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googles:
[size=13pt]but i know a guy who took a chic to his mama
cares for her as hell
but have no intentions towards marrying her
methinks all these things dont follow joo
and why do i have to make marriage paramount in my relationships
its just an overrated institution jare[/size]

Read the title again dear.
This is not about you and your likes and dislikes

The most annoying of all that I wish I could scream from the rooftops.
hear me all women
if a man finally "engages you"  and you are stuck as fiancee for years
[size=24pt]Mooooooveeeeeeeeeeee Ooooooooooooooooon[/size]

No man will keep his real lady waiting.
You ain't the one

davidylan:
I think number 1 is the frankest truth.  
Only a potential can meet my mother, the rest will just have to put up with excuses.

why do women have a problem understanding #2? If you call me twice, leave text messages and a voice mail with no response within 1 hr pls hit the road. There is NO WAY i will ignore calls from someone i deeply care for.

Thank you!
I told a close friend the same thing recently and she finally wisened up.
her so called man returned her call after 2 or 3 days claiming he was swarmed with work and I told her the naked truth.
Stop calling and making a fool of your fine self!!

luvbooks:
Lol @ the bolded part . . . Tru talk tho.

My dear it is true
I am speaking from the experience of a host of friends and stories upon stories.
Some men can be heartless and some women stoopid.
How can a girl date a man for 5,7,10 years and no show.
Is she brainless?
a man will tie down a 24 year old girl  at the prime of her life for 10 years.
when all is said and done,she is a 34 year old bitter woman and he'll tell her she's too old for him to marry perhaps after some abortions etc.

chika98:
We all know that. Never met his friends, family or you guys never go out to where people know him then you aren't a serious chic to him

My dear speak for yourself o
You may be shocked how many girls don't.Some of these men can smooth talk some girls to believe anything

4.

He has you playing house already
doing his cooking, laundry, errands but no one in his immediate family knows who you are.
You've never been to his family functions,hmm time to think.
If indeed you want marriage and all you are is a maid service with bed privileges, that may be all you're worth to him.

3.

He says all the right things and gets you the gifts as and when required but never ever gets that ring to seal the deal, you ought to re-evaluate the relationship.
Mr nice may just be mr playa.
Mr smooth operator
Flee as fast as you can while you still have viable eggs in your ovaries.

2. He doesn't return your calls and comes up wth such lines as
"I forgot my phone at home"
"I forgot my phone in the car"
"I misplaced my phone"

My dear sisters, the man has moved on,he's not feeling you anymore and doesn't know how to break the news.
You need to move on too.

This is an advice from a big sis to the younger girls so you don't waste your precious time with Mr wrong.
Remember that any further  date with the wrong man is a missed opportunity to meet the right one.
be wise my sisters and don't let these men play you.

1. First and foremost, if you've been going out with a guy you think will pop the question and weeks turn to months and more months and you've never met or spoken with his mother.
You are not the one.
Start shopping around for a more serious person
yes you heard me
cast your net into the deep and see what else is out there because he is doing just that. He has you tied down while looking for a more eligible marriage material.

davidylan and a few others have hit the nail on the head.
@ the poster,5 years is too long to be engaged to a person or be with a person without marriage.
what are you folks waiting for?
any engagement longer than one year in my books is not worth it.
Get married and make it legal.

No I didn't
for those who think they did,I have a warning.
The grass always seems greener on the other side till you get there.
Love and live with the one you're with.
Do whatever is within your power to make it work.

kehnie:
val day was a memorable day for me.i was at home expecting my guy all day long he didnt show up till evening,by dat time i was already angry ,thought he had taken anoder woman out,anyway he pleaded and explain to me,then took me to d ozone cinema,we got home around 11pm,was relaxing on d coach wen he started kissing me,unknown to me,he had a ring in his mouthand he was kissing me wit the ring,i was sooooooooooooooo shocked,anyway to cut the long story short,dat was hw he propose to me sha.

very romantic

nuclearboy:
That, Ohsisi, is the tragedy that Nigeria has become. Kill a robber during an operation or a jihadist whist he's trying to blow you up with himself but do not capture them, interview them then summarily execute them.

