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Re: Tips On Finding A Wife For Single Guys by Tinynita(f): 5:49pm On Oct 07, 2012 |
ziqqz:village gals tear eyez pass city gals these days...sum of d village gals dat claims 2 b virgins r really wide wen u taste their honey pot....so shun village tins....me 2 dey hail 1 Like |
Re: Tips On Finding A Wife For Single Guys by k2039: 5:50pm On Oct 07, 2012 |
ziqqz: This post is laughable,I may have a bad dress sense,well thats what I can infer at your most but that doesnt make you any superior to me,anyway lets just leave it at that,I have a feeling we will cross path someday,I will remind you of this post,till then peace. |
Re: Tips On Finding A Wife For Single Guys by jmoore(m): 6:02pm On Oct 07, 2012 |
unlessgod: Who told you every single guy is not a virgin? Some virgin men want to marry virgin women 1 Like |
Re: Tips On Finding A Wife For Single Guys by Nobody: 6:10pm On Oct 07, 2012 |
victorian: @ dailynews, am not bad mouthing virgins, there are goodwives material in some women either virgin or not. but its out of place when ziqqy or whatever he calls himself, posted how he feels sorry for his frnd marrying a non virgin, that he knows too well, which is a total wrong concept. He will be amazed how his frnd cud be living in total bliss and understanding with his new bride. Making reference abt my neighbour's wife , does not mean all virgins are bad..it just shows, virgins too can stray after eating the fruit of sex, can also have bad behaviour ...a goodwife, which most men want does not necessarily have to be a virgin, its all about the upbringing, monogamous mindest, loyal and every other thing that makes a woman fill her home and surrounding with peace and love. Madam I hail you oooo. Oh well, I have emphasized timelessly that this is just MY OWN reasoning which leads to MY OWN preference when it comes to MY OWN wife's credentials. I expected that an average female will take offense, especially the ones that are not virgins. Do you know that there are places in Nigeria where you can have sex with a girl for as little as 200 Naira? That is less than $2 for God's sake! I also know girls around a night club I worked in USA who collect $200 for a 30-minute session, and no less than $1,500 for overnight session! From both extremes of our hungry home based ashewos to their higher class oyinbo counterparts, you think all those girls are foolish and not realize that they must settle down one day? And when they choose to settle, our 9ja girls will run to church and quickly claim born again, acting like saints. Then one gullible mugu will fall for them, and next thing na marriage. Chei!! I tell you men have suffered. How will a guy like that know her past where even okada riders paid 300 Naira to bang his number one woman. Her history gone forever and he'll never know! Do you think a man will still want to marry if that history were uncovered? No! But she'll hide her past. And since there is no way to measure the amount of brutal hammering a woman's vagina has endured, how else will a jealous guy verify the history of his intended wife's vagina?? So, for me, to play safe and not have all that nonsense in my mind as a possibility if I marry a non virgin, the best way to confirm my wife's vaginal history is by marrying a virgin. If she chooses to mess up after our marriage, I'll be more than happy to divorce her and start shopping for another virgin. Yes! And this is my own personal way of thinking which I am not imposing on anyone else. Personally sef I'd rather have only children without marriage. Yes, that's how much I am afraid of women. MY OWN OPINION. I hail you again oooooo 1 Like |
Re: Tips On Finding A Wife For Single Guys by Nobody: 6:16pm On Oct 07, 2012 |
Tinynita: You don't know that for sure, and there is no way to tell the future. If they are really wide open, well no be for force to marry since my stated minimum qualification was for her to be a virgin. Without virginity - contract terminated. |
Re: Tips On Finding A Wife For Single Guys by bigmaut: 6:31pm On Oct 07, 2012 |
