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Re: "Marriage Is A Charity, You Pay For What Others Have Had For Free" -Nigerian Man by CHoccolaTE: 11:20pm On Dec 13, 2020 |
apatheticme: Infact so many Nigerian men are either jobless or broke as a joke, they depend on their wives money and do nothing but constitute nuisance because they live in a patriarchal society where women are encouraged to stick with broke men and preserve their marriage. She cannot complain or talk outside because she will be accused of bringing shame to her husband The lazy men capitalize on that to continue being lazy and unproductive Yet these small rats will come online to run their mouths and claim that women contribute nothing in marriage 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: "Marriage Is A Charity, You Pay For What Others Have Had For Free" -Nigerian Man by apatheticme(f): 11:34pm On Dec 13, 2020 |
CHoccolaTE: . 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: "Marriage Is A Charity, You Pay For What Others Have Had For Free" -Nigerian Man by deleSayo(m): 11:58pm On Dec 13, 2020 |
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Re: "Marriage Is A Charity, You Pay For What Others Have Had For Free" -Nigerian Man by cooooooks(m): 2:22am On Dec 14, 2020 |
Why must people pay to marry? If two adults want to get married, they get married, shikina. Why must money change hands? Shortyy: 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: "Marriage Is A Charity, You Pay For What Others Have Had For Free" -Nigerian Man by cooooooks(m): 2:34am On Dec 14, 2020 |
The minute your relationship/marriage is not based on equality, y'all begin running into all these problems. Equality no be only who dey hold door for who. Equality also includes respect, adoration, lack of adherence to unequal so called traditions, etc. Make una leave all this matter. Work together and help each other secure that bag!! Go and do that certification you have been postponing. Call your man or woman and encourage each other. Leave all these nonsense to people who have time. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: "Marriage Is A Charity, You Pay For What Others Have Had For Free" -Nigerian Man by cooooooks(m): 2:35am On Dec 14, 2020 |
Continued generalizations by people will not move us forward. Know that there a varieties of people. No need to bother yourself with the flavour of men you have no interest in. Same for men. CHoccolaTE: |
Re: "Marriage Is A Charity, You Pay For What Others Have Had For Free" -Nigerian Man by cooooooks(m): 2:37am On Dec 14, 2020 |
80 percent?? 80 percent?? Do you know what 80% means?? CHoccolaTE: |
Re: "Marriage Is A Charity, You Pay For What Others Have Had For Free" -Nigerian Man by cooooooks(m): 2:40am On Dec 14, 2020 |
I don't even believe in God but most of the people on NL need deliverance. 1 Like |
Re: "Marriage Is A Charity, You Pay For What Others Have Had For Free" -Nigerian Man by jimmychang: 2:58am On Dec 14, 2020 |
All I know be say this is real violence men ... See bloodstains everywhere...I just stumble on this thread and I dey feel am.... Some people's anger are uncalled for sha While the way ladies are bashed is too much sha. Steady chasing my dreams and woman no dey inside.Even when the racks come woman no go still dey inside. Am a good man ,if I can't get a good woman,then Bleep it.We move 2 Likes |
Re: "Marriage Is A Charity, You Pay For What Others Have Had For Free" -Nigerian Man by jimmychang: 2:59am On Dec 14, 2020 |
cooooooks: Exactly .... 2 Likes |
Re: "Marriage Is A Charity, You Pay For What Others Have Had For Free" -Nigerian Man by Nobody: 5:30am On Dec 14, 2020 |
And the cycle continues 1 Like |
Re: "Marriage Is A Charity, You Pay For What Others Have Had For Free" -Nigerian Man by martius101(m): 6:28am On Dec 14, 2020 |
Give not thy strength to women.....WORD |
Re: "Marriage Is A Charity, You Pay For What Others Have Had For Free" -Nigerian Man by Shortyy(f): 6:36am On Dec 14, 2020 |
cooooooks: Go and ask your ancestors that question not me. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: "Marriage Is A Charity, You Pay For What Others Have Had For Free" -Nigerian Man by AstroG: 8:04am On Dec 14, 2020 |
apatheticme: Thank God ur Father and brothers are on this table
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Re: "Marriage Is A Charity, You Pay For What Others Have Had For Free" -Nigerian Man by JordanMichael(m): 8:08am On Dec 14, 2020 |
Shortyy:Spot on! But not all men are stupid 1 Like |
Re: "Marriage Is A Charity, You Pay For What Others Have Had For Free" -Nigerian Man by femi4: 8:10am On Dec 14, 2020 |
Without marriage, a lot of people won't have sense of responsibility. |
Re: "Marriage Is A Charity, You Pay For What Others Have Had For Free" -Nigerian Man by apatheticme(f): 9:32am On Dec 14, 2020 |
AstroG: . 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: "Marriage Is A Charity, You Pay For What Others Have Had For Free" -Nigerian Man by CHoccolaTE: 10:07am On Dec 14, 2020 |
cooooooks: So how many percent is it if not 80%? Abeg jor, is 80. 1 Like |
Re: "Marriage Is A Charity, You Pay For What Others Have Had For Free" -Nigerian Man by juicethekid2: 10:35am On Dec 14, 2020 |
Mariangeles:Yes don't worry I will quote you with the banned account when the ban expires just help me I really need help |
Re: "Marriage Is A Charity, You Pay For What Others Have Had For Free" -Nigerian Man by MJBOLT: 10:50am On Dec 14, 2020 |
look at the royal rumble happening here later they will say that the family section is more civilised than the romance section.
