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This Leilah no dey taya for all these her threads

You teach people how to treat you
If you give an impression that you are worthless,you will be treated that way.

@ the poster,pull yourself up and have the courage to walk out on a non existent marriage
The marriage died when a strange woman/women laid on your bed
you are better than that
don't cheapen yourself by trying to win the love of a f00l

love doesn't hurt
That man doesn't love you
In fact he can kill you
the weapon of choice being his sexual organ
You could die of AIDS and leave your kids motherless
Or become a mental case and leave your children motherless
or you could decide that you're better than that and save yourself and your children

He's not worth it
The marriage bed is defiled

The ball is now in your court
He has shown you who he is
It's up to you to accept him as is or turn around,lift your head high and walk on
He's not worth it
He's not worth it
he's not worth it
Go get an HIV test and if it's negative ,give thanks

Then

Get this picture in your subconscious and you may finally have the courage to leave
[size=24pt]He has AIDS and is bent on infecting you[/size]

I wish you the best

why not extend it to 36 years
One in each state of the federation then the person retires

Then to why you can't get the woman out of your mind,first of all,the whole story sounds weird
what is the connection to her husband leaving ?
Strange story I say but there's more to it ,to make it make some sense

what was /is your relationship to this woman?
What did your mom and you do to her?
something is not adding up

mama-gee:
[color=deeppink]There's a woman that told my mum and I never to come to her house again but few mionths later I saw her in the cinema and I blatantly ignored her, I didn't even greet her or anything as such and I think she was angry about it.

Few months later, her husband seperated from her, she rented a house close to our house but it's not that close, it's just about 9 buildings from ours and as I was walking past a golf course in the evening, she drove past me and looked at me and I looked at her too but it was that kind of blank look nothing more and none of us waved at each other but ever since then I can't stop thinking about the incident and I can't stop thinking about her.

Guys, what's this feeling?[/color]

more details please
what did you do to be barred from someone's house
did she take out a restraining order too?
In all my years ,I've never had a single soul tell me never to come near them talk less of my mom inclusive
You folks must be a danger to her
at least that's her perception
You need Christ.

I honestly thought the new slang for weak erections was banana disease when I saw the topic
I had no clue this was about real bananas

Okija_juju:
I would park in the same spot if I were driving the same car.

A KOENIGSEGG CCXR!! The last time I saw that car, it was on T.V being raced round the TOP GEAR Track by the Stigg.

I'll kill to own that car.

You can use bk/babe for your rituals
hopefully he won't produce counterfeit

bidemi12:
typical Nigerian political/family rubbish. wetin concern us with una mama burial? wetin concern us if she no send una? who send una to fast and pray. i beg make we hear word.

Them don fast,them don pray
Dora don ascend the throne
now them wan break the fast, dora no want provide the food to break am with
that is the summary of his post

ileke spoilt it for bkbabe
she for stop the name at Okoro
why the dudu again

Why can't these people just shut their traps and go away.
Who cares about their family details?

what the hisbas look like

They look like they should be fed the broken bottles

I guess allah has nothing to say about their chain smoking grandmas drinking burukutu,
The gutter sniffing in northern Nigeria by the youths to get high
He has nothing to say about r'ape and violation of underaged girls by the sharia czar himself called Ahmed pedo.phile Yerima and VVF
allah is silent on diseases ravaging northern Nigeria and abject poverty with malnutrition
He is aye Ok with their thieving politicians like IBB, Atiku and co
His main concern is that that beer bottles are smashed on streets
He doesn't even care that these bottles pieces will eventually slash tires of cars, causing accidents as cars lose control, allah is not bothered that the pieces of broken bottles will cause injury on barefooted passersby, or pierce through slippers and cheap sandals causing tetanus and death
bunch of losers

Given over to a reprobate mind

Why are people so wicked?

Ibo men yet again

Okija abeg let us hear something!!
don't you know semi automatic rifles keep pumping out bullets
If he had 500 rounds,I would be rejoicing if the guy took all 500 in his throat or testicles kpa kpa
Good one General O jare

To God be the glory!!

we had a hot thread on this topic back in the days when nairaland was nairaland

https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-232788.0.html

mama-gee:
[color=deeppink]Congratulations to Siena and wife. . .

I hope he'll delete his nairaland account and spend sometime with his baby.[/color]

Early signs of madness
Pele

I need to see a clip of Mrs Badluck

Onlytruth:
I was thorougly embarrassed after watching that Turai video. It says all you need to know about Nigeria.

I have said it before and I will repeat it:

[size=14pt]NO MORE FEDERAL CHARACTER. NO MORE QUOTA SYSTEM. NO MORE ZONING. [/size]

If you want Nigeria to remain one those things MUST GO!. Else start planning to go your own way. I don't see Ndigbo continuing in this mess.  

