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Re: Why Husbands Have Become Scarce - Blueprint by ufotty2001: 3:59pm On Dec 22, 2020 |
Rrex99:true.. Financial freedom is just the key |
Re: Why Husbands Have Become Scarce - Blueprint by Nobody: 4:00pm On Dec 22, 2020 |
Tofax:Story Story Story........ 1 Like
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Re: Why Husbands Have Become Scarce - Blueprint by emmaodet: 4:10pm On Dec 22, 2020 |
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Re: Why Husbands Have Become Scarce - Blueprint by emmaodet: 4:17pm On Dec 22, 2020 |
ednut1: Gbam!!!!!!! And for every woman you see employed, there is equal amount of men displaced for her to get the job. So where will these men go? Create jobs and money out of thin air? Because they are spirits? |
Re: Why Husbands Have Become Scarce - Blueprint by Nobody: 4:17pm On Dec 22, 2020 |
Foolishmasses: You have enough time quoting that Fooo.ool........ 5 Likes |
Re: Why Husbands Have Become Scarce - Blueprint by Splitmind: 4:28pm On Dec 22, 2020 |
Gerrard59: First how old are you and what is the income range of your circle? |
Re: Why Husbands Have Become Scarce - Blueprint by Asapchris(m): 4:29pm On Dec 22, 2020 |
Because no matter how to take care of a woman, she still going to cheat. in fact, she might bring a bastard child for you to raise 6 Likes |
Re: Why Husbands Have Become Scarce - Blueprint by anungangampu: 4:30pm On Dec 22, 2020 |
Fiscus105: Very correct 1 Like |
Re: Why Husbands Have Become Scarce - Blueprint by DOnlooker(m): 4:34pm On Dec 22, 2020 |
That CWO president is talking trash. When you ask parents to concentrate on the education of their Male children, what happens then to the female ones? And such a suggestion comes from a woman who should be an advocate for girl education. The key is to bear as much offspring as you can take care of so you will be able to give ALL your children quality education irrespective of gender. An educated man will most likely seek for an educated lady to date or marry. |
Re: Why Husbands Have Become Scarce - Blueprint by Nwaotu10(m): 4:35pm On Dec 22, 2020 |
MGTOW comes to mind! Who marriage help? I'm 48, still single with 3 kids. 2 Likes |
Re: Why Husbands Have Become Scarce - Blueprint by authority2006(m): 4:50pm On Dec 22, 2020 |
Any lady who knows that it's getting late for her and the prospect of getting married to a single guy is not there should consider a polygamous arrangement. It's constitutional, it's African and has basis in Islam, Christianity and traditional religions. 4 Likes |
Re: Why Husbands Have Become Scarce - Blueprint by Happy2020: 4:51pm On Dec 22, 2020 |
Why would a Nigerian man want to marry a liability? Makes no sense at all. Nigerian women need to change their attitude and actually bring something to the table instead of waiting for a man to do everything. It’s archaic thinking and needs to change. A man is not a poverty alleviation plan. 5 Likes |
Re: Why Husbands Have Become Scarce - Blueprint by Nobody: 4:51pm On Dec 22, 2020 |
DropsMic:Yeaaaa 1 Like |
Re: Why Husbands Have Become Scarce - Blueprint by Nobody: 4:53pm On Dec 22, 2020 |
Happy2020:The FUNNY THING is that a Lady who does nothing gossips more, attracts problems and makes the loudest noise, because if she has got a job that keeps her busy she wouldn't be engaging in such. IF a JOBLESS LADY can be proud to have a List and preference of MEN despite her joblessness, please gainfully employed Guys should also be able to draw their list of preference too. Please, GUYS wise up 9 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Why Husbands Have Become Scarce - Blueprint by pansophist(m): 4:55pm On Dec 22, 2020 |
DexterousOne: If I would define marriage in a few words, I would say that ' 'Marriage is an institution where two individual ties the rope of their existence together, to alleviate the suffering of life. The idea that people should not get married because they earn whatever amount is flawed, though, I can understand the line of thinking it is coming from. It is easy for two people to live on sixty thousand nairas for example (each spouse earning thirty thousand naira), than for one person to live alone with thirty thousand. Because the same room that one person will live in, can accommodate two people, food will not be wasted, and you have someone to count on, free necessary labour (such as domestic duties, errands) =, and many more that is hardly achieved by one person. The idea that one has to make a lot of money to settle down is good, but what about losing your wealth after marriage, what will become of such a couple? What if they both encounter life difficulties such as sickness, losing mobility, and more? such formula is not sustainable. The will to be a good partner is superior to the will to have lots of money. 14 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: Why Husbands Have Become Scarce - Blueprint by DexterousOne(m): 4:59pm On Dec 22, 2020 |