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Re: "Marriage Is A Charity, You Pay For What Others Have Had For Free" -Nigerian Man by Hathor5(f): 10:58am On Dec 14, 2020 |
aluyapreston: You only remember STDs when it comes to policing the vagina. Abeg, go and teach your brothers to stay abstinent or at least use condoms. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: "Marriage Is A Charity, You Pay For What Others Have Had For Free" -Nigerian Man by Hathor5(f): 11:00am On Dec 14, 2020 |
Magnoliaa: Do as you like. Don't listen to stupid boys who think they can tell you what to do because they pay bride price. With which money? Jobless fools opening mouth on top woman matter every day. 5 Likes |
Re: "Marriage Is A Charity, You Pay For What Others Have Had For Free" -Nigerian Man by Hathor5(f): 11:03am On Dec 14, 2020 |
aluyapreston: What achievement? Achievement is something you work for. Women don't have to work for sex. You even pay to satisfy us. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: "Marriage Is A Charity, You Pay For What Others Have Had For Free" -Nigerian Man by AstroG: 11:50am On Dec 14, 2020 |
apatheticme: OK |
Re: "Marriage Is A Charity, You Pay For What Others Have Had For Free" -Nigerian Man by aluyapreston: 12:03pm On Dec 14, 2020 |
Hathor5: leave me alone, I'm not interested. is it by force? 1 Like |
Re: "Marriage Is A Charity, You Pay For What Others Have Had For Free" -Nigerian Man by Mariangeles(f): 3:35pm On Dec 14, 2020 |
juicethekid2: Done. You don't need to quote me. |
Re: "Marriage Is A Charity, You Pay For What Others Have Had For Free" -Nigerian Man by bukatyne(f): 5:09pm On Dec 14, 2020 |
cooooooks: Hahahahaha I haven't read the thread. Now, I need to. Modified: Read the OP, a few random comments and done. The whole bashing gets tasteless after a while. 2 Likes |
Re: "Marriage Is A Charity, You Pay For What Others Have Had For Free" -Nigerian Man by bukatyne(f): 5:24pm On Dec 14, 2020 |
Kuns84: I would be wary of a coach who misinterprets a Bible passage to buttress his point. The verse is telling men not to sleep around or waste their strength. I am wondering how that matches his article. I have looked at bride price from the religious [Christianity] standpoint and learnt: A man (hopefully when he is of age) picks a woman whom he has decided fit into his vision (by God's leading, his own leading, leading of others etc) and invites (by marriage) her by marriage is join him to fulfill that vision. They form a new branch from the family tree to start their lives. Bride price is a symbol of a man 'possessing' a woman from her parents out of love and comes with living together, change of name etc to show the world she is his and he is hers. While a man would appreciate a chaste woman, her chastity is a fraction of what she brings to the table. She brings her gifts, talents, time, resources etc etc. to the table for the growth of the family. Except all a man needed from a woman is her virginity (he intends to divorce her after disflowering her), the coach doesn't make much sense. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: "Marriage Is A Charity, You Pay For What Others Have Had For Free" -Nigerian Man by bukatyne(f): 5:26pm On Dec 14, 2020 |
Mariangeles: |
Re: "Marriage Is A Charity, You Pay For What Others Have Had For Free" -Nigerian Man by bukatyne(f): 5:31pm On Dec 14, 2020 |
crackhaus: @bold: That's all that matters. 1 Like |
Re: "Marriage Is A Charity, You Pay For What Others Have Had For Free" -Nigerian Man by descarado: 5:35pm On Dec 14, 2020 |
Seems this place has been quiet for long. Seun over to you |
Re: "Marriage Is A Charity, You Pay For What Others Have Had For Free" -Nigerian Man by cooooooks(m): 5:39pm On Dec 14, 2020 |
I couldn't read the entire thing either. People just wake up and open their mouths on NL. bukatyne: 2 Likes |
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