swtcharissa: My dear,when I was reading ur write up,I felt I was d one who was writing cos that was my exact statistics n dat of my husband before we got married,even d age is same,I was extra slim,n he too opposite,even when we were sharing wedding invitation,I received comments like 'dis small gal'.'Dis gal na premature oo,'dis na small pikin na',(mind u am a graduate),but today,after my first baby(who I delivered 4months ago),I luk like my husbands mother,what I mean is,I have all curves showing,n nw he is begging me to take it easy oooo,lol,RELAX GAL,N ENJOY DAT SLIMNESS WHILE IT LASTS

dasparrow:

Advice her to run away from such a relationship. I don't know when ladies will get it into their thick skulls that you can't change a man or how he feels about you. Then tomorrow, someone will open a thread to ask why there is a drastic increase in the divorce rate in Nigeria. Always remember, once a person cannot accept you for who you are - especially once you are a full grown adult - break it off. Did he not see chubby girls before he chose to ask a slim girl out? or was he carried away by the light skin which I know is a big deal for many Nigerians?

Such a man will never stay faithful and tomorrow will come up with yet another excuse such as: "your brea*st is too small, your butt is too big or too small, I don't like how you wear your hair". It will always be something. Tell your friend to open her eyes and be wise and ask God for direction. It is not how quickly you rush into marriage but whether the marriage will stand the test of time in an era like ours where even pastors and bishops are divorcing left and right.

serahsadeiyare: If you were in her shoes, what would you do?

I am 22, he is 32.
I am 5ft 7inches, he is 6ft 1inch.
I weigh 43kg, he weighs 120kg.
I am light skinned, he is dark skinned.
I am slim, and my statistic is 32'26'34.
He is broad shouldered, all muscled and with a wide chest.
We met at a Singles Prog. and became friends. He had a lot of female admirers due to his physique and godly character. I also had my share of admirers because I was a natural beauty, and quite intelligent.
We started dating and I thought I had found the man I was going to marry.
His female admirers were jealous of me, and my male admirers took a step back. But I became disturbed when he started harrassing me to eat well. He said I was too slim and I looked like a teenager beside him. I didn't take him serious at first until he started making statements like, "How I wish you had a bigger boob and bigger bum."
I have always been a slim person. My entirely family is filled with slim people. Where does he want me to get the extra weight from?
His incessant comments and complains about my physique is getting to me. This is the man I plan to marry, what should I do?

He is broad shouldered, all muscled and with a wide chest.
He had a lot of female admirers due to his physique and godly character.His female admirers were jealous of me, and my male admirers took a step back. But I became disturbed when he started harrassing me to eat well. He said I was too slim and I looked like a teenager beside him. I didn't take him serious at first until he started making statements like, "How I wish you had a bigger bosom and bigger bum."

Spot any difference

ochukoccna:

Godly character indeed
The person you described above is a ladies man and 1 OBSESSED with how you look now& your physique should be
What attracts him is your looks and body not content& character [Spot any difference ]
Your fiance is [sorry to say] shallow
EVEN IF he wants you to add up on flesh, it should be by nudging you lovingly and encouragement
Run for your life while you still have legs

serahsadeiyare:

I am 22
I am 5ft 7inches,
I weigh 43kg,
I am light skinned
I am slim, and my statistic is 32'26'34.

ziqqz: I don't mean to digress, but could someone let me know how to check my NL email? This alert won't go away about a "new Nairaland PM", but there's no link to the email! Pls help

Rooneyboy:

Oh boi are u a waiter
Ur pikture is scary .

ziqqz: I don't mean to digress, but could someone let me know how to check my NL email? This alert won't go away about a "new Nairaland PM", but there's no link to the email! Pls help