The abokis will frustrate you especially if you was an egocentric Southerner.

However if you had an excellent relationship with them they will pity you especially if you tell them you cannot live in the South that can appeal to their emotions.

If i were you first thing is i will pretend to Join their religion (if you are not one already) and involve those Local Mallams your Job will cum back faster than typing all this long story you posted.

Thank me later.

Mistakemaker:
Hello, I had to create this new account specifically for this and had to post in this section because I can't do so in job/vacancy section yet.

Straight to the point, I resigned my job in a government tertiary institution up north due to security challenges less than a month ago,. Now I have come down to a similar institution in a state in the southern part of Nigeria but finding it hard to cope here due to human relationship factors.. I wish to go back to the north and manage the security situations there than to be suffering human factors here.

The said institution is a federal government hospital

Now I learnt one can cancel resignation within 3 months of tendering it, my questions are now :
(1)is it true according to the civil service rule?
(2) what are the processes involved

I need candid answer to this.. You can add insults if you so wish.. I will be replying to further questions


Please front page, I need advise on this, thanks

You can start by reaching out to the office where you tendered the resignation. Retract the letter, erase all records and do your due diligence to ensure that all traces have been reconciled and erased. Whilst doing this, hold on to the present job until all has been settled.

First, you must have weighed the consequences (positive and negative) before you tendered your resignation in the first place.
Secondly, that you secured a new job (despite no longer federal) within a few days after leaving your previous job shows that you knows your onions.

My advice.

Since you identified security of life as your primary purpose of leaving your former job, I will advise you to stick with that conviction and work out the supposed human relationship dilemma you finds yourself in the south with your present job. This is because it is only the living that can make a LIVING. Sometimes, we should look beyond our present situation and see the possibilities and potentials that exist within the same circumstances.

Meanwhile, since it was a federal medical institution you left, you would have instead seek transfer, and not resignation. Anyway, the deed is done.

So, establish a better working relationship with those in your present job currently making you to regret your resignation of your previous job, and see things turn around for your good.

I wish you all the best.

Conclusion.

What if in the process of seeking return to your previous job, you lose your current job, and you still didn't get back your previous job, what will you do? WILL YOU COMMIT SUICIDE?

A good word is enough for the wise. I wish you God's speed in Jesus name. Amen.

God forbid that I should abandon my Christian faith because of a job.
OP, please, don't because of the crumbs that fell from the rich man's table abandoned your Christian faith, if you a true Christian in the first place. Good luck.

GorkoDimo:
The abokis will frustrate you especially if you was an egocentric Southerner.

However if you had an excellent relationship with them they will pity you especially if you tell them you cannot live in the South that can appeal to their emotions.

If i were you first thing is i will pretend to Join their religion (if you are not one already) and involve those Local Mallams your Job will cum back faster than typing all this long story you posted.

Thank me later.

SocialJustice:
Go work on your greed. And I didn't curse you to start with, only shared my opinion. Your understanding of what I said only goes to prove further the negative character that you are.

Not everyone is a job seeker or feels a job is the only way to earn a living.

Carry your self inflicted wound elsewhere to treat.

Don't mind him...You should work on yourself mr mistakemaker.Take this advise.
For Civil Service you won't remain Junior forever naw.
One day,you too go dey grade level 17 as oga but your pride and bad character makes you think everyone is after you when na you and your village no want you to Face your work peacefully.
If You think life is a bed of Roses some where,guy think again.
If no be madness or village people why you resigned in the first place when you would have been seeking for a transfer as usual?!
Rubbish and ingredients.

Vicky99:
Long leg stuff... indeed this life no balance. I'm still looking for a way to leave this country. I'm tired already... I'm not doing again.

I can help you if you truly want to

DemonInvoker:

Don't mind him...You should work on yourself mr mistakemaker.Take this advise.
For Civil Service you won't remain Junior forever naw.
One day,you too go dey grade level 17 as oga but your pride and bad character makes you think everyone is after you when na you and your village no want you to Face your work peacefully.
If You think life is a bed of Roses some where,guy think again.
If no be madness or village people why you resigned in the first place when you would have been seeking for a transfer as usual?!
Rubbish and ingredients.

