peepydelano:
please stop jor,you intentionally did it to feel like a bad guy fucking two best friends and where did all this mentality comes from that a guy can not resist seduction,as per say na guy u be with randy dick abi?mtcheww.You don't deserve her,please break up with her and give me her number.Thanks

Ogbeni chill out.

People make mistakes.

He has accepted it and wants to right his wrong.

Which one be make e give you her number?

Means you wanna cheat too ni

That is what we do everyday and what about it, is that a big deal. make una leave person alone to enjoy life

AdeeT:


For days I've been so weak bro, I'm so out of thoughts. I really bleeped up, I know.

I actually kept my distance from her, the first day, she slept in the bedroom, while I in the living room. I fell to some cheap plays, and she cornered me. I'm seriously regretting my actions.

This is a girl that have been praying with me(and for me) before I sleep or go to work the next day. I shouldn't have do this to her. It seems that I can't live with the guilt, neither do I wanna loose her.

Her friend is already ignored, both off and on-line.

I fell to some cheap plays, and she cornered me. I'm seriously regretting my actions.... Yen yen yen


Dude stfu & be a man
She seduced you my black behind
You sound laughable
It's your version we're hearing
Heaven knows it may have been the other way round but alas we can't hear her side of the story.

I suggest you make a conscious effort not to cheat on her again but don't tell you girl.
For all we know her friend may claim you raped her when confronted with the truthamd your poor babe would feel betrayed ultimately.

For all the prayer and good boy image you're painting you forgot the Potiphar wife story when u needed it most.

Some of the girls here telling you to confess have never confessed themselves.

We all know that 95% of babes above 26 have cheated at least once. The cheaters are amongst those condemning you like Judge Dredd

Kevsmart88:
You were too busy complimenting ursef to notice you are flawed...you lack discipline..Am not here to judge U nor endorse ur profligacy..I would advise u sit ur fiancee down and tell her all U did behind her back,believe me if her friend could sleep with U without remorse, she would tell on U without regret...young man control ur libido,control everything else...my 2 cents

@OP Gooogle apologizes for stepping in late. Anyways ignore all other comments and focus only on this one.

Sit her down tell, treat r well n make r happy then remorsefully let d cat outta d bag.

She will get angry for a while, you just consistently show remorse and she will be back. You will also b free from guilt and blackmail.


BTW NEXT TIME B4 EATING WHAT D ELDERS EAT, YOU SHOULD FIRST V D BALLS AND SHOULDERS FOR RESPONSIBILITY

The first to report wins d case o, If u kip it to urself, d friend will on ur wedding stand up and break d marriage. You better be d first to tell.

AdeeT:


I've betrayed her trust, I have really hurt her, I wish that I could undo all I've done. But it's too late, and I'm reek of guilt, it's all over me.

I just cheated on a beautiful lady that has stayed with me through thick and thin for years, a wonderful soul that anyone would dream to have. Cheating might be a common thing, but the moment you cheat on a pure soul, an innocent woman that gives you all, WITH HER BEST FRIEND, then it's beyond cheating.

I am charming, good looking working class guy, guys and girls easily comment how good looking I am, my fiancee is so proud of me, and my achievements that she easily shows me off at the slightest opportunity. She attended the same Uni with her friend, and ever since then, they've been a very good friend. They even served at the same place(worked out), to show you how close they her.

Now my fiancee works in the southern Nigeria, we planned to seal things up next year, and live together here in Abuja. Her friend came for a job interview here, and my woman advised that she rather stay with me for the period instead of her spending a lot on hotel accommodations since I live alone in a bedroom flat. I obliged, and she came down here, little did I know that things would get messy. Long story cut short, I fell in to her seduction the second night of her staying after some series of events. We ended up having sex couples of time before she left. I feel terrible now, though she felt nothing, I can't even flow well with my woman on phone again, guilt is all over me. I don't know how I will stand her whenever we meet. Of all girls in the world, she's the least anyone would want to cheat on.

I'm thinking of telling her. Mind you guys, I'm not a weakling, I've never been one. Before I met her some 3 years back, I was on the other end of life. She changed a lot for good for me, and helped stop many bad things, as well as starting several good ones. I don't know what her reaction would be after telling her. Her friend still communicates with her as if nothing happened.

