ChildOfDoom:
A popular Nigerian pidgin adage goes: "Pikin wey go get head, na from small dem dey know".

it's been 7 years of waywardness. no sign of me changing my obnoxious lifestyle. I'm even getting worse. it has gotten to a stage that my life and health is being threatened.......

It's not over .... please change that name and quit confessing your doom.


I know someone that can help .. don't worry you won't have to pay a dime. If you are interested

Charleys:
Let's help this guy...


Like for raw sex, share for condoms.

You didn't put no sex at all na. Somebody's will soon become a baby daddy. Chai see daylight emotional blackmail.

You don buy market. Have, how come your wife was good enough for sex but not good enough to wife. You suddenly can't stand this same woman you slept with for so long till she got pregnant.

Dude you are a selfish human.

arinpe16:
Good evening everyone. Please I need your advice.

My husband has been keeping malice with me because I don't pray regularly again (we're Muslims) and he's threatening to divorce me (we only did court wedding and yet to do Nikkah).

He's eats my food but doesn't talk to me. This has been going on for over a year now and it's getting worse. Can I tell his parents? They are strong Muslims and I'm afraid they may blame me more. He also doesn't give me money anymore. I'm tired of his stinginess and he's very insensitive. He believes I'm a devil since I don't pray even though things have changed for the better for him since we met.

He also doesn't believe I can get a husband since I'm close to 35. Please, I'm confused. I don't know what to do.

Why did you stop praying?? What kind of issue is this now? Issue of prayer causing drama? You married a religious person and you are surprised he takes prayer serious? Madam Biko carry your ijab and tesbyl and pray and let peace return to your home. It's that simple.

Chai, Nairalanders are harsh and unforgiving. The dude is obviously dying of guilt which means he has a conscience and no one can sense his remorse. Just hang him if you've never made a mistake in your life.

Mr.
Please don't let anyone down play your remorse instead work with it. Ask God for forgiveness and have a heart to heart talk with her. Plead with her with all sincerity of heart.

Both of you were careless for putting petrol and fire together and not expect an inferno. That said it has happened, you can both use this as a stepping stone to build a stronger relationship and you can allow it destroy what you built.

Note: Please expect some form of outburst from her. It will hurt her to a great extent. Give her time to process it and heal and whatever decision she takes, please respect it.

May God help both of you at this time.

Never forget..sin stings.

If your emotional happiness is more important than stability of the home then please don't marry her.
I have a friend who married for these reasons, and yet he is emotionally unhappy. He keeps seeking out his ex to whom he had serious emotional attachment. When he's down, need friendship and all. He seeks her out. He and his wife have a good home but they are not attached at all. seems everything he does with his wife is just out of duty not attachment.
Reminds me of Leah and Jacob. Jacob loved Rachel and even though he married Leah first and she bore him more sons, he still preferred Rachel and even loved her children more..
Save your self a life time of longing and regret.
However whatever you choose now, you will live with for the rest of your life. Don't rush into anything.

Who on earth closes shop to pursue thieves? This buhari government ehn? what an embarrassing statement.

ollah1:


Well, the emotional idiot here is you who refused to attack your pastor on this page despite his constant insultive words but attack those who schooled him about tithing

I was not raised to insult people. I was raised to make points. Wonder what your face looks like now with all the anger coming from your spirit. Gosh!
Can you even reason without including an insult? I seriously doubt it. Grow up

Lokoyen:


Mad man on the loose. Keep ranting u will die of heart attack over tithing soon.

Leave them biko. We know that most professors of theology do not even have any relationship with Christ. They only have head knowledge of Scriptures hence the aggression and all knowing attitude. Those who truly understand scriptures as revealed by the HolyGhost don't get cocky and insultive about it. They teach with grace and humility. We know them. sons of pride

ollah1:



Quit acting like a dummy everytime, the simple question is why didn't you quote your pastor who also insulted and did it beyond once?

Easy on your emotions Mr. Angry bird! Quoting scriptures yet insultive and temperamental. People who only know scriptures in their head but their heart is far from God.

hoopLA:

Oga or madam

I wasnt even talking to you.

Please is it hit the game or hate the game?

Please speak proper English.

I have no time for stúpid people.

Thank you

You need to seek professional help. you have no control over your spirit that's why you must reply with an insult. Seek help on your anger and aggression issues before you end up in jail. And you don't hate a game, you hit it.

Haters of the Christiandom in Nigeria. Oya o your food is ready. Come and do what you do best! condemn what you don't understand!

ollah1:




Words from hypocrite like you. Why didn't you quote your pastor when he used fowl languages more than once slave?

Nigerians and insults are like 5 & 6. They think aggression earns them points in simple debates. They never come with open mindedness, they come to fight. Lolzzxx

hoopLA:

Please speak proper English.

I know you are his lackey and dont have anything to say but at least you could try typing in concise grammar.

Ask him to show us how Melchizedek equates to Jesus.

Everything with you must end with an insult. All you could have said is Prove not proof which was an oversight on my part. Why are you so aggressive? You sound very angry and uppity. Don't hit the player, hit the game! Feel sorry for the people who have to relate with you on a daily basis.

