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Re: Dating A Guy Abroad — Nigerian Lady Based In Ireland Speaks. Photos by obonadogan: 7:05am On Aug 14, 2020
White men usually see black women as less attractive compared to their white counterparts. That would explain why they rarely approach our women.
British, Irish in general would rather go for an Eastern European before approaching a black lady.

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Re: Dating A Guy Abroad — Nigerian Lady Based In Ireland Speaks. Photos by Nobody: 7:05am On Aug 14, 2020
Petyprincess:

Help your sisters,cousins around you first, at least you will have chance to get a sponsor because I'm tired of your wailing on every travel thread!!
I don't need to be searching for white guys online when gat one already so help your sisters,close friends,relatives etc because it might be your last chance to leave Nigeria!
Or ask him if he is bisexual so you can offer him yourself! Like they say "opportunity comes but once"
I should offer him myself
I don't think this girl is alright angry
Re: Dating A Guy Abroad — Nigerian Lady Based In Ireland Speaks. Photos by Nairalandmonika: 7:10am On Aug 14, 2020
MajorOvakporaye:
I need rich Irish guys to date
Not all these broke NL guys littering the space with their cheap poverty talks
I doubt u are a girl sha, but if am wrong I can see why u are single.
Re: Dating A Guy Abroad — Nigerian Lady Based In Ireland Speaks. Photos by IVORY2009(m): 7:16am On Aug 14, 2020
MajorOvakporaye:
Rich guys I want


Rich guy here, that's if your are a lady....grin

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Re: Dating A Guy Abroad — Nigerian Lady Based In Ireland Speaks. Photos by Keemsleek005(m): 7:18am On Aug 14, 2020
arukwe123:
They deceive yourself. Only losers there will date Nigerian girls



Really. Nigerians girls, why do some of you just wake up and start insulting nigeria women? First let me tell you these, its the type of person you are that draws the kind of women that flows around you, it's was you think that manifest to you, if you think Nigerian women are useless surely its the useless ones that will also flow around you. And dont forget you have sisters, niece, friends, aunties, cousins, relatives that are nigerian women? Guess too much watching movies is the problem nowadays. You think there are no usless women in Usa, England, canada,etc.
We got a lot of beautiful, useful, handworking, faithful, women in nigeria all you need to do is open your inner eyes, change your mentality, let your thinking flow to the right direction, then you see the wonders of nigerian women.

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Re: Dating A Guy Abroad — Nigerian Lady Based In Ireland Speaks. Photos by HOLAROCKDAY(m): 7:35am On Aug 14, 2020
ladies shakara too much... de go de form hard target like say dia life depends on it...if u con get one again... na billing de go use nack u Apako....i tire ooo

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Re: Dating A Guy Abroad — Nigerian Lady Based In Ireland Speaks. Photos by Iceyjayz: 7:48am On Aug 14, 2020
missimelda01:
The way this dating issue has suddenly become a matter of concern undecided

Some ladies will wear the best clothes, put on a beautiful smile and all, yet someone who hardly comes out and who is less interested in fashion will get a man effortlessly.

If you're not desperate, go about your normal life and someday you'll find that person that fits perfectly.
The first time you made sense
Re: Dating A Guy Abroad — Nigerian Lady Based In Ireland Speaks. Photos by Gordieshegz(m): 7:54am On Aug 14, 2020
Angelanest:
Entanglement indeed...lol. Some people said Nigerian girls are sex starved abroad but e be like say na scam. Nice video by the way.


Ma/Sir!

Nice advice from the op but there is nothing in this video or post that debases the points were earlier made by the guys living abroad about many Nigerian ladies in foreign lands.

And remember it was previously mentioned how their affinities for owning YouTube channels spiral, just to kill boredom.

All in all, our sisters should look inwards and check their belief systems about relationships, both at home and in abroad.

Their entitlement mentality, double standards, poor communication, shallow knowledge on deep topics, among other things should be checked.

