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Re: Deji Yesufu: Resolving Marriage Crisis The Governor Ortom Way by spiceadole: 6:29am On Dec 09, 2020 |
PinkHealthGroup: It doesn't matter. At least,she will die a Mrs Somebody. Good luck to her. Medical doctor indeed 4 Likes |
Re: Deji Yesufu: Resolving Marriage Crisis The Governor Ortom Way by texazzpete(m): 6:32am On Dec 09, 2020 |
Anyone supporting this ‘reconciliation’ is an accursed clown. How can you see someone come out to report a long running crime of assault and you’re cheering on a ‘reconciliation’ so he will continue to beat her ? You think the man will suddenly change? You’re holding press conference with the woman still having bruises on her face. Nonsense. post=96879609: This is basically condoning domestic violence. 1 Like |
Re: Deji Yesufu: Resolving Marriage Crisis The Governor Ortom Way by Okwuazi930(m): 6:35am On Dec 09, 2020 |
Well,I jst hope the man will change for good.marriage is not easy at all. |
Re: Deji Yesufu: Resolving Marriage Crisis The Governor Ortom Way by descarado: 6:35am On Dec 09, 2020 |
NdigboWorldwide:Is it not Nigeria again? |
Re: Deji Yesufu: Resolving Marriage Crisis The Governor Ortom Way by Realhommie(m): 6:36am On Dec 09, 2020 |
PinkHealthGroup:Harbinger of evil, continue you hear... |
Re: Deji Yesufu: Resolving Marriage Crisis The Governor Ortom Way by eyinjuege: 6:38am On Dec 09, 2020 |
Incidentally, I learnt a woman set fire on her husband and he had to be hospitalised in the same Benue state after she saw the governor settling quarrel for this couple. I hope the governor would also go and help settle their marital crises too. 1 Like |
Re: Deji Yesufu: Resolving Marriage Crisis The Governor Ortom Way by Magnoliaa(f): 6:48am On Dec 09, 2020 |
Trashhh. |
Re: Deji Yesufu: Resolving Marriage Crisis The Governor Ortom Way by vixpal: 6:52am On Dec 09, 2020 |
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Re: Deji Yesufu: Resolving Marriage Crisis The Governor Ortom Way by Nobody: 7:01am On Dec 09, 2020 |
sojayy:The video we saw Ifeyinwa make was still her own side of the story; the man in question has not said his own side of the story. This is not to condone beating in marriage but to explain that in matters of crisis management, the two sides of the story should be heard. I find it interesting that many ladies are calling for the head of Pius. They forget that what is actually playing out in situations when men beat their wives is simply the stronger subduing the weaker. Many women also physically abuse their house-helps who they have greater strength over. Thus this matter is the issue of a depraved heart playing out in a fallen world; it is more than just a man beating a woman. 1 Like |
Re: Deji Yesufu: Resolving Marriage Crisis The Governor Ortom Way by Nobody: 7:01am On Dec 09, 2020 |
sojayy:The video we saw Ifeyinwa make was still her own side of the story; the man in question has not said his own side of the story. This is not to condone beating in marriage but to explain that in matters of crisis management, the two sides of the story should be heard. I find it interesting that many ladies are calling for the head of Pius. They forget that what is actually playing out in situations when men beat their wives is simply the stronger subduing the weaker. Many women also physically abuse their house-helps who they have greater strength over. Thus this matter is the issue of a depraved heart playing out in a fallen world; it is more than just a man beating a woman. |
Re: Deji Yesufu: Resolving Marriage Crisis The Governor Ortom Way by MISSCONGENIALITY(f): 7:05am On Dec 09, 2020 |
capitalzero:Don't mind them asking for his side of the story. He will tell them his side of the story after he must have killed her. As if his side of the story will justify his act. Why doesn't the wife him to when he misbehaves. Why must it always be the woman receiving beating for bad behavior while the man get praises for his own bad behaviors? 2 Likes |