Linda has done a lot of bad stuff but what kind of man will not acknowledge his own child? We are talking about an innocent baby brought into the midst of adult indiscretion and drama. Should that boy be treated like he's doesn't exist? If truly that kid is his and he won't even acknowledge him for whatever reason then shame on him. Stop donating sperm to women whose children you don't intend to acknowledge.

hoopLA:

Lol

You are a foolish person if you persist with this nonsense.

I think you should be the one proving that melchizedek is Christ since you brought it up.

The passage says Christ is of the order of Melchizedek. It doesnt say he is.

Be careful how you twist the word of God.

I dont have time to engage in your folly

you don't need to insult anyone. proof your points maturely. it doesn't kill.

alBHAGDADI:


Do you know what the problem os with you anti-tithers and everyone who believes the tithe money should be taken straight to widows and orphans instead of the house of God? You make decisions without Bible backings, in the process you offend God. Here you have said the house of God are widows and orphans. Where is that written in the Bible? You also said the society is the church. Where is that written in the Bible? Stop making claims based on your own understanding.

God said the tithe is his, he didn't say it is for widows even though he told the high priest to help the windows out of it. It is not your duty to give it to the widows because it means you are assuming the role of the priest. It is the duty of the priest to take some of the tithe and use it to help the needy.

Tithe is totally different from you helping the poor. Give God his dues and proceed to help the poor. Otherwise it will mean that you are wise in your own understanding.

And mind you, Jesus was talking about his brothers in that Bible Passage you quoted. Who are his brothers? They are believers, not some Tom divk and Harry across the street.

John 1:12
But as many as received him, to them gave he power to become the sons of God, even to them that believe on his name:

This means that his brothers whom we are to feed are actually needy Christians whom we can find in Church, not some random loser on the street who only wants to remain a junkie and lazy because he knows someone will feed him.

chai, God bless you o. Too many over righteous people claiming they give their tithes to the poor. The originator says "the tithe is mine" I pay my tithes to God and still help the needy. Why are people so dull of understanding? They claim pastors eat the tithe, yet God says one of the purposes of tithes is that there may be food in his house for his servants. Why body too dey pepper people like this ? If you want to enjoy what you think they are enjoying then go and join the pastorate. This is a generation that claims to be wiser than God.
I remember Judas condemned the woman with the alabaster box. He like this generation who seems to love the poor more than Jesus said " this perfume could gave been sold to feed the poor" . Jesus answered "she has done the right thing" and added " you won't always have me here but you will always have poor people around you" My conclusion "Give God what belongs to him (tithes) and give to the poor what belongs to them ( alms). òlórulún aà sí yín lééti inú. Amin

what truth is she serving? Making money off other peoples misfortune? Announcing someone's health challenge without permission just for the money? Haba? what kind of monstrosity is that? Linda's belly is her god. she is a cold hearted bastard.

He can't even manage his home yet he wants to manage other people's lives. Failure of the century!

This guy's mouth is like lawma truck. Every time he opens it, it is filth that comes out. Who raised a man this way? Good thing his wife took the kids away. They shouldn't be around such a foul mouthed person. Tufiakwa

Am resigning in December to focus on my own business. its more like a plantation farm out there. All a Nigerian needs to become a monster is just a little power. Even the ones wey dey go church pass pulpit na tyrant.

PenileFitness:


The women are a lot more than men thing is a myth (or something of the past). Men actually outnumber women slightly (world population)... search it on Google right now.


#CheckMyProfileNow

Gracias

habsydiamond:
I get u now

habsydiamond:
are u sure about this...cos what I have been hearing is that we have more women than men... concerning the topic...u are in point..

In relation to me as one woman, yes the earth is overpopulated with men which means I have more than enough options.

And this one wife sef go dey say "My husband, my husband" not knowing he is a public property! That's the state of many relationships and marriages today! All forms of body prostitution.

habsydiamond:
It's just like marrying a IndecentStar... I can never marry such a person cos people hardly forget such things...if one intent to go for political position don't be surprised that one's opposition can use it against someone...it's better to marry a village girl that is not popular and live in peace than to marry a well known IndecentStar that will also bring shame to one's name.

The question is why would a sane person make such videos or take such pictures? There is something called self respect and its hard to find these days. I don't ever pray to be left with such an option. The earth is over populated with men, so no. I'll pass.

The question is why would a sane person make such videos or take such pictures? There is something called self respect and its hard to find these days. I don't ever pray to be left with such an option. The earth is over populated with men, so no. I'll pass.

Only men with low self worth patronise runs girls. Birds of a feather flock together. It takes two to tango. we live in highly sexualized world and its getting worse by the minute.

There is more to this story, no one would just wake up and kill his family is except he is mentally sick. Hope it's not a case of infidelity.

Whatever his reasons though, he just destroyed his own life. Really really sad story.

Good move. Before our brothers in arms and cows take over.

Good move! Before our brothers in arms and cows take over.

A prudent person foresees danger and takes precautions. The simpleton goes blindly on and suffers the consequences. proverb 22:3


God exposed her lies before marriage yet you went in. You are truly a simpleton for going into marriage with such a deceitful and selfish woman. What??