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Religion / Until The Spirit Of Masturbation Goes You Cannot Stop It Even If You Stop Porn. by uchkochi(m): 6:57am On Mar 10
YOU CAN WALK OUT ON MASTURBATION.

Masturbation is one spirit which the devil imposes on people through Lust and through continuous practice of the same. Since it started in a day, it will not need more than a day to permanently end.

Surely there is an end and your expectation shall not be cut off. Proverbs 28 vs. 10. You must believe that masturbation is an evil spirit and not a habit. That’s why even married men and women are still involved in it today. Overcoming it is impossible because it’s not a temptation; understand this, it’s a spirit. It is a personality, if it was an ordinary habit, then fasting and prayers could have been able to deal with it. But prayers and fasting can’t handle it.

Masturbation is even more common with Christians, the devil deceives them that it’s only a habit and not even the main thing, I want you to know that its one loop hole the devil uses to torment Christians.

Apart from causing delays and disappointment, it is a bondage chaired by a spirit. But with God all things are possible. It is a sin but sin has been dealt with by Jesus Christ and as a result of this it cannot have dominion over you. Masturbation is not like every other sin, it is a deceitful sin. It is a spirit that does not stay with you but comes and goes.

You don’t get delivered from it because it doesn’t stay, rather it comes and goes. So you might feel delivered today and then captured tomorrow by this same spirit.

But Christ is the head of all principalities and powers; you are just about to experience permanent freedom. How I wish you know what it is to live a sin-free life. You will never like to be yoked with it again. Christ has made us free more than 2000 years ago which means freedom from any form of sin is possible.

HOW THEN CAN YOU PERMANENTLY WALK OUT ON MASTURBATION?

The spirit of masturbation like I said before does not reside in an individual rather it comes and goes. So prayers and fasting will only make it stronger because you can fast for 7 days and break your fast with masturbation when it comes.
It is good to understand the two ways in which it comes so that you will avoid it totally.

It first of all comes through LUST, LUST, I MEAN PICTURES OF IMMORALITY, REAL OR IMAGINATION, FILM OR PHOTOGRAPHS, and WORDS OR MUSIC. LUST IS THE MESSENGER OF MASTURBATION, IT IS THE FORERUNNER OF MASTURBATION OR FORNICATION AS THE CASE MAY BE, SO IF YOU CAN HANDLE LUST YOU CAN HANDLE MASTURBATION.

Lust however is the forerunner of masturbation; it is who masturbation sends to pave the way before he visits. Note that masturbation does not reside in any individual; it rather comes and goes so it is impossible to stop it through prayers and fasting, you can only learn how to avoid it by minding what you see, hear, read or listen to, beware of immorality imposed videos, video musical and so on. In as much as masturbation does not reside, but lust resides in the mind of an individual and as a result of this, attracts the spirit of masturbation.

After this act of masturbation is completed guilt steps in .This spirit hates when you are guilty, so he keeps coming till you become ‘unguilty’, but this shall not be your portion in Jesus name. God is going to help you out; He is already helping you out through this message.

Your mind needs to be renewed daily with Gods word for Lust to finally leave you alone.

Masturbation also comes through pre lust that is thoughts of yester years that portrays immorality. Masturbation comes also when you are depressed, so decide to rejoice always in Jesus Name. You can handle Lust by casting down every imagination on the spot. 2nd Corinthians 10 vs. 3 to 5. You cast it down on the spot. And when you have done that you ignore it and get busy. I mean really get busy, idleness of the mind can arouse Lust.

The reason why when you cast out lust it still remains is because you do not have enough of Gods word in your heart. So labor in Gods word, you must be lost in Gods word to overcome lust which will finally put an end to masturbation. Romans 12 vs. 1.

There are times when the spirit of masturbation just comes on you without the thought of lust, but this is because depression and idleness attracted it.

I pray for you in the name of Jesus, that whatever might be a besetting sin that you are struggling with and making you not to be able to run this Christian race is nullified as you take heed to this message in the name of Jesus.

