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Re: How Did You Find Out Your Partner Was Cheating On You? by Heineken(m): 5:57pm On Mar 22, 2020
LordAzubuike:

If you check you'd be disappointed because 95% of Nigerian ladies cheat. So it's better you don't check at all.
madam it's better to check truly to know how far.
Re: How Did You Find Out Your Partner Was Cheating On You? by IamgratefulLord(f): 5:58pm On Mar 22, 2020
Tabularasa1:
She had sexually transmitted diseases and hid it form me I'm a doctor and would have treated her and bought drugs for her free. But she hid it cuz she was fuckiig someone else. Stumbled on her prescription.
Chai!! Lol cheesy
Re: How Did You Find Out Your Partner Was Cheating On You? by Heineken(m): 5:59pm On Mar 22, 2020
WisdomHunter:


Bro please what is name of the app used and how to use it?
lol
Re: How Did You Find Out Your Partner Was Cheating On You? by Mrpojj(m): 5:59pm On Mar 22, 2020
kristen12:
How did you ever find out a person you were dating was cheating on you?

I had his facebook password so I was reading his chats.

Never check your partners phone if you're not emotionally strong.

Omo me I go sneek ur password oh, I can't be in the dark
Re: How Did You Find Out Your Partner Was Cheating On You? by XhosaNostra(f): 6:00pm On Mar 22, 2020
franugo:


I've been trying to understand where his animosity was coming from cause ur comment he quoted wasn't even heated or anything bad...


Some people sha just like to blow off at the slightest or no provocation sef

He's just looking for attention, don't mind him smiley
Re: How Did You Find Out Your Partner Was Cheating On You? by Audacious19(m): 6:01pm On Mar 22, 2020
akinszz:
you must be amotekún FBI grin grin grin
how i go fit unrape this theory nah em dey worry me shaa my instincts had never failed me
Re: How Did You Find Out Your Partner Was Cheating On You? by centboy123456(m): 6:01pm On Mar 22, 2020
ekwerendi:


Download via Google
OK on Google not on play store
and I will I get the right now can u help share the link
and after that how can I set up the app

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Re: How Did You Find Out Your Partner Was Cheating On You? by nwafresh(m): 6:02pm On Mar 22, 2020
positivevibez:
I used a spy app called mobile tracker omo I nearly faint see pictures see call logs confronted her the usual tears followed then she told me she's fatherless mom can't sustain her ....


Can I pm you bro?
Re: How Did You Find Out Your Partner Was Cheating On You? by Audacious19(m): 6:02pm On Mar 22, 2020
sylve11:



What else do you want? cool
I wan catch am oh any suggestion?
Re: How Did You Find Out Your Partner Was Cheating On You? by Nobody: 6:03pm On Mar 22, 2020
XhosaNostra:


Lol, so you'd rather stay in the dark & be stupid than face reality?
The way I like the truth, I prefer it over lies any time of the day, so I can sleep peacefully knowing that I've removed at least one stress from my life.
Honestly I don't get why people say you should never check your partner's phone...some even use trust as an excuse...I guess they'd rather remain stupid

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Re: How Did You Find Out Your Partner Was Cheating On You? by emkz: 6:03pm On Mar 22, 2020
Some guys are giving cheating women credit claiming they are smarter cheaters, brilliant and hide cheating better. A cheating woman is not so smart and would be caught by a discerning man. Why? Because once a woman starts cheating, something must give. Her attitude towards her man would change. She'd start "hating" him without justification. Some would even deny him access to their bodies while others would minimise time spent with him. The reason is that not many people are good at compartmentalizing. And cheating fuels a woman's power in a relationship and she'd use that power, albeit, wrongly. No cheating woman can compartmentalize. If you think I am lying, ask cheating wives/girlfriends how they were caught. They'd tell you they could not compartmentalize successfully and one silly mistake blew everything up.

I knew an ex was cheating because my gut feeling told me so and there were too many clues. I only scouted for the evidence later to confirm my suspicion. Cheating shows a lack of integrity. If you start feeling the need to check your partner's phones or to verify their movement, 10 cases out of 10, they are running rings around you. So a cheating man or woman is not smart for if they weigh the result of their actions ten years on, they'd not cheat.

