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Programming / Re: How Do I Start Please by Xzbit91: 8:52am On Jul 20, 2021 |
Auxtan: Is it from a reputable store or an individual? |
Programming / Re: How Do I Start Please by Xzbit91: 6:57am On Jul 20, 2021 |
Auxtan:I'm in Delta State |
Programming / Re: How Do I Start Please by Xzbit91: 7:54pm On Jul 19, 2021 |
Auxtan:Thanks bro. How has it been so far? If it is something you'd recommend I'd like to know where you bought yours. |
Programming / Re: How Do I Start Please by Xzbit91: 3:18pm On Jul 18, 2021 |
Auxtan: Core i5 for 80k? Is it a new or second hand laptop? |
Family / Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Xzbit91: 8:29pm On Dec 14, 2020 |
TheHulk616: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ozSjZ6iRKSA |
Family / Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Xzbit91: 8:14pm On Sep 21, 2020 |
dreaizy: It's great to give when you have the capacity. The key to a balanced and fulfilled is knowing when and how to say no. Sometimes you'll be called on to make sacrifices and your goals will have to take a backseat. You have to find that fine line between being selfish and being someone else's 'knight in shinning armour'. Even spouses sometimes forget each others birthdays and anniversaries. What should really count is if they treat you the love and respect you deserve. 1 Like |
Family / Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Xzbit91: 12:57am On Sep 21, 2020 |
dreaizy: Don't you have ambitions in life? The major reason why you give out all your earnings, even to the point of lacking is because you don't have anything to do with it. A man with clear cut aspirations and goals will never be a 'yes man' to every request from every Dick and Harry in his life. You better develop a spine before you're squeezed for all you're worth and run into the ground. Set reasonable and clear deadlines for your goals and you will see that the money you're giving out isn't even enough for you. If you're waiting for people to stop billing you, you are in for a long ride. They'll continue to bill you as long as you make yourself available to be billed. Remember if you were to fall down and die today, life will go on and they will survive. So don't kill yourself because you want to be liked. People who will like you, will like you, you don't have to pay for it. Think of all the people you like, did they pay you to like them? The relationships with the strongest bonds are not built with money. You can deny someone's request without severing the relationship. It depends on how you go about it. For example, when someone requests money from me and I have it but don't feel like giving it away, I tell the person I've already given out money and what's left with me is for my upkeep. Now unless such person doesn't mean well for you he /she will leave you alone. Other times, I give what I can afford so when they don't pay back, I'm not hurt much. But most of the time I give to people who are credit worthy. That means I only give my colleagues and other people I know are working and who have the means to pay back. Sometimes people who are working too disappoint, but before that I test the waters by giving them what I can afford to lose that way even if they fail to pay back they won't have the gall to ask me for help again. You have to assess all your relationships one-by-one and be honest with yourself what has each person added to your life. It doesn't have to be monetary value. It can be companionship, the one who gives advice, the one who gives you listening ear etc., Anyone that has been a net negative, cut them off. They're parasites. Make friends with like minded people. Especially those who can help you achieve your goals in life. 14 Likes |
Travel / Re: How Possible To Travel Out If You Don't Know Anyone Abroad To Stay With by Xzbit91: 8:19pm On Sep 12, 2020 |
lordally: Thanks for the advice, I appreciate. |
Travel / Re: How Possible To Travel Out If You Don't Know Anyone Abroad To Stay With by Xzbit91: 8:22am On Sep 11, 2020 |
lordally: Good morning bro, do you know graduates of semicolon? Do you know how much they're paid? I would like to know my job prospects after completing the training because I'm about to key into CBN Nirsal loan for software engineering training with semicolon. It costs a ton of money and I hope I'm not making a big mistake? |
Family / Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Xzbit91: 2:37pm On May 16, 2020 |
Swtbabyvee: Both of your accounts were created in the last 2 months. I've been on nairaland long enough to know the popular monikers. |
Family / Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Xzbit91: 5:47pm On May 15, 2020 |
Swtbabyvee: So you have nothing better to do than act as backup account. This is not the only thread I've seen you offering your support for same moniker 2 Likes |