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Religion / Stop Sacrificing Your Peace For Other People's Joy. by uchkochi(m): 9:02pm On Mar 04
Stop sacrificing your peace for other people's joy.Study people and deal with them just the way they are not the way you are.
Religion / When God Speaks Even The Dead Hears. by uchkochi(m): 6:59pm On Feb 07
When God speaks even the dead hears. Today I use this message as a point of contact to re-echo what God is saying. God is saying THAT TWO HELPERS WILL LOCATE YOU Before TOMORROW EVENING. Rejoice because your helpers have HEARD. They will respond willingly.

WHEN GOD SPEAKS, EVEN THE DEAF HEARS. GOD IS SAYING THAT TODAY YOUR PHONE WILL DELIVER GOOD NEWS.
Religion / Commonise That Problem... by uchkochi(m): 9:58am On Feb 04
MEASURE THAT PROBLEM WITH THE SIZE OF GOD THEN YOU WILL SEE HOW SMALL IT IS AND FEAR WILL VANISH AWAY.

Every temptation is common,every challenge is common. It is not special,neither is it peculiar to only you. If you see it as a special problem, it will then appear big, but if you commonise it then it will become small.

Once a problem appears small to you, fear would then leave your heart and faith will begin to work.
Religion / God Does Not End Captivities. Rather He Turns Them. Psalm 126:1. by uchkochi(m): 7:41pm On Jan 26
God does not end captivities. Rather He turns them. Psalm 126:1. To turn means it has to go somewhere, that captivity is going to the house of your enemies and the perpetrators of those negativities in the name of Jesus Christ, you are free. Job 42:10.
Romance / Until Your Words Become Better, Your Life May Not Be Better. by uchkochi(m): 7:36pm On Nov 09, 2023
UNTIL YOUR WORDS BECOME BETTER, YOUR LIFE MAY NOT BE BETTER.

There is something about the words that you speak, do not be careless about them. They are either for you or against you. Whatever you say works, whether jokingly or seriously. Life and death are in the power of the tongue. Proverbs 18:21. The devil cannot afflict or attack you until He has made you to say something negative, knowingly or unknowingly. Even though the situation is not pleasant at the moment, use your mouth to rearrange it. You are where you are and what you are today because of the words you consciously or carelessly spoke yesterday. Please don't say another negative word despite the pressure. Rather speak what you want to happen, not what is already happening. Jesus was going to raise back Lazarus from the grave after being dead for 4 days, if you checked His confession in John chapter 11:11, you will discover that Jesus said Lazarus was sleeping. Please speak well so that things will become well. Be blessed in Jesus name.

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Romance / EXPECTATION VERSUS ANXIETY. Everything In The Kingdom Of God Answers To Keys. by uchkochi(m): 8:57am On Nov 05, 2023
EXPECTATION VERSUS ANXIETY.

Everything in the kingdom of God answers to keys. The right key must be used to get the right result. Proverbs 23:18 says that surely there is an end and your expectations shall not be cut off. This means that God grants the expectations of His Children. That is why what you don't expect cannot be experienced. But there is a thin line between expectation and anxiety. The bible says be anxious for nothing. Philippians 4:6. But how can someone expect without being anxious?

As I was meditating on why God's people experience continuous delay. God brought this word to me. He said; MANY OF THE EXPECTATIONS OF HIS CHILDREN HAVE TURNED INTO ANXIETIES THAT IS WHY THERE IS A DELAY. This word inspired me to write this message. He further said that expectation merges hope and faith together, while anxiety merges doubt and fear together. So there is a problem. I then asked Him how one can expect without being anxious because it was His word that said that expectation delayed makes the heart sick. Proverbs 13:12. He now laughed and asked me. If the president of your nation promised me a car in two weeks time do I become anxious over it or patiently wait for it. I said I will patiently wait for it because the status of a president is far more than cars. Then I got it, I believed in the capacity of the president so anxiety or worry is not in my heart and even if the two weeks passes all I have to do is to remind him and it will be done instantly.

