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Re: My Husband Has Become A Domestic Slave In Our House & I Do Not Know How To Stop by UndauntedYOCA(f): 2:10pm On Apr 29, 2020 |
While your concerns are appreciated, your husband is to be admired and praised! Thank God you are even being considerate, not those ladies that will turn their husbands to errand boys, anyways, the bedt esy to make him reduce it a bit is by conversationally, sexually, (other forms exist) engaging him once the baby is asleep, grab him and make him stay put with you and do with him whatever pleases you. You're so fortunate you found that type of man. Yesterday one of my friends told me of how his future wife has always got to cook fresh meals, even if she dey work she must leave her workplace to come prepare him fresh meals then she can go back. No storing of food in the fridge/freezer! I sighed in pity for the supposed future wife! |
Re: My Husband Has Become A Domestic Slave In Our House & I Do Not Know How To Stop by Nobody: 2:10pm On Apr 29, 2020 |
Temiasuquo:"Dream man for most feminists..'' Not 'most women'... |
Re: My Husband Has Become A Domestic Slave In Our House & I Do Not Know How To Stop by Stoglins12(m): 2:16pm On Apr 29, 2020 |
This is the true definition of "What do women want" |
Re: My Husband Has Become A Domestic Slave In Our House & I Do Not Know How To Stop by Nobody: 2:21pm On Apr 29, 2020 |
kalufelix:your illustrations is different from the scenario.. U get inner joy from doing things when it benefits you(joy) and the receiver. But when it goes beyond it making the receiver feeling guilty and she can't voice out certain concern then I don't think both are receiving same mutual joy. She might see some wrong and can't complain instead harbour it inside, when the intensity harboured becomes much . It might lead to a scenario where the guy would saying things like "after everything I did for you". Any succesful marriage is not meant to be one sided. |
Re: My Husband Has Become A Domestic Slave In Our House & I Do Not Know How To Stop by Rukkydelta(f): 2:21pm On Apr 29, 2020 |
sweetmelanin:Because it's fake |
Re: My Husband Has Become A Domestic Slave In Our House & I Do Not Know How To Stop by sammywhity: 2:23pm On Apr 29, 2020 |
He is doing his best to support you, if you are feeling bad then get back to work gradually, wake up early and do the chores, get things ready before he comes back, give him a hug and a kiss for welcome, finally place his food on the table. Then you have your husband back. |
Re: My Husband Has Become A Domestic Slave In Our House & I Do Not Know How To Stop by splashbaby(m): 2:34pm On Apr 29, 2020 |
Adasun:You can't really please women. Dia matter don tíre God self. |
Re: My Husband Has Become A Domestic Slave In Our House & I Do Not Know How To Stop by Chigold101(m): 2:38pm On Apr 29, 2020 |
Iffffffy:are you divorced or a widow? |
Re: My Husband Has Become A Domestic Slave In Our House & I Do Not Know How To Stop by Engraced80(f): 2:39pm On Apr 29, 2020 |
Madam up your domestics to assist. Some babies don't like being laid alone. So Back your baby he/she won't complain. Don't get the man frustrated pls, you may not like the result. |
Re: My Husband Has Become A Domestic Slave In Our House & I Do Not Know How To Stop by Nharncygrace(f): 2:41pm On Apr 29, 2020 |
samtinx: Lmao..nothing can satisfy human |
Re: My Husband Has Become A Domestic Slave In Our House & I Do Not Know How To Stop by ashawopikin(m): 2:45pm On Apr 29, 2020 |
Beautykate:na wa o, what do women really want |
Re: My Husband Has Become A Domestic Slave In Our House & I Do Not Know How To Stop by mechanics(m): 2:48pm On Apr 29, 2020 |
Talk to him in a lovely way, he will understand you. |
Re: My Husband Has Become A Domestic Slave In Our House & I Do Not Know How To Stop by nwaimoroseyaho: 2:53pm On Apr 29, 2020 |
Beautykate: How many babies are we talking about here? |
Re: My Husband Has Become A Domestic Slave In Our House & I Do Not Know How To Stop by popcykaylah(m): 2:56pm On Apr 29, 2020 |
Beautykate:He truly cares for you. Atleast you see all these things and appreciate him ,some women will still think he’s done nothing and he should work and die ..just help out and encourage him ..also keep being a good wife |
Re: My Husband Has Become A Domestic Slave In Our House & I Do Not Know How To Stop by 2sexycom(m): 3:11pm On Apr 29, 2020 |
