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Re: ' I Sold My Child For N4M And I Want Him Back Now' by deliciouz90: 9:16am On Oct 06, 2012 |
The woman should just pray for God forgiveness and mercy while moving on with life .God will forgive her and give her the chance of meetin his son again.pls dont commit sucide because dat is another greatest sin in God presence.u may even move closer to ur frnd dat spread the issue of baby sellin.direct ur attention to God and kip d rest kids wit u.because mony is not evrythin |
Re: ' I Sold My Child For N4M And I Want Him Back Now' by Nobody: 9:16am On Oct 06, 2012 |
dayokanu: Report yourself to the police for aiding traffiking Do you mean the police that bought the child |
Re: ' I Sold My Child For N4M And I Want Him Back Now' by Nobody: 9:19am On Oct 06, 2012 |
Virtueways: Go public,get ridiculed,abused,cursed-still let the world know about the incident.then go to a priest and confess after that go to God and confess and beg for forgiveness so that when you eventually die you will find peace. Can someone say amen to that Nna mehn, i don hear stories tire, my tears dey run dry somehow. Yesterday was bunkum. |
Re: ' I Sold My Child For N4M And I Want Him Back Now' by Nobody: 9:29am On Oct 06, 2012 |
Ask Jesus to come into your life and wash you with his precious blood. The efficacy of his blood will wash your guilt stains and make your heart pure like snow. You will become like a new born child. Confess your sins to a man/woman of God and he/she will guide you further. |
Re: ' I Sold My Child For N4M And I Want Him Back Now' by ZUBBYNWA(m): 9:31am On Oct 06, 2012 |
sorry, u cant eat ur cake and have it. |
Re: ' I Sold My Child For N4M And I Want Him Back Now' by lise4realyahoo(f): 9:32am On Oct 06, 2012 |
Wao... Well 1st of all u have to forgive urself cos dats the only way u can lift away the pain 4rm ur heart a little bit, 2ndly go to God in prayers tell him what you did n ask him to 4give u,am sure he wil have mercy on u, den thirdly try to get pregant again to give birth to anoder child , ur joy could b restored again with u seeing the face of that child... |
Re: ' I Sold My Child For N4M And I Want Him Back Now' by vislabraye(m): 9:35am On Oct 06, 2012 |
Very cheap. So what do you want us to do? Shorts of words. |
Re: ' I Sold My Child For N4M And I Want Him Back Now' by PedroJP(m): 9:50am On Oct 06, 2012 |
who feels remorse for u ? U'v eaten the money and u now want ur child back. My dear u'v eaten ur child so just forget him and allow us read more interesting stories |
Re: ' I Sold My Child For N4M And I Want Him Back Now' by Okijajuju1(m): 10:03am On Oct 06, 2012 |
dotcom_na_me_na_me: [b] I will start my response by punching holes in this story that makes no sense and leaves room for doubt.... 1. As much as I know that the Nigerian Police are capable of doing anything, I strongly doubt that Policemen who are about to commit an obvious crime of child trafficking would show you there identity cards. This I doubt. The Nigerian Police I know would not even show you there identity cards to make a legit arrest let alone to commit a crime. 2. They showed you a cheque signed by one of the officers, meaning that transaction was done from the officers account. Last time I checked, cheques can be traced, most illegal transactions are never done with cheques, let alone from the account of a Police officer. 3. They came in a Nigerian Police van to pick up the child and also drove you to the bank and stood there (through the wahala of Nigerian banks) to cash and pay you, Nne this one is hard to swallow. Even my friend who bought an AK-47 from a Nigerian soldier didn't pay with a cheque for it. 4. I can believe that you had their phone number at that start of the transaction (assuming this story is true) but I would expect that after the transaction, that line would be decommissioned. It is on this note that I say this story is too fake to be true... Now, giving you the benefit of doubt and going ahead to believe this tale, I would give you the following advice; 1. Move on... I say this because if the child is dead as a result of rituals or whatever, there is nothing your guilty conscience would achieve. Find a religion (e.g Christianity) pray for forgiveness, do not confess to any human being (wether pastor or whatever), make peace with God and yourself and move.. No be your own bad pass. If the child is alive, he is a human being and would adapt to fit into the fate life has dealt him or her. 2. Should you decide not to move on, you may be facing jail time, but then you can recover your baby as there is so much paper trail left behind. Judging from the story, you should at least have the names of the police officers, the patrol number of the van, your transaction history should have the name on the cheque that was used to credit your account and you also have their phone number. 3. You are not under any curse, just a case of acute guilty conscience and some mental imbalance from the guilt. Suicide is not a solution at all, it's a cowards escape from facing up to reality. You need to see a shrink, but sadly, I don't know of any in Nigeria to recommend and chances are, anyone you talk to about this may just snitch on you. My best advice to you is to make peace with yourself, your God and move on. Kill that child off in your mind and move on. You were a Prost!tute anyways and a broke one at that and had no business being a mother in the first place. Just look at yourself like a surrogate mother who got paid for her services.[/b] I would like to use this opportunity to advocate for the legalisation of ABORTION... This is another case that could have easily been dealt with before it got to this stage. 1 Like |