Family / Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Xzbit91: 9:24pm On Apr 22, 2020 |
Juell: I wouldn't go as far as to say they don't think deep. It's just one of the downsides to being a part of the majority and conventional social norms. You become blind and indifferent to the struggles, experiences and realities of the minority. |
Family / Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Xzbit91: 7:01pm On Apr 22, 2020 |
Karleb: I used that caparison for lack of a better analogy, but that's besides the point. Human beings are not a monolith. 1 Like |
Family / Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Xzbit91: 3:13pm On Apr 22, 2020 |
Karleb: That's the mistake you're making Karleb. No one can teach you what comes naturally to them, especially when it's instinctive and you didn't have to learn. If a rat scurries in front of a dog, the natural instinct of the dog will be to run but if it scurries in front of a cat, the cats instinct will be to attack. It's not like the introvert doesn't know how to socialise, he/she can do that, even better under certain circumstances. There are certain emotions, fears and drawbacks that prevent introverts from being outgoing and making themselves vulnerable to strangers. Only someone who has undergone and overcome same challenges can provide a practical solution for those who face same challenges. 7 Likes 2 Shares |
Family / Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Xzbit91: 4:07pm On Apr 05, 2020 |
DeeMarh: I hope for your sake that's true because no one deserves to be treated like that. DeeMarh: You should rephrase the bolded statement. |
Family / Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Xzbit91: 1:02am On Apr 05, 2020 |
DeeMarh: You let someone cheat on you severally and dump you, then you turn around and blame your introversion? You need to work on self esteem girl. No self respecting human will tolerate such disrespect. 5 Likes |
Family / Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Xzbit91: 12:14pm On Feb 14, 2020 |
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Apply For 2019 NNPC Graduate Trainee And Experience Hire by Xzbit91: 6:35am On Feb 10, 2020 |
Page 1600 May we be among the successful hopefuls 1 Like |
Family / Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Xzbit91: 3:58pm On Feb 09, 2020 |
oyetpel: That's why I said 80% of the time you're going to spook them by being too forward. They'll make you chase, and the harder you chase, the more elusive they become. If she ends up as a friend then you didn't play your part right. Learn how to use sexual innuendos to spice things up. Make her guess your intentions and only say that "I love you" when you're sure she feels same way. Even if she doesn't tell you directly, it'll show from her body language. 1 Like |
Family / Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Xzbit91: 10:54am On Feb 09, 2020 |
oyetpel: Don't say, show her. When you like girl and want to date her, start treating her as though she were already your girl. Get acquainted with her as you would a friend. Find out her likes, dislikes. Places she likes to hang out and her hobbies. This will help you know how to pull her strings, like when and how to tease her or stun her with compliments. If she likes novels or movies for instance, instead of asking her out, invite her to come see a movie with you. There's a subtle difference between the two, if you say "let's go see a movie" you're asking her out but if you say something like "I was planning to watch the merry men at the cinema today and I remembered you also like that genre of movie so I bought two tickets, are you interested?" she's more likely to say yes if you've played your cards well and she really enjoys your company. In the second scenario, you're going to watch the movie anyway whether she accepts to come with you or not and it's something she would miss out on if she turns you down while in the first scenario she's the centre of attention and if she doesn't go with you, your evening is ruined. Keep her guessing your real intensions, build the sexual tension and she'll find you irresistible. With women being too straightforward kills attraction. For men, the shortest distance between point A and B is a straight line, for women, it's a gentle curve. 2 Likes |
Family / Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Xzbit91: 4:03pm On Feb 08, 2020 |
oyetpel: Never tell a girl you're not already dating that you love her, all you'll succeed in doing is scare her away. |
Family / Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Xzbit91: 2:37pm On Feb 08, 2020 |
oyetpel: Hope you didn't ask her the direct question "can you be my girlfriend?" You'll be turned down 80% of the time even if the girl likes you. |