unlessgod: Let's not pretend that men don't find women...but after they have finished playing and want to settle down, they start to look for wifey material. So being the saint that I am and since I am sick of reading "Tips on how to find a man" or "Why you are not married yet?" etc etc, i have decided to help you guys out. What are my credentials? Well, i'm not married, neither am i a rapper or a divorcee, but I would like to consider myself "wifey material". Yes, i said it. Thank you very much. Now, shut up and read.my advice 2 you is 2 stay off opium |
Re: Tips On Finding A Wife For Single Guys by Nobody: 7:17pm On Oct 07, 2012 |
ItsModella: Finally, a man who thinks right. u know u shud be shot. |
Re: Tips On Finding A Wife For Single Guys by kayles: 7:33pm On Oct 07, 2012 |
Well opinion wld always be diverse.@Ziqqy, U̶̲̥̅̊'re a piece of work And wld need deciphering. I'm not trying to be rude M̲̣̣̣̥ά̲̣̣̣̥п̥̥̲̣̣̣̥, but do U̶̲̥̅̊ think ur dad married ur mom a virgin.NO he didn't And U̶̲̥̅̊ seem to be a product of a dysfunctional home, probabaly as a result of an infidel mom. I'm sure U̶̲̥̅̊'ve got a sis too And she's aint no virgin, §o̶̲̥̅̊ U̶̲̥̅̊ shld start learnin how to respect women And adore them. Just incase U̶̲̥̅̊'re wondering i'm a guy like U̶̲̥̅̊ but i'm way too cooler than U̶̲̥̅̊ may think, §o̶̲̥̅̊ don't bother sizing me up cos it doesn't work. Cheers |
Re: Tips On Finding A Wife For Single Guys by vislabraye(m): 7:52pm On Oct 07, 2012 |
oladayo042: You mean to say CHOSE |
Re: Tips On Finding A Wife For Single Guys by Dahbutter(m): 7:53pm On Oct 07, 2012 |
k2039: Oh me God! Are u gonna kick his @ss? Pls let us know when u do. @post talk all sh1t u want, I won't cook, I won't wash plates or clean some baby sh1t, ill club weekly, I seriously believe am God's gift to women, I've 4uked over a hundred broads but I MUST marry a virgin, y shud I pretend and talk about some other sh1t when 80% of Naija chicks are about getting my money and all they can offer is sex, I believe in honesty and it works 4 me all d tym. So ill talk sex wen I meet new girl! I don't give 2 4ucks what u think, but I know am husband material! At least the broads pestering me for marriage despite my shortcomings make me know so
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Re: Tips On Finding A Wife For Single Guys by BecaciaBarbie(f): 8:18pm On Oct 07, 2012 |
ziqqz: Yes, I personally have played around at home and abroad. And yes, my wife WILL have to be a virgin. How else will I enter into a lifetime contract with the thought in the back of my mind that I'm with a woman who some other guys may have manhandled and dumped? I may be selfish and all, but I have a right to my preference. Honestly, there are some weddings I attend and sincerely feel sorry for the guy, either because I know his bride too intimately, or I know the brides sexual history with other guys who got fed up and in many cases just dumped her. Only for someone else to make her his trophy. Selfish consideration, yes. But I no fit marry anyone from second hand and above. Dats my own thinking o. Period. |
Re: Tips On Finding A Wife For Single Guys by BecaciaBarbie(f): 9:06pm On Oct 07, 2012 |
DailyNews:Drop ur ego dude! Dr aint anyfn wrong wid dat! Infact its romantic...just dat it shudnt b a regular thingy! For instance i have a cousin whoose Dad does the cooking every sunday nd he gat a great Job as well! Btw He is no dffrt frm evry other ambitious men out there bt he also believes in showin love nd caring for his family cuz they come first! |
Re: Tips On Finding A Wife For Single Guys by Nobody: 9:18pm On Oct 07, 2012 |
kayles: Well opinion wld always be diverse.@Ziqqy, U̶̲̥̅̊'re a piece of work And wld need deciphering. I'm not trying to be rude M̲̣̣̣̥ά̲̣̣̣̥п̥̥̲̣̣̣̥, but do U̶̲̥̅̊ think ur dad married ur mom a virgin.NO he didn't And U̶̲̥̅̊ seem to be a product of a dysfunctional home, probabaly as a result of an infidel mom. I'm sure U̶̲̥̅̊'ve got a sis too And she's aint no virgin, §o̶̲̥̅̊ U̶̲̥̅̊ shld start learnin how to respect women And adore them. Just incase U̶̲̥̅̊'re wondering i'm a guy like U̶̲̥̅̊ but i'm way too cooler than U̶̲̥̅̊ may think, §o̶̲̥̅̊ don't bother sizing me up cos it doesn't work. CheersFunny children we got here sha. Mr Cooler, if my username is right there