pansophist: Okay.... I see But read my second paragraph again REALISTIC EXPECTATIONS This above is the basis I stand by it A man making N30k has no business getting married He needs to improve his situation at least Both parties getting into marriage with realistic salaries/income is more workable N30k can't do crap in Lagos At the same time Looking for a man making N20m annually is NOT REALISTIC |
Re: Why Husbands Have Become Scarce - Blueprint by Fiscus105(m): 5:13pm On Dec 22, 2020 |
CalliDora1: Gender equality is the giant destroying relationship and marriage |
Re: Why Husbands Have Become Scarce - Blueprint by Nobody: 5:20pm On Dec 22, 2020 |
Fiscus105: That's for those who are ignorant of God's word. God has made man the head and nothing can change that. Not even westernization or civilization. Any woman claiming gender equality is going against God's word and will bear the brunt. 1 Like |
Re: Why Husbands Have Become Scarce - Blueprint by GeneralPula: 5:48pm On Dec 22, 2020 |
madridsta007: Mtcheew.. And someone was even saying this one has sense.. Shey nah 2015 husband become to dey scare abi nah 2015 women start to dey show their evil ways? |
Re: Why Husbands Have Become Scarce - Blueprint by Ryan03(f): 6:12pm On Dec 22, 2020 |
papiforreal:you don talk am finish. I barely earn 50k monthly, same as my girl. She refused for us to marry this yr o. She don't want her kids to suffer she insist we both up our games before thinking of marriage. Nobody wants to marry with the "he go better" mindset anymore 3 Likes |
Re: Why Husbands Have Become Scarce - Blueprint by lexy2014: 7:06pm On Dec 22, 2020 |
Rrex99: If u have never seen, doesn't mean it doesn't happen |
Re: Why Husbands Have Become Scarce - Blueprint by Nobody: 7:43pm On Dec 22, 2020 |
With animals like these growing in high numbers instead of brilliant and decent inventors, marriage will be extinct very soon. They can have all the bobrisky f@ggots they want. Good riddance to bad rubbish.
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Re: Why Husbands Have Become Scarce - Blueprint by Akuruoulo(m): 7:44pm On Dec 22, 2020 |
Hathor5:Why including his generation ? |
Re: Why Husbands Have Become Scarce - Blueprint by Youngzedd(m): 8:02pm On Dec 22, 2020 |
OcVoice: What's in for a man in marriage that he can't get outside marriage See attached image. 4 Likes
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Re: Why Husbands Have Become Scarce - Blueprint by Youngzedd(m): 8:06pm On Dec 22, 2020 |
wisdomiskey: When the milk is free, WTF are you doing with the cow Coach Grey Adams' student, I sight you. 5 Likes |
Re: Why Husbands Have Become Scarce - Blueprint by Draught: 8:15pm On Dec 22, 2020 |
... The truth is bitter regardless of however you want to sugarcoat it.. This However goes both ways cus a good wife is also hard to find.. That being said.. Most males are now realizing that honestly apart from procreation.. There's really no advantage in marriage.. Incase y'all don't know Males are polygamous in nature due to their high testosterone levels.. And even in lower animals a male is considered successful when not only does he beat the odds to survive to adulthood but also pass on his genes to offsprings.. But Because of human beings higher intellectual capacity.. We have deduced a principle called love which really doesn't exist.. No matter what relationship you have with another gender, both sexes are benefiting in one way or the other from such relationship.. We are naturally SELFISH!!! In the next century, I can bet you that marriage will look so alien.. We are all getting wiser every day to our detriment but also to our good but unfortunately some of our societal norms will get eroded and this has nothing do with the world is ending or the whites are colonizing our culture.. It's because as a human being we keep growing in knowledge everyday.. Feminism, Masculinism, Misandry, Misogyny, Homosexuality will dominate in the next 50 years from now.. 4 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Why Husbands Have Become Scarce - Blueprint by deltateam: 8:27pm On Dec 22, 2020 |
DexterousOne: He should be unmarried abi? You try. |
Re: Why Husbands Have Become Scarce - Blueprint by MyPicsSaysItall: 8:27pm On Dec 22, 2020 |
Sonnobax15:Same here |
Re: Why Husbands Have Become Scarce - Blueprint by Oceanfield: 8:35pm On Dec 22, 2020 |
[quote author=Raph3177 post=97323127][/quote] This is just the truth. |
Re: Why Husbands Have Become Scarce - Blueprint by DexterousOne(m): 8:39pm On Dec 22, 2020 |
deltateam:Well... Sentiments aside Any man earning that kind of money (especially if you are a Nigerian from the south, I know northerners roll differently sometimes) and want to know what it means to be in hell fire He should try getting married And maybe have a kid just thereafter You will know something I'm not so old or so buoyant But I have been pestered for financial aid... From some married men who refused to use their brain And now have responsibilities When their hands cant carry them They plenty for this Lagos Sentiments aside The man should strive towards being better 1 Like |
Re: Why Husbands Have Become Scarce - Blueprint by wisdomiskey(m): 8:39pm On Dec 22, 2020 |
Youngzedd: Fellow #FreeAgent. I salute! 2 Likes |
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