I'm in pain guys. A serious one. I need advices.

Don't try it bro, be a man and man up. What has happen has happened, telling her will cause more harm than good. The main thing here is that, you have acknowledged the fact that you made a mistake. Treat her well since you that she's a good woman and don't allow this repeat itself. Try as much as possible to keep that her friend at arms length. My lil advise sir.

Guy, forget it.
Your babe knows every bit of what happened.
Either she's fed up with the relationship or wanted to be sure you' ve turn around from your old ways.

Plot twist.
What if she’s cheating on you too

delerx:
All I can say is that you are a stupid guy.. You enjoyed it. Every bit of it and the lady in question didn't seduce you. U wanted it all this while. Mind you ur angel might also be cheating on you. I don't see y any reasonable and educated lady will allow two unlike poles stay together

Yes he did. He even gave her goodbye kpenshing before she left, in fact I'm sure they visited different joints together and enjoyed themselves. His fiancee is even very daft. Na her type friends dey snatch their husband from under their noses.

Sunnymatey:
Guy, forget it

meaning

Don't tell the truth otherwise you'll loose her.
Women forgive but they never forget.
Only tell her if you're asked to

midnighter:
How can somebody use her own mouth to urge their dude and girlfriend stay together...in a self-contained...and she wont even be there to attend to her friend...

Well, couldnt be me sha..crazy..

Maybe she collaborated with the friend to test you and see if you would fall

not a big deal.
Have slept on the same bed on and off for months with a female colleague who actually is the girlfriend abi ex to my bestfriend(bobo was already married when all this was happening and I was still single) and nothing happened.
It helped sha that she never made any move towards me cos I doubt if I could've resisted.

AdeeT:


I've betrayed her trust, I have really hurt her, I wish that I could undo all I've done. But it's too late, and I'm reek of guilt, it's all over me.

I have another angle to your story.

What if this your holy and never do wrong girl also cheats on you and her friends are aware? That may give her friend the confidence to also cheat with you.

Secondly i am surprised that a girl will ask her friend to chill in a 1 bedroom flat with a fine dude as you claim to be. Its either that girl of yours is naive or you are not telling the truth. Maybe you were the one that invited the girl over.

My advice to you: If you are this disturbed quit that relationship and let your girlfriend find another mate. This episode may haunt your marriage in the future if she is the type that cant let go. Most girls can tolerate cheating but you are on a suicide mission when you sleep with their friend or family. A matured boy should know that but you were apparently thinking with your dick.

May the Lord have mercy!
You must have taken too many things for granted son! I do not mean to condemn you...

Anyway, the deed has been done. Now, what's the way out?

1. I strongly advise you genuinely repent! Your true penitence is what will eventually heal you.

2. Upon repentance, you have need to set yourself free! Don't cover your sins. Tell your fianceé, if she's the true type you defined in your post, I'm positive she'll forgive you! Trust me, that's the surest way of not losing her sorely.

3. And if she doesn't forgive you, please take it as the price for your weakness. Let her go... At least, you may have learnt 1 or 2 lessons. That's enough prize on its own.

4. Learn never to underrate the toxic power of sexual urge! Wetin you no wan chop, no try smell am...


Good luck son! It's part of the experiences that build us up as men.

AdeeT:


I've betrayed her trust, I have really hurt her, I wish that I could undo all I've done. But it's too late, and I'm reek of guilt, it's all over me.

I just cheated on a beautiful lady that has stayed with me through thick and thin for years, a wonderful soul that anyone would dream to have. Cheating might be a common thing, but the moment you cheat on a pure soul, an innocent woman that gives you all, WITH HER BEST FRIEND, then it's beyond cheating.

I am charming, good looking working class guy, guys and girls easily comment how good looking I am, my fiancee is so proud of me, and my achievements that she easily shows me off at the slightest opportunity. She attended the same Uni with her friend, and ever since then, they've been a very good friend. They even served at the same place(worked out), to show you how close they her.

Now my fiancee works in the southern Nigeria, we planned to seal things up next year, and live together here in Abuja. Her friend came for a job interview here, and my woman advised that she rather stay with me for the period instead of her spending a lot on hotel accommodations since I live alone in a bedroom flat. I obliged, and she came down here, little did I know that things would get messy. Long story cut short, I fell in to her seduction the second night of her staying after some series of events. We ended up having sex couples of time before she left. I feel terrible now, though she felt nothing, I can't even flow well with my woman on phone again, guilt is all over me. I don't know how I will stand her whenever we meet. Of all girls in the world, she's the least anyone would want to cheat on.

