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Re: I Think My Boyfriend Is Cheating. by theTransporter: 12:49pm On Apr 03, 2020 |
lacasera14: Lacasera babe, how about you taking a look at it like this, maybe your boyfriend got small sense and realized his mistakes, see ehh, the fun of the relationship goes when you know him in and out, he becomes predictable, a conquered territory, u will be the one who is now looking outside, why because you "have secured him". Those little quarrels, suspicion, suspense, misunderstanding, thinking, uncertainties are the spice of relationships, you can chose to believe me or not, in a relationship , "see finish " is not a good thing, it backfires with time. He has disobeyed a redpill rule "the way u start with a woman is the way u end with her", that's why u are agitated. My advice, just clear your mind from all those suspicion and pretend nothing happens, but if it becomes obvious that he is a cheat, dump his ass. Simple |
Re: I Think My Boyfriend Is Cheating. by lacasera14(m): 12:49pm On Apr 03, 2020 |
punisha:Noted |
Re: I Think My Boyfriend Is Cheating. by lacasera14(m): 12:50pm On Apr 03, 2020 |
theTransporter:Okay well said. Thanks. |
Re: I Think My Boyfriend Is Cheating. by ghettochild(m): 12:57pm On Apr 03, 2020 |
lacasera14:Yes he is cheating So let it be a do me n do you... And see who go taya |
Re: I Think My Boyfriend Is Cheating. by Nobody: 1:47pm On Apr 03, 2020 |
Jayslicky:And she should always mind her business too. |
Re: I Think My Boyfriend Is Cheating. by Nobody: 2:39pm On Apr 03, 2020 |
Every relationship must be built on trust and since there are negative changes in your relationship, i would advise you to have a talk with him. Your judgement should be based on facts to really conclude that he is cheating on you. Please go to my blog and read 7 definite signs that you are married to your own husband/wife and how to identify if you are in a healthy relationship. www.hightaughts.com. |
Re: I Think My Boyfriend Is Cheating. by Stacyomolola(f): 2:40pm On Apr 03, 2020 |
jayinfo2: To the extent of archiving his chats with her What does that mean |
Re: I Think My Boyfriend Is Cheating. by Stacyomolola(f): 2:42pm On Apr 03, 2020 |
justnock:It's their relationship and their business together |
Re: I Think My Boyfriend Is Cheating. by jayinfo2(m): 2:53pm On Apr 03, 2020 |
Stacyomolola:really!! archiving his chat with d said lady isn't a verdict that he is cheating: he might just archive d chat with her may be just not to let d gf see d chat and feels jealous because they have been chatting too much. can you see it this way. |
Re: I Think My Boyfriend Is Cheating. by Stacyomolola(f): 3:00pm On Apr 03, 2020 |
jayinfo2:I would like to see it from ur point of view but why all of a sudden Why the recent secrecy with his phone |
Re: I Think My Boyfriend Is Cheating. by jayinfo2(m): 3:10pm On Apr 03, 2020 |
Stacyomolola:remember the op said she and her bf have been out of sight for sometime; hence the avenue to chatting d new lady regularly ; and when the op returns, the bf then restrict the op from accessing his chat to avoid her being jealous of his new found friend. |
Re: I Think My Boyfriend Is Cheating. by Tajbol4splend(m): 3:17pm On Apr 03, 2020 |
lacasera14: Hen don't dress well na |
Re: I Think My Boyfriend Is Cheating. by Nobody: 3:23pm On Apr 03, 2020 |
Stacyomolola: Ok. |
Re: I Think My Boyfriend Is Cheating. by frozen70(f): 3:29pm On Apr 03, 2020 |
lacasera14: Assuming you are married and sharing phone access with each other, it would have been better to understand You are just dating and you want to monitor his communication, you will end up getting hurt Leave his phone for him, if he wants to be loyal to you, he will be, guys will always explore You too, keep your lock to yourself, it's your privacy and don't think sharing it with him means love, noo ❗ ❗ ❗ It doesn't work that way If you want to love him and be loyal to him, it's your choice and if you want to have them many, it's your choice and not his business You can't monitor a man even on your wedding night, unless you want to get frustrated 1 Like |
Re: I Think My Boyfriend Is Cheating. by MainJoe: 3:32pm On Apr 03, 2020 |
