Jojo Armani: @OP seems u re doing it to make or break a record, dis one u re counting, U try anyway some girls have lost count.


As in 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 11 12 13 14 15. Hmmmm.

And am sure non of de men nyashed u once, lets assume each of dem did it 4 or 5 times.
Somebody help me get de actual nyashing *my calculator is bad*

mamaxxx: I had always planned to remain a virgin till I got married.. I tried to stick to this plan but at the age of 22 I lost my virginity and I absolutely loved it.

Its 4 yrs later now and I have slept with more than 15 men. I'm currently in a relationship that I'm hoping would lead to marriage.

The other day my partner asked me how many men I'd been with before him and I said 5! I was too ashamed to say the real figure.

Is 15 high? Whats average for a girl my age?

Kenistry: U r too cheap & loose my dear, if not u wld hv told him d real no.. u probably cant say no.....it's a shame. We men dey chop shit, after 15 diff men don ransack ur punana, one man go com carrly kip for hux....na wa o

mamaxxx: I had always planned to remain a virgin till I got married.. I tried to stick to this plan but at the age of 22 I lost my virginity and I absolutely loved it.

Its 4 yrs later now and I have slept with more than 15 men. I'm currently in a relationship that I'm hoping would lead to marriage.

The other day my partner asked me how many men I'd been with before him and I said 5! I was too ashamed to say the real figure.

Is 15 high? Whats average for a girl my age?

mamaxxx: And I'm getting comments from people pretending to be 'holier than thou' when in actual fact, if investigated into properly, the truth will reveal that those with the nastiest comments on here are worse than I am.

Obviously I know that the number of men I've been with is on the high side, but I know that I'm better than most be it male or female.

Thanks for all your comments though!

ITbomb:

My question is ' one person nyashing u a 104 times a year and 4 persons doing it for 20 to 30 total times, which is better?'

She is 22

UmericanGirl:

It is better to be with one person who is also only with you. Those 3 or 4 ppl could have slept with 3 or 4 ppl increasing the risk of disease even more.

shaybe baby:

maybe she genuinely thought she had something with those guys and they let her down, maybe she just wanted to experiment. What's it to those insulting her. Were you a virgin before you got married(that is if you are married)? If we are to go by what our custom or religion dictates, a woman should remain ure till her wedding day which begs the question, are you or were you? If the answer is no, then you are no better really.

ItsModella:
Excuse me? what are you even on about? 15 men in 4 years and your argument is maybe she genuinely thought she had something with those guys, like seriously? I don't even understand where this your virgin question is coming from. It has no correlation whatsoever to the topic being discussed.

ItsModella:
Excuse me? what are you even on about? 15 men in 4 years and your argument is maybe she genuinely thought she had something with those guys, like seriously? I don't even understand where this your virgin question is coming from. It has no correlation whatsoever to the topic being discussed.

Idowuogbo:
Baby! Y bother? Birds of d same feather support each other. Na d same line of production shaywerey dey na! Can u imagine d bullshito dat wan dey spew? So u go spreading ur leg like butter on toast cus u think u might have something for guys u still on d crossroads wiv? I swear, una puntash na write-off o! Ayama!!

shaybe baby:
What is it to you? Are you chaste yourself? Whether it's one bloke or a hundred, if you are of the mind that it's immoral then the immorality applies to you as well if you are unmarried and being shagged. As long as she practices safe sex, it's her life. Who are you to deem it too many, what moral authority have you got? Let he(she)without sin cast the first stone.

ItsModella:
I am not chaste myself but I have a degree of self-control. 15 men in 4 years is not even immoral, it is plain old whorish by today's standard. 15 men in 10 years would have been a totally different ball game but 15 men in 4 years? Please, give me a damn break. Somebody with genuine intentions doesn't travel that fast with men, because the last time I checked it was supposed to be a slow, steady process and not at a concorde jet speed.

shaybe baby:
If I was a bloke, I'd avoid YOU LIKE THE PLAGUE YOU ARE. Personality-wise, you are gross!!!

Mynd_44:
Bad idea

shaybe baby:
Ta, I should still avoid her regardless. *Note to self* By giving it attention, I'm giving it the satisfaction and recognition it so badly craves.

Mynd_44:
And if she comes at you, you will claim innocent right? Okay wait for the rain

shaybe baby:
..selective vision mynd?? Here I was chipping in my 2cent and in it comes with insults. Incase you missed it, i suggest you have a look again(or perhaps you didn't miss it and think it did nothing wrong)

shaybe baby:
..selective vision mynd?? Here I was chipping in my 2cent and in it comes with insults. Incase you missed it, i suggest you have a look again(or perhaps you didn't miss it and think it did nothing wrong)

Mynd_44:
Sometimes, its just better to move on. Don't you think so?

ziqqz:

It does that all the time. But the good news is you don't even need an original insecticide to get rid of it.

raycomray: Let's be frank when making contributions.
I think the poster could be referred to be modest considering the norm now. Most girls in our universities sleep with at least a new partner once in a every other week.
Now the easiest way to understand this is to take a survey of guys and the number of girls they have slept with in 24months. If girls are cheap, then Guys are more cheap.

shaybe baby:
What is it to you? Are you chaste yourself? Whether it's one bloke or a hundred, if you are of the mind that it's immoral then the immorality applies to you as well if you are unmarried and being shagged. As long as she practices safe sex, it's her life. Who are you to deem it too many, what moral authority have you got? Let he(she)without sin cast the first stone.

carefreewannabe:

I'm with you.

what bothers me the most about women calling other women words all in the name of safe sex is that most of the time these same women don't mind to be with players or even marry them. safe sex adieu! these same women are very tolerant when it comes to their hubby cheating on them. this society is so so hypocritical.

and when I read the posts of some men here, I no longer am surprised that so many women lie about the number of partners they slept with.

I am not advocating sex with multiple partners. the best way to protect yourself from STDs is to be abstinent. to sleep with many men MAY also do some harm to the young female psyche. I know women who bitterly regret having slept with so many men BUT it's every one's individual choice and just because you have had fewer sexual encounters it does not make you a better person nor have you achieved something terrific. so as long as you don't care about a person's, physical and psychological, health, keep your judgements to you. always remember: you will also be judged one day.