for the world to see, and you still cannot spell it right, wouldnt it be too much to expect you to understand my point of view? My dad brags about my mom at the slightest chance. Where else do you think I derive the inspiration to also marry a virgin and follow on my parents footsteps?? Lol I don't have to, but I'll tell you anyway, my dad at 27 met my mom at 19, and he IS the first man she's ever known. I cannot vouch for my sister, yes. But it's a pity that you've resorted to punching below the belt by including my mom, sister and supposedly dysfunctional family. Your own family must be made in heaven. Well we can only hope for when this forum will be truly utilized for stimulating, intelligent debate, not the gross display of immature argumentation you have just exemplified. You have just succeeded in forcing what you were avoiding, cos I can't help but size up your reasoning faculty. Clearly, between both of us, you're the obvious candidate for further learning. Lol... Mr cool 1 Like |
Re: Tips On Finding A Wife For Single Guys by BecaciaBarbie(f): 9:19pm On Oct 07, 2012 |
ziqqz:#sighs really?? Money aint everything u kno! Well i wudnt type much since u mentioned ur Village. |
Re: Tips On Finding A Wife For Single Guys by Nobody: 9:25pm On Oct 07, 2012 |
Becacia_Barbie:You're female, and I seriously wasn't expecting a tap on the back from any feminine specie that even attempts to understand my point of view - most especially the ones who are not virgins. Eh you don't have a village...you're Nigerian oyinbo. mcheeewww |
Re: Tips On Finding A Wife For Single Guys by BecaciaBarbie(f): 9:41pm On Oct 07, 2012 |
ziqqz::/ Take it easy dude! Actually on ur side...just trying to let u kno dat ,not all virgins can be Coerced into Marrying som1, simply becuz he gat a fat acct! |
Re: Tips On Finding A Wife For Single Guys by cynthiaibeabuchi(f): 9:42pm On Oct 07, 2012 |
So on point 1 Like |
Re: Tips On Finding A Wife For Single Guys by Nobody: 9:55pm On Oct 07, 2012 |
kitty kat: Kity, plz kindly go tru ur respnses to my comments, n u wud discover urself that u sound so bitter abt dis issue y? firstly, I have no tym again for e-fyts, hve it in ur mind. nw d op said dt one of d criterias for a man to find a wife material as wife is to be a good cook & I asked is it necessary for a man to be a good cook to find a good wife? I further made it clear dat due to d fact that naturally in afrca, men provide for d family yil woman takes care of d home, d men are often so busy with money making that they hardly hve time to cook, i then referenced that most rich guys dnt often have time to cook & I stand by it. u asked hw many rich or industrialists I knw, nw for ur info, my family have industrialists, do u want me to mention some names for u to knw whom I am? I too am trying so m nt a pauper ok? so I know too & most guys here too knw dat most busy rich guys dnt have time to cook except wen they feel like exercising for fun, though rare. u called me a chauvinist, Kity I ask u: do u know who is a chauvinist? if u dnt knw, it is someone who believes his gender, race, etc is better than others. now in dis case n on dis discussion hw did my comment relate to me being a chauvinist wen I even exalted women saying & I quote: cooking is natures gift to women. meaning naturally women are gifted to cook, isn't that a good remark ? but cos u hate cooking & want any slightest way out of it, u see my statement as bad. who said a woman that cooks is a bad woman? if u dnt knw, it is a blessing for any woman that cooks good food. of course a man can cook for his wife is he feels like but cooking isn't a mans obligation in a family, if u doubt it ask ur mother, ur father, ur pastor, etc. u are d one painting cooking as an evil thing for a woman to do what nature bestow on her. I repeat it, it is not natural for a husband to be the cook in d house here in Africa, I dnt knw where u were born or where u live, but if u want a happy lasting marriage, go & learn to cook & leave ur husband out of it & let him cook for u when he feels like but dnt make it his obligation cos it is not. stop using words u hardly knw there true application, u wrongly used chauvinist here, it had a wrong contextual meaning ok? if u doubt it, let readers judge. goodnyt. 1 Like |