But then, Naija pass understanding. Pray for the peace of our own Jerusalem

My dear,I will kill a robber myself before he kills me
and will certainly club a suicide bomber to death,busting his balls if I have to.
This is law enforcement matching people out of their homes and shooting them to death without a trial ,that is very different.
so if I or my brother lived there and someone pointed me out,they could just shoot me like that based on that
that is the scary part
This can happen to anybody o
people shouldn't rejoice at evil

Devonian:
I watched this video on another posting and was sick for days. Whoever these guys are: soldiers or police, Christians, Muslims or Atheists, they're animals in human bodies. It shows that Nigeria is, by and large, still a barbaric country. The Police Commissioner and the Commanding Officer of the Nigerian Army under whose jurisdiction this took place should be made to either face death penalty or produce these murderers, who should be subjected to the same treatment they meted out to their fellow Nigerians. If this were to be pursued, this dastardly act of extra-judicial killings wouldn't happen again in Nigeria. Mind you, this is not happening only in relation to religious unrests in the North or in relation to the Niger Delta crisis, it’s happening across Nigeria. It brings to mind what happened in Ijebu Ife in Ogun State last December, when police officers—following the fatal shooting of another police officer by a mob of youths—went from house to house and shot dead anyone they found in those houses. It happens on road blocks as well. It's a shame, and nothing in this world can justify these extra-judicial killings.

My heart beat so fast to see them shoot and kill people in this manner even the disabled
This is the sort of barbarism we expect in the middle east with beheadings and stonings in a field with children watching
not in a supposedly democratic nation.
What seperates us from animals then?
How do these men sleep at night after slaughtering their fellow human being like this without solid evidence and no benefit of a trial

In as much as I detest Islamic terrorism with my whole being , I hate this sort of open,summary execution even more.
How do we know these people are the culprits
there was no trial whatsoever
are we in medieval times?
This is very very  disgusting and disturbing.
How do we know some innocent people were not pointed out and executed in this barbarism

we all run the risk of being killed in this manner if this is condoned
This is just not right.
This isn't justice

H2O2:
abuzola stop picturing nl people's bosoms in your mind

you must create a thread listing people who's bosoms you've fantasized about and ask for forgiveness.

The true personality of that guy is emerging
we all knew he was a lunatic
now we also know he's a perv

chic2pimp:
What a load of hogwash!!!!

Abuzola is an eediot
talking about Christian women seducing men
is abuzola a man
is it everybody that stands up to pee pee that is a man?

If any brother-in-law of mine attempts such, he'll definitely get it hot then be sent packing immediately that's after I've broken his head with a bottle
what type of useless husband did she marry

doesn't she have brothers?
or can't she rent some agboros to teach the man a lesson in hot slaps
just about 7 on each cheek

Abu Zola:
@mavenbox- u are a criminal who later seek to deceive the people that u realized your error. What a shame, even that big for nothing woman osisi was encouraging. No wonder we have millions of christian thieves, pros titutes and killers engaging int it mostly igbo, in the name of borning again later or jesus carried away our sins. This is pure deception, u can't deceive God. [size=16pt]Come to islam and strap a bomb[/size].

thats more like it
allahu wakban!
I hope it detonates in your underwear,shattering your wetin call  like abumutallab's

THE AMAKA:
[color=#ff00cc]all this because he came out and said his real gender?
gosh. *rolls eyes*[/color]

I wonder !
look at abuzola that has threatened people with juju and beheadings here severally
he is still in our midst and unrepentant.
and someone confesses a sin and they want to behead him
mavenbox,I say don't mind them

eyoniggar:
Oh my lawd, this would have been the worse Val for me, tnk goodness
I was bold enough to word the hell out of my girl.

Came back from church, I was actually wearing my native attire.
On getting home, took them, off, and wore my red T-shirt with
a black jean. Called babes up, she said she's just leaving church and
heading over to my place.

I got her what she said she had wanted ever since, A digital piano
and a Guitar, with a box of chocolate. Babes got to my place and a dude called
her up. Next thing she said she wants to go to Silverbird with this dude including 3 of her
female friends. Omo mehn at that moment, my heart almost dropped off my chest.

I paused for a minute, and she said, whats wrong, I was like, WDF do u think
u are doing, how come your here with me and your telling me a guy wants to take u and your friends out
to the movies when today is meant for us to spend together. She said you would have been the one
to do that, but since your car is faulty,its best I go out there to have fun with my friends. I just yelled
and told her to go, but she can jst forget about knowing me.

She knelt down and apologized. Said she was sorry, we wined and dined, gave me a Barca
Jersey with EYONIGGER written on its back with a lovely love shaped cake. we  facebooked together
then later on straaaaaaaaaaaaaafffffffffffffffffed.