Re: Deji Yesufu: Resolving Marriage Crisis The Governor Ortom Way by Nobody: 7:06am On Dec 09, 2020 |
NdigboWorldwide:Stop crying more than the bereived. Even the wife won't want her husband go to jail. I don't think you are married. What the governor did was likely the number one wish of the woman. |
Re: Deji Yesufu: Resolving Marriage Crisis The Governor Ortom Way by Ejiod(m): 7:06am On Dec 09, 2020 |
The person that wrote is piece is a goat. Pure African goat. Just imagine someone writing without thinking 3 Likes |
Re: Deji Yesufu: Resolving Marriage Crisis The Governor Ortom Way by Nobody: 7:08am On Dec 09, 2020 |
NdigboWorldwide:Stop crying more than the bereived. Even the wife won't want her husband go to jail. I don't think you are married. What the governor did was likely the number one wish of the woman. |
Re: Deji Yesufu: Resolving Marriage Crisis The Governor Ortom Way by ewami: 7:12am On Dec 09, 2020 |
sagitariusbaby: You have no right to comment on a matter you know nothing about the beginning. No insult bro |
Re: Deji Yesufu: Resolving Marriage Crisis The Governor Ortom Way by Gift96: 7:12am On Dec 09, 2020 |
nothing should warrant a man beating the mother of his children like that. it's not good for husband and wife to fight in the presence of their children |
Re: Deji Yesufu: Resolving Marriage Crisis The Governor Ortom Way by ewami: 7:12am On Dec 09, 2020 |
Ejiod: DO YOU THINK, BRING YOUR THOUGHT OUT AND LETS READ. STILL NO INSULT BRO |
Re: Deji Yesufu: Resolving Marriage Crisis The Governor Ortom Way by ewami: 7:14am On Dec 09, 2020 |
texazzpete: SHARAPP ALAYE. MUST YOU COMMENT |
Re: Deji Yesufu: Resolving Marriage Crisis The Governor Ortom Way by DrFunmisticGlow: 7:15am On Dec 09, 2020 |
Dear writer, Stop justifying and glorifying domestic violence and abuse with this write-up. As for that governor, ehn?! Let me not talk VBCampaign: |
Re: Deji Yesufu: Resolving Marriage Crisis The Governor Ortom Way by LordIsaac(m): 7:19am On Dec 09, 2020 |
She said "I do" after they read the vows to her which includes, "... I take thee for better... For worse! " As for Ortom, he just claimed the blessing that awaits peacemakers in Matthew Chapter 5. And what God has joined together, let no Nairalander put asunder with their keyboards. She saw responsible men before she fell for her irresponsible husband! |
Re: Deji Yesufu: Resolving Marriage Crisis The Governor Ortom Way by ChngedChnges(m): 7:22am On Dec 09, 2020 |
The governor did nothing wrong. Moreover, if you want to adopt the "Whitman's way of marriage" I think it should cut across all sections including the bride prize. With this men will not have a subconscious reasoning that they bought their wives. Instead see it as "we agreed to come together " simple. |
Re: Deji Yesufu: Resolving Marriage Crisis The Governor Ortom Way by apparentlylaw(m): 7:25am On Dec 09, 2020 |
mrkings84: Even the one ordained by God ...God don comot en hand Material things, Money, infidelity, Jealousy, Lack of compassion have all entered into every marriage in this time ... It's left for couples to manage and repair themselves |
Re: Deji Yesufu: Resolving Marriage Crisis The Governor Ortom Way by bunnae(f): 7:26am On Dec 09, 2020 |
Ejiod:Thank God it wasn't just me who felt this article was a piece of African thrash. Orton must be a wife beater himself for him to feel like the best solution joining the woman back with the man same day she made a cry for help. The whole of Benue can go ahead and start beating their women now. Their governor is a domestic violence apologist. Then this deji 1 Like |
Re: Deji Yesufu: Resolving Marriage Crisis The Governor Ortom Way by MuttleyLaff: 7:31am On Dec 09, 2020 |