Lol, u don't understand my writeup.. Those who did have given their useful contribution.. I didn't lose a job bc I work same job here, u can read to understand again.. I have no need to engage u in altercation

luluosas:
First, you must have weighed the consequences (positive and negative) before you tendered your resignation in the first place.
Secondly, that you secured a new job (despite no longer federal) within a few days after leaving your previous job shows that you knows your onions.

My advice.

Since you identified security of life as your primary purpose of leaving your former job, I will advise you to stick with that conviction and work out the supposed human relationship dilemma you finds yourself in the south with your present job. This is because it is only the living that can make a LIVING. Sometimes, we should look beyond our present situation and see the possibilities and potentials that exist within the same circumstances.

Meanwhile, since it was a federal medical institution you left, you would have instead seek transfer, and not resignation. Anyway, the deed is done.

So, establish a better working relationship with those in your present job currently making you to regret your resignation of your previous job, and see things turn around for your good.

I wish you all the best.

Conclusion.

What if in the process of seeking return to your previous job, you lose your current job, and you still didn't get back your previous job, what will you do? WILL YOU COMMIT SUICIDE?

A good word is enough for the wise. I wish you God's speed in Jesus name. Amen.

Thanks for your advice man.. I'm not in a private, I'm still in same federal government work exactly as I was in the north, insecurity chased me down here but human relations here is what I'm yet to contend with.. Thank you once again

So phone you use for one week na em that white paper wash like that?

Mayflowa:


I can help you if you truly want to

if God truly put it in your mind... I will be happy.

Human relations my foot, oga stay and deal with it. Are u not prayerful. Cox security to me is priority, so that u you won’t come here again to tell us story

Wiseandtrue:
If you stay in a place where you are not happy, you will grow old quicker or might even enjoy the place as time goes on.

Why not speak to the person you submitted the resignation letter to

It might be easier to retrieve before you resign here again!

Whatever happens don't resign here until you are sure!

I wish you the best and God's protection in the North!

Stay safe

I don't think he has any real job down here in the South. He just resigned and moved down south, now he's having trouble coping without job. The talk about "human relation" is a cheap to lie to mask the truth. Dude misses his old job, simple

Mistakemaker:

Lol, u don't understand my writeup.. Those who did have given their useful contribution.. I didn't lose a job bc I work same job here, u can read to understand again.. I have no need to engage u in altercation

You used the word "resign", that gave you up, it exposed your lie that you are not being sincere with us. By resigning, you lost something which you didn't anticipate in the course of your resignation and that thing you lost has nothing to do with "human relation".

Ladycewhy:
you call boko haram and banditary occational? those situations have been gulping money from the national reserve for years.

Pleateau state which has been ruined thanks to hausas and fulani ( Jos used to be so peaceful) is the Only state I admire around that region,but those blood sucking hausas and fulani turned it into a shadow of itself.


Now let me with no apologies say northerners are nice until it's time to dagger you for the most frivolous reason. Even that best friend who is a northerner will target you first .

There is nothing nice about a person who gives you a handshake and hides a dagger behind with his other hand ready to plung it into you, going for the kill.

Read what I wrote.
I said occasional religious conflicts, referring to the sporadic religious riots that occur.
And the current security problems, referring to BH and bandits which were non existent 2 decades ago.

I reside and grew up in Adamawa and I will unapologetically tell you has one of the best people. Religion wise it has a decent mix of northern Christians and Muslims even intermarriages, the city Jimeta belongs to no one tribe because historical it's been a place for outsiders to conduct business and one of the few northern States that do not have nonsense sharia as their state law.
The only downside is the Yola fulanis can be nepotistic when you don't speak their language.

IMAliyu:

Read what I wrote.
I said occasional religious conflicts, referring to the sporadic religious riots that occur.
And the current security problems, referring to BH and bandits which were non existent 2 decades ago.