For expectation not to turn to anxiety you must believe in the almighty capacity of God. If you cannot doubt the president of your nation why doubt God the president of the universe. Trust God so much and wait. When there is no more anxiety, your expectation will manifest. The key is this; Expect it but don't be anxious over it, don't lose your peace or sleep over it. Be blessed in Jesus name.

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Religion / Refuse To Be Offended. by uchkochi(m): 10:41pm On Nov 04, 2023
Never personalise offence. Never carry hurt in your heart because it will not just affect your health. It will also affect your relationship with God. Moreover, people who are hurt will always hurt other people indirectly. Forgiving others is the greatest medicine. Forgiveness is the drug you need to take every day. The level at which you forgive people is the same level God forgives you.
Romance / Your Words Are More Powerful Than The Devil. by uchkochi(m): 10:08pm On Oct 30, 2023
Your Words Are More Powerful Than The Devil.

Your words are more powerful than the devil. Life and death are in the power of the tongue. Proverbs 18:21. When Jesus took the key of Life and Death from the devil, He placed it in the power of your tongue. All God is saying to you today is to be careful of what you say in private or in public. Don't talk the problem,talk the solution. Your words rule your life and destiny. Declare what you want to see and not what you may be seeing. You are a sum total of your words. Receive grace to speak positively always in Jesus Name.

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Romance / Don't look at a man and think he has nothing. by uchkochi(m): 5:30am On Oct 26, 2023
Don't look at a man and think he has nothing. The content of each man is IN HIM not ON HIM. This is why ladies still fall for internet scammers. They focus on what the guy has on him not what he has in him.

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Business / God Just Showed Me That No Matter The Debt You Owe, This Week You Are Free. by uchkochi(m): 4:33pm On Oct 25, 2023
God just showed me that no matter the debt you owe, this week you are getting free.

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Religion / That Witch Must Die. by uchkochi(m): 6:46pm On Oct 24, 2023
DO NOT ALLOW THAT WITCH TO LIVE.

God will not fight for you if your reasoning is contrary to His word. It was God who said. Suffer not a witch to live. Exodus 22:18. There are witches and sorcerers manipulating your life. Declare their death by the blood of Jesus.

You cannot really make progress when the wicked is after you. You need to clear the wicked for your way to be clear. I decree the death of witches, wizards, sorcerers against you physically and spiritually in the name of Jesus Christ. They are responsible for delay and disappointment. They turn the minds of your helpers from you. But they won't survive the next 3 hours in the name of Jesus Christ.

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Romance / Nothing Affects A Man's Finances Like Sleeping With Multiple Women. by uchkochi(m): 10:13pm On Oct 23, 2023
Nothing affects a man's finances like sleeping with multiple women.

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Romance / Nothing Affects A Man's Finances Like Sleeping With Multiple Women. by uchkochi(m): 6:44pm On Oct 23, 2023
Nothing affects a man's finances like sleeping with multiple women.

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Religion / If Everybody In The World Becomes A Star There Will Still Be Space In The Sky. by uchkochi(m): 6:26am On Oct 22, 2023
If everybody in the world becomes a star there will still be space in the sky.
Religion / Measure That Problem With The Size Of God Then You Will See How Small It Is And by uchkochi(m): 2:29pm On Jun 27, 2023
MEASURE THAT PROBLEM WITH THE SIZE OF GOD THEN YOU WILL SEE HOW SMALL IT IS AND FEAR WILL VANISH AWAY.

Every temptation is common,every challenge is common. It is not special,neither is it peculiar to only you. If you see it as a special problem, it will then appear big, but if you commonise it then it will become small.