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Re: Dating A Guy Abroad — Nigerian Lady Based In Ireland Speaks. Photos by jaxxy(m): 7:56am On Aug 14, 2020
womenareapes:


not after you have used your vagina as a vacuum cleaner! undecided

you see those frustrated women outside the street? one thing they won't tell you is that when there are young and foolish! them spent most of their time jumping from one diiiick to another not thinking about the consequence!

when age is not in favour of them! you will start seeing them Jumping from one Shiloh to another.
blaming God.

nonsense black women!

That’s true bt some didn’t Jump around like that they just dated wrongly. Dated the wrong person for too long b4 realizing the truth then finding and trusting sm1eslse takes them smtmes cos they take a break.
Re: Dating A Guy Abroad — Nigerian Lady Based In Ireland Speaks. Photos by Goalnaldo(m): 7:59am On Aug 14, 2020
truthsayer009:
I would totally advise using dating apps when outside of Nigeria, it works pretty well & you can meet hardworking individuals. Hangout parties, clubs etc.

In Nigeria, the opposite is what you find, every girl on Badoo, Tinder etc are purely Runs Girls. I can guarantee you 100%. Church or office is where you meet sane people, that is If they don't disguise on Sunday morning service after friday late night Runs lol.
Nigeria dating sites dey fear me. I saw one advertised here and decided to sign up. About 7 girls messaged me within 10 minutes. My fear is that you might be chatting with a guy thinking it's a girl grin

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Re: Dating A Guy Abroad — Nigerian Lady Based In Ireland Speaks. Photos by sacajawea: 8:00am On Aug 14, 2020
Re: Dating A Guy Abroad — Nigerian Lady Based In Ireland Speaks. Photos by sacajawea: 8:01am On Aug 14, 2020
MajorOvakporaye:
I need rich Irish guys to date
Not all these broke NL guys littering the space with their cheap poverty talks
I need a very rich Irish woman too
Re: Dating A Guy Abroad — Nigerian Lady Based In Ireland Speaks. Photos by ThatFairGuy: 8:15am On Aug 14, 2020
simplepee:
Nigerian guys love spreading things that weirdly make them 'feel good' . Sex starved ko grin grin grin.
We're all human and it's natural to. Stop this Hypocrisy
Re: Dating A Guy Abroad — Nigerian Lady Based In Ireland Speaks. Photos by techtechh: 8:16am On Aug 14, 2020
yassinattah:

See her name self Major Vapour something something,I can't even pronounce it.
I can feed u and ur whole family for a year and my account wouldn't shake.
Mtseww.
What happened to the name fooooool

Why would you be able to pronounce it, are you both from the same ethnic group?

Better Shut up your broke mouth nigg

You and your poverty ridden family will go to hell

Go and soak your last garri in peace
Re: Dating A Guy Abroad — Nigerian Lady Based In Ireland Speaks. Photos by Petyprincess(f): 8:18am On Aug 14, 2020
ZINIBANKS:

Are should offer him myself
I don't think this girl is alright angry
At least you will travel out to your dream country grin
Think about it grin

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Re: Dating A Guy Abroad — Nigerian Lady Based In Ireland Speaks. Photos by proclinician: 8:23am On Aug 14, 2020
missimelda01:
The way this dating issue has suddenly become a matter of concern undecided

Some ladies will wear the best clothes, put on a beautiful smile and all, yet someone who hardly comes out and who is less interested in fashion will get a man effortlessly.

If you're not desperate, go about your normal life and someday you'll find that person that fits perfectly.

First and foremost, get a life do not just exist, live.

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Re: Dating A Guy Abroad — Nigerian Lady Based In Ireland Speaks. Photos by ITbomb(m): 8:24am On Aug 14, 2020
Church is the worst place to find a wife
truthsayer009:
I would totally advise using dating apps when outside of Nigeria, it works pretty well & you can meet hardworking individuals. Hangout parties, clubs etc.

In Nigeria, the opposite is what you find, every girl on Badoo, Tinder etc are purely Runs Girls. I can guarantee you 100%. Church or office is where you meet sane people, that is If they don't disguise on Sunday morning service after friday late night Runs lol.

