Okija_juju:


What you should be praying for is The ability to know the right woman when you see her.. The reason being that the women who actually love us enough to sacrifice her all for us, are the ones we either dont want, take for granted or outrightly mistreat.. And the reason is that good things dont always come in fancy wrappers.. But na the Brazillian hair, mini-skirt, pierced nostrils, tattoo spotting, low-cut/push-up bra wearing, contact lens wearing, anklelet wearing, fake eyelash wearing, fake accented, club hopping, knock-off designer wearing hoes we dey see, love and break head for..

Okija_juju:


What you should be praying for is The ability to know the right woman when you see her.. The reason being that the women who actually love us enough to sacrifice her all for us, are the ones we either dont want, take for granted or outrightly mistreat.. And the reason is that good things dont always come in fancy wrappers.. But na the Brazillian hair, mini-skirt, pierced nostrils, tattoo spotting, low-cut/push-up bra wearing, contact lens wearing, anklelet wearing, fake eyelash wearing, fake accented, club hopping, knock-off designer wearing hoes we dey see, love and break head for..

Okija_juju:


What you should be praying for is The ability to know the right woman when you see her.. The reason being that the women who actually love us enough to sacrifice her all for us, are the ones we either dont want, take for granted or outrightly mistreat.. And the reason is that good things dont always come in fancy wrappers.. But na the Brazillian hair, mini-skirt, pierced nostrils, tattoo spotting, low-cut/push-up bra wearing, contact lens wearing, anklelet wearing, fake eyelash wearing, fake accented, club hopping, knock-off designer wearing hoes we dey see, love and break head for..

Wislet: thank you my dear.
Even though we all know things have gone terribly wrong, and some professed 'love' aren't what they are cut out to be.
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Nigerian men will keep pointing fingers till eternity...forgetting that 4 are pointed at once toward them even as they thrust out one. What about pointing the whole fingers
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How many of you guys will marry a woman handicapped? SOME (as long as she isn't a beggar on the street/high ways)
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How many of you will stay with a handicapped wife. And even if you stay, will u be faithful to her....all the days of your life? SOME( remember the vows, for better for worse till death do us part,lol)
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How many of you look within to see the beauty of a woman and not the facade or 'dreams' u've always had about ur dream wife's outlook? SOME (beauty of a woman go far beyond the physical looks, the inward personality outweighs the outer things)
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What happens if that beauty changes tomorrow? SOME (In the presence of bastard wealth, she will always look her best even till her old age)
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How many will stay with a woman if she perchance doesn't take in fast enough/at all? God is the giver of the fruit of the womb, don't judge all men with even quota
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How many include their wives in the scheme of things, and not focus on their kids only and see their wives as 'properties?' ALL MEN aren't the same(obviously,the woman comes before the kids, so they all get the focus and attention they needed for a good/quality life.
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Is any Nigerian man guiltless of any of these? Yes, SOME
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Take stock within urself. Improve on ur own self. Ok, we don hear. Ladies do the same
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The less time u spend focusing on others' idiosyncrasies and more on developing yourself, the better husband you are preparing for some woman to publish tomorrow. TRUE FACTS (QES)
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Lesson.

brokoto: y'all saying something about 9ja girls ask yourself this question: are you the type of man that a girl will be willing to go through thick and thin for? take a good look at your life before criticizing the other person. by the way,[b] its funny how very few ladies have commented her[/b]e. . .

ghettodreamz: Good Lessons here for....

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ikekings: Is this type of love still in existence? Wetin concern naija girls with this thread? For those of you who think that the white girls are better... Why not cut off your legs and then go and give it a trial? You will be shocked that 98% of those white girls will reject you without looking at you... 1.5% will reject by looking at you.. The remaining 0.5% pending...
@post nice pics... Still searching for that girl that will always stand by me... Whether good or bad... She's out there somewhere waiting for me to come and take her....

Okija_juju:


[b]What you should be praying for is The ability to know the right woman when you see her.. The reason being that the women who actually love us enough to sacrifice her all for us, are the ones we either dont want, take for granted or outrightly mistreat.. And the reason is that good things dont always come in fancy wrappers.. But na the Brazillian hair, mini-skirt, pierced nostrils, tattoo spotting, low-cut/push-up bra wearing, contact lens wearing, anklelet wearing, fake eyelash wearing, fake accented, club hopping, knock-off designer wearing hoes we dey see, love and break head for..

rodeo0070:
1001 likes for you...
This is unconditional and down to earth...very and I repeat, very uncommon.

ghettodreamz:

Day dreaming This can only happen in the western world not in Nigeria.

