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Evina:
Sweetie, a man that disrespects you to the extent of pimping you off to his boss is not worth your time.

It is the lowest form of disrespect, as far as he is concerned, you are a pros.titute...sorry, but it's the truth

They are making jest of her.

When colleagues pass girls around in office, its a game to them and the girl their mugu..

izaray:
My bf boss is asking me out, when i informed my bf about it, instead of taking proper action on that,

Rather, i had him discussing on how, is going to arrange me for his boss on phone, because of his selfish mind!

But he didn't kno i was listening to their conversation!

When i confronted him about his stupid act, he refused to say anything to me

What do guys think pls!

Why can't you ladies be wise ?

Wetin concern a wife or gf with a persons boss ?

Are you not the one who went went parading yourself before him ? I personally do not mix pleasure with work.

Work hour, I am working, pleasure hour, I am home. That is when I can see gfs. I don't see how my boss will meet my gf. Not even in a get together..

Even he meets her, i will tell him off if he asks her out. Your guy nah mumu. You sef no wise..

Billyonaire:
Introduce her to alcohol

Bad nigga..

Yomieluv:
Didn't you notice that before marriage?

If yes,live with it.

If No,live with it.

Gbam !

farano:
Make her beg for sex

Naturally, some people don't like sex.

When her guy approaches her, she will remind him that you touched her last week monday and you have come again by Friday this week. I have heard such shiit.

Some people are just senseless in relationships..

As in " Love making timetable "..

I won't take such a woman for free..

It may mean either of these two things.

You may not be exactly what he wants in a dream wife.

Secondly, he might be saying, " let's get married ".. That is if he has ever proposed..

Dreyl:
i know all these girls can't do without selfie,always pouting mouths like baby piglet.

As in errh !

moneymaker24:
Shey this people no get work?? 1000 people go just arrange and stay in line just because they wan take selfie.

Yet no stomach infrasctructure.

Nigerians are even wiser..

fr3do:
This whole selfie thing is beginning to get on my nerves.

Seriously

Is that the real meaning of a ring on each finger or...

The assumed meaning by Guys ?

That must be coming from a senseless woman..

Always living in the past..

BuddhaPalm:
Don't shít where you eat...

Not too close bro but trekkable.

At least not my street.

MisterLongman:
The girl be like " You go buy market, you no wan pay"......
That type of girl can be very vicious

I have never made her feel used or cheated.

No be say you talk, even after marriage, if it ever happens, this kind girl cannot allow one look another woman sef.

mencade6:
ur lady probably has sexually transmitted disease which has surfaced on her va...gi..nal. She doesnt want u to see it that is why ask for the gen to be switched off...bro pls use ur condom oooo.....if not na gonorhea u go get

Possibly..

icedbeatz:
@hazard, I'm telling you BRO..I don't know her intention of acting that way,i can't give birth to a child now cos right now i'm not ready to take very good care of my love and my baby. I want to be ready to give them the best of everything when the time comes but unwanted pregnancy is a big NO NO for me, I thank God I was able to overcome the temptation .

It was not a temptation. It is a female psychology thing
.

icedbeatz:
my girl that I was telling y'all about the last time came yesterday,you know as e dey be now as light no dey I come on Gen we were cooking together (like helping out in the kitchen but she usually ask me to let her do the cooking )in the kitchen and after that we just dey dey gist and later started watching a nollywood movie after some hours we started with the romancing and kissing and other things she come ask me make I go off the Gen that it has been long since its been on(it's around 6pm) and my 'local government ' was soooo at attention that it can pierce through or break zuma rock into two and even if they threw bomb that moment I no send ooo. so I called my neighbour to help me and off the gen and we continued as I removed her pant and when touched her,she seemed like she's been swimming in river niger and I was sooo tempted to enter her Babylon without any visa but the thought of getting her into preggie situation and other negative things that might arise So I told her let me get a condom as soon as I moved Baaam! she closed the gate of Babylon and said she won't do again later I asked her to sit down so that we can talk and she started asking me 'how many girls I've been sleeping with? why did I keep the condom? and other questions. well the condom had been there since my ex and I love my baby soooooooo much that I won't cheat on her with anyone even if it's with Beyonce, she's my everything .so my sweet open minded ladies of nl please answer this for me, why would she do that? and why the off Gen thingy too? (btw its our first time of getting that intimate)could it be that she was shy or what?

Hahaha, you are still a learner.

There is a way to make sure the gate doesn't close.

It is not for a forum like this.

If truly, they are investing in the NSE again, that means soon, I will be able to recoup my lost value there..

Make una build am well, this time I will exit before you guys..

Very good write up.

People marry for the wrong reasons or marry the wrong persons, or do the wrong things.

That's why marriages crash. Any marriage built on God won't crash..

Keeping a marriage is beyond human abilities..

Tabh:
I wish anyone understands that this guy is beyond sex.

Yay, that's me..

bigwalo:
I think sumtin is wrong wit u, pls go 4 deliverance.

Bro, help..

Tabh:
Yes,the shoe actually fits...........
I'm happppppppppppppppppyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy

I am the shoemaker..

Bamz:
Well well if it's true, you have nothing to fear. . Um I would have said more if I was married.

If he is talking to you about her, then they are not dating.

The secret here is, there is one thing about her he admires..

Ask him this straight question, " Darlene, what do you admire in this lady " ? It might be her hard work or diligence.