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Re: Dating A Guy Abroad — Nigerian Lady Based In Ireland Speaks. Photos by Alaganature(m): 8:29am On Aug 14, 2020
MajorOvakporaye:


get lost!
Poor man

How's my choice your concern?

The last time I checked I didn't see your name on #1000 note so I believe we are both poor..

Omo Ase
looking for ready made Irish rich guy....lol
Re: Dating A Guy Abroad — Nigerian Lady Based In Ireland Speaks. Photos by Houseofglam7(f): 8:45am On Aug 14, 2020
sacajawea:

What?
Nada
Re: Dating A Guy Abroad — Nigerian Lady Based In Ireland Speaks. Photos by Nobody: 8:56am On Aug 14, 2020
Petyprincess:

At least you will travel out to your dream country grin
Think about it grin
You're so rude,impolite, and ill-mannered
I really pity that dude that will marry you
Let me cry two seconds for him cry cry cry cry cry cry
Just stick to your audio white boyfriend ok angry

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Re: Dating A Guy Abroad — Nigerian Lady Based In Ireland Speaks. Photos by Petyprincess(f): 9:00am On Aug 14, 2020
ZINIBANKS:

You're so rude,impolite, and ill-mannered
I really pity that dude that will marry you
Let me cry two seconds for him cry cry cry cry cry cry
Just stick to your audio white boyfriend ok angry
Lol I'm so rude meanwhile you have been the one trolling me grin You guys and victim playing sef grin
Let me just leave you alone, if i should insult you,you might think about your life again!!

Take care!

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Re: Dating A Guy Abroad — Nigerian Lady Based In Ireland Speaks. Photos by Nobody: 9:03am On Aug 14, 2020
Petyprincess:

Lol I'm so rude meanwhile you have been the one trolling me grin You guys and victim playing sef grin
Let me just leave you alone, if i should insult you,you might think about your life again!!

Take care!
Just get the fûck outta here bitch angry
Re: Dating A Guy Abroad — Nigerian Lady Based In Ireland Speaks. Photos by luxs(m): 9:11am On Aug 14, 2020
MajorOvakporaye:
Rich guys I want
_





I WANT
Re: Dating A Guy Abroad — Nigerian Lady Based In Ireland Speaks. Photos by Nwaotu10(m): 9:23am On Aug 14, 2020
Slawormir:
Damnnnnn niggarrr
Isoright
Nice one
Also tell them to do away with the entitlement mentality

That rubbish scare the shit out of every man whether white man or black man

Dsmnn nigga.
As a bomber, I'm sure girls will be flocking around you like flies.
Re: Dating A Guy Abroad — Nigerian Lady Based In Ireland Speaks. Photos by Abusadiq01(m): 9:42am On Aug 14, 2020
MajorOvakporaye:
Rich guys I want

Re: Dating A Guy Abroad — Nigerian Lady Based In Ireland Speaks. Photos by LoveJesus87(m): 9:57am On Aug 14, 2020
truthsayer009:
I would totally advise using dating apps when outside of Nigeria, it works pretty well & you can meet hardworking individuals. Hangout parties, clubs etc.

In Nigeria, the opposite is what you find, every girl on Badoo, Tinder etc are purely Runs Girls. I can guarantee you 100%. Church or office is where you meet sane people, that is If they don't disguise on Sunday morning service after friday late night Runs lol.

Instagram in Nigeria is also useful, It's like 50/50 though.
Thanks
Re: Dating A Guy Abroad — Nigerian Lady Based In Ireland Speaks. Photos by Hathor5(f): 10:09am On Aug 14, 2020
Petyprincess:
Lol tell them o
Nigerian ladies are sought after everywhere in the world!!! Na we dey get fine fine foreign guys still they say no one find us attractive outside Nigeria grin
I laugh in "Nigerian ladies aren't sought after" grin
Who no like better thing?

