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Re: She dumps him 8 years ago and wants him back now. by RealEzee(m): 1:15pm On Aug 13, 2020
I don't get it, Shey he wants to go back to Egypt ni?
Re: She dumps him 8 years ago and wants him back now. by Wizywiz(m): 1:16pm On Aug 13, 2020
JoshOxborn:
(in a sarcastic voice)

let him accept her back, he should make her his second wife, so she can bring peace into his home. !!

Jeez!! WTH! Don't be stupid to accept her back. what advise do you need? she jilted you and you must make her pay. smh. I don't know why premium simps like to learn in the hard way.

a@ PREMIUM SIMP.. THE GUY NA MUNTULA 101

Re: She dumps him 8 years ago and wants him back now. by Premiumwriter: 1:17pm On Aug 13, 2020
You and your friend are both stupid. He's stupid for even relating again with the stupid girl to the extent she's comfortable telling him rubbish about her feelings.

You are also stupid for bringing this here.
Re: She dumps him 8 years ago and wants him back now. by Debauhaus1990(m): 1:27pm On Aug 13, 2020
My guy! My guy!! We already know it's you. It's annoying when someone is using this 'my guy' nonsense to want to seek people's opinions on public forum. So lame. For the mere fact that you deem it fit to seek for opinion in public shows you want to destroy what you have destroyed over the years. Nuff said.
Re: She dumps him 8 years ago and wants him back now. by Camelot65: 1:30pm On Aug 13, 2020
And there she goes blaming him for her own mistakes.....
Your friend( or You) would be so foolish to accept her back....

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Re: She dumps him 8 years ago and wants him back now. by RealAlubarika(m): 1:37pm On Aug 13, 2020
Darkseid:
The fact that your guy/ you still dey look for advice show say his mumu never do, that's if the story is true. If awon redpill gang call una simp, una go begin vex, stvpid guys annoy the fvck out of me, tueh angry angry

The story to me look fabricated, you guys you stop coming here with a fake story and claim is your friend
Re: She dumps him 8 years ago and wants him back now. by Legendarytonyy: 1:39pm On Aug 13, 2020
Bro, you'll do me a favour, when next you see that your guy knock hin head..
What advice is he looking for? He is a settled man already. The hopeless ex didn't care about him when they were together, now that everything is soft for him she surfaces. For crying it's obvious that she is after his money.
She too wants to settle down as time is no longer on her side, she's a gold digger. He should stay away from her. He should also report her to his wife, so that she'll not seduce/tempt him anyway.

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Re: She dumps him 8 years ago and wants him back now. by cjeriia: 1:50pm On Aug 13, 2020
Bro weda na you or na ur guy dey involved for this story true true, na just 1 thing I wan tell you, no price market wey you no suppose buy. #Thedevilisaliar
Re: She dumps him 8 years ago and wants him back now. by LagBae(f): 2:04pm On Aug 13, 2020
Which advice is he looking for again?
Re: She dumps him 8 years ago and wants him back now. by Beverlyjean(f): 2:09pm On Aug 13, 2020
Tell ur guy to flee from the devil... the devil has come to deceive , kill and destroy
Re: She dumps him 8 years ago and wants him back now. by Intrepid01(m): 2:48pm On Aug 13, 2020
All yee people and fake story sha.....pls tell us which part of Lagos does he now have properties...nonsense...to think your fictional friend is even earning #500,000 but has property and investment around Lagos. You must really think Lagos is Aba right?

Nonsense, your fictional prowess is poor

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Re: She dumps him 8 years ago and wants him back now. by Kongaone: 2:48pm On Aug 13, 2020
FreeSpirited:
This is a good example of a TRP field report:

1. She was 21, beautiful, cynosure of the campus, so that makes her feel so entitled to fvvck the highest bidders that even a guy of 100k salary wasnt enough for her: That's riding the cock carousel' (i.e fvcking any diick that tickle her fancy or that brings good cash without thinking of the consequences.)