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Re: How Did You Find Out Your Partner Was Cheating On You? by brayce9(m): 6:03pm On Mar 22, 2020
Oblitz:
I hacked everything. Received her mails, Facebook messages and WhatsApp chats. What I saw enhhhhh! Till today I cannot look at some messages.

Devil dey learn from some naija girls

Abeg i will like to learn this hacking can u help me?
Re: How Did You Find Out Your Partner Was Cheating On You? by Chirowman(m): 6:03pm On Mar 22, 2020
i got a lot of experiences but the worst is my girl has been begging me to visit her hostel and i don't like going to any girl house.so that day she insisted i come over i was really not feeling too great about going to her hostel,so i left my house by 10 pm went to her lodge and she cooked rice. i was gulping the rice with her when she got a call and was like baby my uncle that came back from overseas want to visit me please come and be going tomorrow you visit. i got upset left the food my mind already told me what's up, i waited somewhere and saw the black guy go in ,didn't know i saw the guy that was the last day we saw each other up till today it's been years.

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Re: How Did You Find Out Your Partner Was Cheating On You? by ddippset(m): 6:03pm On Mar 22, 2020
Akunwafor:
I visited at her place and we were playing. So after playing, it was time to go home but I couldn't find my phone.

As God will have it, she didn't hesitate when I asked for her phone so I can call mine to locate it in the house.

I didn't know what she saved my name as on her small phone so I just went to call logs, I saw "baby boo" there and dialled it while listening carefully to hear my phone ring.

But what I heard was someone saying hello hello...

I believe y'all can deduce what happened next.
Funniest stuff I have seen all month.

grin grin

Even your boo has a boo.

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Re: How Did You Find Out Your Partner Was Cheating On You? by Ghostmode2two(m): 6:03pm On Mar 22, 2020
kristen12:
How did you ever find out a person you were dating was cheating on you?

I had his facebook password so I was reading his chats.

Never check your partners phone if you're not emotionally strong.

In this coronavirus season people still bother themselves with cheating or no cheating.
Re: How Did You Find Out Your Partner Was Cheating On You? by centboy123456(m): 6:03pm On Mar 22, 2020
Oblitz:
Send me a whatsapp msg. Chk my sig
just did
Re: How Did You Find Out Your Partner Was Cheating On You? by XhosaNostra(f): 6:04pm On Mar 22, 2020
DominusPrime:

Honestly I don't get why people say you should never check your partner's phone...some even use trust as an excuse...I guess they'd rather remain stupid

Neither do I. Probably people who can't do without relationships & are scared to be alone.

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Re: How Did You Find Out Your Partner Was Cheating On You? by Audacious19(m): 6:08pm On Mar 22, 2020
XhosaNostra:


Neither do I. Probably people who can't do without relationships & are scared to be alone.
yeah it's really awkward. Awkward mana

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Re: How Did You Find Out Your Partner Was Cheating On You? by Classicool(m): 6:09pm On Mar 22, 2020
She's been acting funny. She calls me the guys name several time. She send me the messages meant for that guy to me on Whatsapp then delete it ASAP but I always see the messages before she deletes the messages. That faithful day that was June last year. She was charging her phone and she left the phone. At first I ignored the phone because it was a public place so I mind my biz then boom the phone rang it was the guy. After the phone ring finish I unlock it and check her call logs omo I shock the duration of the calls mad pass mine... They even call each other midnight. Went to the SMS box na there I come vex go her WhatsApp I see message like this omo my heart shattered. Called later that night to come put it to her face she wan first deny but I tell to open her phone she did and boom everything exposed... She cry we talked it out.

Right now my heart dey sabbatical from love.. I don't take girls serious since then...

Even though we still dey together I've stopped pushing her... Now all do is do as I do. She ghost me ignore you.

The matter big pass this but something is better in the cooler for now...

I'm planning on spying on her again.

Guess what I'm gonna do it but this time around she will be a gonner.

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Re: How Did You Find Out Your Partner Was Cheating On You? by Jodan10: 6:09pm On Mar 22, 2020
I can't talk because I was dumbfounded.

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Re: How Did You Find Out Your Partner Was Cheating On You? by okpalaAnambra: 6:14pm On Mar 22, 2020
Judek2:
To find a cheating girlfriend is very easy.. Providing that our phones are not private enough even when files are deleted or hidden..