Re: ' I Sold My Child For N4M And I Want Him Back Now' by whitecat007: 10:04am On Oct 06, 2012 |
ibos, shior!! anything for money. she did not sell it to any Alhaji. she used it for money ritual and did not get a dime out of it |
Re: ' I Sold My Child For N4M And I Want Him Back Now' by Okijajuju1(m): 10:09am On Oct 06, 2012 |
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Re: ' I Sold My Child For N4M And I Want Him Back Now' by pendusky(m): 10:11am On Oct 06, 2012 |
Its a pity. Buh u knw how to do it na. Multiply 4M by number of months and give d money to ur buyer.and get ur baby bk. |
Re: ' I Sold My Child For N4M And I Want Him Back Now' by joyli: 10:14am On Oct 06, 2012 |
Hmmmmmm supper story!! Ur concience came back after buying and spending d rest of the money. It is well |
Re: ' I Sold My Child For N4M And I Want Him Back Now' by ayoola2002(m): 10:22am On Oct 06, 2012 |
oniwo: Tale by moon light.Nice suggestion, but the story is just only writer up from super story. |
Re: ' I Sold My Child For N4M And I Want Him Back Now' by deletrue: 10:31am On Oct 06, 2012 |
pls, do not insult this lady. Do not use harse words on her i beg you people of this forum. I also know that off all commentaries in all news papers, Majority of nairaland contrubutors are upside dawn. In fact this is where you have a greater number of Societal deviants. I thank all those real people who have offerred true adice. Pls madam, it will be difficult for you to get your child back. a quick one is for you to get another baby through another marriage. Get a guy. You are a beautiful lady if that picture is yours. Thanks |
Re: ' I Sold My Child For N4M And I Want Him Back Now' by joyli: 10:32am On Oct 06, 2012 |
Hmmmmmmmmm what a super story, your concience came back after buying a car and wasted the money for other pleasure. Its a pity. |
Re: ' I Sold My Child For N4M And I Want Him Back Now' by DeGrace01(m): 10:34am On Oct 06, 2012 |
Thou personally i doubt the whole story cos it sound so false. But if by any how it happened to be a true life story i will only advise u to; 1. don't ever think of calling that number again i mean the pple u called police men whom u handed over the child to, this because you will never see ur child again like the warned u ealier, secondly they might come after your life so that u don't expose or put them into trouble. 2. Go to ur family if your parents are still alive meet them together with other family members tell them in blank and white what happened, plead with them to forgive you. accept whatever punishment they may decide to give you, promise them that u will never do such thing again. 3. Meet a true man of God, if you are a catholic see a priest. Not just for confession but total councilling, reparation and whatever he will ask u to do please do it keenly. 4. Before you embark on this pray earnestly, is not going to be easy at all but with true repentance and ardent prayers God will see you true. He will also accept you back. 5. It is of paramount that you constantly pray for that Child. that both of you will have peace wherever u are. Finally look unto God and not man he will see you thru, do not forget that for now you companion should be the WORD OF GOD. ALWAYS CARRY YOUR BIBLE WITH U AND READ IT ALL THE TIME. MAY THE PEACE OF THE LORD BE WITH YOU. |
Re: ' I Sold My Child For N4M And I Want Him Back Now' by hardbody: 10:34am On Oct 06, 2012 |
CyberG: This story can hardly be believed and I will just have to be FRANK. It is interesting reading your self aggrandizing justification. It is also shocking how myopic people like you think. There is no economy, nay community where poverty or being rich is so widespread that you cannot find a below average person. We have lots of them even in the western world, I guess the fundamental difference is that everyone can either afford the basic necessities of life or have same provided via a working welfare system. Having said that, are you aware that even if we adjudged what this lady did as being wicked or stupid, depending on how you see it, she has given the child a life different from what some other girls would have done and still doing namely suffocating or dumping the child in one dry well? Someone admits to a wrong and all you do is vilify not just the person but whole ibo race. You need to go through a functional literacy programme to develop your arrested mental growth. Just an advice. |
Re: ' I Sold My Child For N4M And I Want Him Back Now' by iamtheprincipal: 10:40am On Oct 06, 2012 |
2goodbobo: Money they say is the root of all evil. You knew you would want to have your cake back yet you ate it all! @2goodbobo, stop quoting the Scriptures wrongly for the Bibles says that "The love of money is the root of all evils." @Poster, I may decide to cast aspersions at you at this time but that action would do you no good as the word I have for you is to turn to GOD and ask for mercy. You can send a mail to me via iamtheprincipal01@yahoo.com for personal counselling. |
Re: ' I Sold My Child For N4M And I Want Him Back Now' by malontee(m): 10:45am On Oct 06, 2012 |