2. Whatever you do for her will never suffice at this stage cos she believes the whole world owe her something...If u are not a GAME and TRP aware guy at this point, you will waste all your energy, resources and emotional well-being on a bitch that can not be satisfied just because she owns a pvssy. Many simpy blue pill guys are in this trap they call relationship as I speak.
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3...She quit the relationship because she was getting other diick out there..there were plenty higher bidders and admirers..cos she believes she was a trophy all men should jostle to have...so they will keep exploring diicks and expanding their honey pot to its elastic limit.
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4 She's now 29...Reality has now hit and slapped her hard in the face: She's now ready for husband..lol. This is the time we call 'post wall' in TRP parlance; at this stage, they are regretting the good guys the let go and at these same time blaming the guys for not doing enough to retain their stupidity...is that not ridiculous? lol. That's their hamster rationalization and blame shifting idiocy...
And at this stage they seek out for a simp or a bluepiller to deceive that they are one changed or refined angel..just to secure a family man who will spend and cater for their worn out pvssy in the name of marriage...who in the end they will still treat badly and get to cheat on... That's their life.
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Men, it is left to us all to be smart and reject them at this old stage when they are jaded and start coming back to fool us into marrying them after they had ridden the whole community diick, travelled across the whole country, perching into all hotels, clubs and being pumped and fvvcked mercilessly by all kind of diick for money, pleasure and adventure and at the same time aborting tonnes of pregnancy...Lol. That's the simple life of those bittches...but our simp and bluepillers will never learn. Good luck to them though.
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My advice to the guy is to not get close to the lady. The lady is still feeling entitled .. that's their way. she can hurt him or his wife, she can give him fake pregnancy if he have sex with her..he has to be smart or just simply trash her to the bin of his past. My little cent.

Baba oil dey your head. Will copy this advice word to word and send to him.
Re: She dumps him 8 years ago and wants him back now. by ATTemi: 3:33pm On Aug 13, 2020
You're free 2 use ur friend 4 rituals.

Advice on what exactly?
Re: She dumps him 8 years ago and wants him back now. by Afostev11(m): 4:11pm On Aug 13, 2020
Tell ur guy, mere looking for advise..Thunder where hath thou
Re: She dumps him 8 years ago and wants him back now. by nexta007(m): 4:16pm On Aug 13, 2020
Your guy need advice from who?? Even angels no get advice for ram. If he needs advise, then it means he isn't a faithful husband and father. He should re-evaluate himself!!!
Re: She dumps him 8 years ago and wants him back now. by Burgerlomo: 4:22pm On Aug 13, 2020
Kongaone:
Hello romancelander.

A friend of mine dated this girl in 2012 for almost a year during his first job with a 100k salary. She was 21 while he was 23 years old then. She was in her final year and was receiving monthly allowance of 20k from her parents. Though she has accommodation in the hostel but she prefers staying with him in his apartment which was very close to her school. My guy was taking care of this girl whose entitlement mentality was so high. They were eating outside almost everyday as she couldn't cook then. He loved her so much and wouldn't mind marrying her thus he was footing all her bills and was sending very little home to his parents and siblings. This lady still complained that he was looking after his family more than he takes care of her needs.

In days when my guy was so broke she would never assist him even as a loan. She was so beautiful and intelligent that she was the dream of most guys on campus. At a point she called the relationship off stating that she wants to go back to her ex and my guy who was so tired of the relationship but never wanted to hurt her accepted in good fate.

As luck may have it he got a new job ssme year with double pay in Lagos. She later came back saying her calling for a quit was just a joke but my guy requested they just take a break and re evaluate the relationship. He left the town and moved to Lagos, they communicated for few months and lost communication. She deactivated her social media contacts and was no where to be found.

Fast forward to 2020, my guy (now 31) is married with twin boys and has properties and investment in Lagos with a salary of about half a million. He's now looking very fresh and handsome (na money be fine bobo). He placed his wife on 60k monthly allowance and opened a shop for her. Some months ago this his ex girlfriend chatted him that she's in Lagos and they met with their love almost rekindling. She now works in Lagos with 60k pay.

Now this lady (now 29) and still single is accusing my guy of not making much efforts to look for her while he was single. Said she regretted her past actions and has completely changed and felt she was the one married to him. She even said she can accept to be his second wife or his baby mama and won't marry any guy who is not like my guy (in terms of character, emotion and ofcourse money).

My guy has come to me for advise, pls if you are him what will you do? Matured minds pls.

A simple image is enough for a wise cool

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Re: She dumps him 8 years ago and wants him back now. by womenareapes: 4:33pm On Aug 13, 2020
Kongaone:
Hello romancelander.

A friend of mine dated this girl in 2012 for almost a year during his first job with a 100k salary. She was 21 while he was 23 years old then. She was in her final year and was receiving monthly allowance of 20k from her parents. Though she has accommodation in the hostel but she prefers staying with him in his apartment which was very close to her school. My guy was taking care of this girl whose entitlement mentality was so high. They were eating outside almost everyday as she couldn't cook then. He loved her so much and wouldn't mind marrying her thus he was footing all her bills and was sending very little home to his parents and siblings. This lady still complained that he was looking after his family more than he takes care of her needs.