I'm thinking of telling her. Mind you guys, I'm not a weakling, I've never been one. Before I met her some 3 years back, I was on the other end of life. She changed a lot for good for me, and helped stop many bad things, as well as starting several good ones. I don't know what her reaction would be after telling her. Her friend still communicates with her as if nothing happened.

I'm in pain guys. A serious one. I need advices.

I'm sorry but you are very daft.

If you must cheat, why her friend?

Mtchewwww

Leave it unsaid.. don’t go telling her, and stylishly cut ties with her friend .. tell your girl later in the future, like let’s say 4 to 5 months from now and be a man then, she won’t leave..

Chai, Nairalanders are harsh and unforgiving. The dude is obviously dying of guilt which means he has a conscience and no one can sense his remorse. Just hang him if you've never made a mistake in your life.

Mr.
Please don't let anyone down play your remorse instead work with it. Ask God for forgiveness and have a heart to heart talk with her. Plead with her with all sincerity of heart.

Both of you were careless for putting petrol and fire together and not expect an inferno. That said it has happened, you can both use this as a stepping stone to build a stronger relationship and you can allow it destroy what you built.

Note: Please expect some form of outburst from her. It will hurt her to a great extent. Give her time to process it and heal and whatever decision she takes, please respect it.

May God help both of you at this time.

Never forget..sin stings.

AdeeT:


I've betrayed her trust, I have really hurt her, I wish that I could undo all I've done. But it's too late, and I'm reek of guilt, it's all over me.

I just cheated on a beautiful lady that has stayed with me through thick and thin for years, a wonderful soul that anyone would dream to have. Cheating might be a common thing, but the moment you cheat on a pure soul, an innocent woman that gives you all, WITH HER BEST FRIEND, then it's beyond cheating.

I am charming, good looking working class guy, guys and girls easily comment how good looking I am, my fiancee is so proud of me, and my achievements that she easily shows me off at the slightest opportunity. She attended the same Uni with her friend, and ever since then, they've been a very good friend. They even served at the same place(worked out), to show you how close they her.

Now my fiancee works in the southern Nigeria, we planned to seal things up next year, and live together here in Abuja. Her friend came for a job interview here, and my woman advised that she rather stay with me for the period instead of her spending a lot on hotel accommodations since I live alone in a bedroom flat. I obliged, and she came down here, little did I know that things would get messy. Long story cut short, I fell in to her seduction the second night of her staying after some series of events. We ended up having sex couples of time before she left. I feel terrible now, though she felt nothing, I can't even flow well with my woman on phone again, guilt is all over me. I don't know how I will stand her whenever we meet. Of all girls in the world, she's the least anyone would want to cheat on.

I'm thinking of telling her. Mind you guys, I'm not a weakling, I've never been one. Before I met her some 3 years back, I was on the other end of life. She changed a lot for good for me, and helped stop many bad things, as well as starting several good ones. I don't know what her reaction would be after telling her. Her friend still communicates with her as if nothing happened.

I'm in pain guys. A serious one. I need advices.

Fake.

But guy when you are confessing face to face male sure harmful objects are not close o... She can lose control and grab whatever dangerous object she sees on hearing your confessions... Wish u the best bro..

funmisticqueen:
keep your mouth shut

Why are you ranting like you were the one he fvcked?

midnighter:
How can somebody use her own mouth to urge their dude and girlfriend stay together...in a self-contained...and she wont even be there to attend to her friend...

Well, couldnt be me sha..crazy..

Maybe she collaborated with the friend to test you and see if you would fall

It is called TRUST. She trusted both of them and that isn't a weakness.

cococandy:
Plot twist.
What if she’s cheating on you too

is not a big deal that is what we do

tegafej:


Ogbeni chill out.

People make mistakes.

He has accepted it and wants to right his wrong.

Which one be make e give you her number?

Means you wanna cheat too ni

lol,just joking with the last statement na,The guy will still cheat with that his fiancée best friend again and again,it has just began I can bet with anything

AdeeT:


I've betrayed her trust, I have really hurt her, I wish that I could undo all I've done. But it's too late, and I'm reek of guilt, it's all over me.

