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I only pity his family which he has thrown into mourning.

This op is buying time for his boss.

EFCC arrest and persecution Thief After Orji.


He is worst than those you are persecuting.

kubba:
Always "boning" on people's thread

I tire oo.
Are they robots?

GuiltySpark343:
my brother next time spend more on dhl

Dhl is the best just that I was trying to save cost.

Freemanan:

Robots on NL

Guys, I need your contributions on the possibility of taking Peace Courier services to court for the damages caused by their delay in delivering a parcel of documents sent through them .


I sent a document from East here to Lagos on the 23rd of June , the told me that the receiver will pick it up at most in the evening of 25th of the same month, the receiver went to the pick up point on the same day, he didn't pick it up, he repeated the same from 26th to 28th but couldn't pick it. I went to the sending point , the staff customer relationship was very poor, after I threaten to sue the company for damages, the scrambled to make calls to their Lagos office. Lagos office told them that the bike man whos duty is to deliver to the collection point is sick, the had to send another person to do the delivery.

I want to sue them for damages which their delay caused me, I need suggestions and contributions on how to go about it. I lost so much money due to the delay. I have every evidence to support my claims. The receiveer has sent the copy of his receiver note to me. I want to sent records straight so that people will stop joking with another person business and means of livelihood.

qutemichelle:
Please if you are an importer of baby diaper from China or any other country please leave me your email address or phone number so that I can contact you for business..

Please brands exclude Huggies and pampers.

Scammer!!!


If you love yourself, don't near her.

kristonium:
you are too dull for my liking!
imagine how this girl kept dribbling you like Messi and you here thanking God!

You are smart enough and you are not known like smart messi huh?
Any body can fall but the ability and courage to find your path again make you different, strong and going .

smartigo:
. Young man stop being stupid in love. Can't you see all along she was fooling with your emotions. I will never blame the girl, in fact, you deserved it for being dull n silly( sorry for my choice of words).

What do u want to do now?

I wonder how you guys comprehend texts. Where in my text did I mention that I want to write off what she did? You think you are smart and you are where you are?

Guys, I didn't say that I don't know what to do with her. I'm was just shocked . That's just it.

fem29:
, what are you on about.

Listen, we have to be sensible in things we do. A girl lied to about being a virgin, you found out that was a lie and she actually had another dude she was sleeping with. You 'forgave' her. You don't out she is still dating him, she begged you. She got pregnant and had an abortion, then you find out she told him it's his baby. And yet you are still wondering what to do .

Read the topic again and get it clearly dear.

johnny1980:
that's what most ladies are like now. Like 70% have 2 or more boyfriends sampling them. Went through the phone of a female colleague while helping her sort somethings out. You can imagine she lied she was pregnant for a guy just to get 25k from him to abort while she was asking the original owner of the pregnancy another money to go abort it. All these she was discussing with her friend with much glee and fanfare. They abound here.

Fear woo to men

fem29:
Dude what question are you asking us exactly. Where did you find this kind of girl. Please try to be wise, I'm sorry you were very foolish from the get go.

Are you sure you are a female?

SAMBARRY:
ask me again golugo

Smh

TooNoisy:
As some people would advice, that is now her past and should never be mentioned or used in judging her.

You should have dumped her right after the first couple of lies

My dear, I wanted to give her a chance again. I never knew thats her habit.

SAMBARRY:
Your name be mumu raise to the power of 10.



them wan push another man pregnancy for your head you sef wan collect am . you see various evidences you still dey do mumu tins. You better tell the babe to deliver after which dna will be conducted to know the paternity meanwhile I don't think the girl in question loves you if she does she won't threaten to terminate the pregnancy given to her by a man she claims to love. If it was a one night thing that you don't know her its a different ball ham


you better wise up

Can you say your points without insulting?
Internet made you lose your sense of respect or you are not properly trained?

chibwike:
Nice Nollywood movie....the title should be 'The unlucky baby'

You think it's joke?

Utchgirl:
Gud !



Some gals r green snake in green grass


Some r wolves in SHEEP clothing.
J


Bt dia r still gud ones oooo.



ThankGod u hv learnt ur lesson.


Atleast u will be more carefull nxt time.

Just thinking how I'm gonna handle the communication with her.
Wonders shall never end.

Utchgirl:
Terrible !



Some girls shaa


It's dis kind of gals dt spoil name 4 d gud ones.


Bt Op, it seems u luv dis gal ooo



Atimes LUV is wicked !



Betrayal of TRUST

My dear, I love the girl, I can't lie about that. I don't know why I meet the wrong persons. Anyway, I thank God for all these.