In days when my guy was so broke she would never assist him even as a loan. She was so beautiful and intelligent that she was the dream of most guys on campus. At a point she called the relationship off stating that she wants to go back to her ex and my guy who was so tired of the relationship but never wanted to hurt her accepted in good fate.

As luck may have it he got a new job ssme year with double pay in Lagos. She later came back saying her calling for a quit was just a joke but my guy requested they just take a break and re evaluate the relationship. He left the town and moved to Lagos, they communicated for few months and lost communication. She deactivated her social media contacts and was no where to be found.

Fast forward to 2020, my guy (now 31) is married with twin boys and has properties and investment in Lagos with a salary of about half a million. He's now looking very fresh and handsome (na money be fine bobo). He placed his wife on 60k monthly allowance and opened a shop for her. Some months ago this his ex girlfriend chatted him that she's in Lagos and they met with their love almost rekindling. She now works in Lagos with 60k pay.

Now this lady (now 29) and still single is accusing my guy of not making much efforts to look for her while he was single. Said she regretted her past actions and has completely changed and felt she was the one married to him. She even said she can accept to be his second wife or his baby mama and won't marry any guy who is not like my guy (in terms of character, emotion and ofcourse money).

My guy has come to me for advise, pls if you are him what will you do? Matured minds pls.
Simp both of ya angry

Irritating piece of shiit both of ya

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Re: She dumps him 8 years ago and wants him back now. by Nobody: 4:34pm On Aug 13, 2020
Tell your guy to dump her in a trash bin because that's where she belongs.

She is an unrepentant and unhomely slut.
Re: She dumps him 8 years ago and wants him back now. by Nephilim: 4:45pm On Aug 13, 2020
Many ladies have missed their God's will in marriage due to selfishness, greediness, and lack of contentment. They were probably meant to be together but sorry he's someone's else now. God won't force his will on you, you either accept or reject it, whichever way na you go enjoy your choice.

Tell your friend not to be stupid, how will he feel if another man starts channeling his wife in the name of ex!

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Re: She dumps him 8 years ago and wants him back now. by cybriz82(m): 4:57pm On Aug 13, 2020
Darkseid:
The fact that your guy/ you still dey look for advice show say his mumu never do, that's if the story is true. If awon redpill gang call una simp, una go begin vex, stvpid guys annoy the fvck out of me, tueh angry angry
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Correction pls the op n d guy mumu never do...abeg no abuse d onlyvguy . sad
Re: She dumps him 8 years ago and wants him back now. by ZACHIE: 5:24pm On Aug 13, 2020
How do 31 years olds buy and build properties all over Lagos?
No be this same Lagos wey we dey?
Okay o
Re: She dumps him 8 years ago and wants him back now. by sammy7410(m): 5:30pm On Aug 13, 2020
angry

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Re: She dumps him 8 years ago and wants him back now. by Openbusiness: 6:44pm On Aug 13, 2020
OP shey u dey wine me ni
Re: She dumps him 8 years ago and wants him back now. by halogate: 6:45pm On Aug 13, 2020
...without mincing words
..God will punish u if u have anything to do with that woman!!
after how many years?? undecided
whatever you FELT for her is dead and buried dude..
..resist that devilish whisper
Re: She dumps him 8 years ago and wants him back now. by Openbusiness: 6:47pm On Aug 13, 2020
ZACHIE:
How do 31 years olds buy and build properties all over Lagos?
No be this same Lagos wey we dey?
Okay o
u neva jam. Guys like dat plenty for Lekki phase 1 & 2. Y u tink say all d hoelosho girls in Lagos don relocate go Lekki grin
Re: She dumps him 8 years ago and wants him back now. by luminouz(m): 6:48pm On Aug 13, 2020
Lies




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undecided undecided
Re: She dumps him 8 years ago and wants him back now. by luminouz(m): 6:50pm On Aug 13, 2020
DaddyRochie1642:
That's how the Devil destroys a Lovely, Beautiful home with twins..is that your friend aware that what he has is other people's prayer point every night and day.

I can Assure that your Friend that if he continues, it will End In WEEPING and SINCERE WAILING and gnashing of Teeth for him grin grin

So you believed that SUPERSTORY??

which mumu friend would want advice after all that drama?
Re: She dumps him 8 years ago and wants him back now. by loswhite(m): 7:08pm On Aug 13, 2020
Kongaone:
Hello romancelander.

