PUNAengineOIL:
Apart from your number 1, you are right.

PUNAengineOIL:
Apart from your number 1 & 4, you are right.
Any man that follow that your rule number 1 will end up as either a "friendzoned nigga" or her "brother figure".
As a guy, you have to make your sexual intentions clear to any lady from the start, otherwise she will just turn you to her chit chat pal.

Then for your number 4, I have discovered that fear is a very necessary factor when it comes to relationship with women. When there's no element of fear, you will get zero respect from her. In life, the greatest form of respect is based on fear.

OkuFaba:
There is difference between FEAR and RESPECT..

RESPECT has an atom of fear,

FEAR doesn't have respect in it.

Barzinime:
You respect someone doesnt mean you fear them but fear is respect if doubting ask God.

DamnnNiggarr:
SIX GOLDEN RULES FOR MEN.

For a man to have a successful relationship,
These six rules must be adhered to, they are;

1. When you meet a girl, don't think of sex first; don't ask for sex. Even if you are hot in pants, pretend that you are a monk for some time.
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2.Don't go searching for a virgin, if you are not a virgin yourself. All the girls you have massacred, who will marry them. Besides, there is no record that virgins make better wives or are more faithful in marriage.
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3. If you are a "modern man," don't look for a "village girl that knows nothing." Soon you will start complaining that she is too local to fit into your circle of enlightened friends. Besides, a village girl may "wise up" and trouble will start in your home.
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4. Don't look for a girl that is afraid of you: a girl you can always intimidate. Fear is not respect.
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5. Don't be carried away by a girl's physical features: beauty, height, complexion, shape, breast shape, size and firmness, etc. They matter but they are not critical. In the long run, child-bearing and age affect these features. Besides, when you have married a woman for some years, her physical features stop "turning your head."
At that time, what will attract you to her will be what is inside of her: intelligence, wisdom, self-control, patience, peace, gentleness, etc.
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6. Don't be interested in a girl because of her wealth or her parents' wealth. Even if she is richer than you or her parents are richer, make it clear from the beginning that you will take care of your marriage yourself or that both of you will take care of your marriage together.
Don't accept your in-laws taking care of your family responsibilities. Let them allow you to build your own home. After all, many of them were poorer than you are now when they got married. If they want you to upgrade to their level, let them support your business, e.g by supplying their goods to you to sell and make your OWN money.

AM I RIGHT?

PUNAengineOIL:
Apart from your number 1 & 4, you are right.
Any man that follow that your rule number 1 will end up as either a "friendzoned nigga" or her "brother figure".
As a guy, you have to make your sexual intentions clear to any lady from the start, otherwise she will just turn you to her chit chat pal.

Then for your number 4, I have discovered that fear is a very necessary factor when it comes to relationship with women. When there's no element of fear, you will get zero respect from her. In life, the greatest form of respect is based on fear.

virginprincess:
Nairaland men sometimes behave sensible, most times behave senseless,

meobizy:
DamnnNiggarr, that was a good write-up.

I accept the rules apart from number five. If attractive women don’t kill me in this life then nothing will. You can’t expect me to see a Tacha, TBoss, Gifty, Nengi and Cee Cee then not follow them around like Tony Umez. My family members will swear for me for not making moves. I have long passed the age where men tell me beauty doesn’t matter, but a beautiful woman activates my mumu button just by existing. UyaiIncomparabl, did I lie? People keep saying physical beauty diminishes like they’ve never seen attractive people at the age of fifty and over.

beauty, height, complexion, shape, breast shape, size and firmness, etc. They matter but they are not critical. In the long run, child-bearing and age affect these features.

OkuFaba:
gimme God contact lemme holla

virginprincess:
Nairaland men sometimes behave sensible, most times behave senseless,

PUNAengineOIL:
Apart from your number 1 & 4, you are right.
Any man that follow that your rule number 1 will end up as either a "friendzoned nigga" or her "brother figure".
As a guy, you have to make your sexual intentions clear to any lady from the start, otherwise she will just turn you to her chit chat pal.

Then for your number 4, I have discovered that fear is a very necessary factor when it comes to relationship with women. When there's no element of fear, you will get zero respect from her. In life, the greatest form of respect is based on fear.

Barzinime:
You respect someone doesnt mean you fear them but fear is respect if doubting ask God.

PUNAengineOIL:
Apart from your number 1 & 4, you are right.
Any man that follow that your rule number 1 will end up as either a "friendzoned nigga" or her "brother figure".
As a guy, you have to make your sexual intentions clear to any lady from the start, otherwise she will just turn you to her chit chat pal.

Then for your number 4, I have discovered that fear is a very necessary factor when it comes to relationship with women. When there's no element of fear, you will get zero respect from her. In life, the greatest form of respect is based on fear.

in relationship, never make your partner fear you but respects and loves you because one day, that fear will flee from her, provided that your caring for her and your attention towards her are directly proportional to her love and respect.