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veave:
Op, how far












#do you have akpobi

Do you mean 6 packs ?

Fine boy..

tylesh:
Oh! I see

Goodluck

Don't mind me.

Hardly post my pix.

But you can see me on Whattsapp.

avuekwe:
I just came here to ask if the OP has seen a wife yet; didn't read from the beginning. Just interested in the end part.

Not yet..

TomiwaDamola:
How is it stylish? I stated it outright. Why shouldn't she end the marriage? Just because she mistakenly married an animal does not mean she should suffer unnecessarily at the hands of said animal.

That lady is rigid and doesn't know her job.

Call it marriage shock.

They one day called wedding day changed very thing and she didn't prepare for it.. Agreed

BabaTony:
Very very bad, a friend of mine missed an interview because a trailer fell along that road and blocked it for the whole day.

Its like roads in South East and South South arent part of Nigeria.

Its from Benue state then up north you see good roads built with oil money..

BabaTony:
First of all, there is no road to calabar.

The road still bad ?

Registered..

Haha

TomiwaDamola:
Get a divorce before he begins to do even worse to you.
Also report him to the police and women's rights groups. You shouldn't have to suffer just because you didn't put out while you were dating.

You are stylishly asking her to end the marriage.

God forbid. This is too early.

pweetixandy:
my brother,marriage is not a by force sometin..if she can't dance kerewa for him,let her leave him. lemme even ask,have u ever given in to his sexual advances without him begging. This woman didn't do her homework well before getting married.

You have a point. This lady has been used to being begged to do everything including what she is supposed to do without being asked.

What sort of sense of entitlement ?

Equado:
I lay my hands on my chest looking to the heavens...I tell you this story is cock nd bull

It happens o.

Infact most marriages crack in the first 2 months. I have heard many stories..

Some ladies are too rigid like the Op.

Young lady, after reading what you wrote her. All I can say is, " God forbid I marry an emotionless woman like you "..

Is sex and kissing a crime ?

What sort of nonsense is this ?

lomprico:
She is ready to break up with u. Thats why she opened up.

I do not agree with you.

Their relationship has gotten to a stage of guilt and confessing sins to each other.

Even when my Ex ever confessed this way and I didn't force her to do so, I just forgive..

When I act I am no longer interested, she goes begging for days..

This is why I do not believe in boyfriend/girlfriend. Now if you guys marry with that mentality, do you think the cheating would stop ? NO !

RedBenson:
That is a question so hard for me to answer.

Modernism and Technology makes women believe that a man who walks up to her and says on the first DATE that his mind about her is MARRIAGE is a big JEW MAN..

But my father in his quest to teach me.little about sex education told.me that he approached my mum and told her what his mind was on the first encounter..

When I still look at my mum at 67 years, I see a very pretty woman whose beauty most young ladies lack.

A modern girl today will start schooling her suitor that they have to be girlfriends and boyfriends first and test out co habitation to an extent before he can propose to her. In their words, " don't you know its a process " ?

OMG, even for a lady who has been dreaming for years of being with me ?

4Ck MODERNISM !

RedBenson:
I think so most definitely by Sleekyshuga. Though not 100% sure sha. U know women are fun of misbehaving at times. Lol.

Ladies behave that way because many guys are gunning for your position in her life.

But ladies have a way of filtering a very serious man and that's the man they will want to take for a joke for sometime.

The more unserious you appear, they go for you so far as her fantasies can be realised. That's a general mentality.

I am using my own experience as a former player because fine fine wife material were sort of pleading. But its true.

RedBenson:
We're making progress definitely! Mods, do the needful. Help reduce singlehoodness in our society. Our forefathers didnt stay this long when they're married.

Should we blame modernism or technology ?

Good for her..

Fine family

RedBenson:
Oga mi, thanks to God say u don carry urself waka enter d right place. U go find am here and she too go find u here. Trust me!

Yes o. I just sited one MOD called franoo !

Singing " Ndi Ara " by Nigga Raw...

laykorn:
Ayyaf seen 4 suitors alreasy but they are not light-skinned. So I'm waiting for a lady that'll ask for my hand in marriage and will be light-skinned. Marialoa.e asked for my hand in marriage but she is short. And dechande.l isn't light skinned enough
Ayamlaykorn

Hahaha.

Nairaland ladies proposing to you. Are you Jim Iyke or Emeka Ike ?

Duchaello:
Likewise the church guys. They are super fake

My church has very very pretty ladies.

But as it goes, nah boyfriends/girlfriends full there who met outside the church.

I picked courage and toasted one. I told her it was marriage on my mind from the first day. She said she was engaged. I took her words and forgot it. Later, she came around acting interested. I asked her, what's up ? She said she was developing interest in me. I asked if she was breaking up with her fiancée. She kept quiet.

She is hot today, she is cold tomorrow. I really wanted to make her feel at home. I started taking her to my house. I exposed us to alcohol. She takes more than I do. Strong head. She hardly gets drunk.

Afterwards, she started seeking to be cared for like a gf.
Being an open minded person, I asked her what direction we were going so no one feels being taken along on a goose chase. She said she doesn't know.

I just stopped. She runs to me and greets me in church any day we meet but I have started losing that spark for her because she is too secretive. All I did for her to feel free with me, or see me as a friend didn't work. I hate emotionally frigid or rigid ladies..

They will want people to see them with you even when nothing is going on and she is still playing hide and seek.

emmysexxy:
I am the one you have been looking for.pls venue for the wedding pls

I will take you at your word !..

tylesh:
Let's see a picture of u first

I am a ghost.

Some say Akudaya..

farano:
Jes passing with my 32 sparkling

My missing rib.

kandiikane:
And they say only women get desperate.....

Nothing about desperation here. I have female friends and I know at least 3 that are waiting to hear from me, " Marry me ". And you go come chop cake but I don't love any.

I also meet ladies weekly or monthly basis. Church would have been ideal but I had a bitter experience trying to date a church lady. Most of them are fake.

pendusky:
I believe ur getting more inbox full of comment from our nl babes than the comment here ! there is nothing bad in searching but never allow ur kid to mistake u for grandpa

Nairaland is updating me about mails but my mailbox isn't getting them o.

fireforfire:
Op u need to fast more. If u were praying once a day increase it to 5 times.
Fast for 1mnth. 6-6 dry fasting den break it with only water
when fasting, rub charcoal on ya face so dat pple wee know dat ur on a mission
..... Then see d result


But on a serious note i hope karma is not fucking u up?
Maybe after fucking plenty gurls u now see dem unfit for marriage, dem con swear for u.

Lol

God has forgiven my sins..

Amen !

evea:
place ur pix.

Not at all.

I think say your own pix dey.

Dreyl:
Lol..no mind that silly girl with that her flat yansh,for that her small mind now she think say i dey self service with her pic can you imagine?..

That is what most ladies think that their boyfriends self service with their pictures.

Really funny..

This is how I will explain this incident..

With the recent signing of Bilateral relations between Nigeria and Russia. Russia purposely detailed this aircraft to land in Kano to expose the sources of Boko haram artillery and ammunition which Chad has been buying from Russia to use in destabilizing Nigeria.

This is exactly the reason why Boko haram has been growing stronger. The West probably.knows about this and kept quiet. They had.nohing to lose. That is also why the Nigerian intelligence excused itself from the military treaty with the West and signed up with Russia.

Weapons seized from boko haram can be analyzed by Military experts and their sources confirmed.. A gun made in Russia cannot be mistaken for one made in USA..