There's this pretty girl that attends a church opposite my house, I bought her likings. Approached her, we became friends and later started dating after a long time.
She told me that she's a virgin, so, for a long time we didn't have anything like sex. Later, we had a hot romance based on the assumption of her being a virgin and I fing.ered her and there was nothing like feeling of hymen. Wanted to go in, she told me that her dad use to take her to hospital every 6month to know her if she's still a virgin, I believed her with one mind.
Months later, one day she came around and we did it, lo and behold, she was far from being a virgin. After my discussion and observations, I found out that she has another another bf . We started dating and I forgot about that lie. She told me that she has broken up with the guy. I later found out through her friend that she's still dating the guy. I confronted her and she confirmed my fears and I gave her options to make a choice, she didn't say anything. I left her for months without talking with her. Later she called me to make up with me, that she has taken her decision, we reconcilled. On the 3rd of May we had sex unfortunately for me, I had no CD and it was raw for the first time since I knew her. After two weeks plus, she called me that she has not seen her menses. I was kinda happy because im ready to settle down but she insisted on removing the baby. I tried convincing her but she insisted, her friend convinced her . But I had a serious financial issues that I want to take care of and I told her to relax I will see her parents by June middle. She said No that she can't wait till then. I oblige for her to terminate the pregnancy. We did it last Saturday and I took her to my house. I went through her phone on Sunday and found a chat with ex bf on the 16 April telling him that she has missed her period and the boy informed him thathe didn't release inside him, I was shocked. I confronted her and she denied it. Today I went to the hospital and ask the doctor how many months pregnancy it was, to my greatest surprise, he said it was 8 weeks pregnancy..
I'm still shocked, I would have fathered another person child. I have not confronted her.

Your points are noted. personally, I never imagined meeting her family bf her but with ish like getting to meet her which is very difficult cos she hardly stay at home, mostly in school. when at home, it's indoors.


I mentioned my ex cos she is all over me. I still feel something for her despite her misbehaviour but I'm confused about whether to accept her back or continue with the young girl.

Plz guys I need a help on how to go about this problem. I welcome every opinion, contribution and criticism.
Bf the attack on NL, I opened a thread on my ish with my ex on how she left me after every effort to stop her and a later thread on her regrets later about leaving me. Now, her marriage crashed but bf she left the marriage, she has been begging for my forgiveness through so many people which I later did. Now, she is all over me. Truthfully, I'm used to her and feel better with her than other ladies I have met after her.
Now, I want to marry by next year by God's grace. My brother told me about a girl living in his hood, I know the girl , I like her d first day I met her but there was no communication between us, it was years back. Though it sounds somehow ,I went to her family and I made my intentions known to them and the asked if we knew ourselves and I told them everything and I was welcomed happily as I see their faces but the problem now is the young girl in question. she was sick from school to home and I went to visit her and tell her my intentions but her behaviour towards me is not encouraging. the next day I went there with fruits to see her but her behaviour didn't change. she doesn't take my calls or return it or reply my messages. I told her that she should take her time and study me that I will be as open as anything. This morning, I went there with Xmas stuff I got for her but she didn't come out to see me, I left the msg with her sister.
I'm not new with women ish but this is really disturbing me.
I'm confused and my ex is all over me.
Plz guys, I need help on how to get this girl.
from the testimony I have have heard, she is very good girl. Plz any suggestion is welcomed.

aljharem: My brother, I actually followed your story from the first topic opened some months back.

I am glad you understand better now. Life is not a bed of roses. You see, In life everyone has a destiny to be great but some allow pleasure of the world to blind them from their destiny.

It is clear you are destined to be great and should not allow anybody most especially a woman to blind you from that goal.

Trust me once you are close to the goal, women will come but also don't get carried away.

Also don't "loosen up" and focus on non-essential things.

Remain focus and God fearing and you will not regret it.

Thanks. I remember the bashing and encouragements in the other thread. It helped me overcome the trauma and pains. I'm a happier Man now.

isokey: OP, listen to whatever she has to say. Forgive her like evryone said. Let her knw u're doing gud and wish her well. Biko dont welcome personal issues from her.

personal issues re wat I'm trying to avoid by not taking her calls, cos definitely she Will want to get closer. we went very far during our tym together, any slight closeness might flare up d emotions which is very bad to do Another man's wife.

MarvellousGod: how did you come to the conclusion that she wants out?? That she's seeking for your forgiveness doesn't translate to her marriage going bad, could be her conscience hurting her...

from her sms to me, she wants out. Her spiritual director who advised her not to make d mistake she's facing now,called me and informed me abt the marriage going down.
I ve moved on with my life. I came here not to rejoice at her woes but to caution our young ladies to be more careful.

onegig: What this lady did was bad but That's past Oga. However you need to understand ladies love attention and all those tiny bit of things. It's what they actually call love. Lol. That's how MANY of them are wired.

