ziqqz:
So tokunbo no get right to hammer tear rubber. See eh, Jacob Zuma, president of SA, as a confirmed chairman, na number 15 or so him don dey clock now as wife level. do you remember how he procures his wives?? There is this Zulu festival or something like that, where AALLL the women paraded are virgins in their hundreds. All he gotta do is select his choice. My point is, as a man, especially in African tradition, I can get a virgin anyday to marry. If I phone call my village now now, tell dem to arrange assortment of virgins for me, it will be done in no time and I go just choose which one I want. If I come get money well well, trust me, if I wan marry 10 virgins, it will be done. Period. I hail ooo

ziqqz:
Lol I hear you. Without folks like us there'll be a biting lack of entertainment on this forum. I don't want my people bored now, do I? But as you can see I have just ignored the boy to carry go. He made a mistake by posting his photo here. I am well-convinced he's the kind I can't be caught associating with.
Abeg I'm off to workout, as I await Newcastle vs ManU plus including the Clasico tonight!

unlessgod:

Stop looking for virgins. You have done your fair share of depopulating the earth of virgins, so why do you now want to marry one.

victorian: @ dailynews, am not bad mouthing virgins, there are goodwives material in some women either virgin or not. but its out of place when ziqqy or whatever he calls himself, posted how he feels sorry for his frnd marrying a non virgin, that he knows too well, which is a total wrong concept. He will be amazed how his frnd cud be living in total bliss and understanding with his new bride. Making reference abt my neighbour's wife , does not mean all virgins are bad..it just shows, virgins too can stray after eating the fruit of sex, can also have bad behaviour ...a goodwife, which most men want does not necessarily have to be a virgin, its all about the upbringing, monogamous mindest, loyal and every other thing that makes a woman fill her home and surrounding with peace and love.
Am happy , am not a virgin...neither am i a used cargo or a babymama..but there are things av learnt along my growing up and sexual relationship process about men, that will make my intending home,my future husband and i, will forever thank God for. I can spot on dangerous guys out from the good guys.. like i will always say, decisions in life is all about choices.

Tinynita:
village gals tear eyez pass city gals these days...sum of d village gals dat claims 2 b virgins r really wide wen u taste their honey pot....so shun village tins....me 2 dey hail

unlessgod: Let's not pretend that men don't find women...but after they have finished playing and want to settle down, they start to look for wifey material. So being the saint that I am and since I am sick of reading "Tips on how to find a man" or "Why you are not married yet?" etc etc, i have decided to help you guys out. What are my credentials? Well, i'm not married, neither am i a rapper or a divorcee, but I would like to consider myself "wifey material". Yes, i said it. Thank you very much. Now, shut up and read.

You must know how to cook! Any man that doesn't know how to cook is a liability. Plain and simple. Some guys don't even know how to boil rice, even if it's noodles, you should be able to feed yourself. It's both for you own good and the good of the marriage.
Know what you want, say what you want and mean what you say. Why does the chic always have to ask, "So where is this going?" Be clear about your purpose and stop playing chics.

Don't be an arrogant jerk. 9 times out of 10, you are probably not God's gift to women, so no need to act like one.

Be ambitious. Complacence and mediocrity are unattractive.

Stop looking for virgins. You have done your fair share of depopulating the earth of virgins, so why do you now want to marry one.

It's okay to still party and go clubbing once in a while but that should not be your weekly tonic. Dem dey grow pass something.
Gender roles exist, I know. I would get rid of them if I could. Don't be that guy who thinks because he is a man he can't lift a finger to help out around the house. Una no dey forbid to change diapers, get up in d night to help with the baby or do dishes. Women are not machines.
Have something in that pangolo you call your head. Be able to carry on an intellectual conversation that doesn't revolve around sex, especially if you just met the girl.

After a certain age, you should not be having roommates, especially if you all have the reputation of being players. It lets us know you are still growing up. You never ready.

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oladayo042:

Finding a wife is not the problem, but finding a good one. Even if a guy choosed not to do any of what OP listed, he's still gonna find a wife!

k2039:


This post is laughable,I may have a bad dress sense,well thats what I can infer at your most but that doesnt make you any superior to me,anyway lets just leave it at that,I have a feeling we will cross path someday,I will remind you of this post, till then peace.

ziqqz: Yes, I personally have played around at home and abroad. And yes, my wife WILL have to be a virgin. How else will I enter into a lifetime contract with the thought in the back of my mind that I'm with a woman who some other guys may have manhandled and dumped? I may be selfish and all, but I have a right to my preference. Honestly, there are some weddings I attend and sincerely feel sorry for the guy, either because I know his bride too intimately, or I know the brides sexual history with other guys who got fed up and in many cases just dumped her. Only for someone else to make her his trophy. Selfish consideration, yes. But I no fit marry anyone from second hand and above. Dats my own thinking o. Period.

