This issue has been on my mind for a long time, why does guys feel that ladies must always give in to sex because they are dating. Please I need a sincere answer

I have been in and out of relationships. I can attest to the fact that ladies find themselves at the wrong end of the spectrum when it comes to choosing men. If they come on hard in a guy they fancy, even the guy would run if he can't manage the attention. That been said. Ladies too want sex as much as guys so but due to societal pressure play coy about it.

I once had a girlfriend who when I was wooing her was a snub and indifferent to my charms. Fast forward to us, 3months later, na me dey beg for space. She wants it and asks for it without mincing words. She demands for it. She is unapologetic about her demands for sex.

So it runs both ways but ladies hide their feelings, guys are upfront about. If ladies flaunt their hunger in public domain, men will call them unprintable names but it's ok for men.

Am about to break up with this girl in a bit
Coz of sex
We've been dating for more than two months she won't give me sex but keeps asking me for money
And not that she is a virgin o
I can't take it anymore I don't like cheating so it's better I break up with her
I complained to her severally she said I should be patient

Ashawoboi27:
Am about to break up with this girl in a bit
Coz of sex
We've been dating for more than two months she won't give me sex but keeps asking me for money
And not that she is a virgin o
I can't take it anymore I don't like cheating so it's better I break up with her
I complained to her severally she said I should be patient

Then be patient,...if you really value her, you won't be bothered about she not giving you sex

I don't see sex has an important thing in a relationship thou it might be necessary

You guys just need to lay impact on each other...that if it's a serious relationship ooo

Norphiee:


Then be patient,...if you really value her, you won't be bothered about she not giving you sex

Lol so I should cheat on her then
Do you know she don't bring or offer anything in this relationship
She only calls me
Ask I am going
We hangout that's all
She asks me for money I give her though she is working
But I will ask her for sex she will say I should be patient
As if we are going to get married soon
I can't take it anymore
If she don't offer me sex today am out she should go look for someone else abeg
If she was a virgin I would understand

Norphiee:


Then be patient,...if you really value her, you won't be bothered about she not giving you sex

Why would she refuse to surrender the smelly kpekus when she's not a virgin? Isn't that wickedness and Self-centeredness??

Norphiee:

You guys just need to lay impact on each other...that if it's a serious relationship ooo

Is knacking not enough impact

types of relationship: 1)relationship that leads to marriage 2)relationship that keeps a client 3)relationship of investment only 1&2 involves sex

Davash222:

Why would she refuse to surrender the smelly kpekus when she's not a virgin? Isn't that wickedness and Self-centeredness??

Thank you my brother
She is just selfish
She keeps telling me about money and if I don't provide it on time she gets angry
But won't give me sex
Am not ATM abeg

Basic. It's the flipside of 'Is spending on a Nigerian girl a necessity or compulsory in a relationship?'

They are both inversely proportional to one another.

Basically, if a lady asks for money, she is asked if she does have a boyfriend. Is having a boyfriend similar to having a office, or a job or a store where money comes in.

Question is what do ladies bring to the table?
Your guess is as good as mine.
Yet they feel one can access heaven in between their legs.
Truth be told, ladies enjoy sex more than guys. You spend, spend and even more when you are on top, losing virtue in the name of satisfying her.

Ashawoboi27:

Lol so I should cheat on her then
Do you know she don't bring or offer anything in this relationship
She only calls me
Ask I am going
We hangout that's all
She asks me for money I give her though she is working
But I will ask her for sex she will say I should be patient
As if we are going to get married soon
I can't take it anymore
If she don't offer me sex today am out she should go look for someone else abeg
If she was a virgin I would understand

Wait, what do you expect her to offer?...where you in need that you ask her and she declined?,.. Did you sit her down trying to bring new development between both of you that wasn't serious about it? Bro, it's not only sex a girl has to offer

Assuming you guys are married that she isn't supporting the family in any form now, I can say... But please try and know girls are not only sex materials

Thanks

If you don't pay my bride price I'm not having sex with you.

Not all road trips are all about fuel but without it how far will they go?

Davash222:

Why would she refuse to surrender the smelly kpekus when she's not a virgin? Isn't that wickedness and Self-centeredness??

lwkmd

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Millenniumlady:
If you did pay my bride price I'm not having sex with you.

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Millenniumlady:
If you did pay my bride price I'm not having sex with you.

