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Re: Why Husbands Have Become Scarce - Blueprint by deltateam: 1:55pm On Dec 22, 2020 |
How many women would wish to marry a man that earns #30 000 monthly? This life no balance. Our government is wicked. 8 Likes |
Re: Why Husbands Have Become Scarce - Blueprint by Bmaster(m): 1:56pm On Dec 22, 2020 |
madridsta007:....And you deserve an applause Never knew people with intelligent reasonings are still on this forum. 11 Likes |
Re: Why Husbands Have Become Scarce - Blueprint by Neoteny(m): 1:57pm On Dec 22, 2020 |
"Marriage is now more cabbage in, cabbage out ...” Wow, all these years i actually thought it was garbage in, garbage out. Nigerian bloggers and news writers are 3 Likes |
Re: Why Husbands Have Become Scarce - Blueprint by Nobody: 2:00pm On Dec 22, 2020 |
Zzor:What we have in our society today are beautiful women without character and brains. They are likened to a cemented grave. Containers look good when the content is so bad. “On the other hand, most young people are distracted by what they call ‘fun’ and craving materialism. It is more like what Oliver De Coque said in one of his songs: Let’s celebrate today, tomorrow will take care of itself. A child cannot marry a child. Many men are more obsessed with buying cars than they are with raising and building a family. Some of those that eventually get married turn their wives and children into punching bags. So, it is beyond unemployment and poverty. It is more of a lack of vision and focus. Some of us married when we had nothing.” 12 Likes |
Re: Why Husbands Have Become Scarce - Blueprint by Rimsd(m): 2:00pm On Dec 22, 2020 |
OcVoice: And Divorce is steady too! 1 Like |
Re: Why Husbands Have Become Scarce - Blueprint by DexterousOne(m): 2:01pm On Dec 22, 2020 |
deltateam: I wont advise any woman to marry a man who makes 30 grand though Especially in Lagos All I advise is for the ladies to have REALISTIC expectations 5 Likes |
Re: Why Husbands Have Become Scarce - Blueprint by DexterousOne(m): 2:02pm On Dec 22, 2020 |
madridsta007: Very well said 5 Likes |
Re: Why Husbands Have Become Scarce - Blueprint by CheedyJ(m): 2:04pm On Dec 22, 2020 |
Point 5, good wives are becoming extinct 5 Likes |
Re: Why Husbands Have Become Scarce - Blueprint by deltateam: 2:07pm On Dec 22, 2020 |
DexterousOne: Yet your clueless government pegged minimum wage at #30 000 which they are still fighting against it's implementation. Let's face reality. How many men earn above #40 000 monthly in Nigeria? 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Husbands Have Become Scarce - Blueprint by SeriouslySense(m): 2:08pm On Dec 22, 2020 |
lol OceanDean: |
Re: Why Husbands Have Become Scarce - Blueprint by Foolishmasses: 2:09pm On Dec 22, 2020 |
My brother, the topic is not about people marrying every weekend or not. What has been the outcome of the marriage on the partners? Do you know how many men of marriageable age that doesn't want to venture into that ? And it will keep getting worse because of we have decline in morals, ethics and values.save this word, in twenty years time, ladies cum women will kill to have a husband because it won't be about social pressure then , rather , a way out of financial captivity. chocboi78: 7 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Why Husbands Have Become Scarce - Blueprint by SpeciMental: 2:13pm On Dec 22, 2020 |
Well, if we're looking at the African terrain, where women are brought up with the mindset of dreaming of a utopian future which it is solely a 'responsible man's' job to make true, while the ladies only have little expectation put on them, then the system was always destined to come to this point sometime. Such a society runs on a formula that detonates a time bomb of economic collapse as each woman born is a simultaneous increase in responsibility/liability and a loss of assets i.e. the male whose place she has taken in birth, hence is both a loss of wealth creation and creation of wealth loss. Do the math and then you can tell why not only will desirable males be scarce but a major reason why Africa is far behind economically. #Purely mental from your philosophical specimen# 13 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Why Husbands Have Become Scarce - Blueprint by Edusouls(m): 2:14pm On Dec 22, 2020 |
That’s the fact shir, it’s very simple and clear and it’s true, women wahala cuts down a men’s life span badly.. jericco1: 3 Likes |
Re: Why Husbands Have Become Scarce - Blueprint by rafcrown(m): 2:15pm On Dec 22, 2020 |
Former Olosho 1 Like |
Re: Why Husbands Have Become Scarce - Blueprint by Fiscus105(m): 2:16pm On Dec 22, 2020 |
CalliDora1: Why won't tiring? since every woman wants to be head of family, the right that husband has must be equal to wife, and no single man ready to let go of headship. Even in aircraft, co pilot must submissive and obey the main pilot before they can have smooth and safe trip. 15 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Husbands Have Become Scarce - Blueprint by Nobody: 2:16pm On Dec 22, 2020 |
Why marry a girl and carry all her lifelong problems when you can simply sleep with her, get satisfied and move onto the next girl with less need to cater for her problems. I dated a girl, we got separated because she wanted a richer guy. Not long after she said no to me, her family relocated. After two years, they returned. You won't believe me if I told you that this girl has aborted 4 babies, given birth to twins and now she is correctly fighting high blood pressure due to several heartbreaks and bad treatment from guys and their families and the death of one of her twins. She's literally broken in halves from inside. Now she wants to return to me. I am responsible but not to the point of marrying such a girl. 19 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Why Husbands Have Become Scarce - Blueprint by Briller: 2:18pm On Dec 22, 2020 |