This is what they tell themselves because the are afraid of the competition. wink

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Re: Dating A Guy Abroad — Nigerian Lady Based In Ireland Speaks. Photos by raphy(m): 10:32am On Aug 14, 2020
i de abroad already so I no get problem wit local girls my casava HV been sucked by white free of charge .
Re: Dating A Guy Abroad — Nigerian Lady Based In Ireland Speaks. Photos by Petyprincess(f): 10:37am On Aug 14, 2020
Hathor5:


This is what they tell themselves because the are afraid of the competition. wink
Lol my dear they will never tell themselves the truth!! The way guys here makes Nigerian women look so bad you gon be wondering if we the devils while Nigerian guys are the saint.

These are the lies they feed themselves to make Nigerian girls feel inferior nd not worthy but little did they know we know their tatics nw grin

Thats why I'm a preacher of interracial relationship because only then you will realized you truly a queen! Most Nigerian guys don't value what they have but values 90 years old great grandma because of green card grin

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Re: Dating A Guy Abroad — Nigerian Lady Based In Ireland Speaks. Photos by Rawhumper(m): 10:52am On Aug 14, 2020
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Hi dear really nice write up.

Howz it going over there?

Do u think u dont contradict yourself?










quote author=Lifeofgabbyz post=92787650]Some people have that misconception that it is very difficult for a Nigerian lady to get a man abroad, be it a white or black man. It actually isn’t difficult it just depends on the lady, her attitude, appearance and the situation.

Before you say I am speaking plenty English let me explain what I mean based on my experiences in Ireland where I currently reside.

1. Before you start complaining that no one is walking up to you, ask yourself this “do I look approachable”. The truth is a guy would walk up to you if you look approachable, because you cannot be frowning or doing resting bitch face and expect someone to walk up to you. Some people are not okay with rejection o and don’t get me wrong some people also fancy frowning o but to each their own. My advice is access yourself and the situation before complaining

2. If you are more of an introvert I can understand how this might be difficult for you but the truth is the best place to meet people is outside your bedroom because you get to see them physically and connect on a different level, you can also meet people online but c’mon some of us are skeptical right but if meeting people online will work or works for you, then kudos.

3. Another thing is you have to be true to yourself in the sense that you need to ask yourself “what do I want” because you cannot be looking for entanglement and then expect someone’s son or daughter that is looking for marriage to be entangling with you. Often times when looking for something you need to ask yourself if that is what you want. And if someone walks up to you looking for more than you are looking for, then just tell them.

4. Lastly, try not to be biased towards dating apps because in as much as they might look useless and everyone just wants sex, there are people who don’t just want sex, so try it out and if it doesn’t work for you then you know it’s not for you but if it works for you then it does.

To round off my points I would just say be approachable or look approachable, dress nicely and try not to be rude to people… Also some people who are complaining that they cannot find men are chasing the men away with the way they talk or the way they relate with people. And on that note I would like to also say that Nigerian ladies or women abroad do get approached. BTW, Nigerian girls are balling over here in Ireland.

Watch an indepth video where my friend and I discussed about this, please click on the link and don’t forget to subscribe to my channel.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Nhdt6Ifzbhg
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Re: Dating A Guy Abroad — Nigerian Lady Based In Ireland Speaks. Photos by Hathor5(f): 11:01am On Aug 14, 2020
Petyprincess:

Lol my dear they will never tell themselves the truth!! The way guys here makes Nigerian women look so bad you gon be wondering if we the devils while Nigerian guys are the saint.

I think psychologists call it projection. undecided

These are the lies they feed themselves to make Nigerian girls feel inferior nd not worthy but little did they know we know their tatics nw grin

Thats why I'm a preacher of interracial relationship because only then you will realized you truly a queen! Most Nigerian guys don't value what they have but values 90 years old great grandma because of green card grin

I will never understand why some ladies are not open to interracial dating. Preach sister! cool

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Re: Dating A Guy Abroad — Nigerian Lady Based In Ireland Speaks. Photos by Immunity04: 11:40am On Aug 14, 2020
So when I finally leave this country I will still be chasing Nigerian girls? Noo, there problem for here don tire me self

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