Re: Tips On Finding A Wife For Single Guys by Nobody: 9:59pm On Oct 07, 2012 |
Becacia_Barbie: u dnt get what ur sisters are clamoring for. they want to turn their husbands to regular cooks while their mates are out there looking for ways to make way for their family they should be busy cooking to satisfy their wives. imagine? ask many, they are saying their husbands to be must be helping them regularly to cook & wash plates so he will be seen as a caring husband. sighs |
Re: Tips On Finding A Wife For Single Guys by kittykat1(f): 10:03pm On Oct 07, 2012 |
DailyNews: U keep quotin off point. Even wen I mentioned severally that I am postin to debunk ur claim that rich men don't cook. U kip zonin in on me sayin cookin is bad which I never did despite d fact that I told u that I am grt cook and I love it but u always quote rubbish that why I always appear to debunk ur fake theories and yes u r chauvinistic. Very very very. Imagine sayin women r meant for cookin. Na u brag pass for nld but goin by d pishur wey I see for blog mk I shut-up. I no dey insult ppl as per finace but ur brggin too much |
Re: Tips On Finding A Wife For Single Guys by Nobody: 10:10pm On Oct 07, 2012 |
Becacia_Barbie: Pointing out that I mentioned my village would sound like a patronizing way to show you're on my side. But thank you if you are, cos it must take alott to accommodate my perspective if you're female. |
Re: Tips On Finding A Wife For Single Guys by kittykat1(f): 10:12pm On Oct 07, 2012 |
1. In ur initial posts except in recent times, u always quote women as gold digGers. 2. U always write as if 9ja women are morally bankrupt. 3. U carry out campaiGns about ur seeminG superiority over other "fake" Gguys on nld. 4. U always prefer to releGate women to d backGround. Yes u r chauvinistic. ChanGe ur hanDle or stuff u post |
Re: Tips On Finding A Wife For Single Guys by Nobody: 10:14pm On Oct 07, 2012 |
kitty kat: Lolz...kitty if u stumble upon me, u will be stunned, not kidding. & if u knw my id too, u will understand better. I brag maybe, but wen ppl like u try to ridicule one just to oppose their opinion. for ur info, d pic on my blog was snapped in d yr 2007 wen I was contesting for sug, & it won ovation, so my love for it. if u stumble upon me, I have no words to say. if I am ugly, I wont win be a second runner up in mr. macho during my NYSC. if I am ugly like u wish, I wont win an intl photography award judged by ppl of caliber frm diff. countries who are 50-50 male n females so who is Kity to judge my past look? I repeat, cooking is God's blessing to women & every woman should be proud to cook & not to open her mouth to say her husband shud be her cook. listen to urself. Did I said u as d woman shud build d house, buy d cars, do d investments? no. just said cook happily & leave ur husband to cook when he feels like. y shudnt I brag wen u ppl like u will never finish a comment without belittlin others to win ovation? u dnt brag, but u boasted of where u work, how many super rich guys with lots of estates u know n roll with, but my little drop pained u. I have no words to say again pls. lets leave d rest for others to read n judge ok. & y not put up ur pics for all to see & judge u miss universe? y hiding it? but I displayed mine proudly. |
Re: Tips On Finding A Wife For Single Guys by BecaciaBarbie(f): 10:18pm On Oct 07, 2012 |
DailyNews:Lool...Am sure they dont mean it dat way nah! We all kno its just gna b once in a while and besides, we aint asking for this just becuz we r lazy...most of us just wna feel really loved...nd if at all he is too busy to cook or cant cook at all, he shudnt just abandon his wife in d kitchen...he cud go dr just to tease ha, crack jokes nd do som really romantic stuffs **winks**...dt helps as well! 1 Like |
Re: Tips On Finding A Wife For Single Guys by kittykat1(f): 10:22pm On Oct 07, 2012 |
