divorce but they are still living together, separate bedrooms while he is waiting for the house he is building to finish so he can move out.
I was jealous and angry at him. I told him he is lying to me, they are still together and still fucking he just want to use me then dump me but he promised me that there was nothing between him and the wife, and that they had stop having sex when she was pregnant with the second baby and the baby was now 8 months and he has proof that there was nothing between them.
We were meeting at my place and staying together until 2-3am. Sometimes he doesn’t go back until the next day and on those days that we don’t meet, we chatted on the phone until late 1-2am while he was still in the house so I was happy that there’s nothing between them.
He brought the children to me, I fell so much in love with them and will be spending the day with them and it felt great to bond with them.
Then later I got pregnant, he told me to abort it because they are in the process of divorce. If the court finds out he impregnated someone somewhere else everything will go against him. I told him not to worry I will keep it as a secret until he sorts out the divorce but he insisted that I should abort. I didn’t like it. We had a misunderstanding. In anger I hit him with my heels shoes and injured him on the forehead. He was bleeding but he didn’t fight me back. He just left and I was very sorry. I kept begging him, asking for forgiveness, he kept ignoring me and for three months we didn’t contact each other because he was still mad at me.
Then few months later, he called and asked to meet me and I begged him for forgiveness for everything I did to him and I accepted to abort the pregnancy. I was already 5 months gone and two days before the abortion he came to my house and told me that while we’re on the break, he was stressed and started drinking and mistakenly had sex with his wife and she is also pregnant. He said that she lured him to have sex to stop the divorce process but he do not care about it. He will go ahead with the divorce because he still loves me and wants to be with me and he pleaded with me to do the abortion for him so he could win the divorce and custody of his children. I was very angry that I threw a plastic chair on him and asked him to leave my house and to never come back that it was over between us. I deleted and blocked his numbers and removed all his pictures on my phone. He was begging my friends to tell me to forgive him but I rejected him and I now have my beautiful daughter, my joy, my everything.
But the only problem I have, my parents sent me abroad to study, I dropped out three years ago and they don’t know I'm not longer in school and that I now have a child because they keep sending me money every month thinking I’m still in school. When I’m not so on December I did traveled back home to my parents and I left my daughter with a friend for 2 whole weeks. I couldn’t sleep or eat and my parents said Now that I’m in my final year after finishing it, they want me to come back home for good by July and where will I leave my child ? I don’t know how to tell my parents about my child? And also that I left school three years ago my dad is very strict and am scared.
Please I’m very sorry for the long post and advice me on how to tell them please? What's ur reason for dropping out of school? Cos of the distractions from this reckless man or cos u had a baby? Also why didn't u suspend or differ it and go back afterwards. I believe such arrangements can be made abroad I assume. Lastly u had a baby and it's a gift from God, don't hide her, tell anyone in ur family circle who is most understanding and based on he/she's advice proceed with breaking this info to ur family and ur dad especially. He will get mad bt he has no option bt to love this grandchild and daughter. I hope Also what are ur future plans now? U must know this precisely. If u want to work and continue Skol or smtn. Try to get that sorted and I'm sure finishing ur education will make them happy in addition to the child. Don't give up and keep it head up. People misplace lust for love and mix things up. That's what got u here with the idiotic man who shud know better. Cheers |