The first time I saw that clip I couldn't believe my ears
and the woman is supposedly a graduate
she's pathetic
sounded like she was singing a song

her main fear is that the man is Nigerian

It is legitimate, I used it to pay for my visa for a recent trip.
Fear not.

Beaf:
Nigeria has never had a well spoken leader (as far as the 2ndry English language is concerned).
I don't see the relevance of this topic.

Thank you!!
There's a youtube clip of Turaya addressing some women in New York
Tamuno eh!
You will weep

Travelista:
His citizenship isn't important in the way you think; it's an issue of whether he's telling the truth. If he starts out the relationship with a lie, then he has to continue to support the previous fib. The main thing is that he's a man she met on Craigslist and (unfortunately) Nigerian men have a bad rep in this country; it's a shame but it is what it is. She has to protect herself and I suggested googling the guy but PinkRiver says she's tried to no avail. I really wish some of you men would stop being so sensitive and be rational. She's met a man on a portal that has been the stomping ground of men looking to kill women; I'm going to be worried whether the man is Nigerian, Apache, German or from the lost city of Atlantis. It's the decent thing to do, so stop acting as if you've been personally slapped and give the girl some useful advice. Damn! 

Can you sharap!
She's been to the mans house already
Does the poster sound like she's retarded?
If this man turned around to ask her to marry him and file for a green card do you think she won't remember the conversation that he claimed to be a citizen?
If he were a serial killer , do you think she would be alive to start this thread?
what a saddist
A woman is in love,asking for advice and you  are talking nonsense
You should be asking her how to place your own ad

I recently tried something new, by posting a personal ad on craigslist looking for a "new friend". I wrote that I wanted to meet someone who was educated, a gentleman, and looking to meet someone new as well (with the intentions of our friendship growing into a romantic relationship). A man, lets call him David, responded. We emailed back and fourth maybe twice before he asked for my phone number. We talked on the phone for a short while and then David asked if I would like to meet him for a drink. Since he doesn't drink alcohol, this "drink" literally meant sodas. It seemed like an awkward first date, sitting in the restaurant drinking soda, but we sat and talked for hours. I learned that he was born in America (so he is a citizen), but raised in Nigeria, and moved back to the states for school (and plans to stay here).

He asked me out on another date and the following Saturday we had lunch. We spent a few hours just talking. We have great conversation! We did kiss and was pretty aggressive, but backed off when I told him I didn't want to take it "there". On our next date, I went to his house to watch movies and have dinner, but we didn't do either. After ten minutes of being in the door, he said that he wanted us to continue to get to know each other, but he wanted me to be his. In other words, after only 3 dates, he wanted us to be in a relationship. After some reassurance, I said yes. We talked for hours and kissed for what seemed like hours.

My fear is, this man seems too good to be true and I am scared. He is 29 and I am 27. He says he is in grad school.  He says he he really cares for me and his actions show that he does. He is a true gentleman, loving, and very affectionate. He is also very passionate. He always seems to want to make sure I am okay or taken care of. I have yet to have to ask him to do anything for me, he seems to always anticipate my needs and desires and I try to do the same for him. We seem to believe in the traditional roles of a man and a woman, although we are both very modern in some ways too, maybe me a little more than him.

But I've never had a man who was so, well perfect. He says that he has flaws too, and I know he does, but my real concern is that this is some sort of scam. Do Nigerian men (He is from the Yuroba tribe) like black american women? Enough to want a serious relationship and maybe marriage? Do you think this is some sort of scam? How do I know that he isn't just saying he is a citizen? Will his family accept me? Are there things I should know about the Yuroba men and their beliefs? I really care for him and want to be a good girlfriend for him and maybe even a good wife,, I just don't want to fall for this man only to have my heart hurt. He is the first African man I've ever dated. I usually date black American men. Any advice, personal experience, or comments would be helpful.

My advice

I. Tell a close friend/friends about him and get him to meet them

2.Tell him you would like to meet his friends

3.Do some research,he says he's a student,confirm that
a.what school
b.course of study
c.go the website of that school and confirm that they do offer that course of study

4.as time goes on invite him to a family function


People can't pretend for too long.
Be very very observant ,not just with this man but with every other no matter where they come from.
In a few short weeks his real character will either emerge or you confirm that he is as sweet as you described.
You will get to see his temperaments,his values etc and decide for yourself if the relationship is worth pursuing.

I am a Nigerian woman
Nigerian men are no different from other men when it comes to matters of the heart.
If this man were abroad ,I would ask you to take his words with a pinch of salt,the same if he were illegal,desperate for a green card but he's neither.
Treat him like you'll treat any man you fell in love with
Get to know him and know him well
and if this doesn't work out,I assure you it has nothing to do with his Nigerian origin
You've dated AA men and it didn't work out too,such is life.
I wish you well.

For once I was beginning to think our very own david had finally found the bone of his bone.