solidbroda: you are partially wrong! A woman who goes clubbing, brazilian hair etc doesn't mean she's bad. I have seen Alhajas who dress so clean, but they are so baaaaaaad. We call them 'Soji Alhaja'. Or a choir in church who knows how to sing and everybody will be field with the spirit in church, but deep down in her, she is a pure who_re(iv seen many like dat). Some girls have even perfected the act of looking decent, and whereas, men have bleep up their womanliness and the PHCN cannot count bill again. I can only be right with u with the one you said we should have the spirit to know nice women. Here, trusting one instinct is good. And you should not mix internal beauty with the external. However, we men do need women who are physically pretty, but also pretty inside, which is most important

wislet: thank you my dear.
Even though we all know things have gone terribly wrong, and some professed 'love' aren't what they are cut out to be.
.
Nigerian men will keep pointing fingers till eternity...forgetting that 4 are pointed at once toward them even as they thrust out one.
.
How many of you guys will marry a woman handicapped?
.
How many of you will stay with a handicapped wife. And even if you stay, will u be faithful to her....all the days of your life?
.
How many of you look within to see the beauty of a woman and not the facade or 'dreams' u've always had about ur dream wife's outlook?
.
What happens if that beauty changes tomorrow?
.
How many will stay with a woman if she perchance doesn't take in fast enough/at all?
.
How many include their wives in the scheme of things, and not focus on their kids only and see their wives as 'properties?'.
.
Is any Nigerian man guiltless of any of these?
.
Take stock within urself. Improve on ur own self.
.
The less time u spend focusing on others' idiosyncrasies and more on developing yourself, the better husband you are preparing for some woman to publish tomorrow.
.
Lesson.

ghettodreamz:


Very untrue

Okija_juju:
Its easier to spot a hoe than it is to spot a wife.. [/b]

Okija_juju:


[b]Dude don't get my message twisted.. I never meant that girls you meet in clubs with all the attached fake accessories are bad.. I was only trying to say we men barely appreciate what we have.. We men are wired to think with our d[i]cks than our head.. I know guys who have great women that love them and worship the ground that they walk on, yet they treat their fully bleached out skanks better than they do these women.. I have come to realise that good women abound everywhere, but they are most times not as appealing as the hoes.. Only a man who has his head in the right place can differenciate between both these classes of women.. I remember my ex-girlfriend for example.. She didn't fit the mould I wanted then.. She wasnt dead gorgeous, was churchoues so would not wear those figure enhancing outfits, she would go to the club and all but wouldn't drink alcohol.. Luckily for me, I had my head together and realised that I had a real gem on my hands.. Sadly distance put an end to our relationship, but I can tell you that she is anng woman and can do the exact same thing in the picture.. Fast forward to one of my other more compatible ex's.. She was a typical guys chick.. She would rock ur world in bed, rep you in the club, have all your guys drooling at the mouth in some of her outfits, could dance like a stripper, but she had no future plans, lived only for the present and was a liability more than she was an asset.. Again, the finer things of life don't always come in the nicest of packages.. Its easier to spot a hoe than it is to spot a wife.. [/b]

Wislet: thank you my dear.
Even though we all know things have gone terribly wrong, and some professed 'love' aren't what they are cut out to be.
.
Nigerian men will keep pointing fingers till eternity...forgetting that 4 are pointed at once toward them even as they thrust out one.
.
How many of you guys will marry a woman handicapped?
.
How many of you will stay with a handicapped wife. And even if you stay, will u be faithful to her....all the days of your life?
.
How many of you look within to see the beauty of a woman and not the facade or 'dreams' u've always had about ur dream wife's outlook?
.
What happens if that beauty changes tomorrow?
.
How many will stay with a woman if she perchance doesn't take in fast enough/at all?
.
How many include their wives in the scheme of things, and not focus on their kids only and see their wives as 'properties?'.
.
Is any Nigerian man guiltless of any of these?
.
Take stock within urself. Improve on ur own self.
.
The less time u spend focusing on others' idiosyncrasies and more on developing yourself, the better husband you are preparing for some woman to publish tomorrow.
.
Lesson.

kpozite: Everybody wants someone like this woman, but, can you do the same to somebody else? Do unto others as you will want them do unto you.

Wislet: a sensible Nigerian man.
Hope the others are emulating him?

Networkmaster: Just don't understand why most African babes can't stand by their men unconditional
especially our over sense 9ja babes.

ItsModella:
In as much as I totally hate to admit it, I agree with you. Many of them are so quick to judge when they might equally be as guilty. They want the woman to make all the sacrifices when a relationship is meant to be between the both of them. Every single time, the blame has to lie on the Naija girl when they (the guys) are not wholly innocent.

caseless: U'r right, g-dreamz! But it wil not b a wild goose chase 2 find such in nigeria. No tel me say d babe wey u woo no get dz qualities o? Hahahaha.