ifyalways: I refused my husbands proposal twice!
Reason:there are things i knew he's yet to get right as an individual.I gave him reasons on both occasions and he worked on himself.

I think a rejection with a sincere reason should be easy on the heart.

A-town:


RIP Bernie.. Give her ddd d dyyyccck..lol
Anyway, if a girl says she doesn't want to marry you for whatever reason, leave her alone and find someone else. There are 3.5 billion women out there looking for husbands so why should you be sprung on one girl. Whatever she thinks she has, 200 million girls have it 50times better. Gone are the days of shakara men. If you have to ask a girl more than one time, she doesn't know what she wants. move on. She's only wasting her time. By the time she makes up her mind, you would have a found a better person that wants you.
@ the lady that rejected her husband twice. YOU GET MIND OO. Hope you got married >5yrs ago because if try that kain nonsense in this modern day, before you even say "N" somebody else go don marry d guy. By the time you add "O" to make it "NO" that someone else go don born pikin sef.

pro01: I can't imagine the sort of mumu that begs a woman all over the place with a marriage proposal. . .to the extent of giving her the opportunity to 'denge pose' for you and turn you down!

The ideal situation is that the woman would figuratively be on her knees begging/praying/hoping that you would propose. . . Such that you already kinda know it's a done deal if/when YOU decide to marry her. On the contrary, when it's a case of you begging her to agree to marry you, then you're already setting the stage for a fuckkked up marriage in which you would be a mumufied cuckold.

If a woman has to be begged endlessly for marriage, and she eventually agrees, it's almost as if she had to be persuaded to 'manage' you. Probably she was holding out, waiting for her second/third/tenth 'boyfriend' (that she deems richer and/or 'nicer' than you) to propose to her. . .and if that doesn't materialise, and time is no longer on her side, she then reluctantly settles for your 'manageable', second choice azz. Understand: She's most likely begging another man to propose to her, while your sorry azz is begging her to accept your proposal. Mba nunu; tufiakwa.

God forbids that sensible men would put themselves in that abominable and dishonourable position. Men with healthy egos don't roll like that; let the wimps keep begging random hoes for marriage.

A-town:


You are just contradicting yourself all over the place. If she is no longer interested in him/sees something wrong with him that he needs to evaluate, why should he re-evaluate/change himself for her when he can tell her to f000000k off and find someone who likes him for him and marry him for him. If you know you don't want to marry a guy, then quit the relationship and move on. Is this primary school? You want him to start asking you 15times before you'll agree. Immature rubbish.

jiogah: Propose to ha best friend, she go give hasef brain immediately

cindyrella: If she says no, propose again and again until she gives you a reasonable answer!


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Drink otapiapia

Gracious:
Truth is that there are men who will never get married cos no woman will accept them.(Nne ga alu) Some have so much curses following them.. Fix urself before u disjoint another life.
(Now that's for everyone)

Ngodigha1: tO GET OVER IT AS SOON AS POSSIBLE, just insult the lady. call her all sorts of names e.g, ikwikwi, udene, ezi, enwe, anumanu, ekwensu odu ogonogo etc.

sexyval: If she refuses ,its simply means d guy shud work on himself ,dats all . It doesn't mean she doesn't luv him .some guys are sooo stupid dat they are even scared to re-examine themselves. Rubbish !!!

okpara ugo:

And you were busy chopping his money You didnt even point out his silliness and you feel its at the point of marriage proposal you should display your cobra fangs. Ooooooh......Winchy winchy.

pro01: I can't imagine the sort of mumu that begs a woman all over the place with a marriage proposal. . .to the extent of giving her the opportunity to 'denge pose' for you and turn you down!

The ideal situation is that the woman would figuratively be on her knees begging/praying/hoping that you would propose. . . Such that you already kinda know it's a done deal if/when YOU decide to marry her. On the contrary, when it's a case of you begging her to agree to marry you, then you're already setting the stage for a fuckkked up marriage in which you would be a mumufied cuckold.

If a woman has to be begged endlessly for marriage, and she eventually agrees, it's almost as if she had to be persuaded to 'manage' you. Probably she was holding out, waiting for her second/third/tenth 'boyfriend' (that she deems richer and/or 'nicer' than you) to propose to her. . .and if that doesn't materialise, and time is no longer on her side, she then reluctantly settles for your 'manageable', second choice azz. Understand: She's most likely begging another man to propose to her, while your sorry azz is begging her to accept your proposal. Mba nunu; tufiakwa.

God forbids that sensible men would put themselves in that abominable and dishonourable position. Men with healthy egos don't roll like that; let the wimps keep begging random hoes for marriage.

thegoodjoehunt:
When a woman rejects a proposal, it means the man doesn't meet her expectations. She might have her reasons but she doesn't want him. He should mover on and find someone that will appreciate the fact that he really loves her and want to spend the rest of his life with her.

Gracious10:
I have guy friend who has been married 3 times and they keep leaving him, as it stands now, women run from him, he isn't a terrible person but when he gets angry, he's like a crazy person. Who can deal with this kind of person? If he doesn't take care of his anger issues, he will keep running around. So certain things needs to be addressed.

sexyval: If she refuses ,its simply means d guy shud work on himself ,dats all . It doesn't mean she doesn't luv him .some guys are sooo stupid dat they are even scared to re-examine themselves. Rubbish !!!

okpara ugo:

Your analysis catches the true picture of this case scenario. For every lady that plays with your marriage proposal, there is a man she is begging to propose. I call them confused ladies who think time is still on their side. 90% of the time, they come back begging for the man they rejected. So guy, better take a walk and behave as if nothing happened. You did see the result.

prince_onx:
Ol'boy you're very mean oh! But I love your answer. People come up with all kind of stu/p/d question everyday on NL and how they make it to front page baffles me.

ifyalways: I refused my husbands proposal twice!
Reason:there are things i knew he's yet to get right as an individual.I gave him reasons on both occasions and he worked on himself.

I think a rejection with a sincere reason should be easy on the heart.

ifyalways: I refused my husbands proposal twice!
Reason:there are things i knew he's yet to get right as an individual.I gave him reasons on both occasions and he worked on himself.

I think a rejection with a sincere reason should be easy on the heart.

sexyval: If she refuses ,its simply means d guy shud work on himself ,dats all . It doesn't mean she doesn't luv him .some guys are sooo stupid dat they are even scared to re-examine themselves. Rubbish !!!