Once a problem appears small to you, fear would then leave your heart and faith will begin to work. Imagine Lazarus died and Jesus said that he was just sleeping. He commonised death and Lazarus came back to life even after four days. I believe that issue had lingered for long because you are seeing it as big. No matter the challenge,it is common. Commonise it and it will bow down to the word of God. 1st Corinthians 10:13. To commonise something is to treat something as not important,start treating your challenges as not important. The easiest way to commonise an issue is to measure that issue with the size of GOD. Nothing is bigger than God. I pray for you that as you begin to commonise those challenges, you will begin to experience your desired breakthrough in Jesus Precious name.

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Romance / Never Use Someone's Marriage To Compare Your Own. by uchkochi(m): 3:43am On Jun 24, 2023
Never use someone's marriage to compare your's.

I use to have a friend. I got married before him. He manipulatively walked me out of mine. Because every time I tell him what my wife does as in when we have arguments the only thing he says is divorce, divorce and divorce. I finally got divorced then he got married and he had even worse issues but he never divorced his wife. Better still he tells me how endurance and patience can keep a home I felt bad. He even laughs at me.

Then he tells me to divorce so I won't have high BP and die early. Although he didn't divorce but he died two months ago of the same high BP.

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Religion / It Is For A Reason. Rejoice by uchkochi(m): 1:10pm On May 31, 2023
It is for a reason. Rejoice

Don't doubt Me says God I will make a camel pass through the eye of a needle in 2 days. That means I will do the impossible in your health, business, family, marriage, job, academics and all that concerns you. To know that I am serious send in your expected testimonies in less than two days.

Your complaining or murmuring may secure the pity of men that will not help you. In the same vein it will provoke God's anger who is willing to help you. So what do you do; Stop complaining, rather praise God even when you don't feel like. That is what will bring the change you need. 1st Corinthians 10:10.
Religion / Fear No More. Your Time Is Now. by uchkochi(m): 4:07pm On May 25, 2023
Every invisible brake following you about slowing your progress is destroyed in the name of Jesus Christ.

A miracle that looks like a lie will happen to you. A breakthrough that looks like a lie, something people will see and wonder is about to happen to you. Something that is too hard for people to believe is about to happen to the glory of God.

What one million words cannot do one miracle will do it.That miracle that will end explanation...RECEIVE NOW IN THE NAME OF JESUS.

God is breaking curses right now and releasing THE blessing.

The devil hates laughter. So to keep him off your territory always be joyful. Discuss only what brings joy. When you forget a hurt, forget it. Depression comes by going to reopen the hurt you have forgotten. I curse the spirit of depression around your life in the name of Jesus Christ.

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Religion / Nobody's Life Is Better Than Your Own. Rejoice! by uchkochi(m): 5:10am On May 18, 2023
Nobody's life is better than your own. Rejoice!

The enemy cannot take what God gave you. He only devalues it until you stop appreciating God for it. Thank God for what you have.

Nobody's life is better than yours. You must understand this to enjoy absolute peace. Fat people are seeking to lose weight, thin people are desiring to gain weight so this gives room for worries. And worry washes blessings away.
Religion / How To Undo Everything The Enemy Have Done. by uchkochi(m): 9:57am On May 17, 2023
Undoing what the enemy has done instantly now.

Every bad thing is done by the devil or an enemy. I don't know the force trying to stop you from getting married or staying married. I don't know the force stopping you from giving birth or from giving birth to your desired sex of child. I don't know the force that wants to bring you to ground zero. I don't know the forces that wants you to keep owing and owing without being free. But one thing I know is that God can undo everything the devil or the enemy has done. Every evil sacrifice speaking against you must be destroyed now. Both the sacrifice, the sacrificer and the supervisor of the evil sacrifice goes down now in Jesus name. Call +2348034868232 for prophetic prayers.

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Business / Have You Ever Prayed For Your Customers. by uchkochi(m): 4:59am On May 06, 2023
The most important prayer point is to pray for people. Pray for your customers if you are in business. One customer can give you a recommendation that can change your life.
Religion / People Are About To Respect Your Whole Family Because Of You. by uchkochi(m): 8:48am On May 05, 2023
People are about to respect your whole family because of you. You may have started late but you are just about to be the latest. Early help is coming for you now.