This one is past but just for the future. Loosen up a bit. Life is too short to be strong faced always. Doesn't have to be expensive and daily.. Once in a month or as it fits your schedule would do.

Just a late evening stroll, visit a friend, small outing under a tree and sit and count the number of cars passing(lacasera and gala won't cost more than N200) or you may want to indulge Nairalanders fav. Popcorn and pepsi. Lol. Just loosen up for goodness sake.


You would need more of those to spice up your married life. Good luck

thanks for ur contributions. but in all sincerity, I did the little u mentioned and even went far ahead of wat u called little. but she wanted it big. she wanted me to chat her every minute and leave my job. she wanted me to call her every seconds where she will be walking n taking calls. is that rationale?

krazydave: Well, i think you should take a step back and access yourself.

From all you said, you, my Guy needs to appologise to your girl just as she has done the same to you.
Yes, she left you and went for another man, but have u found out why?..... From all you said, you were more intrested in the "future" you imagined, that you forgot the present. Maybe, at some point you yourself dulled the whole relationship, you can't blame a human (your girl) for wanting more...
#ma_opinion

what's care and love? is it taking u to club, eateries, sightings or providing for ur future through education and assistance? I'm into a relationship now, she so much appreciate me that she adores my person. I'm not perfect but I don't lose focus on what I want in life and in my relationship. from ur view, I should ve been taking her to clubs,hotels etc to make it fun and she will be a no body morrow.
I'm not regretting my actions then, thats my standard and I can't go below that with any lady.

chaircover: I didnt get the bit where you said that she has done her traditional wedding but still contacts you asking for forgiveness. What does she want from you?
My advise is to nip it in the bud. Stop ignoring her calls. Cos she wont stop. Pick up her call ONCE and sternly tell her its over and to stop contacting you.


"does not behave like men in the movies" . . . . . .LOL Nollywood has a lot to answer for.
The same Nollywoood where everyone drives a jeep and lives in a duplex How real is that?

In the mean time in your quiet time. Look inward. She may have had a few other reasons. No one is perfect, but broken relationships no matter how they broke are an oppourtunity to look at ourselves again

Wish you all the best for the future.

I'm not perfect, I have my issues too . she wants to quit the marriage I guess dt. I came here to let our ladies to be more careful. the devil u know its d beta than angel u don't know.

Earlier this year I brought an issue here concerning my gf and her decision to quit our rElationship for another guy.
Though the attack on Nairaland wiped my account and the topic off the radar but I wish to update this room on the happenings and for this to serve as a lesson to every body especially our female folk.
our relationship would ve being 2yrs,8months . for the benefit of all, lemme give an insight on what happened. She's from a not well to do family. I helped her got admission into the university. I do send her money while in school. I took care of her hair and other financial requirements though I didn't spend extravagantly, I was articulate and careful. we had a plan that we will marry at a certain level in her academic life so that she will not lose focus. We do have problems and we resolved them without anyone knowledge. My family knew abt our relationship. friends were all waiting for our IV. late February, we had issues and I ignored her 2days. when I called her for us to hang out after d days work, she broke d news that she was no more interested. I thought it was a joke, days passed n she started behaving like non gf. I involved my friends to talk to her, she refused. I involved her spiritual director, she refused me, I involved my family via my 2 sisters but she was adamant again. I got to know she was seeing some other guy. I put up a fight to get her back, d more I fought, d more wosrt it became. I was devastated. I became thin. couldn't eat or sleep. couldn't concentrate on my job. my family rallied around me and passed through that pains. she had her trad wedding. Now, she is calling me to forgive her. she has been disturbing my phone with calls. I've not taken her calls since I let her go. She has resorted to sms n whatsapp msg begging me to forgive her. that she has made mistake.
my advice to our ladies. all that glitter re not good. what you see on nollywood re not real especially d part Ramsey noah, emeka ike etc acts the lover boy. watch nollywood as entertainment. I give this advice cos she complained that I don't act like guys do on movies. the other guy call her every minute, hang out with her. he made her feel on top of the world. he deceived her with sweet mouth. told her what he has achieved without help, which re all lies. I told her that a guy can act that way to get inbetween her legs or get what he wants then he will start be his real self. I was very real with her. didnt hide any thing from her. was interested in her future and I denied myself d pleasure of going out every Sunday but she saw it then that I'm anti social.

our ladies, be wise. I'm sorry for the long story, just pick the lessons and forgive my errors typing.