Ask him to introduce her to you. If you haven't met her. ( make friend with your enemy, then tackle her reasonably ).

Tell the lady your husband talks about her often, what is their relationship like seeing you are his wife ? . Be friendly about this.

exthar87:
God is watching you
Even if we are must u tell the world
See hungry dudes bashing babes

Don't mind them.

The bashing is now too much.

I unsubscribe.

Let me tell you ladies a secret about guys.

We bash ladies who don't do our bidding.

So ignore the cry babies. That is why you can never see married men engaging in lady bashing..

tosyne2much:
@ the bolded.. Bwhahahaahahahahaha lwkmd roflmao

Ladies need guidance.

They should not be laughed at.

They are weak.

tosyne2much:
Note- This write-up contain blunders and wrong use of words but that's out of my chest. No be corporate communications i dey do

10 Types Of Confused Ladies

It takes a miracle if a lady is not guilty of at least one of the listed points


Where Do You Belong ?

1. The ones who have been dying silently and have been patiently waiting for the opportunity for you to talk to strike up a convo, only for you to strike up a convo and ask them out and they will decline your request so as to prove to you that they are not cheap and when you are drifting away, they will start running after you so that you can ask them out once more and they will tell you YES immediately


2. The ones who bleach and after having multi colours and black knuckles, only for them to start blaming it on their friends who prescribed a wrong cream to them

3. The ones who will ask you "what do you think you are doing" even though they know deep down that they will end up giving in

4. The ones who will forsake you for a rich dude, only for them to start chasing you when the guy becomes poor and everything becomes good for you, saying it was the work of the devil

5. The ones who will outrightly tell you they don't do long distance relationship because they are in Lagos and you are in Aba, but they start giving you close marking when they are in Lagos and you are in London, saying "it's love that matters"

6. These are the ones who will tell you they don't like secks and that they are only doing it for the sake of love, only for them to call you a lazy man if you can't satisfy them

7. The ones who will screen men with no mercy.. They screen men like Gulder Ultimate Search and Maltina Dance Hall audition, only for them to start attending prayer programmes and weekly services in church when they seem not to get a better dude and they don't want to settle for less because much has been expected of them from friend and families


8. The ones who have pursued their future partner out of ignorance and class, only for them to join the church choir, ushering unit when age is not on their side anymore


9. The ones who neglect a short kindhearted dude thereby running after a tall handsome dude with 6 packs, only for the guy to dump them and they start raining curses, saying all men are the same

10. The ones who will tell you they don't give out their number to strangers, only for them to be overwhelmed by regret why they didn't give it out at once


Feel free to add yours

Happy Sunday

Number 5 made me scatter laugh..

Nigerian ladies are really confused. Only a loving man will guide a woman accordingly then her joy will be full.

I used to know how happy my Ex used to be when we were together, now she is always looking confused.

I see.

zoeee:
Hmmmm... Name u find trouble na

How did I ?

MizMyColi:
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And this ^^^ about sums it up for me. In addition to the writ above which quite captures my thoughts on this matter, I'd like to add thus:
Sometime ago, I mentioned on here that I am never cool with this whole "friendzoning" thing.
No straightforward and selfless human being should be either.
I try to define roles in my relationships with people.

As it stands now, e-life apart, there are mature guys I know, who would give anything to hear me say "I love you too"
They are always there for me and
But I try to let them know the state of my heart towards them: "I love You, just not in the way you expect me to"
I do not take advantage of them in any way and even when I receive unsolicited gifts, I show them gratitude and more oft, I'll always look for a way to pay back especially through calls(not 1-3mins type), just to know how they're doing and say stuffs to cheer them up. That way no one feels used.

I have to admit on here, that for a very short period in my life, during school days, I was friendzoned
I know the feeling of loving and giving unreciprocatedly (sic).
I won't subject anyone to that.
No, not knowingly.



Tagged:Pickabeau1

You accept the gift and call me back 10 minutes call.

That's a NoNo. Reject the gift..

Farouksenior:
Tell d oda babe say u get Aids.U wil see fast result. Remember to pay me consultancy fee

If not Ebola

She asked me why she has never seen me calling any of my family members before

I told her I was a ghost that night. Se as Goose Pimples grow for her face that night. But she won't quit.

zoeee:
Ur story doesn't have an introduction. How did it all start?

My dear, I wasn't sure of any of these 2 ladies in the first place.

My gf has been an intermittent friend for 3 years, no sex, now she got serious this year, so I mentioned marriage and she accepted. Like young girls would do, I started hearing things like, I don't have feelings again for you. Being that we are in a no sex relationship(my fault). I met this stalker around January this year and for another 6 months, we didn't see. After connecting with her in august, it happened between us. She told me she has a bf who she can jettison for me.

I didn't for one day act jealous or tell her to quit her bf. I just told her I have someone too who I haven't touched and I am in love with. She threatened to quit if I don't get serious with her. I just ignored her. She cooks and brings food from her house to me. Even yesterday.

My gf on the other hand is not the wushi type. She likes her space. She can stay for one week without calling me but its all pretence. She eavesdrops on me and tempts me with her friends. But whenever I call we discuss everything discussable and she has accepted my proposal.

So

Hawlahscho:
Tell your gf abt her. (no lies)

Bro, I have not even slept with my gf before.

How I go keep mouth talk this kind thing ?