If u wonder abt my looks, ask my boyfriends 190 and dammytex. I keep tellin u blockhead that whether its d woman or d man that cooks, I don't Give a damn. My aim is only ONE: it is let ur blockhead know that THE RICHmen ALSO COOK!!! And I have witnessed. About balance in of power in d home, I don't give a hoot cos I roll with men who don't give two thots abt it. Everyone knows shd know their role and be flexible to fillin for their spouse in times of need. My standard for beauty is meGa-hiGh amd that's d reason, ur looks r below avG to me. A fine person must be fine whether 1920pic or 2050 pic. |
Re: Tips On Finding A Wife For Single Guys by BecaciaBarbie(f): 10:27pm On Oct 07, 2012 |
ziqqz:Issorai...i completely do! Bt Guys need to work on their parts too! |
Re: Tips On Finding A Wife For Single Guys by Nobody: 10:48pm On Oct 07, 2012 |
Becacia_Barbie: I concur. But we could never do enough work on ourselves. Really it's a man's world, and there's a lot we can do and get away with. Should I choose not to work on myself, for example, I will still get the kind of wife I want - no matter my shortcomings - especially when there's enough money to back up my claim. Not every virgin lady/girl, like you rightly mentioned, will readily fall into my arms, but for every one that refuses me, there's at least a score of others who'll dig my deal. I hope you follow my drift... |
Re: Tips On Finding A Wife For Single Guys by str8talk1: 10:53pm On Oct 07, 2012 |
Boring topics so far on NL wrt 'Relationships'. Whn a guy is ready 2 marry even at age 50+,he knws wia 2 get his wife,even virgins wto stress. Abeg next! |
Re: Tips On Finding A Wife For Single Guys by Nobody: 11:04pm On Oct 07, 2012 |
Dahbutter: AMEN BROTHER. NOW THATS THE SPIRIT. |
Re: Tips On Finding A Wife For Single Guys by Nobody: 11:06pm On Oct 07, 2012 |
Kity, careful analysis of your responses to my comments this evening on this very thread showed the following result: 1. Kity cherished DailyNews but got disappointed that DailyNews started telling the bitter truth at a point 2. Kity still fears the words of DailyNews cos she knows is d truth which always enlighten people, hence she hate to see DailyNews say those bitter truths. 3. Kity had been following on DailyNews & marking his words word-to-word to have been able to recount all DailyNews had been saying on dis forum, majorly on romance topics, which shws she likes DailyNews but DailyNews dnt have her time & hardly can remember any of her comments or actions so far on nairaland cos he has so mny things on his mind to be marking ppls comments for later reference. 4. Kity is a sentimental person who goes abt carrying grudges & judging ppl by their past deeds even wen she knws they are ryt in their new way of life. 5. Kity is single & indirectly marketing herself. 6. Kity brags but hates to see others brag cos she feels its her birth right to brag & intimidate others 7. Kity is fast to judge ppls looks when she can even proudly put up her own pics for others to judge. by d way females are known for flaunting every new pic they snap, so y is Kity hiding & still castigating other ppls looks? what does this tell abt Kity & others who castigate ppls looks & fail to put out their own pic? |
Re: Tips On Finding A Wife For Single Guys by Nobody: 11:13pm On Oct 07, 2012 |
k2039: Oh no buster not with U looking like U dont have a mirror @ home k2039:Of course ur post was hidden cos of that picture U look like a dork in it 1 Like |
Re: Tips On Finding A Wife For Single Guys by Nobody: 11:13pm On Oct 07, 2012 |
kitty kat: If u wonder abt my looks, ask my boyfriends 190 and dammytex. u sound so bitter & angry, whats eating u up pls? a mere comment from me Cant u & ur likes ever disagree with someone without showing how disrespectful u were raised cnt u just say ur opinion & disagreement without cursing or using swear & demeaning words? does that make u feel better & superior? it only makes u look so unclassified & untrained, ask anyone ok or let ppl talk. I have never cursed u, called u name, or used any demeaning word(s) on u but just re-read ur comments & count how many insulting words u have used on me just to disagree with my points, Kity pls go wash ur underwear where u...sighs....gudnyt for d last tym cos ain't got time to respnd to ppl like u again. read how other ladies disagreed with my opinion & check how sensible u are miss elegance! |
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