A friend of mine dated this girl in 2012 for almost a year during his first job with a 100k salary. She was 21 while he was 23 years old then. She was in her final year and was receiving monthly allowance of 20k from her parents. Though she has accommodation in the hostel but she prefers staying with him in his apartment which was very close to her school. My guy was taking care of this girl whose entitlement mentality was so high. They were eating outside almost everyday as she couldn't cook then. He loved her so much and wouldn't mind marrying her thus he was footing all her bills and was sending very little home to his parents and siblings. This lady still complained that he was looking after his family more than he takes care of her needs.

In days when my guy was so broke she would never assist him even as a loan. She was so beautiful and intelligent that she was the dream of most guys on campus. At a point she called the relationship off stating that she wants to go back to her ex and my guy who was so tired of the relationship but never wanted to hurt her accepted in good fate.

As luck may have it he got a new job ssme year with double pay in Lagos. She later came back saying her calling for a quit was just a joke but my guy requested they just take a break and re evaluate the relationship. He left the town and moved to Lagos, they communicated for few months and lost communication. She deactivated her social media contacts and was no where to be found.

Fast forward to 2020, my guy (now 31) is married with twin boys and has properties and investment in Lagos with a salary of about half a million. He's now looking very fresh and handsome (na money be fine bobo). He placed his wife on 60k monthly allowance and opened a shop for her. Some months ago this his ex girlfriend chatted him that she's in Lagos and they met with their love almost rekindling. She now works in Lagos with 60k pay.

Now this lady (now 29) and still single is accusing my guy of not making much efforts to look for her while he was single. Said she regretted her past actions and has completely changed and felt she was the one married to him. She even said she can accept to be his second wife or his baby mama and won't marry any guy who is not like my guy (in terms of character, emotion and ofcourse money).

My guy has come to me for advise, pls if you are him what will you do? Matured minds pls.
You and your guy are mad
Re: She dumps him 8 years ago and wants him back now. by hollarunji08(m): 7:32pm On Aug 13, 2020
Ma lo fa oo Its not for the children Ma lo fa
Re: She dumps him 8 years ago and wants him back now. by flokii: 7:33pm On Aug 13, 2020
@Op If your story is real, then that your guy/you should free the girl and face his life and family.
Why will a morally sound lady accept to be a side baby mama just because the guy is well to do.. same guy she dumped without looking back, never assisted when he needed help.

Seriously, your guy needs to think with his head, count his blessings and say no to emotional blackmail from an Ex that appeared from nowhere. Soon she will start complaining that he treats his wife and kids better than her and start unnecessary drama in his life.

There is a reason for 'NO'.. Simply say no and move the fvck on already or it will end in premium tears for you/your guy.

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Re: She dumps him 8 years ago and wants him back now. by Decimus: 7:49pm On Aug 13, 2020
Kongaone:
Hello romancelander.

A friend of mine dated this girl in 2012 for almost a year during his first job with a 100k salary. She was 21 while he was 23 years old then. She was in her final year and was receiving monthly allowance of 20k from her parents. Though she has accommodation in the hostel but she prefers staying with him in his apartment which was very close to her school. My guy was taking care of this girl whose entitlement mentality was so high. They were eating outside almost everyday as she couldn't cook then. He loved her so much and wouldn't mind marrying her thus he was footing all her bills and was sending very little home to his parents and siblings. This lady still complained that he was looking after his family more than he takes care of her needs.

In days when my guy was so broke she would never assist him even as a loan. She was so beautiful and intelligent that she was the dream of most guys on campus. At a point she called the relationship off stating that she wants to go back to her ex and my guy who was so tired of the relationship but never wanted to hurt her accepted in good fate.

As luck may have it he got a new job ssme year with double pay in Lagos. She later came back saying her calling for a quit was just a joke but my guy requested they just take a break and re evaluate the relationship. He left the town and moved to Lagos, they communicated for few months and lost communication. She deactivated her social media contacts and was no where to be found.

Fast forward to 2020, my guy (now 31) is married with twin boys and has properties and investment in Lagos with a salary of about half a million. He's now looking very fresh and handsome (na money be fine bobo). He placed his wife on 60k monthly allowance and opened a shop for her. Some months ago this his ex girlfriend chatted him that she's in Lagos and they met with their love almost rekindling. She now works in Lagos with 60k pay.

Now this lady (now 29) and still single is accusing my guy of not making much efforts to look for her while he was single. Said she regretted her past actions and has completely changed and felt she was the one married to him. She even said she can accept to be his second wife or his baby mama and won't marry any guy who is not like my guy (in terms of character, emotion and ofcourse money).

My guy has come to me for advise, pls if you are him what will you do? Matured minds pls.
Good script, but it's common.
Re: She dumps him 8 years ago and wants him back now. by elliotmarshall(m): 7:59pm On Aug 13, 2020
Help me tell that your man say na idiot

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