Hi nairalanders,
I'm just curious to know how your last relationship ended. Some guys/girls alike find it very difficult to end their relationship that's no longer giving them the joy they once felt when they started. Some will prefer to just start avoiding their partner instead of breaking up amicably.
Plz do share your experiences and let others who are afraid of hurting their partners at the expense of their own happiness,know how to handle their break-ups.

I caught her with infidelity, I told her I am done with her and refuse to pick her calls. She in turn stopped calling and blocked me from her facebook account.

My relationship will never end. It's a distant relationship but growing faster than the speed of light. I can't wait to walk down the aisle!

By being on nairaland 24/7.

jhydebaba: I caught her with infidelity, I told her I am done with her and refuse to pick her calls. She in turn stopped calling and blocked me from her facebook account.

Well it's too bad it ended that way though. In this situation,i think whatever action you took was justified.

Una be fool: My relationship will never end. It's a distant relationship but growing faster than the speed of light. I can't wait to walk down the aisle!

Wow dat's nice..

I went to her house and told her that I can't continue simple

Mynd_44: I went to her house and told her that I can't continue simple

Just like that?

I dont talk much i just said I QUIT .finish

Even though we once had a spark, but it never made a flame. After she saw the relationship wasn't working, she confronted me and told me that it seems I don't love her anymore. Then I told her I was tired of the relationship, she cried and accepted the truth. That was how we broke up. We are still friends even as I write.

Funny she had already told me what she would do when she was tired of a relationship so as soon as i saw the signs i just called her on New years eve (years ago) and told her i just called to wish her well in the new year and to say bye. after that i hung up and deleted her number.

She came to my job after that to say sorry for the way she hadled the situation and that she misses me. she also kept asking for my new number and i was like nope. She finally got the message and left me alone

I end my miserable relationship at the police station. No Swag.

well, i played a song when i was with her. future-bitches aint sheeet" and aint no way around it by future too. she got mad and did just what i wanted.
well she did it, i didnt. i miss her tho, well just her punanny

@op. Hw did u end ur last relationship abi u neva enta any1 b4 ni

Depends on the other party.

- I have encouraged a few to break the relationship. I started acting funny so they called it off. Guess it gave them the sense of victory.

- To the one that I had the highest level of respect for, we talked about it. She said she'd have preferred if I just ran away from her..but I know she'd have used that against me. Now she respects me for talking to her about it and not punking out. We remain friends.

If you had a great relationship, i think it is childish to just 'run away'. Communicate your decision in any way possible (in person, phone, text)..dont just run. I'm not saying i've not done it before..but I did it with girls i really didnt care about..but it's still childish all the same.

If you had the guts to 'toast' her, have the decency to communicate your break-up decision with her.

e no hard na....i just send her a text..."ehhmm....i dn't tink i can continue with this relationship so let's end it, thank."....case close...end of story

Mine ended on the phone.....she cried heaven and earth but i have already made up my mind.

I start limiting my attention 2wards her... in terms of fone calling and normal seeing... And each time she wants 2 c me,i gave genuine excuses (outta town,busy @ work or most times avoid her calls)

beqs101:

Just like that?

Not like that nah. That was just the dhort version. We talked and realised that the relationship just can't continue

Just told him i couldn't keep up with his numerous lies no more and left.

freecocoa: Just told him i couldn't keep up with his numerous lies no more and left.

he lied to you cause he loves you tho

I Let her know that I got a new girl friend and I stopped picking her call.

She was unfaithful and I told her I am done with her.....

I go jam am for house wiv my fellow agberos and warned d fuckerrrrr make hin no call, txt, mail, ping, Skype, tweet, fb me again. I don't do d txting or calling brouhaha, I only do eyeball to eyeball.

He prefers anoda lady, afta yrs of being 2geda. And i deleted him frm my lyf. I resigned 4rm my place of work, moved to anoda city, got a nw mobile num, nw job & moved on.

nyere84: He prefers anoda lady, afta yrs of being 2geda. And i deleted him frm my lyf. I resigned 4rm my place of work, moved to anoda city, got a nw mobile num, nw job & moved on.

u left to a new city cause of a man? lmao
nd i still dnt get this changing a new number thing cause of your ex. very weird to me. u think he cant get ur new number?

nyere84: He prefers anoda lady, afta yrs of being 2geda. And i deleted him frm my lyf. I resigned 4rm my place of work, moved to anoda city, got a nw mobile num, nw job & moved on.

Wow!!!
U vex gan oo...
Crawzieee gal!