jericco1: That was back in the days of our forefathers. Men now have relegated the duty of providing for their families to their wives. So I don't know what they are afraid of. |
Re: Why Husbands Have Become Scarce - Blueprint by TheRedpillguy: 2:18pm On Dec 22, 2020 |
Zzor:You are Right Simps are getting scarce. No body wants to be used as a retirement plan. 14 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Husbands Have Become Scarce - Blueprint by omooba969(m): 2:18pm On Dec 22, 2020 |
segebase: In Naija, online dating means online business. 3 Likes |
Re: Why Husbands Have Become Scarce - Blueprint by Nobody: 2:19pm On Dec 22, 2020 |
Fiscus105: Who is talking about genger equality here? |
Re: Why Husbands Have Become Scarce - Blueprint by nonix22(m): 2:20pm On Dec 22, 2020 |
werey RisenPhoenix1: |
Re: Why Husbands Have Become Scarce - Blueprint by Basiljoe: 2:26pm On Dec 22, 2020 |
Smile4mee01:Comment of the Year. 1 Like |
Re: Why Husbands Have Become Scarce - Blueprint by quickly: 2:29pm On Dec 22, 2020 |
90% of women are liability the 10% that are not liability want you to kiss there ass every second. Marriage is a prison and death and divorce are the bail out. Forget your mama and papa marriage. They preserve because of u the child/children Nigerian women want to marry dangotes children or someone who don hammer. That’s y foreign women are snatching Nigerian guys because they understand you start small. No Nigerian woman will agree to marry a man without a job/small business while foreign women will say keep looking you will find one soon or keep trying u will get there. I will take of both of us. She wan show off for Facebook honey moon in palazzo Dubai or shopping in Milan 15 Likes |
Re: Why Husbands Have Become Scarce - Blueprint by Nobody: 2:31pm On Dec 22, 2020 |
TheRedpillguy:What you call simp are the real men that have become scarce and what you call redpill as men are gigolos and lazy men looking for successful women to leech 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Why Husbands Have Become Scarce - Blueprint by Fiscus105(m): 2:40pm On Dec 22, 2020 |
ednut1: To buttress ur point, DJ cuppy with her rich background,still using her body to beg only rich and famous, first Victor Anichebe and now Anthony Joshua. So many girls working in banks or big companies find it difficult to marry guys with lesser incomes, many of them only want abroad guys, when they pass their peak they will now be begging lesser guys, who would not look their side. 21 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Husbands Have Become Scarce - Blueprint by Basiljoe: 2:42pm On Dec 22, 2020 |
Zzor:. 21 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: Why Husbands Have Become Scarce - Blueprint by Lordhades: 2:50pm On Dec 22, 2020 |
Las Las no be everybody go get the money, money leaching women everywhere. Every woman wants one stinking rich dude .. nobody one even dey middle build from there ...looking for ready made dudes up and down. I've seen not so stable families still living happily and hoping for the best. But in Nigeria, before u talk of marriage your account must be singing million naira songs . Who go marry the poor ones God help us for the dead country. 12 Likes |
Re: Why Husbands Have Become Scarce - Blueprint by chijokz(m): 2:54pm On Dec 22, 2020 |
ednut1:Exactly my assertions. These women don't realize that rich men now marry rich and ambitious women. 6 Likes |
Re: Why Husbands Have Become Scarce - Blueprint by DontBullshitMe: 2:54pm On Dec 22, 2020 |
RisenPhoenix1:Nice to see your new moniker. Your former (Risenphoenix) was deactivated. Your posts were a huge deposit of human knowledge. Glad you are back. 7 Likes |
Re: Why Husbands Have Become Scarce - Blueprint by bluefilm: 2:58pm On Dec 22, 2020 |
Una don come again to scare all our resident nairaland old cargoes like Zzor and co. with all these baseless fear about the scarcity of men. The truth is that men are never scarce. Just that the men who are ready to go all the way with these women when it comes to marriage are not that large in number to go around. In other words, the number of men who are willing and ready to get married is not as much as the number of women who are willing and ready to get married. This imbalance is what creates the false notion that men are scarce. 6 Likes |
Re: Why Husbands Have Become Scarce - Blueprint by TheRedpillguy: 2:59pm On Dec 22, 2020 |
Zzor:Ofcus Simps are real Men. As expected. Redpillers are no way lazy. They are the ones who hit the gym, work hard to gather resources and become the top 10% Women want. The understand SMV, they will not really want to sleep With LMV women cus of money. Are u sure your research is concrete? You most talk abt Incels or PUA 5 Likes |
Re: Why Husbands Have Become Scarce - Blueprint by chocboi78(m): 3:02pm On Dec 22, 2020 |
Foolishmasses:regardless of the outcome of previous marriages, people still tie the knot every weekend and will continue to do so even in twenty years time.. It has always been a way out of financial captivity for women and will always be,but like I said,people still get married regardless.. 4 Likes |
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