I just cheated on a beautiful lady that has stayed with me through thick and thin for years, a wonderful soul that anyone would dream to have. Cheating might be a common thing, but the moment you cheat on a pure soul, an innocent woman that gives you all, WITH HER BEST FRIEND, then it's beyond cheating.

I am charming, good looking working class guy, guys and girls easily comment how good looking I am, my fiancee is so proud of me, and my achievements that she easily shows me off at the slightest opportunity. She attended the same Uni with her friend, and ever since then, they've been a very good friend. They even served at the same place(worked out), to show you how close they her.

Now my fiancee works in the southern Nigeria, we planned to seal things up next year, and live together here in Abuja. Her friend came for a job interview here, and my woman advised that she rather stay with me for the period instead of her spending a lot on hotel accommodations since I live alone in a bedroom flat. I obliged, and she came down here, little did I know that things would get messy. Long story cut short, I fell in to her seduction the second night of her staying after some series of events. We ended up having sex couples of time before she left. I feel terrible now, though she felt nothing, I can't even flow well with my woman on phone again, guilt is all over me. I don't know how I will stand her whenever we meet. Of all girls in the world, she's the least anyone would want to cheat on.

I'm thinking of telling her. Mind you guys, I'm not a weakling, I've never been one. Before I met her some 3 years back, I was on the other end of life. She changed a lot for good for me, and helped stop many bad things, as well as starting several good ones. I don't know what her reaction would be after telling her. Her friend still communicates with her as if nothing happened.

I'm in pain guys. A serious one. I need advices.

Rule 1: Except you are caught red-handed, Don't confess, no matter what

Rule 2: Don't forget Rule 1

If you don't want to stand any chance of losing your gf, do not tell her...yet!
I repeat...
DO NOT TELL HER YET!


Even if you have to tell her (although you're not obliged to) do it when you guys are married.

If you doubt me...go ahead and tell her, and watch your relationship hit rock-bottom.

Isharon:
meaning

He messed up big time.
He's the type that sleep with sister in- law when madam is not around.

My friend with my boyfriend... Lol
Tell her and expect anything, but don't let her find out herself. Sending her friend to you was one hell of a big mistake except something else is in play. Doh, you allowed your dude control you.

Sunnymatey:
He messed up big time.

if you think so

funmisticqueen:
keep your mouth shut

You must be a very angry being, cut the guy some slack.

Guy I like your person. OK the guilt will remain as long as you keep it to yourself since as I can see you are a conscientious person. I will advise you go out of your way to shower her with gifts first, then tell her you have offended her and that you need her to forgive you, since you love her you can actually kneel down and burst the bubble, if you be actor you fit even form cry. Ah ah... She no get stone heart now... But pls try to have self control going forward. Peace bro

Guy wasn't that you fell for her seduction, you actually wanted to chop you girlfriend's friend pineapple.
But if you wanted to tell your babe about it, 'teller' discretion is advised.

kowema:
He said he Fell into her seduction!.
So now we should blame her?.

Oga man up and take responsibility for your shit!.

You didn't feel guilty all the while you guys had several rendezvous, it's when she left back to base that your guilt resumed work, Nonsense!!!!.

When she started the Art of seduction as you claimed, why didn't you tell your girlfriend?, Na when you don belleful nai your guilt trigger.

Abi you are feeling like a this cus the girl isn't the one feeling horrible, if she was, you would have been spreading ur shoulder, feeling like conqueror, would have gone back to ur babe and then typical she will forgive you and the other person becomes the villain.

Please go and confess to your loving girlfriend and I hope she dumps ur cheating ass. Seduced you indeed!

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It is easier to for a woman to seduce a man sexually, and it is easier for a man to seduce a woman with money. These are two natural facts u cant change.

Yes, the difference among humans remains their limit. While some men easily fall for sexual seduction from women after a single trial by the lady, some men take longer time.

Same applies to ladies: while some ladies dont easily fall for money, others easily do. The difference lies on individual limits. Women know their power lies in their sexual seduction and men know that their power lies in their wealth and influence they control..

For instance, it is easier for Davido to get any lady he wants because he has the money and influence. No matter how we run away from the truth, it runs with us.