I reside and grew up in Adamawa and I will unapologetically tell you has one of the best people. Religion wise it has a decent mix of northern Christians and Muslims even intermarriages, the city Jimeta belongs to no one tribe because historical it's been a place for outsiders to conduct business and one of the few northern States that do not have nonsense sharia as their state law.
The only downside is the Yola fulanis can be nepotistic when you don't speak their language.

Occational religious fight that can see everything you have worked for go down the drain for frivolous reasons. What's nice about someone who is kind to you only to dagger you without looking back?

Running away for death that will come to u simply even if u relocated to UD

Running away for death that will come to u simply even if u relocated to US

Vicky99:
Long leg stuff... indeed this life no balance. I'm still looking for a way to leave this country. I'm tired already... I'm not doing again.

Very funny gurl.

Ladycewhy:
Occational religious fight that can see everything you have worked for go down the drain for frivolous reasons. What's nice about someone who is kind to you only to dagger you without looking back?

Have you had a personal experience with such?
Because I don't think the people that are nice to you are the same people that turn around to kill you the next moment. Those kinds of people are usually openly aggressive, passively aggressive, or show signs of sociopathy. From my personal experience.

The same way you have apprehensions about the north, similarly I have apprehensions about the south and potentially being killed by someone for the sin and crime of being born into my ethnicity or just being attacked for some other reasons.
So I can understand your concern to an extent, but not unless I interact with the people, I reserve my judgement of them. The actions of the few doesn't represent the majority.

Inkling:
Hmmmm....

Life first. I can kill myself.

If the security issue is still critical re-think again

op think about this.

IMAliyu:


Have you had a personal experience with such?
Because I don't think the people that are nice to you are the same people that turn around to kill you the next moment. Those kinds of people are usually openly aggressive, passively aggressive, or show signs of sociopathy. From my personal experience.

The same way you have apprehensions about the north, similarly I have apprehensions about the south and potentially being killed by someone for the sin and crime of being born into my ethnicity or just being attacked for some other reasons.
So I can understand your concern to an extent, but not unless I interact with the people, I reserve my judgement of them. The actions of the few doesn't represent the majority.

I have lived in plateau state so I know what I am talking about. These so called hausas are likely compared to the rat that blows you yet eat you.


I have witnessed how treacherous and conniving they can be. Southerners will show you if they don't like you ,but you see with hausas ,you will never see it coming until you drop your guard as an outsider and fall for their two faced kindness .

Ladycewhy:
I have lived in plateau state so I know what I am talking about. These so called hausas are likely compared to the rat that blows you yet eat you.


I have witnessed how treacherous and conniving they can be. Southerners will show you if they don't like you ,but you see with hausas ,you will never see it coming until to drop your guard as an outsider and fall for their two faced kindness .

Ok fair enough.
The jos conflicts and killings are atrocious.

authority2006:


You used the word "resign", that gave you up, it exposed your lie that you are not being sincere with us. By resigning, you lost something which you didn't anticipate in the course of your resignation and that thing you lost has nothing to do with "human relation".

Please learn to comprehend.. Others have given their opinion.. Thanks

authority2006:


I don't think he has any real job down here in the South. He just resigned and moved down south, now he's having trouble coping without job. The talk about "human relation" is a cheap to lie to mask the truth. Dude misses his old job, simple

I have same job in the south.. I'm saying it how it is, no need to assume, okay?

Komu1048:
Human relations my foot, oga stay and deal with it. Are u not prayerful. Cox security to me is priority, so that u you won’t come here again to tell us story

Lol.. Thanks man

Mayflowa:


I can help you if you truly want to

Drop me your email address.. I will message you.

Try and retrieve it but if its not retrievable you will have to cope with our wahala here in the south.

Working in the north / with northerners is easier I accept.

Everybody is after everybody in the office here ( even in a govt job)

Better. Just on those trying to frustrate you. It is well.
I resigned my job at AUN in the north due to insecurity and relocated down south here. I am not regretting anything though not with a job since 2017 here. Cheers.

Mistakemaker:

Thanks for your advice man.. I'm not in a private, I'm still in same federal government work exactly as I was in the north, insecurity chased me down here but human relations here is what I'm yet to contend with.. Thank you once again