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Religion / This Month Is Your Month Of Speed. by uchkochi(m): 8:16pm On May 03, 2023
It was God that enabled Elijah on foot to out run Ahab's Chariot and horses. God is giving you that kind of speed this month that will take you to where you ought to be in life assuming everything went well. 1st Kings 18:44-46.
Romance / Stop Being Worried That You Are Still Single And Not Married Till Now. by uchkochi(m): 4:22am On May 02, 2023
Stop being worried that you are still single and not married till now. You are not single...you are only on reserve waiting for who deserves you.

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Religion / You Can Stop Masturbation Finally Even After Many Years, Even When Married... by uchkochi(m): 4:24am On Apr 30, 2023
YOU CAN WALK OUT ON MASTURBATION.

Masturbation is one spirit which the devil imposes on people through Lust and through continuous practice of the same. Since it started in a day, it will not need more than a day to permanently end.

Surely there is an end and your expectation shall not be cut off. Proverbs 28 vs. 10. You must believe that masturbation is an evil spirit and not a habit. That’s why even married men and women are still involved in it today. Overcoming it is impossible because it’s not a temptation; understand this, it’s a spirit. It is a personality, if it was an ordinary habit, then fasting and prayers could have been able to deal with it. But prayers and fasting can’t handle it.

Masturbation is even more common with Christians, the devil deceives them that it’s only a habit and not even the main thing, I want you to know that its one loop hole the devil uses to torment Christians.

Apart from causing delays and disappointment, it is a bondage chaired by a spirit. But with God all things are possible. It is a sin but sin has been dealt with by Jesus Christ and as a result of this it cannot have dominion over you. Masturbation is not like every other sin, it is a deceitful sin. It is a spirit that does not stay with you but comes and goes.

You don’t get delivered from it because it doesn’t stay, rather it comes and goes. So you might feel delivered today and then captured tomorrow by this same spirit.

But Christ is the head of all principalities and powers; you are just about to experience permanent freedom. How I wish you know what it is to live a sin-free life. You will never like to be yoked with it again. Christ has made us free more than 2000 years ago which means freedom from any form of sin is possible.

HOW THEN CAN YOU PERMANENTLY WALK OUT ON MASTURBATION?

The spirit of masturbation like I said before does not reside in an individual rather it comes and goes. So prayers and fasting will only make it stronger because you can fast for 7 days and break your fast with masturbation when it comes.
It is good to understand the two ways in which it comes so that you will avoid it totally.

It first of all comes through LUST, LUST, I MEAN PICTURES OF IMMORALITY, REAL OR IMAGINATION, FILM OR PHOTOGRAPHS, and WORDS OR MUSIC. LUST IS THE MESSENGER OF MASTURBATION, IT IS THE FORERUNNER OF MASTURBATION OR FORNICATION AS THE CASE MAY BE, SO IF YOU CAN HANDLE LUST YOU CAN HANDLE MASTURBATION.

Lust however is the forerunner of masturbation; it is who masturbation sends to pave the way before he visits. Note that masturbation does not reside in any individual; it rather comes and goes so it is impossible to stop it through prayers and fasting, you can only learn how to avoid it by minding what you see, hear, read or listen to, beware of immorality imposed videos, video musical and so on. In as much as masturbation does not reside, but lust resides in the mind of an individual and as a result of this, attracts the spirit of masturbation.

After this act of masturbation is completed guilt steps in .This spirit hates when you are guilty, so he keeps coming till you become ‘unguilty’, but this shall not be your portion in Jesus name. God is going to help you out; He is already helping you out through this message.

Your mind needs to be renewed daily with Gods word for Lust to finally leave you alone.