2goodbobo: Money they say is the root of all evil.4RM ALL INDICATION I TINK POOVERTY IS THE ROOT OF ALL EVIL...knew you would want to have your cake back yet you ate it all! |
Re: ' I Sold My Child For N4M And I Want Him Back Now' by tpia5: 10:46am On Oct 06, 2012 |
See people getting all emotional over this yahoo yahoo tale. dem dey call una mugu o. |
Re: ' I Sold My Child For N4M And I Want Him Back Now' by xandy84: 10:51am On Oct 06, 2012 |
why are you crying.. people sell theirs for less than 100k.... Even if you see the boy, you dont even have the money to pay back and get your son in return... just go hang yourself and save naija another nuisance joor... |
Re: ' I Sold My Child For N4M And I Want Him Back Now' by malontee(m): 10:51am On Oct 06, 2012 |
Another Nollywood movie directed by michael jackson ...Never ment to be rude. |
Re: ' I Sold My Child For N4M And I Want Him Back Now' by albacete(m): 10:56am On Oct 06, 2012 |
whitecat007: ibos, shior!! anything for money. she did not sell it to any Alhaji. she used it for money ritual and did not get a dime out of it. Tribalist! dotcom_na_me_na_me: They had an agreement with d girl in question to buy d baby @ a certain amount and she was warned that the baby would cease to be hers afterwards. Do u guys think they are obliged to sell d baby back to her without reaching an agreement? u know, they have to agree first and if they decide not to sell, she can't force them. If maybe i buy a plot of land from u for like 2.5m Naira, do u think u have d right to buy it back from me (maybe after realising that u sold @ a ridiculously cheap price) without reaching an agreement with me just because u are d original owner? I don't think so. Quit advising her to go look for her baby! And let us give the Alhaji d benefit of the doubt that nothing will happen to d baby and stop thinking that d child will be used for rituals. Nowhere was that mentioned in d story. |
Re: ' I Sold My Child For N4M And I Want Him Back Now' by Seerer(f): 10:57am On Oct 06, 2012 |
That line must ve been bought for the transactin, I bet it was destroyed ASAP. With the recent happenstances in the world now, I ll treat this as a fact, though it breaks my heart to belIeve it, plus the inclusion of the teary face. I so wish to judge you, but you have judged yourself, if you believe in God, accept christ wholly now, pray ceaselessly for your child to acieve his purpose on earth wherever he may be,(hoping he is still alive) then go to a motherless children home & work even as a volunteer,(if they wish to employ u) live the remaining years of your life giving love to children that need it, your burden (by God's grace) might be lightened. |
Re: ' I Sold My Child For N4M And I Want Him Back Now' by vivaciousvivi(f): 11:01am On Oct 06, 2012 |
Spotted about 3 loopholes in this "story" already. Please, its got fake written all over it! |
Re: ' I Sold My Child For N4M And I Want Him Back Now' by malontee(m): 11:04am On Oct 06, 2012 |
To start with did u signd any agreement with them? I mean signing anything putd down in black and white?[any writen sumtin]? |
Re: ' I Sold My Child For N4M And I Want Him Back Now' by albacete(m): 11:11am On Oct 06, 2012 |
hardbody: 40 Likes from me especially @ d bolded. This set of people will be d first to lambast USA for labelling Nigerians terrorists because of one Abdulmutallab. But look at what his post reeks of. Generalisation based on a faulty premise. Should we now say that all of Abdulmutallab's tribesmen are terrorists? I even wonder how that post still remains visible when it should have outrightly been deleted, not hidden. |
Re: ' I Sold My Child For N4M And I Want Him Back Now' by achi4u(m): 11:14am On Oct 06, 2012 |
Skynet247: I wonder if sonny cerson,mother of ben carson and his brother.were to had dat kind of ur mentalily.. Had sold them to a stranger...becuz she was without a man... The world would have misd a great neoruosurgeon at ben carson... She brez up...n trained them by herself to make them stars...which they are today... So many great men today had similar stories...but there mothers prefer being mocked than killing this precious star...who knows he mayb da saviour nigerian needs, jus imagine it...if SONNY CARSON where to sell BEN CARSON... Who would have divide da siemens? I raise my caseguy dat Ben Carson story is what keeps me going.If his mother(sonniya carson) decided to sell one of her kids to train the other one;who knows,Ben could've been sold to train the elder guy,then the world would've miss such a "gifted hand" I keep weeping.... |
Re: ' I Sold My Child For N4M And I Want Him Back Now' by Classicalman(m): 11:20am On Oct 06, 2012 |
yeye4live: Igbo pple re realy greedy dats d truth,u can't see a yoruba person or hausa doing such,I tank God am not ibo dey chase mone wit dier lifeSomehow i feel the mods brought up this ridicupous story to spur on bigotic cowardly Yoruba broods like u to spit their usual bullshait so that they can generate enough revenue from the many threads this will bring about. Keep on hating. We ain't bothered. |
Re: ' I Sold My Child For N4M And I Want Him Back Now' by Seerer(f): 11:22am On Oct 06, 2012 |
Then you ll marry and have children you will cherish. |
Re: ' I Sold My Child For N4M And I Want Him Back Now' by sammmiey1: 11:24am On Oct 06, 2012 |
Igbos r bunch of crap,dey can sell dia future 2acquire anythin dey desire in life,fetish animals,hausa is no exception...thank God I'm a certified yoruba. |
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