Well, mine wasn't stressful, I have always suspected fishy things.
I engineered her phone develope a minor fault so I collected it to repair, for one week..
Enough time to dig up some shitz.

I installed UNDELETER, and also pulled up all pictures cache in the android Thumbnail file.. Both hidden and deleted.

Men, i pulled out all pictures from the day i bought the phone till the day i collected it,
Thousands of pictures.. What I saw was bluuu films in picture mode.

Too many of them just enough for a documentary.
Another guy handling her like a pro adult movie actor in different positions.. And they snap and video them, after she deletes some and hide some..

I never gave her back the phone, still flexing it now.
If I'm not a good guy, I can ruin her life with that. I ended the shitty relationship immediately..
Wao

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Re: How Did You Find Out Your Partner Was Cheating On You? by Moikiitos: 6:15pm On Mar 22, 2020
kristen12:
How did you ever find out a person you were dating was cheating on you?

I had his facebook password so I was reading his chats.

Never check your partners phone if you're not emotionally strong.

Implant meter to keep count...check it to know and confirm your suspension :/!
Re: How Did You Find Out Your Partner Was Cheating On You? by Heineken(m): 6:15pm On Mar 22, 2020
Jarvis22:
My people O! The wounds are still fresh. The wounds are fresh I say!!! It happened February 17th.

I hacked her Whatsapp o! Wetin man no see? Relationship of two years o! She dey collect prick on a norms from Guy wet I better pass times hundred!

And the worst part is that the guy knew we were dating o, and was trying to push her away. But No! The prick was what she needed. (Mind you, I don't perform badly either, I have max control on the bed so I can say she wasn't sex starved).
If you see the way she insulted me in front of the guy!

Why do women Lie? What satisfies women?

When I saw the chats, Mehn! I wept like a small baby! I never knew this girl could be this callous and wicked to me.


When I confronted her with evidence, she start to dey weep. I know say na crocodile tears she. She said it's cos she didn't know if I still wanted her. Imagine nonsense! Person wey I buy phone for on the 15th. Two days back.


Anyways, we still together though. She's more like my sex hole right now coz I don't even have an iota of love for her anymore. I've gone full UBUNJA-Mode on her.

I can't dump her right now coz as they say "The devil you know..... ".

So I'll wait till I bond with someone else or I get tired of her, or both.

Some of you may ask, why won't she leave me? Simple, I am her full meal ticket. She doesn't have a job. All she does is sleep all day, watch movies and (If I have a good heart to sub for her) chat with her friends.


I don suffer I swear!

Finally! Guys, Guard your heart! Love with your head not your heart! By God! I will never make the same mistake twice!

Below are little snippets of the full chat.

hahahahah bro you're funny

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Re: How Did You Find Out Your Partner Was Cheating On You? by Nobody: 6:18pm On Mar 22, 2020
authentic18:

You honestly don’t know millennial ladies.
I can tell you single women cheat more than single men on an average day. They have so much more options. Don’t let anyone deceive you. They are just very clever at hiding it than guys.



At some point I was becoming a misogynist because of how most Nigerian ladies are with mind games etc. These days I do woo and communicate with Europeans because I feel they are better. The average looking 23 year old Nigerian female is not romantic & feels entitled. There are better women elsewhere to me.
Most Nigerian women are trash to be honest
They’d leave the nice guy for the bad guy, get dumped and begin yelling men are scum
SECONDED
Re: How Did You Find Out Your Partner Was Cheating On You? by Goalnaldo(m): 6:20pm On Mar 22, 2020
AngelUhate:


Thats not reason enough. My kid sis saved my contact with baby boo too. Just saying
I have two sisters, one saved the other ones name with priceless grin

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Re: How Did You Find Out Your Partner Was Cheating On You? by Simeony007(m): 6:21pm On Mar 22, 2020
Franzinni:
Fasted for 7 days .. Prayed 7 days ... Then waited on the lord... Haha...


Kidding ... I had that feeling ... And a divided to dialogue ... She ran circles around me so I had to go FBI on her ...


Well she was going Escobar on me as well so she deletes all calls and chats as soon as she is done ... No history ... Nada!!! I asked why but she ran circles round me ...