DailyNews:


If the quality u look out for in a man u desire to marry is ability to cook, then be ready to marry a pauper cos no industrious man have the time to be running around kitchen to please a woman he calls wife, when his mates are out there immersn wealth & power! change ur mindset pls, cooking is a natures gift to women, stop twisting nature for ur own good. dnt join d bandwagon, dnt listen to lazy girls screaming I CNT COOK thinking its classy, it isn't classy at all, it SMELLS!

kayles: Well opinion wld always be diverse.@Ziqqy, U̶̲̥̅̊'re a piece of work And wld need deciphering. I'm not trying to be rude M̲̣̣̣̥ά̲̣̣̣̥п̥̥̲̣̣̣̥, but do U̶̲̥̅̊ think ur dad married ur mom a virgin.NO he didn't And U̶̲̥̅̊ seem to be a product of a dysfunctional home, probabaly as a result of an infidel mom. I'm sure U̶̲̥̅̊'ve got a sis too And she's aint no virgin, §o̶̲̥̅̊ U̶̲̥̅̊ shld start learnin how to respect women And adore them. Just incase U̶̲̥̅̊'re wondering i'm a guy like U̶̲̥̅̊ but i'm way too cooler than U̶̲̥̅̊ may think, §o̶̲̥̅̊ don't bother sizing me up cos it doesn't work. Cheers

ziqqz:

So tokunbo no get right to hammer tear rubber. See eh, Jacob Zuma, president of SA, as a confirmed chairman, na number 15 or so him don dey clock now as wife level. do you remember how he procures his wives?? There is this Zulu festival or something like that, where AALLL the women paraded are virgins in their hundreds. All he gotta do is select his choice. My point is, as a man, especially in African tradition, I can get a virgin anyday to marry. If I phone call my village now now, tell dem to arrange assortment of virgins for me, it will be done in no time and I go just choose which one I want. If I come get money well well, trust me, if I wan marry 10 virgins, it will be done. Period. I hail ooo

Becacia_Barbie:
#sighs really?? Money aint everything u kno! Well i wudnt type much since u mentioned ur Village.

ziqqz:
You're female, and I seriously wasn't expecting a tap on the back from any feminine specie that even attempts to understand my point of view - most especially the ones who are not virgins.
Eh you don't have a village...you're Nigerian oyinbo. mcheeewww

kitty kat:
For d record I am a great cook. My culinary skills r not d subject of debate but ur ignorance. How many rich industrialists do u know? How many realyy accomplished guys have u had d privileGe of being close? Some men have their hobbies as cooking. And I can mention some nairaland handles of men that cook better than women and r succesful but that wld expose my identity. My aim is to let u know that u r ignorant of a lot happening in d world. If in d environment u Grew in only females cook, u need to move around and Get more exposed. Men cook also in other environments.
Whether its Good for men to cook or not is not my point. My point is that stop spreadin lies that stupendously rich men don't cook. They do and don't see it as biG deal. Some do it for fun while some Grew up in situations where it was ok for a man to cook or there was no sister at home.


U don't have to concot lies to prpaGate ur male chauvinistic and primitive stone age ideas

Becacia_Barbie:
Drop ur ego dude! Dr aint anyfn wrong wid dat! Infact its romantic...just dat it shudnt b a regular thingy! For instance i have a cousin whoose Dad does the cooking every sunday nd he gat a great Job as well! Btw He is no dffrt frm evry other ambitious men out there bt he also believes in showin love nd caring for his family cuz they come first!

