engrtee: Wen a guy wan setle down, he w'il setle down.need no tips.we are single because we dont want to b marid yet

kitty kat:
GROSS SHOW OF IGNORANCE. The best chefs is d world are predominantly male. Women pls don't crucify me. In many classy restuarants I hv visited around d wolrd, its usually a man that is d proud chef. Also many of my male friends are wonderful cooks. Some even cook better than their wives or gfs. And guess what, they mega-rich. OwninG expensive estates in choices cities in 9ja. Estates that have minimum of 3-5 houses. Also a lot of my colleagues in a male-dominated industry are grt cooks.

I am not supportin or disputin her fact b ut DN, u hv to widen ur scope of experience b4 comin to NLD to postulate laws and theories that don't exist except in ur own world.

ziqqz:

Lmfao... When you were small huh? So now that you're BIG you'll marry an ex-ashewo claiming to be born again because it's about time to get married? Just like you are entitled to call me hypocrite, I am also entitled to my own choice of wifey. Has anyone called you hypocrite over all these years when you chose fresh food over rotten food Designer clothes over okirika?? Blackberry handset over nokia 3310? My man, instead of jamming ur head on the wall to call me hypocrite, respect another man's choice as you would like yours respected.

Mrs..Chima:
Tips? People should find their mate however they see fit and they are the ones will live with their choices.

When people interfere with someone's search for a mate...things always mess up. It is not up to us to determine what, how, why, when, and whom a person should do with their relationship. It is definitely not up to us and remember...do you like someone telling you the same?

I think not. As i have stated before...instead of giving tips on how one should find a mate but we should (those in healthy relationships) should encourage how to stay in a healthy relationship. Finding someone isn't the issue in today's society...but keeping and maintaining a healthy relationship is much complex than Arabian mathematics.

Duke_Nija:

What is happening to Mrs Chima??
She's become less defensive, more Objective and logical.
Nawa O. Best Post.

Duke_Nija:

What is happening to Mrs Chima??
She's become less defensive, more Objective and logical.
Nawa O. Best Post.

DailyNews:

lol

victorian: And the ones dreaming to have a virgin as a wife, end up been desperate to marry any babe, after waiting for years, no avail , or possibly after meeting some in quote virgins , they will then notice how stubborn or free for all, she is, after marriage. Karma is a bitch, my neighbours's wife, virgin for sure truly loves muscular guys on our street , especially when he is at work...no be talk am ooo .
so leave them guys, them still dey taste ...the georgeous ones are not yet born

seunfly:

Na wa Ooo!! So this your own way to badmouth virgin abi?

So disvirgined girls are alway faithful in marriage, none of them no dey tresspas thier marrital boundries abi. Please stop talking out of sentiment or envynes.

DailyNews: But on a more serious note, when a man wants to settle down, to marry, he knows where, how & when to to find a wife simple. Its only women who have difficulty in finding husband because they wait for men to do the chase though thats natures work.


So any lady in search of a husband should pray & make good female friends, & flee from bad girls still out to catch fun, that is the major reason most hardly get approached by good men out for marriage. They class u the same with the kind of friends u keep whether u are good or bad. Flee from bad friends who drink, club habitually, smoke, disrespect & talk down on men, full of themselves etc.

lefulefu:
why must a guy learn how to cook?
e no dey our african tradition

Mrs..Chima:


Who's fault is it when society have badgered women for making the first attempt to "woo" a man? How can a woman make a logical decision to chase a male that is too laid back to chase her when he wants her? It is not the women's fault when she has a mother or father that drills daily about how women shouldn't chase a man and if she does....she is this and that.

I have no issue with women chasing men but I have issues with the method many of women today uses to chase a man. Instead of letting it flow naturally many of them use desperation tactics to get the man's attention and to me that is a no no. Simply making a first move is chasing but after knowing his response and still chase is desperation.

Women do not lose men simply because they refuse to chase men....they lose men simply because the right one didn't propose to them. It is on both parties to ensure effective courting...not just one sided.

ziqqz: Yes, I personally have played around at home and abroad. And yes, my wife WILL have to be a virgin. How else will I enter into a lifetime contract with the thought in the back of my mind that I'm with a woman who some other guys may have manhandled and dumped? I may be selfish and all, but I have a right to my preference. Honestly, there are some weddings I attend and sincerely feel sorry for the guy, either because I know his bride too intimately, or I know the brides sexual history with other guys who got fed up and in many cases just dumped her. Only for someone else to make her his trophy. Selfish consideration, yes. But I no fit marry anyone from second hand and above. Dats my own thinking o. Period.

