kunletiwoo: We all know that the issue of Love in every relationship can never be over emphasized, as it is the backbone of every lasting and productive relationships. But, unfortunately so many people out of ignorance still mistake LUST for LOVE. Hmm!

Now my questions;

1.)How do you check mate yourself when you have an intense feeling of deep affection towards someone?

2.)What are the possible behavior of someone who’s in LUST?

I believe a true and sincere answer to the above questions will go a long way and deliver somebody out there from the horror of LUST.

NOTE: PLEASE DO NOT DERAIL

Thanks in Anticipation...

KingOfNairaland:

SIGNS OF LUST;

1.You're totally focused on a person's looks and body.
2.You're interested in having sex, but not in having conversations.
3.You'd rather keep the relationship on a fantasy level, not discuss real feelings.
4.You want to leave soon after sex rather than cuddling or breakfast the next morning.
5.You are lovers, but not friends.

SIGNS OF LOVE;

1.You want to spend quality time together other than sex.
2.You get lost in conversations and forget about the hours passing.
3.You want to honestly listen to each other's feelings, make each other happy.
4.He or she motivates you to be a better person.
5.You want to get to meet his or her family and friends.

This is Nice

bennyraz: I'll be back to read.. For now, i cant

AmBeautiful:

When you are in love with someone , you want to spend quality time with the person and you can never never be busy to accommodate that person's call or text, visits, e.t.c. You are not only interested in sex but in other areas of the person's life.You would respect the feelings of that person always.You would also let the person you love to be a part of your life.You wont lie to the person, you don't mind giving the person you love gifts.you don't pretend, neither does ego or pride get in your way.

When you love someone SINCERELY, you do not have any restrictions or exceptions as regards that person.

Hmmm! This sounds so practical... Thank you

Mynd_44: Too long

sexkillz: you may wanna read this. www.nairaland.com/991476

Nice One Killz

KAYD007: ^^
die for who?

greatgod2012: when its lust, u look 4 excuses to discharge such a person,thus making forgiveness hard but when its love,u quickly remember dt there is no perfect person, thus making forgiveness very easy.
When its lust, u easily get bored with d person especially after intimacy but when its love,with intimacy or not, u always have reasonable reasons to be together, without getting bored, regadless of hours spent together.
When its lust, d other person is usually considered unintelligent(low IQ) but when its love, d other person is considered highly intelligent(high IQ)
when its lust, and d other person demand 4 gift, u see him/her as a golddigger but if its love, u see it as sharing.
D list can go on and on, but let me stop here.
P. S. We were taught all these when we were attending premarriage counselling class,8 yrs ago.

Awwwe! Thank you.