tellwsdom:
Mshew chima, is the only OROBO in america who advises OROBO single ladies of her type, when in trouble

MarcAnthon: Chima, you still alive?

As for your friend, if you live close by, quietly call 911 next time you hear an altercation. Women that continue to remain in abusive relationships need to be saved from themselves. She might be killed one day, and you will have guilt in your heart.

CrazyMan:
I see...so his abrasive nature is inbuilt. He isn't being controlled by any drugs or drinks.

I guess the woman is at fault then. She can't claim not to have noticed his true nature until now...I guess she was a victim of the phrase " love is blind "

I still feel for her though...but its obvious that either the man doesn't love her any more or he's gradually going insane.


Yea I remembered you stating earlier that your husband is against your hospitality towards that lady. Like I stated before, I won't blame him...the matter really isn't any of your business.

Moreover, if you know that getting so involved in this case might cost you your marriage, I would suggest that you harken unto the voice of thine husband and stay the hell out.

Mrs.Chima:


You didnt die from a STD yet You are a strong brother.

MarcAnthon:

You had it? Why didn't you say so? bad, bad woman. Guess I'm really strong then

Mrs.Chima:


Just like I advised your orobo mammy to keave your papi.

Mshewwww chima, do u knw u should be at the gym now and not on the computer Tryin to send some mesg with ur big yansh??...Do u realise dat??

tellwsdom:
Mshewwww chima, do u knw u should be at the gym now and not on the computer Tryin to send some mesg with ur big yansh??...Do u realise dat??

Mrs.Chima:
Well..i am blessed not to have an abusive partner.

Mrs.Chima:


Go inflate your dick and get laid. My balls arent available.

Maybe this time, i have to hit yur big yansh with a large wood, to have it, reduced ...AMEBO WOMAN

Long One:


Nothing do you.



Haba, I contributed, before I got errm *coughs* distracted.

Mynd_44: I dont get why some women will stay with an abusive woman. Its something I am desperately trying to understand

afam4eva: We should stop this believe that women are always the victims in domestic violence. It's not just about physical violence but also about emotional traumaa that some women put men through which inspires some men to go on the offensive. It's a to way street.

Mrs.Chima:


Secondly..people need to accept accountability for their actions and not blame it on the next person like afameva did.

afam4eva:
Of course people should take responsibilities for their actions but that does not mean some actions are not off-shoots of others. Human beings are emotional in nature. They're not metal.

Mrs.Chima:


They are humans indeed with a brain that should work properly. If you do the crime...you need to do the time and not blame others for your lack of self control. Simple.

afam4eva:
I agree with you. But it should be a two-way street. Don't you think so?

Mrs.Chima:


No it shouldn't. If my husband hit me because I burnt the jollof rice then why is that my fault that he can't simply state his dissatisfaction and show me how not to burn the jollof rice That is HOW MATURE ADULTS OPERATE.

Not everyone is provoked to hit someone contrary to popular beliefs....only time a person should resort to physical violence is when self defense is necessary!

There is no self defense hitting a chick simply because she is unable to fight back!

Mrs.Chima:
Have you ever been in a domestic violence relationship and if so, how did you remove yourself from it? Have you ever helped someone remove themselves from an abusive relationship? What are your thoughts on domestic violence in marriage or dating?

I have recently encouraged a friend of mine to leave her abusive partner because she would always cover herself with make up and hoodies. I told my husband about this situation and he suggested that I remove myself from the equation and we got into an argument because I felt like he was supporting the abuser.

My husband said that he does not want his wife involve in something that has nothing to do with me and he will hurt a mofo if harm come my way. In some way, I am touched but still mad at him because I feel like if it was his sisters or mother...he would be like Boko Haram with atomic bombs. Why is it when it is someone that is not family...men will turn their heads?

My friend won't press charges and I am afraid for her children. She has two girls and one boy. She shared with me that her son is imitating the abuser by threatening to kill her and she need to sleep with one eye open. That bothers me because I know if she doesn't get out...she will be in a body bag.

I have successfully helped women get out of abusive relationship because their families were involved but she has not family that live in our region. She moved from her hometown to be with her partner and I was introduced to her by a survivor. This is exactly what she looks like and it is no lie.

How can a woman or man get out of an abusive relationship and do you think it is easy to do so even with a sure way out?

Mrs.Chima:


Me or my friend

Mynd_44: I get your point but I find it hard to stomach. Domestic violence is simply evil.
I know of an instance where the man actually beated his pregnant wife to death

CrazyMan:
Ok...now I do.

Wao that's a hell of a sacrifice she made (living in a town with no single family member)

Let me ask...since you desperately want to help this lady, have you thought about meeting her husband before? (I would advise you to go alone if at all you want to engage him in a conversation) What kind of person is he? Does he drink? Is he on drugs?

If you want to help this poor lady, there are many ways you can do it.

PortHarcourtBoy: The more you sand sand and slap slap the babes dem...the more dem love You...

Slap a girl today...