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Apply For 2019 NNPC Graduate Trainee And Experience Hire by Xzbit91: 9:51pm On Feb 02, 2020 |
Someone is lurking in the shadows, waiting to pounce if this information fails to materialise 10 Likes
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Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Apply For 2019 NNPC Graduate Trainee And Experience Hire by Xzbit91: 9:28pm On Feb 02, 2020 |
GeniusOla: Exactly. The time line is yet expire and the naysayers are already beating the drums of disappointment. |
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Apply For 2019 NNPC Graduate Trainee And Experience Hire by Xzbit91: 9:03pm On Feb 02, 2020 |
jlomz: Happy Sunday to you too bro. I've never come here to say I have a source before, that's because I'm not a person with high connections. I've depended solely on God and my abilities in all I've been able to achieve so far. So I'd be lying if I told you I had a source somewhere. I get my info from this thread or third hand sources. My dad was the first person to call and tell me NNPC is recruiting, this info he got from a distant uncle who has direct connection to the said PA. So you see the chain of information is quite long. So yesterday was the first time my dad will speak to the PA directly at the burial ceremony of former ED of NNPC. The PA and former NNPC ED happen to be from my state so the encounter was entirely by chance. The information I got yesterday only reinforces my belief that APL is going to be released this week as it corresponds with what Jarus and Dawani's sources are saying. I believe if there was any change in the time line, the PA would have known before yesterday! 30 Likes 1 Share |
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Apply For 2019 NNPC Graduate Trainee And Experience Hire by Xzbit91: 3:17pm On Feb 02, 2020 |
I still believe Jarus and Dawani's source and here's why: My dad called me yesterday morning and asked me to to check the NNPC career portal. I did and revert back to him telling him there was no change, but I was curious and asked him why? He said he met a PA to petroleum minister at the burial ceremony of a former ED of NNPC and the PA told him that APL was scheduled to be out within last week and this week so he wanted me to check if I was successful. I told him it's not out yet (didn't tell him I had already gotten the info from our trusted Jarus) but hopefully this week. So from my point of view, if leaking a time line for the release of APL will cause so much raucous as to significantly change its expected date, the PA will be in the know. I can conclusively tell you ladies and gentlemen that the wait is over! May we all have reason to smile by the end of the week. 49 Likes |
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Apply For 2019 NNPC Graduate Trainee And Experience Hire by Xzbit91: 4:10pm On Jan 30, 2020 |
Sotrue: We should forget APL now and look forward to the end of the first quarter but it's still possible to get APL this night? Either you're confused or you're trying hard to confuse the honorable members of this thread. My mind tells me it's the former. 4 Likes |
Family / Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Xzbit91: 10:56pm On Jan 21, 2020 |
psyrizzla: Why will they disown you? Because you have a few challenges? If you're not doing well at school they deserve to know why and how they can help you. No parent will want to see their child fail, not if they can help it. So do away with those fears and confront them with your problem. 2 Likes |
Family / Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Xzbit91: 10:14pm On Jan 21, 2020 |
psyrizzla: Yours is a severe case of social anxiety. As much as we would like to help, we can't. You have to let your parents know right now so you can get professional help. |
Romance / Re: What Sort Of Simp Is This? by Xzbit91: 9:51pm On Jan 12, 2020 |
BetWinners: I understand what you mean but it's totally off the mark here. They've probably known each other for over ten years now. Remember they both worked at a supermarket before heading for university and they've been working on the business for five years now. She even admits that they're romantic partners, so I doubt sex is endgame for him. He's probably already getting that. What I see is a sincere but naive guy who is unable to draw the line of business from relationship pleasure. He's yet to come face to face with betrayal and malevolence so he can't fathom how things could go horribly wrong in the future. I've seen stories like this even on nairaland where a nairalander was double crossed by one of his friend on a business they built together simply because the other was too trusting. He failed to get lawyers for the business to specify who owns what and the rules of engagement. 3 Likes |
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