@lacasera14 The fact you were comfortable and at ease with both of you being open with your personal dealings, now you are not means, sorry to say it, you might be at the end of the road. Confront him again. Tell him you missed the trust you had for each other. Tell him you are only comfortable with the way things were with you guys. If he insists on keeping things hidden from you, sweetheart bounce and look for one who will stay open to you for life. Your to young to have High BP for a man who is sleeping with another woman |
Re: I Think My Boyfriend Is Cheating. by MainJoe: 3:38pm On Apr 03, 2020 |
frozen70: Totally disagree with your advice and I will tell you why. People have different tolerance rate and different commitment status. People who know they are committed and highly devoted in their relationships, want the same. To you it might feel like just dating, to another, it takes emotional devotion to stay in a relationship. I bet she is the open type, committed and not jumping from one to another. She does not have men buzzing her phones, talking of past escapades. Such a person will not see the relationship as just dating and wants same commitment from the other. The fact is, if the other is not ready to commit, she should move on to a more focused and serious person. She knows what she wants in a relationship and she should look for that. Compromise means destroying who she really is. 1 Like |
Re: I Think My Boyfriend Is Cheating. by frozen70(f): 5:32pm On Apr 03, 2020 |
MainJoe: Another word for it is that she is with the wrong person at the right time 1 Like |
Re: I Think My Boyfriend Is Cheating. by Ken4agent(m): 5:42pm On Apr 03, 2020 |
U said Boyfriend and not husband so if he isolate his phone u also should isolate yur phone......when u are married then u become one and then isolating belonging becomes a crime Meaning until you marry, each partner is free to explore |
Re: I Think My Boyfriend Is Cheating. by GeoSilYe(f): 5:57pm On Apr 03, 2020 |
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Re: I Think My Boyfriend Is Cheating. by HarunaWest(m): 6:31pm On Apr 03, 2020 |
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Re: I Think My Boyfriend Is Cheating. by Nobody: 7:27pm On Apr 03, 2020 |
You too you're cheating too dear Don't you know the your body is the temple of the Lord and you're giving yourself to one boyfriend. Point is, so far you guys are not engaged or married and are still in that boyfriend-girlfriend phase , everybody is cheating with each other. So don't bother looking for commitment the you're not giving your maker |
Re: I Think My Boyfriend Is Cheating. by dukeprince50: 12:52am On Apr 05, 2020 |
lacasera14:don't panic if he is cheating, distance destroys relationship. Sit him down, tell him u left for school and now u are back and want d r/ship to b stronger, if he is still interested he should make up his mind and let both of u work it out, if he is over u, he should let u know so u can move on as well, I think he'll get the message. |
Re: I Think My Boyfriend Is Cheating. by Herolly(m): 1:40am On Apr 05, 2020 |
Phone is meant to be a private property. I once gave my then girlfriend a privilege to know my phone password even to my atm, all she could do was to read all my conversations with my ex even though she(my girlfriend) knew what caused our breakup and when she (ex) wanted me back but I turned her (ex) down because I had her already. I know she read lots of thing on my phone that day because I trusted her with my phone, I had lots of sensitive information on my phone which I really value. I had to start uploading directly to my iCloud all the sensitive information and then change all my password. Once you give a woman an inche, it becomes a kilometer immediately. Don’t try it with your girl if you don’t a privilege to become her right. I knew her password but I will never touch her phone because I don’t want any heartache for myself NB: Don’t try to check your boyfriend/girlfriend (s) phone else you want a heartache that time will never heal. |
Re: I Think My Boyfriend Is Cheating. by IamDavids: 1:44am On Apr 05, 2020 |
It's not certain he is cheating on you. There is no proof that he is cheating jare. Don't lose that nigga cus your jealous. |
Re: I Think My Boyfriend Is Cheating. by HocusPotos: 3:56am On Apr 05, 2020 |
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