Really So who will you have sex with The one that didn't pay

Norphiee:


Wait, what do you expect her to offer?...where you in need that you ask her and she declined?,.. Did you sit her down trying to bring new development between both of you that wasn't serious about it? Bro, it's not only sex a girl has to offer

Assuming you guys are married that she isn't supporting the family in any form now, I can say... But please try and know girls are not only sex materials

Thanks

Nigerian girls that have fish brain. They can't offer anything other than sex.

Sex isn't even a benefit to me sef.

Norphiee:


Wait, what do you expect her to offer?...where you in need that you ask her and she declined?,.. Did you sit her down trying to bring new development between both of you that wasn't serious about it? Bro, it's not only sex a girl has to offer

Assuming you guys are married that she isn't supporting the family in any form now, I can say... But please try and know girls are not only sex materials

Thanks

Okay guys are now money making machines
What I expect her to offer is simple
Since u can't help me with sex bring me gifts and money
But she don't even do any of that
She go just dey form for me
Well am waiting for her to come today
If she say No am breakinf up with her
Another girl is already waiting on the queue

Well....most Lady I do flirt with can't deny me of sex. rather am too scared to have sex with them. Some will start complain that I do behave as if am a virgin guy.
So sex is not really necessary in most relationship.

Dobson43:



I have been in and out of relationships. I can attest to the fact that ladies find themselves at the wrong end of the spectrum when it comes to choosing men. If they come on hard in a guy they fancy, even the guy would run if he can't manage the attention. That been said. Ladies too want sex as much as guys so but due to societal pressure play coy about it.

I once had a girlfriend who when I was wooing her was a snub and indifferent to my charms. Fast forward to us, 3months later, na me dey beg for space. She wants it and asks for it without mincing words. She demands for it. She is unapologetic about her demands for sex.

So it runs both ways but ladies hide their feelings, guys are upfront about. If ladies flaunt their hunger in public domain, men will call them unprintable names but it's ok for men.

hmmm I know about that

Boydehot:
Well....most Lady I do flirt with can't deny me of sex. rather am too scared to have sex with them. Some will start complain that I do behave as if am a virgin guy.
So sex is not really necessary in most relationship.

thank you

Ashawoboi27:

Okay guys are now money making machines
What I expect her to offer is simple
Since u can't help me with sex bring me gifts and money
But she don't even do any of that
She go just dey form for me
Well am waiting for her to come today
If she say No am breakinf up with her
Another girl is already waiting on the queue

what if she loves you so much but she doesn't have much but because of her faith she can't give in to sex?

Ashawoboi27:
Am about to break up with this girl in a bit
Coz of sex
We've been dating for more than two months she won't give me sex but keeps asking me for money
And not that she is a virgin o
I can't take it anymore I don't like cheating so it's better I break up with her
I complained to her severally she said I should be patient

sex is not love, if you love her you can be celibate

James4bright:


Nigerian girls that have fish brain. They can't offer anything other than sex.

Sex isn't even a benefit to me sef.

not all ladies, what is so special about pre- martial sex?

Ashawoboi27:

Lol so I should cheat on her then
Do you know she don't bring or offer anything in this relationship
She only calls me
Ask I am going
We hangout that's all
She asks me for money I give her though she is working
But I will ask her for sex she will say I should be patient
As if we are going to get married soon
I can't take it anymore
If she don't offer me sex today am out she should go look for someone else abeg
If she was a virgin I would understand

please don't allow your hormone control you

So is it that guys of this generation can't do without sex in relationships, because I need to know oo

Onego:
not all ladies, what is so special about pre- martial sex?

These girls can't help you build wealth, so what else could you possibly need them for other than the little pleasure sex offers.

And what's so special about marital sex?

James4bright:


These girls can't help you build wealth, so what else could you possibly need them for other than the little pleasure sex offers.

And what's so special about marital sex?

you have not met the lady, some ladies are actually helpers. Alot my dear, martial sex offers Alot of benefits ooo

Onego:
sex is not love, if you love her you can be celibate

You are funny o
Me celibate
I love her but she is selfish I dont see anything hard for her to five me sex when she isn't even a virgin

Ashawoboi27:

You are funny o
Me celibate
I love her but she is selfish I dont see anything hard for her to five me sex when she isn't even a virgin

I picture you like someone I know