DailyNews:


Kity, plz kindly go tru ur respnses to my comments, n u wud discover urself that u sound so bitter abt dis issue y? firstly, I have no tym again for e-fyts, hve it in ur mind. nw d op said dt one of d criterias for a man to find a wife material as wife is to be a good cook & I asked is it necessary for a man to be a good cook to find a good wife? I further made it clear dat due to d fact that naturally in afrca, men provide for d family yil woman takes care of d home, d men are often so busy with money making that they hardly hve time to cook, i then referenced that most rich guys dnt often have time to cook & I stand by it.


u asked hw many rich or industrialists I knw, nw for ur info, my family have industrialists, do u want me to mention some names for u to knw whom I am? I too am trying so m nt a pauper ok? so I know too & most guys here too knw dat most busy rich guys dnt have time to cook except wen they feel like exercising for fun, though rare.


u called me a chauvinist, Kity I ask u: do u know who is a chauvinist? if u dnt knw, it is someone who believes his gender, race, etc is better than others. now in dis case n on dis discussion hw did my comment relate to me being a chauvinist wen I even exalted women saying & I quote: cooking is natures gift to women. meaning naturally women are gifted to cook, isn't that a good remark ? but cos u hate cooking & want any slightest way out of it, u see my statement as bad. who said a woman that cooks is a bad woman?

if u dnt knw, it is a blessing for any woman that cooks good food. of course a man can cook for his wife is he feels like but cooking isn't a mans obligation in a family, if u doubt it ask ur mother, ur father, ur pastor, etc.


u are d one painting cooking as an evil thing for a woman to do what nature bestow on her. I repeat it, it is not natural for a husband to be the cook in d house here in Africa, I dnt knw where u were born or where u live, but if u want a happy lasting marriage, go & learn to cook & leave ur husband out of it & let him cook for u when he feels like but dnt make it his obligation cos it is not.


stop using words u hardly knw there true application, u wrongly used chauvinist here, it had a wrong contextual meaning ok? if u doubt it, let readers judge. goodnyt.

Becacia_Barbie:
:/ Take it easy dude! Actually on ur side...just trying to let u kno dat ,not all virgins can be Coerced into Marrying som1, simply becuz he gat a fat acct!

kitty kat:



U keep quotin off point. Even wen I mentioned severally that I am postin to debunk ur claim that rich men don't cook. U kip zonin in on me sayin cookin is bad which I never did despite d fact that I told u that I am grt cook and I love it but u always quote rubbish that why I always appear to debunk ur fake theories and yes u r chauvinistic. Very very very. Imagine sayin women r meant for cookin.

Na u brag pass for nld but goin by d pishur wey I see for blog mk I shut-up. I no dey insult ppl as per finace but ur brggin too much

DailyNews:


u dnt get what ur sisters are clamoring for. they want to turn their husbands to regular cooks while their mates are out there looking for ways to make way for their family they should be busy cooking to satisfy their wives. imagine? ask many, they are saying their husbands to be must be helping them regularly to cook & wash plates so he will be seen as a caring husband. sighs

ziqqz:

Pointing out that I mentioned my village would sound like a patronizing way to show you're on my side. But thank you if you are, cos it must take alott to accommodate my perspective if you're female.

Becacia_Barbie:
Issorai...i completely do! Bt Guys need to work on their parts too!

Dahbutter:

Oh me God! Are u gonna kick his @ss? Pls let us know when u do.

@post talk all sh1t u want, I won't cook, I won't wash plates or clean some baby sh1t, ill club weekly, I seriously believe am God's gift to women, I've 4uked over a hundred broads but I MUST marry a virgin, y shud I pretend and talk about some other sh1t when 80% of Naija chicks are about getting my money and all they can offer is sex, I believe in honesty and it works 4 me all d tym. So ill talk sex wen I meet new girl!

I don't give 2 4ucks what u think, but I know am husband material! At least the broads pestering me for marriage despite my shortcomings make me know so

k2039:


we agree on this,do you mind if I probably come for lunch next year

k2039:


I dont know why my post was hidden,I hope you got my message(b4 it was hidden)
Virginity is all about the hymen remaining intact.(a girl could probably have thousands of a*nal's,so be careful)
Just saying oooo.

kitty kat: If u wonder abt my looks, ask my boyfriends 190 and dammytex.

I keep tellin u blockhead that whether its d woman or d man that cooks, I don't Give a damn.

My aim is only ONE: it is let ur blockhead know that THE RICHmen ALSO COOK!!! And I have witnessed.

About balance in of power in d home, I don't give a hoot cos I roll with men who don't give two thots abt it. Everyone knows shd know their role and be flexible to fillin for their spouse in times of need.

My standard for beauty is meGa-hiGh amd that's d reason, ur looks r below avG to me. A fine person must be fine whether 1920pic or 2050 pic.