Oh well, with such experience, I still feel even if a girl loves u, material things do count
attimes, they might well take an invitation over you based on comfort-ability. (I know alot
of yall would disagree saying she really might not love me by thinking of going out
with some1 else)

Somebody bite me!
are you kidding me?
a girl knelt down and begged you ,for what?
are you her personal Lord and saviour?
what type of bushmeat are you going out with?
Even Ekwefi in things fall apart was not kneeling and begging Okonkwo like this
stoopid girl
I hope she learns some sense fast

oyb:
taken - i will also try to keep my kids out of NL at least till they are much much older - some of us can put up with the hatred of christians - some of us turn into abuzola

abeg make i comot from this thread OP i apologize for hijacking your thread o!

though i have kept it up there a little while longer - i am seraching fo that post of yours on being a virgin - hilarious in light of your confession - _{er so are yo a virgin, really?}

how can I be a virgin when I have kids?
are you looking for a virgin?

so you have kids now?
I remember when you got the first one,you won't let that woman rest

as for abuzola, he came in here with an almajiri mindset and thankfully he is cooling down
I for one was scared the boy would kill himself and take others with him
he has threatened the lives of some Muslims on the forum for not agreeing with him so nobody turned him into anything.
He is a typical almajiri

Let me give u an advice oyb because I love you
the first day your child or any close family member tells you he is on a mission to rid the world of infidels, or be a martyr for allah don't call him a pious Muslim
sit his behind down ,look him in the eyes and tell him to snap out of that !diocy

Boko haram had existed in Islamic quarters for decades before we heard about it
why?
they are Islamic
their mission is to wipe out Christians so the Muslims couldn't be bothered
they only became a pain when the Muslims who housed and supported them became receivers of their threats.
then suddenly we heard of boko haram.

oyb:
osisi sharap dia!

if any muslim had done this you would not be singing about the virtues of confession - you'd be screaming these muslims and ataqiya

go easy on the double standards

and hardly any Muslims could do this
It is unislamic to admit a problem
you can't even openly admit the mental derangement in Islamic camps on the appropriate threads.
You excuse them and call it provocation
because you folks would rather die in silence than confess anything to save Islam's face
the only Muslim that came out on this forum some years ago to ask opinions of what to do about impregnating his girlfriend was met with chastisement of why he brought this out publicly
that is Ilsam
always sweeping every evil deed under the carpet until the individual straps on a bomb someday and heads unto a Delta flight

Oyb shatap!
how do you fault a man who told a lie and later came clean?
do you want him stoned to death since that seems to be your solution for all things.
Please let us hear something.
I'm sure you fornicated at some point (not that I'm giving you a clean bill now)
have you submitted yourself for stoning?
Maven said he lied
yes he lied
It is a sin to lie
but now he's told the truth so what is your problem?
have you never lied?

HARDDON:
MA WORSE VAL EVA!!!
HAD BREAKFAST IN BELARUS
LUNCH IN LONDON AND
DINNER IN DEMARK!
YEA ALL IN MA SLIP ON MA BED!
\

AND WONDAD IF I AM STILL DA DON JUAN MA FOLKS LEBEL ME!!!

malaria?

He has to be careful o
He weighs 38 Kg
he wears a white parachute always
they should be careful when he goes outside especially on a windy day,he may just take off and sail away with the wind.
Turai abi Turaya should watch out for her man

Imeobong:
@ohsisi

what is a marabout?
Is it an Islamic babalawo ?


YEESSSS

Oturu gbeke!
them don begin consult oracles ?
The article says the babalawo is the yaradua's family personal babalawo
demons galore
It is finished

what is a marabout?
Is it an Islamic babalawo ?

The family’s marabout, it was learnt, has also been summoned to Jeddah for a round the clock prayers for Yar’Adua, who, sources said, has lost weight tremendously and still in the intensive care unit at the King Faisal Hospital in Saudi Arabia. According to sources close to the hospital, President Yar’adua’s weight has shrunk to 38kg from the 45kg that he weighed before he was flown to Saudi Arabia on 23 November.

He weighs 38 Kg when a healthy man should weigh at least 70Kg.
scary situation
he cannot be our president please
let him recover and move back to his home state and let Turai sit her behind down and nurse him.
We can't have a near skeleton ruling us
He looked bad enough before going for this latest treatment
The babariga cannot cover his emaciated face and skin condition.
We want him to recover but he needs to go sit his behind down.

oyb:
how typical - now if a muslim had engaged in this sort of deception, you would have been screaming attqiya

are there no limits to the double standards of christian fanatics ?

And how exactly do we know that you folks are not engaging in worse?
because you are too stubborn to confess?
I mean,how do I know you don't have 5 wives  instead of one as you portray
Olabowole and many of you have been caught in lies after lies on this forum not by confession but in watching you at unguarded moments when the truth drops out contradicting earlier claims.
Gosh!
Olabs and abuzola can't even agree on how old aisha was at marriage
who is lying?
aisha,olabowole,abuzola,mohammed or allah himself?
comot jor
Your lies stink to high heavens
big deal he claimed to be female
Now you know he isn't.
He has made that correction himself and that is commendable.

maven don't mind these people
you are cool and your conscience is free
let them say