There is a video circulating where a woman posted a video a bit perturbed because her date asked her “where did she see herself in the next five years?” She got upset and walked out of the date.
Now how is this not a first date question unless she came only for the food? Why would a man invest time and effort in someone who has not thought about their future?

Laugh won kill me when I watch that video. Just a simple intellectual question she begin talk God no go shame us.

MissRaine69:
There is a video circulating where a woman posted a video a bit perturbed because her date asked her “where did she see herself in the next five years?” She got upset and walked out of the date.
Now how is this not a first date question unless she came only for the food? Why would a man invest time and effort in someone who has not thought about their future?

MissRaine69:
There is a video circulating where a woman posted a video a bit perturbed because her date asked her “where did she see herself in the next five years?” She got upset and walked out of the date.
Now how is this not a first date question unless she came only for the food? Why would a man invest time and effort in someone who has not thought about their future?

Is she lightskin?

Some of them don't have ambition they depend on the man to elevate them that's why they all want a ready made man

TheCork:



Is she lightskin?

By way of wrong shade of foundation yes

Good to hear from you. Where have you been?

MissRaine69:

By way of wrong shade of foundation yes

MissRaine69:
unless she came only for the food?

OF COURSE.

MissRaine69:
There is a video circulating where a woman posted a video a bit perturbed because her date asked her “where did she see herself in the next five years?” She got upset and walked out of the date.
Now how is this not a first date question unless she came only for the food? Why would a man invest time and effort in someone who has not thought about their future?

She was on a "Foodie call" like a significant number of ladies do... based on latest credible social research.

I had a story where a guy totally screwed up on a date. He came and asked me questions without telling me anything about himself. The questions were certainly interesting, but then I found out where he took them from (from here if you're interested https://icebreakerquestions.info/). I don't like the type of guy who relies on some kind of template to impress a girl. Is it really that hard to be yourself? I personally have doubts about a guy who shows only wonderful qualities. Until I recognize at least one bad quality in a guy, I won't give him a chance.

AndrewGreen123:
I had a story where a guy totally screwed up on a date. He came and asked me questions without telling me anything about himself. The questions were certainly interesting, but then I found out where he took them from (from here if you're interested https://icebreakerquestions.info/). I don't like the type of guy who relies on some kind of template to impress a girl. Is it really that hard to be yourself? I personally have doubts about a guy who shows only wonderful qualities. Until I recognize at least one bad quality in a guy, I won't give him a chance.

I think your friend just got nervous. Give him advice to go to different parties where there are a lot of people, maybe it will be easier for him to get acquainted there.

on a first date?

you are asking a job interview question.just say you are not interested in the girl or you delibrately don't want to have a good time with the person.
you are just wack

AndrewGreen123:
I had a story where a guy totally screwed up on a date. He came and asked me questions without telling me anything about himself. The questions were certainly interesting, but then I found out where he took them from (from here if you're interested https://icebreakerquestions.info/). I don't like the type of guy who relies on some kind of template to impress a girl. Is it really that hard to be yourself? I personally have doubts about a guy who shows only wonderful qualities. Until I recognize at least one bad quality in a guy, I won't give him a chance.

now that is incredible

Yes, I agree with you. It is an important question. Future is important for every person and should have plans for it. I think it is a normal question on the first date unless she is not a serious one.

john4545:
Yes, I agree with you. It is an important question. Future is important for every person and should have plans for it. I think it is a normal question on the first date unless she is not a serious one.

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