Masturbation also comes through pre lust that is thoughts of yester years that portrays immorality. Masturbation comes also when you are depressed, so decide to rejoice always in Jesus Name. You can handle Lust by casting down every imagination on the spot. 2nd Corinthians 10 vs. 3 to 5. You cast it down on the spot. And when you have done that you ignore it and get busy. I mean really get busy, idleness of the mind can arouse Lust.

The reason why when you cast out lust it still remains is because you do not have enough of Gods word in your heart. So labor in Gods word, you must be lost in Gods word to overcome lust which will finally put an end to masturbation. Romans 12 vs. 1.

There are times when the spirit of masturbation just comes on you without the thought of lust, but this is because depression and idleness attracted it.

I pray for you in the name of Jesus, that whatever might be a besetting sin that you are struggling with and making you not to be able to run this Christian race is nullified as you take heed to this message in the name of Jesus.

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Religion / All You Need Is Courage... by uchkochi(m): 6:58am On Apr 27, 2023
In the jungle:
🤏🤏
1. The Elephant is the biggest;
2. The Giraffe is the tallest;
3. The Fox is the wisest; and
4. The Cheetah is the fastest;

Yet, the Lion is the KING of the jungle even without ANY of these qualities💪💪

Why?

Because🤗🤗🤗
1. The Lion is courageous, is bold, walks with confidence, dares anything and is never afraid.
2. The Lion believes it is unstoppable.
3. The Lion is a risk taker.
4. The Lion believes any animal is food for him.
5. The Lion believes any opportunity is worth giving a trial and never lets it slip from its hands.

So😏😏
1. You don't need to be the fastest.
2. You don't need to be the wisest.
3. You don't need to be the smartest.
4. You don't need to be the most brilliant.
5. All you need is courage
6. All you need is the will to try.
7. All you need is the faith to believe it is possible.
8. All you need is to believe in yourself, that you can do it.!!
The Lion sleeps for 20 hours & works for 4 hours & yet eats meat😃😃

But the elephant works for 24 hours & eats grass😞😞
Your life's strategy matters most in your approach to circumstances & situations for you to be a champion or winner always👌👌👌.
I AM A LION.
Stay in the Lion's mood! That's the mood for winners."✌️✌️

Stay positive ✅✅
Stay focus ✅✅

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Religion / Forgiveness Is The Most Powerful Force On Earth. by uchkochi(m): 11:54am On Apr 26, 2023
Forgiveness is the most powerful force on earth.

Forgiveness is incredibly powerful. Forgiveness is not for the other person it's for you. There are people who have hurt you and they are living their lives making progress not even thinking of what they did to you. But here you are nursing hurts, getting bitter, getting sick over something that the offender has forgotten. God is even blessing the person but you are so bitter that God is avoiding you.

Stop being bitter, forgive the person and you will see how things will turn in your life.

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Religion / Avoid People That Always Think That You Are Competing With Them When You Are Not by uchkochi(m): 12:51pm On Apr 19, 2023
Avoid people that always
think that you are
competing with them
when you are not. They
are insecure with them
you are not secured.

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Romance / Don't Always Get Angry... When Provoked by uchkochi(m): 1:44pm On Apr 13, 2023
*She asked a question in a general Group on a WhatsApp platform*.
I responded to the question professionally.

She tagged my response and typed: *"you're an idiot"*

Upon thinking through her response, I calmly replied: *"Thanks so much. Now that you have pointed out my attention to this idiotic part of me, I'll surely work on it, God bless you my dear..."*

*And the whole platform shook. Over 118 people commented. They were so surprised by my calm response. Of course she was terribly bashed to the extent that she "left" the Group.*

*An hour later she called me to apologise* for how stupid she's been etc. I forgave her and we became friends.

Then I later ended up handling her premarital counselling sessions.

Two days ago, on my Birthday, she and her husband surprised me with a gift worth over $10,000. This was a year after she called me an idiot.

*Life Lessons from this experience:*

*1. MATURITY:* Your reaction to negative feedbacks  or situations shows how mature you are.