MuttleyLaff: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pR_w4sbWs3k VBCampaign, fyi, Deji Yesufu, in his write up, didn't mention the philandering of Pius Angbo that Dr Ifeyinwa Angbo referred to, in the widely circulated video of her ordeal, as the root cause of why her husband, seasoned reporter with Channels Television, Pius Angbo, pummelled and sat on her, because she tried to suggest that he stop using money on for his sexual exploits but rather divert it to their kids upbringing, well being and home family set up. I asked myself, what husband in his right mind, would want to beat up his beautiful inside and outside, medical doctor wife, such as she is. There is nothing mysterious about marriage. Marriage is a training ground, where you hone your connecting skills. Marriage, prepares you for the ultimate and eternal relationship. Marriage has expiration. Love outlasts and outlives marriage. In fact love is eternal, but marriage is not. Love is forever, but marriage is not. Love and relationship are forever. Three things lasts forever. They are: faith, hope, and love. All three are hinged on relationship 1 Like |
Re: Deji Yesufu: Resolving Marriage Crisis The Governor Ortom Way by kanmi4gold: 7:32am On Dec 09, 2020 |
Looking at the man you know he has problem, psychiatric problem indeed,it is a matter of time he will repeat thesame thing,he is unrepentant,not remorseful,all the drama around him does not touch him,he is just pretending. |
Re: Deji Yesufu: Resolving Marriage Crisis The Governor Ortom Way by HRMK: 7:36am On Dec 09, 2020 |
what biz has the gov in a private fml affairs?pleading on behalf of a man that shuld be in jail!this lady doctor getting married to a reporter?a man she has 4kids for within 6yrs and thru c/s?i think she needs to leave if she values her life!a word is enough for the wise!! |
Re: Deji Yesufu: Resolving Marriage Crisis The Governor Ortom Way by NdigboWorldwide: 7:36am On Dec 09, 2020 |
DamZik: Who told you even the wife won't want her husband to be in jail, are you her spoke person? If she does not want action taken against her husband why then did she post that video in public space? I'm sure if the husband is not a reporter that somehow have connection with the governor, he would have been arrested and fired by now. |
Re: Deji Yesufu: Resolving Marriage Crisis The Governor Ortom Way by yYot: 7:37am On Dec 09, 2020 |
VBCampaign:Who is the Authority over the supposed Authority! Grown man and woman should take responsibility of Adulthood! You are your own Bleep Authority! |
Re: Deji Yesufu: Resolving Marriage Crisis The Governor Ortom Way by Ejiod(m): 7:37am On Dec 09, 2020 |
bunnae:One thing I observe in that reconciliation and this hopeless write up is both justifying it as a norm. Both are apologist. There’s no moral justification or whatsoever to raise your hand against a lady.I just don’t know why she’s staying with the beast. |
Re: Deji Yesufu: Resolving Marriage Crisis The Governor Ortom Way by NdigboWorldwide: 7:39am On Dec 09, 2020 |
descarado:The perpetrator of such a horrible assault needs to cool of in jail. |
Re: Deji Yesufu: Resolving Marriage Crisis The Governor Ortom Way by jornwhite: 7:49am On Dec 09, 2020 |
MISSCONGENIALITY: I just want to assume most of you here are kids, properly in 20's without much understanding of life ... if the marriage is reconcillable why not. If you can understand why maids/relative kids alway recieving beating from wives you will comprehend why some men beat ladies. Its all about who is feeling superior, could be any gender buh most times physicality favours men. If there is a committe to look into domestic violence between husband & wives compared to wives & maid, the result will be shocking. 1 Like |
Re: Deji Yesufu: Resolving Marriage Crisis The Governor Ortom Way by wonder233: 8:01am On Dec 09, 2020 |
Too long... I didn't read. If the writer expended this same effort on a research paper on something relating to science, economics or politics, he would have contributed to knowledge. But no! They can only write when it comes to marriage. Nigerians obsession with marriage is sickening |
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