Beosten: |
Re: My Husband Has Become A Domestic Slave In Our House & I Do Not Know How To Stop by seanjy4konji: 3:32pm On Apr 29, 2020 |
You need to tell us where you get baby weh no deh sleep to allow you lay am for bed so you could do other things... You nor deh bathMabi brush?u nor deh do anything..na only breast feed for one place.. U be mumu..lazy baga 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband Has Become A Domestic Slave In Our House & I Do Not Know How To Stop by TonyeBarcanista(m): 3:35pm On Apr 29, 2020 |
I understand you my sister. No one wants a man that is a puppet and your husband has turned one. Every woman wants a manly man (forget about social media fabu of feminists). Sorry about your plight Beautykate: |
Re: My Husband Has Become A Domestic Slave In Our House & I Do Not Know How To Stop by ThatFairGuy: 3:49pm On Apr 29, 2020 |
Beautykate:Just appreciate him. Those kinda men are few, I am one to my wife. That's an INDOOR HUSBAND. He'll NEVER get tired. lucky you |
Re: My Husband Has Become A Domestic Slave In Our House & I Do Not Know How To Stop by lomprico(m): 4:15pm On Apr 29, 2020 |
airminem: oh my Gosh! she is going suicidal. Nairalanders pls let's help this poor soul before it's too late. |
Re: My Husband Has Become A Domestic Slave In Our House & I Do Not Know How To Stop by maasoap(m): 4:18pm On Apr 29, 2020 |
Beautykate: Crap. During pregnancy, you had excuse. Now breastfeeding, another excuse. I feel permanently guilty and as if the only way I will get my husband to do less is if I do more. The thing is that I can walk away from mess and he can't. You can do more but prefer not to. May be your husband has realised that he married a classical lazy woman. Simple |
Re: My Husband Has Become A Domestic Slave In Our House & I Do Not Know How To Stop by nobone(f): 4:31pm On Apr 29, 2020 |
Lubbish |
Re: My Husband Has Become A Domestic Slave In Our House & I Do Not Know How To Stop by ashybabs(m): 4:32pm On Apr 29, 2020 |
kalufelix: not necessarily I don't see it as a problem. there's hardly any therApy one can get in Nigeria for that. i |
Re: My Husband Has Become A Domestic Slave In Our House & I Do Not Know How To Stop by folake4u(f): 4:38pm On Apr 29, 2020 |
yettymuse come and see something . Humans are insatiable really |
Re: My Husband Has Become A Domestic Slave In Our House & I Do Not Know How To Stop by Duru009(m): 4:50pm On Apr 29, 2020 |
You are a very lazy woman!! So insecure, you are here giving us stupid excuses. Do you think we are kids or what! With your silly big grammar... |
Re: My Husband Has Become A Domestic Slave In Our House & I Do Not Know How To Stop by amaks: 4:54pm On Apr 29, 2020 |
Sisijetue: "You can't have it all.." good saying, on point |
Re: My Husband Has Become A Domestic Slave In Our House & I Do Not Know How To Stop by Rickmann: 4:57pm On Apr 29, 2020 |
Re: My Husband Has Become A Domestic Slave In Our House & I Do Not Know How To Stop by squad03: 5:01pm On Apr 29, 2020 |
Your husband isn't broken,don't try to fix him. |
Re: My Husband Has Become A Domestic Slave In Our House & I Do Not Know How To Stop by Kaybaba5(m): 5:02pm On Apr 29, 2020 |
Re: My Husband Has Become A Domestic Slave In Our House & I Do Not Know How To Stop by bskyb(m): 5:07pm On Apr 29, 2020 |
It is refreshing to read a beautifully written post on Nairaland. Posts like this are now scarce. I hope you receive the wisdom needed to navigate this situation. You should have conversations about it, not done in a sombre mood, but playfully tell him what you feel. He will catch your hints, hopefully |
Re: My Husband Has Become A Domestic Slave In Our House & I Do Not Know How To Stop by IamHonourable1: 5:41pm On Apr 29, 2020 |
So how do you want me to advice you cos you're the one who can only advice herself here. |
Re: My Husband Has Become A Domestic Slave In Our House & I Do Not Know How To Stop by anexxus(m): 5:44pm On Apr 29, 2020 |
Beautykate: Lazy and dirty wife alert! |
Re: My Husband Has Become A Domestic Slave In Our House & I Do Not Know How To Stop by Longman8: 6:14pm On Apr 29, 2020 |
The thirst for what human really want is insatiable. U have to learn to manage what u have as a husband for now that domestic chores calls. I guess he will come around as that fun person u ve known him to be. Its a matter of time. |
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