*2. CHOICE:* You have the power of choice whenever anybody does or says anything offensive to you.

*3. SELF CONTROL:* If someone calls you anything negative and you lose yourself and begin to fight or shout or do anything terrible, you only prove them right.

*4. SILENCE IS GOLDEN:* It is better to keep quiet and let people think you're a fool, than to open your mouth to enable them confirm you're truly a fool.

*5. DISCERNMENT:* You cannot throw both the baby and the dirty water away from the bathing bowl because the baby had pooed in the bath water.

*6. POSITIVE POWER:* You have the power to win people through your maturity and composure and not through overly being more sanctimonious than the person.

*7. POSITIVE IMPACT:* Life is all about people. If I had responded to her negatively, I would have lost a friend forever.

*8. WISDOM:* There are people who are sent to you by God to help your journey in life to be worthwhile, your  meeting point might be at a fighting point. Be wise, even when you're angry.

*9. HUMILITY:* She was humble enough to call and apologized.

*10. RECONCILIATION:* Maybe there's someone you need to reconcile with today, go ahead and do just that.

We can all get Better with Ourselves, with these 10  key lessons.

*I found this interesting*

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Romance / True Life Story Please Try To Avoid Divorce.. by uchkochi(m): 5:30am On Apr 13, 2023
A DIVORCED SINGLE MOTHER WROTE:

I am writing to you in order to make someone understand that it's good to appreciate our partners despite their flaws.

I am 32 years of age.

My ex husband and I dated for 6 years.

We where best of friends.

I waited until he completed college and started work.

My family and his family then met.

We got married and had a son. (7 years old now).

My husband was short tempered at times but our problems started when I wanted to make him feel he couldn't control me.

Every time we argued, I would pack my bags, go to my family and explain.

My sisters would phone my husband and shout at him.

If he was controlling me I would always dare him that if he wished, he could divorce me.

I never wanted divorce.

I just had pride and I never wanted to look like a loose woman in his eyes.

One day I pushed him so hard that for the first time he beat me and locked me outside.

I went to my family, my family took him to the police, every time I looked like I was being abused!

But to be honest, I used to abuse my husband emotionally.

He was arrested and detained.

I was asked by his family to withdraw the case.

I felt that what I was doing was wrong.

My husband was never a violent man, he did what he did because I pushed him to the wall of which he openly knelt down and apologized.

I withdrew the charge, and we reconciled.

After three months, I packed my bags after a small issue and he remained alone.

After two days, I
received a call that he was in the hospital.

My family told me that I shouldn't go there because it would look like I was begging him and my sisters believed he was feigning the illness.

All this time, people felt sorry for me like I was the one being abused.

He spent a week in the hospital, after he came out, I just received a divorce summon.

I wanted to say no to divorce, but because I felt this pride, I wanted him to change his mind and beg me.

I called him and said he would get the divorce because I lived like I was in hell.

When we went to court, I wanted to make him pay, so I told the court that I needed his properties to be shared.

To my surprise he openly told the court that whatever he and I acquired together should be given to me, all he wanted was divorce.

We were divorced in 2009 July.

Now, my husband is married, whilst l am here wasted!

My family members are gossiping about me.

I depend on what my ex husband gives to my son for survival.

I know I wasted my
marriage.

I am here telling all wives that they should be careful how they get advise.

Don't be cheated, don't entertain family interference in your marriage my dear reader.

Even my young sisters are much more respected than myself.

Those who encouraged me to get divorced are now teasing and bad mouthing me.

Please ladies, be vigilant in your marriage.

Thought it wise to share my story to save your marriage.

There is no benefit in pride for nothing.

SOMETIMES IT'S NOT THE MAN'S FAULT AT ALL, IT'S YOUR PRIDE,AND THE PEOPLE YOU ALLOWED TO ADVISE YOU,SO BE WISE AND VIGILANT IN YOUR MARRIAGE.
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