Ok Nah... I decided I should show this girl what kind of a mind I have ...I went online and got a 3 day trial of an spy app call hoverwatch now this app sends all activities on a target phone ..heck it even takes a picture every time someone unlocks the phone and it will secetly send them to your profile ... The one wet burst my head be say it even tells you all the geographical locations that phone has been with timestamps ...Mo fo! ... I was blown away with the info I gathered ... Men I was just a human wallet ooo the babe dey collect damanturu from one kuntakinte but she was opening website on my head ... I confronted her with the allegation and you know women nah... They quickly enter cry mode ...I can't believe after all I have done for you ..you don't trust me ... What is love without trust ... Yada yada ... I mean she was balling tears like a leaking satchet of pure water ... I been dey laugh ... For my mind ... Nah him I fall out my phone load all the FBI data ... Play the voice note as she dey tell the bobo say she love am and me I just be obstacle that can be tolerated ... I begin play all for her to hear ... I face dry out like sahara desert ... So I decided I don't need to be tolerated anymore ... She is his-story! Wounds heal and life will go on !

what are the names of the apps used
Re: How Did You Find Out Your Partner Was Cheating On You? by gameboy727(m): 6:23pm On Mar 22, 2020
IamgratefulLord:
You never see anything!! Lol cheesy. What if you are already married?? . I know a man that is addicted to porn sites, the wife has used all means necessary to stop his addiction but to no avail. I hate to say this but what ever you can't change as a married couple simple live with it. What do I even know Poor me!! cry cry
Being cheated on in marriage is a different ball game. 2nd chance I can give. If it happens again, I'd definitely get a divorce.

About the man addicted to porn. Well, it's crazy. He sees things there that his wife can't give him. But it's totally wrong.

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Re: How Did You Find Out Your Partner Was Cheating On You? by codedlee(m): 6:23pm On Mar 22, 2020
centboy123456:



how did u read her what app massage on the web can u help me bro

Google it online. Its simple. I use my phone google chrome browser to read her WhatsApp chats.

Web.WhatsApp.com then you scan the QR code with her phone

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Re: How Did You Find Out Your Partner Was Cheating On You? by Nobody: 6:26pm On Mar 22, 2020
touching stories

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Re: How Did You Find Out Your Partner Was Cheating On You? by openmine(m): 6:32pm On Mar 22, 2020
Franzinni:
Fasted for 7 days .. Prayed 7 days ... Then waited on the lord... Haha...


Kidding ... I had that feeling ... And a divided to dialogue ... She ran circles around me so I had to go FBI on her ...


Well she was going Escobar on me as well so she deletes all calls and chats as soon as she is done ... No history ... Nada!!! I asked why but she ran circles round me ...

Ok Nah... I decided I should show this girl what kind of a mind I have ...I went online and got a 3 day trial of an spy app call hoverwatch now this app sends all activities on a target phone ..heck it even takes a picture every time someone unlocks the phone and it will secetly send them to your profile ... The one wet burst my head be say it even tells you all the geographical locations that phone has been with timestamps ...Mo fo! ... I was blown away with the info I gathered ... Men I was just a human wallet ooo the babe dey collect damanturu from one kuntakinte but she was opening website on my head ... I confronted her with the allegation and you know women nah... They quickly enter cry mode ...I can't believe after all I have done for you ..you don't trust me ... What is love without trust ... Yada yada ... I mean she was balling tears like a leaking satchet of pure water ... I been dey laugh ... For my mind ... Nah him I fall out my phone load all the FBI data ... Play the voice note as she dey tell the bobo say she love am and me I just be obstacle that can be tolerated ... I begin play all for her to hear ... I face dry out like sahara desert ... So I decided I don't need to be tolerated anymore ... She is his-story! Wounds heal and life will go on !

grin grin grin grin

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Re: How Did You Find Out Your Partner Was Cheating On You? by Heineken(m): 6:33pm On Mar 22, 2020
centboy123456:



bro how did u hack into it help me because I really need it right now
hahhah bro you really need this app o.. Wetin happen na? Tell us pls

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Re: How Did You Find Out Your Partner Was Cheating On You? by Chatflick(m): 6:36pm On Mar 22, 2020
The day she locked her Whatsapp

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