Tinynita:
u b TOKUNBO nd u dey find tear rubber....U greedy oh.....2bad

victorian: op, when a man is ready to marry, trust me he doesnt need tips, he knows what to
do, where to source for a wife. And the ones dreaming to have a virgin as a wife, end up been desperate to marry any babe, after waiting for years, no avail , or possibly after meeting some in quote virgins , they will then notice how stubborn or free for all, she is, after marriage. Karma is a bitch, my neighbours's wife, virgin for sure truly loves muscular guys on our street , especially when he is at work...no be talk am ooo .
so leave them guys, them still dey taste ...the georgeous ones are not yet born

unlessgod: guys i made the post right dere re more in my site wwww.bestwapcom.com

ziqqz: Yes, I personally have played around at home and abroad. And yes, my wife WILL have to be a virgin. How else will I enter into a lifetime contract with the thought in the back of my mind that I'm with a woman who some other guys may have manhandled and dumped? I may be selfish and all, but I have a right to my preference. Honestly, there are some weddings I attend and sincerely feel sorry for the guy, either because I know his bride too intimately, or I know the brides sexual history with other guys who got fed up and in many cases just dumped her. Only for someone else to make her his trophy. Selfish consideration, yes. But I no fit marry anyone from second hand and above. Dats my own thinking o. Period.

DailyNews:


Lolz....still laughing at your claims ma. I won't say much again on this, let the men defend themselves on this but trust me, no industrialist have the time to cook, reason u see them hiring the best chefs to prepare meals for them so who are u trying to fool ma? The most expensive meal was served where? google it. who prepared it? more than 3 chefs flown from different countries, & who ate it? Super rich guys, they didn't cooked it. A rich busy rich guy can hardly have time to cook, ask anyone, I hope some maybe here if at all they will open up.


Cooking I insist is a natures gift to women, keep running away from what God blessed u with, lets see who will get tired.


and for the record: men can do anything to make money, & haven observed that today women are running away from their God-given gift, cooking, which now gives room for easier career development, hence u see more men venturing into cooking for a career, hence d reason u see more men dominating the cooking industry in most restaurants of today.


If u dnt know how to cook ma, pls better go n learn frm ur own good & do teach ur female children hw to cook good foods too for d sake of my unborn sons plz dnt want them marrying girls with cooking-phobia, cos it stinks!

divinelove:

am sure u ll get pass this level of thinking someday. Nobody wats to marry a LovePeddler but insisting she must b a virgin hmmm dts asking for much ooo esp if u r nt one urself.

Tinynita:
u b TOKUNBO nd u dey find tear rubber....U greedy oh.....2bad

nanny o: @Poster, u are not married n called urself a wife material but ur words are abusive :oespecaiall in a public forum where u happen to be the poster U don't even know if u can get a husband from this post. I'll advice u work on urself. No hard feelings

kitty kat:
For d record I am a great cook. My culinary skills r not d subject of debate but ur ignorance. How many rich industrialists do u know? How many realyy accomplished guys have u had d privileGe of being close? Some men have their hobbies as cooking. And I can mention some nairaland handles of men that cook better than women and r succesful but that wld expose my identity. My aim is to let u know that u r ignorant of a lot happening in d world. If in d environment u Grew in only females cook, u need to move around and Get more exposed. Men cook also in other environments.
Whether its Good for men to cook or not is not my point. My point is that stop spreadin lies that stupendously rich men don't cook. They do and don't see it as biG deal. Some do it for fun while some Grew up in situations where it was ok for a man to cook or there was no sister at home.


U don't have to concot lies to prpaGate ur male chauvinistic and primitive stone age ideas

ziqqz:

So tokunbo no get right to hammer tear rubber. See eh, Jacob Zuma, president of SA, as a confirmed chairman, na number 15 or so him don dey clock now as wife level. do you remember how he procures his wives?? There is this Zulu festival or something like that, where AALLL the women paraded are virgins in their hundreds. All he gotta do is select his choice. My point is, as a man, especially in African tradition, I can get a virgin anyday to marry. If I phone call my village now now, tell dem to arrange assortment of virgins for me, it will be done in no time and I go just choose which one I want. If I come get money well well, trust me, if I wan marry 10 virgins, it will be done. Period. I hail ooo